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  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    Pondering: is it wrong to be kind to bad people?
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    Elvis Costello and Johnny rotten
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,241 Member
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Pondering: is it wrong to be kind to bad people?

    Define bad ?? Just what the individual sees as bad ? So it’s up to each individual- either way I don’t think it’s wrong to be kind to anyone - someone I think is bad you may not and vice versa
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,279 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Two gas stations in my town are having a price war and I am reaping the benefit.

    Life hack - anytime you’re at a garage sale and they are selling gas cans - always pick one up - I’ve got like prolly 10 gas cans - that I picked up over the years - for maybe a buck a piece - and if there is ever a gas war here I’m ready baby… otherwise I’m just the weird guy with all the gas cans in his shed - nothing comes without sacrifice

    Smart. I can tell you laundry baskets DO NOT work.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,241 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Two gas stations in my town are having a price war and I am reaping the benefit.

    Life hack - anytime you’re at a garage sale and they are selling gas cans - always pick one up - I’ve got like prolly 10 gas cans - that I picked up over the years - for maybe a buck a piece - and if there is ever a gas war here I’m ready baby… otherwise I’m just the weird guy with all the gas cans in his shed - nothing comes without sacrifice

    Smart. I can tell you laundry baskets DO NOT work.

    Noted
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Pondering: is it wrong to be kind to bad people?

    Define bad ?? Just what the individual sees as bad ? So it’s up to each individual- either way I don’t think it’s wrong to be kind to anyone - someone I think is bad you may not and vice versa
    OK but if a bad person is capable of doing better or capable of learning to do better by someone else setting boundaries than aren’t I doing them a disservice by letting things slide?
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Two gas stations in my town are having a price war and I am reaping the benefit.

    Life hack - anytime you’re at a garage sale and they are selling gas cans - always pick one up - I’ve got like prolly 10 gas cans - that I picked up over the years - for maybe a buck a piece - and if there is ever a gas war here I’m ready baby… otherwise I’m just the weird guy with all the gas cans in his shed - nothing comes without sacrifice

    Smart. I can tell you laundry baskets DO NOT work.

    Where do they all go???
  • nonchalantxo
    nonchalantxo Posts: 578 Member
    IHop

    Best waffles.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,241 Member
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Pondering: is it wrong to be kind to bad people?

    Define bad ?? Just what the individual sees as bad ? So it’s up to each individual- either way I don’t think it’s wrong to be kind to anyone - someone I think is bad you may not and vice versa
    OK but if a bad person is capable of doing better or capable of learning to do better by someone else setting boundaries than aren’t I doing them a disservice by letting things slide?
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Pondering: is it wrong to be kind to bad people?

    Define bad ?? Just what the individual sees as bad ? So it’s up to each individual- either way I don’t think it’s wrong to be kind to anyone - someone I think is bad you may not and vice versa
    OK but if a bad person is capable of doing better or capable of learning to do better by someone else setting boundaries than aren’t I doing them a disservice by letting things slide?

    Oh I guess I didn’t understand what you were trying to convey there - I was thinking just being kind to a random person who others may perceive as bad - but you’re talking about ppl in your life - maybe a friend or ex or relatives etc yes?? I’m that case I don’t think it’s unkind to just not be around someone who it not bringing you joy or lifting you up - it took me a long time to realize this - so if you mean by accepting someone’s behavior that is in some way causing you any kind of stress Or anxiety or whatever the case - that is you being kind - then i guess it’s only bad for you - and in that case it really only matters yiur take on it - personally I tell my kids if a friend or family or whoever is not bringing joy to your life - call them out and say hey this is how I feel and if that’s a big deal to them or they don’t consider your felling fugg ‘m life is too short to be worrying about that chit - idk I prolly still not getting what you mean 🤷‍♂️ and tl didn’t proof read 😉

  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Pondering: is it wrong to be kind to bad people?

    Define bad ?? Just what the individual sees as bad ? So it’s up to each individual- either way I don’t think it’s wrong to be kind to anyone - someone I think is bad you may not and vice versa
    OK but if a bad person is capable of doing better or capable of learning to do better by someone else setting boundaries than aren’t I doing them a disservice by letting things slide?
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Pondering: is it wrong to be kind to bad people?

    Define bad ?? Just what the individual sees as bad ? So it’s up to each individual- either way I don’t think it’s wrong to be kind to anyone - someone I think is bad you may not and vice versa
    OK but if a bad person is capable of doing better or capable of learning to do better by someone else setting boundaries than aren’t I doing them a disservice by letting things slide?

