What's on your mind?

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  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,433 Member
    What a weird open house today. Crickets until about 3:15 then someone showed up who stayed awhile and then two more groups came in practically at the same time. At least it wasn't a complete bust
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,135 Member
    Will @Kashmir_314 ever come back - 🧐
  • Brigit_1
    Brigit_1 Posts: 209 Member
    edited November 2023
    Sometimes it’s good to leave old relationships in the past because they cast you in a role you’re no longer comfortable playing. They scorn what you like and what’s important to you and who you are now. And they don’t mean to hurt you and they don’t know they’re doing it but they squash your energy and that’s why you moved far away to begin with

    I had a friend from HS that I recently let go. She changed and talking to her became an emotional burden. I miss who she was but sometimes you need to move on. That's life.
  • itchmyTwitch
    itchmyTwitch Posts: 4,019 Member
    Brigit_1 wrote: »
    Sometimes it’s good to leave old relationships in the past because they cast you in a role you’re no longer comfortable playing. They scorn what you like and what’s important to you and who you are now. And they don’t mean to hurt you and they don’t know they’re doing it but they squash your energy and that’s why you moved far away to begin with

    I had a friend from HS that I recently let go. She changed and talking to her became an emotional burden. I miss who she was but sometimes you need to move on. That's life.

    Yes. & in my case I think I might be the one who changed. Or evolved. Or unmasked. Or something.
  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,433 Member
    Brigit_1 wrote: »
    Sometimes it’s good to leave old relationships in the past because they cast you in a role you’re no longer comfortable playing. They scorn what you like and what’s important to you and who you are now. And they don’t mean to hurt you and they don’t know they’re doing it but they squash your energy and that’s why you moved far away to begin with

    I had a friend from HS that I recently let go. She changed and talking to her became an emotional burden. I miss who she was but sometimes you need to move on. That's life.

    Yes. & in my case I think I might be the one who changed. Or evolved. Or unmasked. Or something.

    I think we should evolve. I often think we have friends for certain periods because we need that for that time then we do evolve...mature...whatever you want to call it. I went out with some highschool friends and realized they were kind of stuck back in highschool days. I grew out of that when I turned 19 😂. Hopefully you can leave the past there and keep evolving
  • itchmyTwitch
    itchmyTwitch Posts: 4,019 Member
    edited November 2023
    Idk I just think he’s sexy
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  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,433 Member
    edited November 2023
    The boy is having friends over for a boardgame day cause they have a day off school....luckily this made me clean out the basement Friday. There was lots of expired drinks in there and so many empty chicken nugget boxes in the room where the fridge is. I clearly need to clean the basement more often
  • itchmyTwitch
    itchmyTwitch Posts: 4,019 Member
    I’m impatient to be where I want to be & have what I want to have etc.
  • emgracewrites
    emgracewrites Posts: 478 Member
    Adventures with IBS: I took a risk and tried a new brand of ginger snaps, because the grocery store didn’t have the brand I’ve bought in the past. The risk did not work out in my favor 😞 Hopefully the bloating and nausea don’t last too long.
  • itchmyTwitch
    itchmyTwitch Posts: 4,019 Member
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  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    Idk I just think he’s sexy
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    🥵
  • itchmyTwitch
    itchmyTwitch Posts: 4,019 Member
    MFP protip: never FR your MFP spouse. It makes it awkward for your MFP side piece
  • cmsienk
    cmsienk Posts: 18,905 Member
    MFP protip: never FR your MFP spouse. It makes it awkward for your MFP side piece

    Good to know
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,773 Member
    A friend responded to a post I made on my page and I was a little offended when I first read it.
    Problem is, I’m not sure if I should be offended.
    I don’t know them except on MFP, maybe I took it wrong.
  • Revolu7
    Revolu7 Posts: 1,035 Member
    Just thinking.....i pretty much have nothing in common with anyone here, i really dont have much to add to most threads, if i actually spole my mind it would not be taken as very beneficial......but regardless of all this, i still stop in here on a regular basis to read the half a dozen or so threads that pop up pretty frequently......go figure.....
  • BriansTrident
    BriansTrident Posts: 483 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: »
    Just thinking.....i pretty much have nothing in common with anyone here, i really dont have much to add to most threads, if i actually spole my mind it would not be taken as very beneficial......but regardless of all this, i still stop in here on a regular basis to read the half a dozen or so threads that pop up pretty frequently......go figure.....

