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  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    How some people can go through the worst of the worst in life yet come out the other end a rotten shtty person.

    Amazing...ly pitiful.

    well. honestly I think about it like this. your life is what you make of it. you don't decide what happens to you but you decide how you react to it. If you go through *kitten* thing after *kitten* thing and you think to yourself "This is temporary, and it will change" you'll come out better than someone who thinks to themselves "why does this keep happening to me?" Ya dig?

    I didn't mean that at all. I'm astonished by people who've had the worst pain or heartbreak happen to them in life and then they still make a conscience choice to be rude to others just because I dunno, they just 'feel like it.'


  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,558 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    How some people can go through the worst of the worst in life yet come out the other end a rotten shtty person.

    Amazing...ly pitiful.

    well. honestly I think about it like this. your life is what you make of it. you don't decide what happens to you but you decide how you react to it. If you go through *kitten* thing after *kitten* thing and you think to yourself "This is temporary, and it will change" you'll come out better than someone who thinks to themselves "why does this keep happening to me?" Ya dig?

    I didn't mean that at all. I'm astonished by people who've had the worst pain or heartbreak happen to them in life and then they still make a conscience choice to be rude to others just because I dunno, they just 'feel like it.'


    because it's easier to shut people out than risk being hurt again. people are fragile, dear. nobody likes being torn apart, take it from someone currently in shreds
  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,558 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    How some people can go through the worst of the worst in life yet come out the other end a rotten shtty person.

    Amazing...ly pitiful.

    well. honestly I think about it like this. your life is what you make of it. you don't decide what happens to you but you decide how you react to it. If you go through *kitten* thing after *kitten* thing and you think to yourself "This is temporary, and it will change" you'll come out better than someone who thinks to themselves "why does this keep happening to me?" Ya dig?

    I didn't mean that at all. I'm astonished by people who've had the worst pain or heartbreak happen to them in life and then they still make a conscience choice to be rude to others just because I dunno, they just 'feel like it.'


    Like me. I can share my grief in one post, then totally be a rude D in the next thread. What I can't help is when people think the snarky stuff I say is a personal attack against them when it's not.

    I put an olive branch out there and it just sat, so I walked away
    Hi I love you buddy
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
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    Also, Warren. ...

    True power is a big ol' fat checkbook.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    How some people can go through the worst of the worst in life yet come out the other end a rotten shtty person.

    Amazing...ly pitiful.

    well. honestly I think about it like this. your life is what you make of it. you don't decide what happens to you but you decide how you react to it. If you go through *kitten* thing after *kitten* thing and you think to yourself "This is temporary, and it will change" you'll come out better than someone who thinks to themselves "why does this keep happening to me?" Ya dig?

    I didn't mean that at all. I'm astonished by people who've had the worst pain or heartbreak happen to them in life and then they still make a conscience choice to be rude to others just because I dunno, they just 'feel like it.'


    Like me. I can share my grief in one post, then totally be a rude D in the next thread. What I can't help is when people think the snarky stuff I say is a personal attack against them when it's not.

    I put an olive branch out there and it just sat, so I walked away

    I dunno. .... my life is pretty cushy, and I still manage to act like a *kitten*.

    Maybe just because it's fun?
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  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,558 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    How some people can go through the worst of the worst in life yet come out the other end a rotten shtty person.

    Amazing...ly pitiful.

    well. honestly I think about it like this. your life is what you make of it. you don't decide what happens to you but you decide how you react to it. If you go through *kitten* thing after *kitten* thing and you think to yourself "This is temporary, and it will change" you'll come out better than someone who thinks to themselves "why does this keep happening to me?" Ya dig?

    I didn't mean that at all. I'm astonished by people who've had the worst pain or heartbreak happen to them in life and then they still make a conscience choice to be rude to others just because I dunno, they just 'feel like it.'


    Like me. I can share my grief in one post, then totally be a rude D in the next thread. What I can't help is when people think the snarky stuff I say is a personal attack against them when it's not.

    I put an olive branch out there and it just sat, so I walked away

    Figure your life out.

    Isn’t that all any of us is trying to do? It’s not really a one-and-done thing, it’s a lifelong process.

    I don’t know what the deal is here but a little kindness goes a long way. So does the ignore feature. Take your pick 😅

    Agreed, so I kindly told him to his face. My balls are that big. 😎

    My inbox is waiting
  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,558 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    How some people can go through the worst of the worst in life yet come out the other end a rotten shtty person.

    Amazing...ly pitiful.

    well. honestly I think about it like this. your life is what you make of it. you don't decide what happens to you but you decide how you react to it. If you go through *kitten* thing after *kitten* thing and you think to yourself "This is temporary, and it will change" you'll come out better than someone who thinks to themselves "why does this keep happening to me?" Ya dig?

    I didn't mean that at all. I'm astonished by people who've had the worst pain or heartbreak happen to them in life and then they still make a conscience choice to be rude to others just because I dunno, they just 'feel like it.'