    Oh I guess I didn’t understand what you were trying to convey there - I was thinking just being kind to a random person who others may perceive as bad - but you’re talking about ppl in your life - maybe a friend or ex or relatives etc yes?? I’m that case I don’t think it’s unkind to just not be around someone who it not bringing you joy or lifting you up - it took me a long time to realize this - so if you mean by accepting someone’s behavior that is in some way causing you any kind of stress Or anxiety or whatever the case - that is you being kind - then i guess it’s only bad for you - and in that case it really only matters yiur take on it - personally I tell my kids if a friend or family or whoever is not bringing joy to your life - call them out and say hey this is how I feel and if that’s a big deal to them or they don’t consider your felling fugg ‘m life is too short to be worrying about that chit - idk I prolly still not getting what you mean 🤷‍♂️ and tl didn’t proof read
    😉
    I’m Not sure I had it clearly defined in my mind anyway. You done good interpreting
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Pondering: is it wrong to be kind to bad people?

    sure if the action is only a reflection of you and not them
  • FeastRepeat
    FeastRepeat Posts: 1,113 Member
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Pondering: is it wrong to be kind to bad people?

    Everyone is bad so… no.
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    FeastRepeat wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    Pondering: is it wrong to be kind to bad people?

    Everyone is bad so… no.

    That’s very original sin of you
  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,559 Member
    Family. I was the only relative who went to this wedding today. One was having a garage sale and the other wanted to only come if he could bring an entourage to remind him to go.

    It was also super hot. I think I sweated in places I didn't know could
  • CoffeeNstilettos
    CoffeeNstilettos Posts: 2,593 Member
    Alinouveau2 wrote: »
    Family. I was the only relative who went to this wedding today. One was having a garage sale and the other wanted to only come if he could bring an entourage to remind him to go.

    It was also super hot. I think I sweated in places I didn't know could

    I’m sad for the ones who got married. By the looks of it, seems like nobody wanted to be there 🥺
  • CoffeeNstilettos
    CoffeeNstilettos Posts: 2,593 Member
    edited September 2022
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?
  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,559 Member
    edited September 2022
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Alinouveau2 wrote: »
    Family. I was the only relative who went to this wedding today. One was having a garage sale and the other wanted to only come if he could bring an entourage to remind him to go.

    It was also super hot. I think I sweated in places I didn't know could

    I’m sad for the ones who got married. By the looks of it, seems like nobody wanted to be there 🥺

    They had lots of lovely friends their age there. It's always family that doesn't really want to be at weddings since it really is more a party for the friends

    What's sad is he'll never have a relationship with his aunt nor grandparents on our side either. Luckily he has an aunt and uncle on his mother's side and grandparents too.

    I also commend my cousin for raising a really lovely son against all odds. My cousin and his wife have not had it easy at all.
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    ❤️James -N- Lars 4ever❤️
  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,559 Member
    I had a dream I was making soup. Should I be making soup today

    (I also dreamed I was eating raw leeks.... guessing I shouldn't try that)
  • CoffeeNstilettos
    CoffeeNstilettos Posts: 2,593 Member
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?

    This is hours ago now but I always prefer pancakes
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?
    Waffles

    I made French toast 😆
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?

    This is hours ago now but I always prefer pancakes
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?
    Waffles

    I made French toast 😆

    The hidden third option! That’s what I would’ve chosen
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?

    This is hours ago now but I always prefer pancakes
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?
    Waffles

    I made French toast 😆

    The hidden third option! That’s what I would’ve chosen

    French toast is my frenemy

    I don't like it if it's normal bread but if it's thick artisanal bread then I'll enjoy it

    Challah is best but I don’t care much as long as the maker isn’t stingy with the wash. It shouldn’t even be a wash- It should be a soak. If it’s not a little mushy I don’t want it
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?

    This is hours ago now but I always prefer pancakes
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?
    Waffles

    I made French toast 😆

    The hidden third option! That’s what I would’ve chosen

    French toast is my frenemy

    I don't like it if it's normal bread but if it's thick artisanal bread then I'll enjoy it

    Challah is best but I don’t care much as long as the maker isn’t stingy with the wash. It shouldn’t even be a wash- It should be a soak. If it’s not a little mushy I don’t want it

    I've actually never tried that bread before but it looks yummy
    HIGHLY recommend
  • CoffeeNstilettos
    CoffeeNstilettos Posts: 2,593 Member
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?

