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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »
    I’d like to be gone

    From work?
  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,558 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »
    I’d like to be gone

    From work?
    like from the stress that's going on
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    edited October 2018
    CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »
    I’d like to be gone

    From work?
    like from the stress that's going on

    I hope the stress eases :*
  • bdgfn
    bdgfn Posts: 7,719 Member
    I can't wait for work to be over today...it is way too nice outside to be stuck in here!
  • TonyB0588
    TonyB0588 Posts: 9,520 Member
    Doctor's visit, in less than two hours.
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  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    People say that they are totally themselves online but most have a separate account on social media for just their online friends

    it's a fine line to walk- you wanna be genuine with all your friends yeah sure. but then you also end up attracting crazy or jealous people sometimes who will literally comb through your IRL friends and try to hurt them too.

    me personally, i don't have a lot to lose sure, but some IRL people i know, maybe they do, and I wouldn't want my friendship to be a liability to them in any way, just because of some random creep online.
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    People say that they are totally themselves online but most have a separate account on social media for just their online friends

    online is online... IRL is IRL. Never the two shall meet.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    People say that they are totally themselves online but most have a separate account on social media for just their online friends

    it's a fine line to walk- you wanna be genuine with all your friends yeah sure. but then you also end up attracting crazy or jealous people sometimes who will literally comb through your IRL friends and try to hurt them too.

    me personally, i don't have a lot to lose sure, but some IRL people i know, maybe they do, and I wouldn't want my friendship to be a liability to them in any way, just because of some random creep online.

    I've had the first scenario happen here, not once but twice. There be some crazies out there and one of them still posts among you all....
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    People say that they are totally themselves online but most have a separate account on social media for just their online friends

    it's a fine line to walk- you wanna be genuine with all your friends yeah sure. but then you also end up attracting crazy or jealous people sometimes who will literally comb through your IRL friends and try to hurt them too.

    me personally, i don't have a lot to lose sure, but some IRL people i know, maybe they do, and I wouldn't want my friendship to be a liability to them in any way, just because of some random creep online.

    I've had the first scenario happen here, not once but twice. There be some crazies out there and one of them still posts among you all....

    it happened to me once a few years ago. i got a publicly searchable job and someone i got close to ended up emailing my boss. it didn't hurt me too much in the end, but it was one of the most humiliating things i've ever been through at least.

    just this last year, i made the mistake of having my IRL and online friends both on my IG account and ended up having to burn it down and start it over, just because one of my IRL friends, she was one of these people that i think had a lot to lose because of our "friendship", and i didn't want to risk that after an online friendship turned bad.

    so yeah, nowadays, i'm a firm believer in one account for IRL and another for online friends exclusively.
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    People say that they are totally themselves online but most have a separate account on social media for just their online friends

    it's a fine line to walk- you wanna be genuine with all your friends yeah sure. but then you also end up attracting crazy or jealous people sometimes who will literally comb through your IRL friends and try to hurt them too.

    me personally, i don't have a lot to lose sure, but some IRL people i know, maybe they do, and I wouldn't want my friendship to be a liability to them in any way, just because of some random creep online.

    I've had the first scenario happen here, not once but twice. There be some crazies out there and one of them still posts among you all....

    it happened to me once a few years ago. i got a publicly searchable job and someone i got close to ended up emailing my boss. it didn't hurt me too much in the end, but it was one of the most humiliating things i've ever been through at least.

    just this last year, i made the mistake of having my IRL and online friends both on my IG account and ended up having to burn it down and start it over, just because one of my IRL friends, she was one of these people that i think had a lot to lose because of our "friendship", and i didn't want to risk that after an online friendship turned bad.

    so yeah, nowadays, i'm a firm believer in one account for IRL and another for online friends exclusively.

    Yikes. Y'all are scaring me
  • empresssue
    empresssue Posts: 2,978 Member
    CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »
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    This took me too long to interpret. It's been awhile.
  • empresssue
    empresssue Posts: 2,978 Member
    _Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »
    Just trying to figure out how I'm supposed to stay strong when I feel so lost and weak.

