What's on your mind?

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  • mybfisred
    mybfisred Posts: 1,388 Member
    mybfisred wrote: »
    mybfisred wrote: »
    pudgy1977 wrote: »
    Is there anything such as a real relationship anymore? Or is it all fake?

    Good question

    Cause even on here tons of people in relationships or married.. flirting and doing mfp "relationships" ...does that take away from the realness of their real life relationships?

    I think if their spouse knows and is fine with it then it doesn't take anything away from the "realness."

    ...but I doubt that's generally the case.

    Fine with "mfp" relationships or just flirting

    But ya pretty sure that's rare if truly ever the scenario

    I think if you're in a relationship where you're very open about your desires and it's something that you engage in together, with no secrets, then it's fine, no matter what it is (obviously within reason).

    But I agree with other posts that seeing it so often and so openly when you know it's being done behind their spouses backs makes you question the nature and stability of certain marriages.

    But then again, some ppl don't view engaging in mfp relationships or heavy flirting as wrong, and maybe their spouse doesn't either, or just doesn't care about it.

    You never know what a relationship is truly like if you're not a part of it.

    100% agree ...you never know (Not just with in relationships) what others are dealing with
  • Nicole15502017
    Nicole15502017 Posts: 122 Member
    Wondering when it's going to finally warm up and stop snowing....
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  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    @Caporegiem is a crazy huggable meshuggener who bearhugs the hugest most thuggish hiphugger-wearing chugalugs
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    @Caporegiem is a crazy huggable meshuggener who bearhugs the hugest most thuggish hiphugger-wearing chugalugs

    I don't understand what I just read but it sounds positive so I'm gonna go ahead and give this a thumbs up

    Yes. Give it a huge thumbs up.
  • FlutterGirl666
    FlutterGirl666 Posts: 3 Member
    Hi everyone I'm new here and looking for inspiration. Why is everything I love to eat slowly making me ill, so frustrating. Had a couple of health reality checks and now need to get myself sorted out. Ive even tried exercising which has been a first for years and I ache like a *kitten*
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  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    Wondering when it's going to finally warm up and stop snowing....

    Yes! Old man winter needs to pack his bags and get the heck out! :lol:
  • KeepRunningFatboy
    KeepRunningFatboy Posts: 3,055 Member
    “We think about our future selves like different people. We often idealize them, expecting our future selves to do what our present selves cannot manage. Sometimes we mistreat them, burdening them with the consequences of our present selves’ decisions.”- The Willpower Instinct
  • mybfisred
    mybfisred Posts: 1,388 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    I’m about to have a really difficult conversation that will alter the course of four people’s lives. I’m shaking like a leaf and hoping I don’t chicken out.

    In my heart ...you got this...
  • Nicole15502017
    Nicole15502017 Posts: 122 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    Wondering when it's going to finally warm up and stop snowing....

    Yes! Old man winter needs to pack his bags and get the heck out! :lol:

    Amen! I woke up this morning and started growling at the snow, yelling at it to " Go away, I'm over you!"
  • UltraVegAthlete
    UltraVegAthlete Posts: 667 Member
    I can be happy. I can be healthy. I can do amazing things. I am strong.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    I’m about to have a really difficult conversation that will alter the course of four people’s lives. I’m shaking like a leaf and hoping I don’t chicken out.

    It will all be ok :heart:
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    My lack of wisdom...
    I should have went back to sleep for another hour after the game instead of trying to go deadlift on a tender knee..

    I have a feeling I'm going to be paying for this decision for at least a few weeks... Probably longer
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    I'm happy to have met you all, you enrich my life...it's different than in person socialization but not less valued by me. It's such a large group, whereas I hate crowds, I like them in this atmosphere.

    I really like your post. I'm probably more of a pain in the *kitten* *kitten*. But when I'm not Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, I hope people see some good in me because sometimes I don't always. So a feeling of understanding and belonging makes me feel valued, it makes me feel good.

    I come across many people here who I can relate to, and them with me. Sometimes you don't always find that type of support or understanding in daily life. I have a few people but overall not a ton. Other people are off living life. I feel like a burden to unload my issues on them. So I do it here with people who get me. Sometimes not in the best or most kind way. I hate myself for that.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    I'm happy to have met you all, you enrich my life...it's different than in person socialization but not less valued by me. It's such a large group, whereas I hate crowds, I like them in this atmosphere.

    I really like your post. I'm probably more of a pain in the *kitten* *kitten*. But when I'm not Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, I hope people see some good in me because sometimes I don't always. So a feeling of understanding and belonging makes me feel valued, it makes me feel good.

    I come across many people here who I can relate to, and them with me. Sometimes you don't always find that type of support or understanding in daily life. I have a few people but overall not a ton. Other people are off living life. I feel like a burden to unload my issues on them. So I do it here with people who get me. Sometimes not in the best or most kind way. I hate myself for that.

    I like you, I like your personality and honest expression...I like everyone here for the same reason...in text based conversation it seems like it's maybe easier for people to be truly themselves (to me) and it's somewhat cathartic...it is for me anyways.
  • WorkerDrone83
    WorkerDrone83 Posts: 3,195 Member
    I wish I could track down the comment with the all-time most MFP 'woo's. I bet it's hilarious.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    _barefoot_ wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    I’m about to have a really difficult conversation that will alter the course of four people’s lives. I’m shaking like a leaf and hoping I don’t chicken out.

    I wanted to find the right quote to give you and I think this is perfect !

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    Thank you :heart:
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  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    How to get out of this depressive rut.
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  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    I just read that the CEO of PepsiCo said this:

    When you eat out of a flex bag — one of our single-serve bags — especially as you watch a lot of the young guys eat the chips, they love their Doritos, and they lick their fingers with great glee, and when they reach the bottom of the bag they pour the little broken pieces into their mouth, because they don’t want to lose that taste of the flavor, and the broken chips in the bottom. Women would love to do the same, but they don’t. They don’t like to crunch too loudly in public. And they don’t lick their fingers generously and they don’t like to pour the little broken pieces and the flavor into their mouth.

    Lemme buy a bag of Doritos and I'll show her how a real *kitten* woman eats chips

    Right!!! 100 % agree!!
    kace_kay wrote: »
    I just read that the CEO of PepsiCo said this:

    When you eat out of a flex bag — one of our single-serve bags — especially as you watch a lot of the young guys eat the chips, they love their Doritos, and they lick their fingers with great glee, and when they reach the bottom of the bag they pour the little broken pieces into their mouth, because they don’t want to lose that taste of the flavor, and the broken chips in the bottom. Women would love to do the same, but they don’t. They don’t like to crunch too loudly in public. And they don’t lick their fingers generously and they don’t like to pour the little broken pieces and the flavor into their mouth.

    Lemme buy a bag of Doritos and I'll show her how a real *kitten* woman eats chips

    Ummmmmmmm....
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    omg Schitts Creek gif...I adore you even more for that!!

    Do you watch it?
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