What's on your mind?

19229239259279282149

Replies

  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    How long do you have to do something until it's considered a routine?

    Ninety days or something like that to make something into a habit, or so I’ve heard

    21 days to make a habit.

    But what about routine?

    Like if I start something new, how long until I can say, "Hey I have this new routine."?

    66 days. But I think the real answer is when you find yourself doing it consistently and have behaved that way for a considerable amount of time.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    How long do you have to do something until it's considered a routine?

    Ninety days or something like that to make something into a habit, or so I’ve heard

    21 days to make a habit.

    But what about routine?

    Like if I start something new, how long until I can say, "Hey I have this new routine."?

    66 days. But I think the real answer is when you find yourself doing it consistently and have behaved that way for a considerable amount of time.

    Are you sure? I thought the answer was always 42? 😁
  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    How long do you have to do something until it's considered a routine?

    Ninety days or something like that to make something into a habit, or so I’ve heard

    21 days to make a habit.

    But what about routine?

    Like if I start something new, how long until I can say, "Hey I have this new routine."?

    Is the routine the the process of forming the habit for x amount of days?

    If that's the case, then after you've done the routine to establish the habit, do you say, "Hey I have this new habit."?

    ETA: This kinda got away from my original intent of the question, but I googled this.
    https://www.differencebetween.com/difference-between-habit-and-vs-routine/

    From that article it says that a routine is based upon habits of which can change as well. So if you start a new habit you are also changing your routine. So you really can't say you have a new routine at all as it can change, you can should say I have switched up my routine, I guess?
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    How long do you have to do something until it's considered a routine?

    Ninety days or something like that to make something into a habit, or so I’ve heard

    21 days to make a habit.

    But what about routine?

    Like if I start something new, how long until I can say, "Hey I have this new routine."?

    66 days. But I think the real answer is when you find yourself doing it consistently and have behaved that way for a considerable amount of time.

    I will admit 21 days is something I've heard over the years, it could be 66, it could be 1,000. But I really think it's up to the individual and how far against the norm it is for them and the motivations involved.

    I wasn't really asking how long it takes for something to "stick", but more so how long until you've done something repeatedly that it's now something you can "claim" is your routine. Does that make sense?
    Just something I was thinking about.
  • This content has been removed.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    cee134 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    How long do you have to do something until it's considered a routine?

    Ninety days or something like that to make something into a habit, or so I’ve heard

    21 days to make a habit.

    But what about routine?

    Like if I start something new, how long until I can say, "Hey I have this new routine."?

    66 days. But I think the real answer is when you find yourself doing it consistently and have behaved that way for a considerable amount of time.

    I will admit 21 days is something I've heard over the years, it could be 66, it could be 1,000. But I really think it's up to the individual and how far against the norm it is for them and the motivations involved.

    I wasn't really asking how long it takes for something to "stick", but more so how long until you've done something repeatedly that it's now something you can "claim" is your routine. Does that make sense?
    Just something I was thinking about.

    3 times.

    Once is nothing.

    Twice is a coincidence.

    Three times is a pattern.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    The spicy BBQ beef short ribs I've been cooking for 3 hours 🤤

    No invite?

    9kbozodxvda4.jpg

    They're ready,.. melt in your mouth 🙂
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,330 Member
    The spicy BBQ beef short ribs I've been cooking for 3 hours 🤤

    No invite?

    9kbozodxvda4.jpg

    They're ready,.. melt in your mouth 🙂

    Yummy.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    The spicy BBQ beef short ribs I've been cooking for 3 hours 🤤

    No invite?

    9kbozodxvda4.jpg

    They're ready,.. melt in your mouth 🙂

    Delicious Jo!
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    The Coca cola vs Mentos bath challenge is crazy.
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    Watching a tv show that reminds me of the worst, most painful parts of me and wondering like...what do people think when they watch this?
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Watching a tv show that reminds me of the worst, most painful parts of me and wondering like...what do people think when they watch this?

    well what show ??