    Fake it until you can make it. That's what I do :smile:
  • empresssue
    empresssue Posts: 2,978 Member
    Moving. Just waiting on the buyer.
  • pudgy1977
    pudgy1977 Posts: 13,499 Member
    I started out the day in such a great mood, and two little things happen and it's all down the toilet.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    People say that they are totally themselves online but most have a separate account on social media for just their online friends

    it's a fine line to walk- you wanna be genuine with all your friends yeah sure. but then you also end up attracting crazy or jealous people sometimes who will literally comb through your IRL friends and try to hurt them too.

    me personally, i don't have a lot to lose sure, but some IRL people i know, maybe they do, and I wouldn't want my friendship to be a liability to them in any way, just because of some random creep online.

    It’s hard for me to feel sorry for you, ya pop-socket filthy mirror chaser!

    Jahst keedeen, I do totally get it. I do the same, although not because of crazy people or even privacy.

    Seven years ago I was on a forum like this and added like 50 online friends to my fb account, so I’ve done the mixing thing too. It wasn’t terrible. No bad experiences. In fact I’m so close to a handful of them that I’ve been guests in their homes~ one for a week this past winter even.

    But. They just didn’t mesh with my real life list. Probably because the vast majority of my friends list IRL is my family, and most of them are very conservative Christians. So they were right horrified when someone would post a hookers and blow meme on my wall 😂

    I feel I’m more myself online than within the confines of my real life, actually. I love having an ig where I don’t have to carefully weigh what I post as to whether or not it’ll offend some old bat.

    Anyway. My comment was just me musing, it contained zero judgment.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    People say that they are totally themselves online but most have a separate account on social media for just their online friends

    it's a fine line to walk- you wanna be genuine with all your friends yeah sure. but then you also end up attracting crazy or jealous people sometimes who will literally comb through your IRL friends and try to hurt them too.

    me personally, i don't have a lot to lose sure, but some IRL people i know, maybe they do, and I wouldn't want my friendship to be a liability to them in any way, just because of some random creep online.

    It’s hard for me to feel sorry for you, ya pop-socket filthy mirror chaser!

    Jahst keedeen, I do totally get it. I do the same, although not because of crazy people or even privacy.

    Seven years ago I was on a forum like this and added like 50 online friends to my fb account, so I’ve done the mixing thing too. It wasn’t terrible. No bad experiences. In fact I’m so close to a handful of them that I’ve been guests in their homes~ one for a week this past winter even.

    But. They just didn’t mesh with my real life list. Probably because the vast majority of my friends list IRL is my family, and most of them are very conservative Christians. So they were right horrified when someone would post a hookers and blow meme on my wall 😂

    I feel I’m more myself online than within the confines of my real life, actually. I love having an ig where I don’t have to carefully weigh what I post as to whether or not it’ll offend some old bat.

    Anyway. My comment was just me musing, it contained zero judgment.

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  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    People say that they are totally themselves online but most have a separate account on social media for just their online friends

    it's a fine line to walk- you wanna be genuine with all your friends yeah sure. but then you also end up attracting crazy or jealous people sometimes who will literally comb through your IRL friends and try to hurt them too.

    me personally, i don't have a lot to lose sure, but some IRL people i know, maybe they do, and I wouldn't want my friendship to be a liability to them in any way, just because of some random creep online.

    It’s hard for me to feel sorry for you, ya pop-socket filthy mirror chaser!

    Jahst keedeen, I do totally get it. I do the same, although not because of crazy people or even privacy.

    Seven years ago I was on a forum like this and added like 50 online friends to my fb account, so I’ve done the mixing thing too. It wasn’t terrible. No bad experiences. In fact I’m so close to a handful of them that I’ve been guests in their homes~ one for a week this past winter even.

    But. They just didn’t mesh with my real life list. Probably because the vast majority of my friends list IRL is my family, and most of them are very conservative Christians. So they were right horrified when someone would post a hookers and blow meme on my wall 😂

    I feel I’m more myself online than within the confines of my real life, actually. I love having an ig where I don’t have to carefully weigh what I post as to whether or not it’ll offend some old bat.

    Anyway. My comment was just me musing, it contained zero judgment.

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    vvtx046keyv7.gif

    I can’t keep your kinks straight 🤷‍♀️

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