    I actually agree but I don’t really like mfp anymore. Too many adults who act like teens in high school creating drama and spreading bs gossip. I keep to myself mostly .
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,773 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: »
    Just thinking.....i pretty much have nothing in common with anyone here, i really dont have much to add to most threads, if i actually spole my mind it would not be taken as very beneficial......but regardless of all this, i still stop in here on a regular basis to read the half a dozen or so threads that pop up pretty frequently......go figure.....

    I always enjoy your smart, logical and thought out comments. ☺️❤️
  • redux1985
    redux1985 Posts: 231 Member
    A friend responded to a post I made on my page and I was a little offended when I first read it.
    Problem is, I’m not sure if I should be offended.
    I don’t know them except on MFP, maybe I took it wrong.

    Screenshot so I can pass judgement.

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  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,773 Member
    redux1985 wrote: »
    A friend responded to a post I made on my page and I was a little offended when I first read it.
    Problem is, I’m not sure if I should be offended.
    I don’t know them except on MFP, maybe I took it wrong.

    Screenshot so I can pass judgement.

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  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,433 Member
    Tried a new move yesterday. I knew when I hit a rut I got a bit hurt. Oops apx8vnplkgqn.jpg
  • itchmyTwitch
    itchmyTwitch Posts: 4,019 Member
    litha_ wrote: »
    That I’ve been around this place for 12 years on and off. Lately I’ve been feeling like this place is a bad habit that I want to break. That feeling comes and goes.

    I would miss you if you go, but I understand.
  • itchmyTwitch
    itchmyTwitch Posts: 4,019 Member
    edited November 2023
    litha_ wrote: »
    litha_ wrote: »
    That I’ve been around this place for 12 years on and off. Lately I’ve been feeling like this place is a bad habit that I want to break. That feeling comes and goes.

    I would miss you if you go, but I understand.

    Nah, I think Revolu's post was onto something. It just brought the feeling up. I observe a lot of the bitchiness and I understand why this place has died. Same ol' folks that think they know someone and pass judgement. Says more about them.
    ETA: That's not passive aggressive to you in case it's taken that way.

    I trust your intentions.
  • jbs116
    jbs116 Posts: 758 Member
    litha_ wrote: »
    That I’ve been around this place for 12 years on and off. Lately I’ve been feeling like this place is a bad habit that I want to break. That feeling comes and goes.

    Same. I had my first account in 2012. I have come and gone a few times.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,135 Member
    litha_ wrote: »
    That I’ve been around this place for 12 years on and off. Lately I’ve been feeling like this place is a bad habit that I want to break. That feeling comes and goes.

    I Take the good with the bad - I’m just here for the lulz occasionally- and troll and kid with folks - although it’s not the same as it was before - quite a few O G’s have left - I still hang around - and take breaks whenever I need - do whatever you need for you my friend
  • glassyo
    glassyo Posts: 7,741 Member
    Wow, I've been here since 2010 and haven't left.

    Lots of cool, smart, funny people.

    (And I have no life. :))
  • Brigit_1
    Brigit_1 Posts: 209 Member
    ...I just got back and now everyone want to leave.

    Fantastic.
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,274 Member
    Brigit_1 wrote: »
    ...I just got back and now everyone want to leave.

    Fantastic.

    I wouldn’t sweat it. If they leave they will reincarnate.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,135 Member
    Brigit_1 wrote: »
    ...I just got back and now everyone want to leave.

    Fantastic.

    I wouldn’t sweat it. If they leave they will reincarnate.

    Straight 📠 homie
  • Brigit_1
    Brigit_1 Posts: 209 Member
    edited November 2023
    Brigit_1 wrote: »
    ...I just got back and now everyone want to leave.

    Fantastic.

    I wouldn’t sweat it. If they leave they will reincarnate.

    LOL!