    Luther
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Watching a tv show that reminds me of the worst, most painful parts of me and wondering like...what do people think when they watch this?

    well what show ??
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Watching a tv show that reminds me of the worst, most painful parts of me and wondering like...what do people think when they watch this?

    well what show ??

    Luther

    wtf people wooing me

    anyways worried for a min it was like unsolved mysteries or true crime

    Nope just fiction that’s written too close to home
  • sniper300_Rum
    sniper300_Rum Posts: 1,073 Member
    Life and it sucks
  • laprimaJenny
    laprimaJenny Posts: 1,495 Member
    It’s perplexing at times how people always attempt to understand someone else’s intent and/or understanding based on their own perspective of the situation. Especially when they don’t even know the person at all.
  • laprimaJenny
    laprimaJenny Posts: 1,495 Member
    It’s perplexing at times how people always attempt to understand someone else’s intent and/or understanding based on their own perspective of the situation. Especially when they don’t even know the person at all.

    Isn't that what we're suppose to do? Understand someone base on our own personal experience to get a better understanding of someone? Or am I going about this the wrong way?

    We should judge based on past experiences, but not in its entirety. Experiences are facts but beliefs and/or opinions about them are not. It’s easy to stereotype, but does that make it right?!
  • laprimaJenny
    laprimaJenny Posts: 1,495 Member
    It’s perplexing at times how people always attempt to understand someone else’s intent and/or understanding based on their own perspective of the situation. Especially when they don’t even know the person at all.

    Isn't that what we're suppose to do? Understand someone base on our own personal experience to get a better understanding of someone? Or am I going about this the wrong way?

    We should judge based on past experiences, but not in its entirety. Experiences are facts but beliefs and/or opinions about them are not. It’s easy to stereotype, but does that make it right?!

    I don't know if it's right or not but my attitude towards it is like whatever. I do the same thing

    You’re right about one thing, we definitely all do it. Sometimes without even realizing it. Like my brother always says, “opinions are like buttholes, we all have them.”
  • This content has been removed.
  • This content has been removed.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest
  • sniper300_Rum
    sniper300_Rum Posts: 1,073 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest
    But whats he trying to cover up
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
    edited March 2019
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest

    Same reason Pooh wears that red shirt.
    To cover the nips.
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest
    But whats he trying to cover up

    Neck tats, he's from a different era of show biz and it wouldn't have been as accepted then
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest

    Same reason Pooh wears that red shirt.

    I always assumed that a bear named "pooh" who doesn't wear pants is kinda a gigantic warning sign when it comes to "Who are you gonna walk behind in the 100 acre woods"
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest

    Same reason Pooh wears that red shirt.
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest
    But whats he trying to cover up

    Neck tats, he's from a different era of show biz and it wouldn't have been as accepted then

    i always figured piggy made him wear it as she's the dom
  • sniper300_Rum
    sniper300_Rum Posts: 1,073 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest
    But whats he trying to cover up

    Neck tats, he's from a different era of show biz and it wouldn't have been as accepted then

    I always thought it was some kind of S&M or BDSN chocker Ms Piggy put on him
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest

    Same reason Pooh wears that red shirt.
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest
    But whats he trying to cover up

    Neck tats, he's from a different era of show biz and it wouldn't have been as accepted then

    i always figured piggy made him wear it as she's the dom

    No chain tho, not even a loop. I dunno.
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest
    But whats he trying to cover up

    Neck tats, he's from a different era of show biz and it wouldn't have been as accepted then

    I always thought it was some kind of S&M or BDSN chocker Ms Piggy put on him
    iMago wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest

    Same reason Pooh wears that red shirt.
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    tz82oji5ym91.jpg

    I think it's his clothes, so as to not be immodest
    But whats he trying to cover up

    Neck tats, he's from a different era of show biz and it wouldn't have been as accepted then

    i always figured piggy made him wear it as she's the dom

    Welllllllllllllllll I can see I'm in the minority here.

    Just gonna say tho--Ms Piggy all about control all day, I bet she's sub behind-the-scenes. Only the frog knows tho