    This is hours ago now but I always prefer pancakes
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?
    Waffles

    I made French toast 😆

    The hidden third option! That’s what I would’ve chosen

    French toast is my frenemy

    I don't like it if it's normal bread but if it's thick artisanal bread then I'll enjoy it

    I don't like them with regular bread either. This morning I made them with Hoemade bread that my monster in law made.
  • CoffeeNstilettos
    CoffeeNstilettos Posts: 2,593 Member
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?

    This is hours ago now but I always prefer pancakes
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?
    Waffles

    I made French toast 😆

    The hidden third option! That’s what I would’ve chosen

    French toast is my frenemy

    I don't like it if it's normal bread but if it's thick artisanal bread then I'll enjoy it

    Challah is best but I don’t care much as long as the maker isn’t stingy with the wash. It shouldn’t even be a wash- It should be a soak. If it’s not a little mushy I don’t want it

    I've never tried this bread either.
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?

    This is hours ago now but I always prefer pancakes
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?
    Waffles

    I made French toast 😆

    The hidden third option! That’s what I would’ve chosen

    French toast is my frenemy

    I don't like it if it's normal bread but if it's thick artisanal bread then I'll enjoy it

    Challah is best but I don’t care much as long as the maker isn’t stingy with the wash. It shouldn’t even be a wash- It should be a soak. If it’s not a little mushy I don’t want it

    I've actually never tried that bread before but it looks yummy
    HIGHLY recommend
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?

    This is hours ago now but I always prefer pancakes
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?
    Waffles

    I made French toast 😆

    The hidden third option! That’s what I would’ve chosen

    French toast is my frenemy

    I don't like it if it's normal bread but if it's thick artisanal bread then I'll enjoy it

    Challah is best but I don’t care much as long as the maker isn’t stingy with the wash. It shouldn’t even be a wash- It should be a soak. If it’s not a little mushy I don’t want it

    I've never tried this bread either.

    It’s a traditional bread for Shabbos. I’m not Jewish, but a native New Yorker so next best thing.
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    edited September 2022
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?

    This is hours ago now but I always prefer pancakes
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?
    Waffles

    I made French toast 😆

    The hidden third option! That’s what I would’ve chosen

    French toast is my frenemy

    I don't like it if it's normal bread but if it's thick artisanal bread then I'll enjoy it

    I don't like them with regular bread either. This morning I made them with Hoemade bread that my monster in law made.

    Is hoemade a spelling error or is that a nickname for yourself 😂

    Eta: omg it's even better that you meant your MIL
    Hoemade by monster in law 😃

  • CoffeeNstilettos
    CoffeeNstilettos Posts: 2,593 Member
    edited September 2022
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?

    This is hours ago now but I always prefer pancakes
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?
    Waffles

    I made French toast 😆

    The hidden third option! That’s what I would’ve chosen

    French toast is my frenemy

    I don't like it if it's normal bread but if it's thick artisanal bread then I'll enjoy it

    Challah is best but I don’t care much as long as the maker isn’t stingy with the wash. It shouldn’t even be a wash- It should be a soak. If it’s not a little mushy I don’t want it
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?

    This is hours ago now but I always prefer pancakes
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?
    Waffles

    I made French toast 😆

    The hidden third option! That’s what I would’ve chosen

    French toast is my frenemy

    I don't like it if it's normal bread but if it's thick artisanal bread then I'll enjoy it

    I don't like them with regular bread either. This morning I made them with Hoemade bread that my monster in law made.

    Is hoemade a spelling error or is that a nickname for yourself 😂

    Eta: omg it's even better that you meant your MIL
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    TwitchyMagee wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    ButterMeMuffinz wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?

    This is hours ago now but I always prefer pancakes
    IslandGal3 wrote: »
    CoffeeNstilettos wrote: »
    Waffles or pancakes this morning?
    Waffles

    I made French toast 😆

    The hidden third option! That’s what I would’ve chosen

    French toast is my frenemy

    I don't like it if it's normal bread but if it's thick artisanal bread then I'll enjoy it

    I don't like them with regular bread either. This morning I made them with Hoemade bread that my monster in law made.

    Is hoemade a spelling error or is that a nickname for yourself 😂

    Eta: omg it's even better that you meant your MIL
    Hoemade by monster in law 😃

    I like her, I promise 😬😂

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