    Like me. I can share my grief in one post, then totally be a rude D in the next thread. What I can't help is when people think the snarky stuff I say is a personal attack against them when it's not.

    I put an olive branch out there and it just sat, so I walked away

    Figure your life out.

    Isn’t that all any of us is trying to do? It’s not really a one-and-done thing, it’s a lifelong process.

    I don’t know what the deal is here but a little kindness goes a long way. So does the ignore feature. Take your pick 😅

    Agreed, so I kindly told him to his face. My balls are that big. 😎

    My inbox is waiting

    Cool, my email is badazzkeyboardwarrior69

    mine's seriouslydonttellmywife96

    it's from before the separation
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  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,558 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    How some people can go through the worst of the worst in life yet come out the other end a rotten shtty person.

    Amazing...ly pitiful.

    well. honestly I think about it like this. your life is what you make of it. you don't decide what happens to you but you decide how you react to it. If you go through *kitten* thing after *kitten* thing and you think to yourself "This is temporary, and it will change" you'll come out better than someone who thinks to themselves "why does this keep happening to me?" Ya dig?

    I didn't mean that at all. I'm astonished by people who've had the worst pain or heartbreak happen to them in life and then they still make a conscience choice to be rude to others just because I dunno, they just 'feel like it.'


    Like me. I can share my grief in one post, then totally be a rude D in the next thread. What I can't help is when people think the snarky stuff I say is a personal attack against them when it's not.

    I put an olive branch out there and it just sat, so I walked away

    Figure your life out.

    Isn’t that all any of us is trying to do? It’s not really a one-and-done thing, it’s a lifelong process.

    I don’t know what the deal is here but a little kindness goes a long way. So does the ignore feature. Take your pick 😅

    Agreed, so I kindly told him to his face. My balls are that big. 😎

    My inbox is waiting

    Cool, my email is badazzkeyboardwarrior69

    mine's seriouslydonttellmywife96

    it's from before the separation

    If you want the real truth my email is OzzySezAllAboard

    were you a train conductor with a strange nickname?
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  • empresssue
    empresssue Posts: 2,978 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    How some people can go through the worst of the worst in life yet come out the other end a rotten shtty person.

    Amazing...ly pitiful.

    well. honestly I think about it like this. your life is what you make of it. you don't decide what happens to you but you decide how you react to it. If you go through *kitten* thing after *kitten* thing and you think to yourself "This is temporary, and it will change" you'll come out better than someone who thinks to themselves "why does this keep happening to me?" Ya dig?

    I didn't mean that at all. I'm astonished by people who've had the worst pain or heartbreak happen to them in life and then they still make a conscience choice to be rude to others just because I dunno, they just 'feel like it.'


    Like me. I can share my grief in one post, then totally be a rude D in the next thread. What I can't help is when people think the snarky stuff I say is a personal attack against them when it's not.

    I put an olive branch out there and it just sat, so I walked away

    Figure your life out.

    Isn’t that all any of us is trying to do? It’s not really a one-and-done thing, it’s a lifelong process.

    I don’t know what the deal is here but a little kindness goes a long way. So does the ignore feature. Take your pick 😅

    Agreed, so I kindly told him to his face. My balls are that big. 😎

    My inbox is waiting

    Cool, my email is badazzkeyboardwarrior69

    mine's seriouslydonttellmywife96

    it's from before the separation

    If you want the real truth my email is OzzySezAllAboard

    were you a train conductor with a strange nickname?

    No, just going off the rails

    Ozzy Osbourne is now on my mind.

    I've listened to preachers.
    I've listened to fools.
  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,558 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    How some people can go through the worst of the worst in life yet come out the other end a rotten shtty person.

    Amazing...ly pitiful.

    well. honestly I think about it like this. your life is what you make of it. you don't decide what happens to you but you decide how you react to it. If you go through *kitten* thing after *kitten* thing and you think to yourself "This is temporary, and it will change" you'll come out better than someone who thinks to themselves "why does this keep happening to me?" Ya dig?

    Agree, but with an exception. If a pattern of crap happening develops, its very important to sit back and analyze why it keeps happening. Nothing wrong with asking that question.....if you dont you may never be able to differentiate circumstance from behavior that can be changed.

    This is yes
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    I'm currently analyzing my behavior to determine why I've had so many things happen this year. Surely it's all me. That's what's on my mind.

    I dont like to analyze things. That gives me anxiety

    Your Post, let's examine, in great detail, your motivation for saying this... and it's near future ramifications.
  • pudgy1977
    pudgy1977 Posts: 13,499 Member
    Can’t figure out how to get a video from my phone to post here!! Getting frustrated
  • Nessiechickie
    Nessiechickie Posts: 1,392 Member
    Shake my head at the words that come out of my mouth sometimes... have to remember not everyones humour (esp at work) is as crude as mine. *kitten*
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  • R3d_butt3rfly
    R3d_butt3rfly Posts: 1,127 Member
    I need to stop being impulsive
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