What's on your mind?
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Woos ,, Woos are on my mind3
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadnesstinkerhellraiser wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness
or sometimes so comfortable it feels like home
Studies have shown people who are sad to be more artistic, forgiving, generous, willing to help, empathetic, sympathetic, and kind...
It's one of the main reasons why we care about helping one another 🤓❤️
And love bluesy music so much
You had until bluesy music. I like to listen to stuff that will help lift my spirits.
i like sad music bc it feels like empathy
For every minute you are sad, you lose 60 seconds of happiness5 -
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I've procrastinated long enough,
time to take the scissors to my hair.0 -
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The minimalistic beauty of spiritually developed stoicism and the folks who represent it with style and subtle flair.5
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I have a dinner date tonight and I already changed 4 times 🙄🤣6
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The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »I have a dinner date tonight and I already changed 4 times 🙄🤣
Always go with the first option 😉
I'm sure you'll look great!1 -
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CoffeeAndContour wrote: »tinkerhellraiser wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadnesstinkerhellraiser wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness
or sometimes so comfortable it feels like home
Studies have shown people who are sad to be more artistic, forgiving, generous, willing to help, empathetic, sympathetic, and kind...
It's one of the main reasons why we care about helping one another 🤓❤️
And love bluesy music so much
You had until bluesy music. I like to listen to stuff that will help lift my spirits.
i like sad music bc it feels like empathy
I can see your point. Sad music for me makes me cry, sometimes it’s good and is a release of emotions, other times it makes it worse. However, I’m always a sucker for a good, sappy, love song.
It's a weird thing of mine honestly...
My music has to sound kinda bluesy, the worst songs are songs devoid of blues...
Example... The Titanic song 🤮😂
I don't know if you want to call that, happy, sad, or wtf... But it doesn't have any hint of bluesy imo anyhow...
Compared to the rolling stones "Wild horses" bluesy song, still don't know if it's a happy or sad song really... But oh man, I'll drink to that and fall into deep nostalgia, thinking of those who've come and gone and happy or sad, just appreciate life...
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RhiAnLewis17 wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »I have a dinner date tonight and I already changed 4 times 🙄🤣
Always go with the first option 😉
I'm sure you'll look great!
I did go back to the 1st option1 -
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The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »RhiAnLewis17 wrote: »The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »I have a dinner date tonight and I already changed 4 times 🙄🤣
Always go with the first option 😉
I'm sure you'll look great!
I did go back to the 1st option
Hope you have a great time!1 -
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JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Been thinking about trying to get birds of prey in my yard
I had one nest at my old place in the woods. Was a falcon. Named him Xerxes. Never brought me dinner though.
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CoffeeAndContour wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Been thinking about trying to get birds of prey in my yard
@nooshi713 may be of some assistance.
Can I just say I love the new profile pic? That blue shirt and your red hair look great together!4 -
Is happiness a choice?2
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JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Been thinking about trying to get birds of prey in my yard
I had one nest at my old place in the woods. Was a falcon. Named him Xerxes. Never brought me dinner though.
I'd settle for an owl or two
Owls are cool too! The snowy owls are really pretty2 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »JustReadTheInstructions wrote: »Been thinking about trying to get birds of prey in my yard
@nooshi713 may be of some assistance.
Can I just say I love the new profile pic? That blue shirt and your red hair look great together!
Thank you, kind sir
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amorfati601070 wrote: »Is happiness a choice?
I believe it largely is. The old saying life is 10% what life deals you and 90% how you handle it would go a long way in explaining happiness. I dont think one needs to always be happy to experience happiness, but the less you deal in dread the more happy you will be i believe.6 -
I have said some sincerely kind and sympathetic things to a few people here over the years. Directly. Not vaguely.
I now regret having extended myself like that for reasons which are evident in the comments that appear in some of these these discussions.
While I have not and will not delight in anyone's misfortunes or emotional difficulties, I also will not involve myself in attempting to assuage such misfortunes or difficulties. Not even with a kind comment, without being more cautious in observing the characteristics of who I am addressing.
Too bad it has to be that way. But fool me once, shame on you. Fool my twice, shame on me.
Disclaimer: this does not apply to everyone I have extended myself to in a caring way. Just a few folks. The rest of you I will continue to interact with, play with and care about as before.
Sorry, I just wanted to say that.7 -
laprimaJenny wrote: »amorfati601070 wrote: »Is happiness a choice?
Good question. Personally I think it’s a complicated answer because it involves different variables and perspectives. After all, can you be held accountable for not knowing any better?
Yeah, I know it's totally subjective but the mind is a powerful thing and perspective is everything. Even in the face of a dark wall of negativity and you just override it and say "frak it", turn around and see the light?
It is a choice, how we can react to everything?2 -
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amorfati601070 wrote: »Is happiness a choice?
I believe it largely is. The old saying life is 10% what life deals you and 90% how you handle it would go a long way in explaining happiness. I dont think one needs to always be happy to experience happiness, but the less you deal in dread the more happy you will be i believe.
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