What's on your mind?

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  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    Makes sense. i am strongly attracted to stuffed bunnies. But im pretty sure i was born this way.

    Insightful :smirk::D
  • This_far
    This_far Posts: 536 Member
    @your_future_ex_wife either the first picture of a black hole or the all seeing eye of Sauron. Either way very cool
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    wow this really explains why I've always compared women to Ali Larter from Varsity Blues

    I wonder how many partners you've talked into donning a whipped cream bikini.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    wow this really explains why I've always compared women to Ali Larter from Varsity Blues

    I wonder how many partners you've talked into donning a whipped cream bikini.

    MVfoBY5.gif
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    wow this really explains why I've always compared women to Ali Larter from Varsity Blues

    I wonder how many partners you've talked into donning a whipped cream bikini.

    MVfoBY5.gif

    Well that's a damn shame.
  • isalsayourface123
    isalsayourface123 Posts: 2,153 Member
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    This cant be right...my "first" is the complete opposite of what I go for
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    edited April 2019
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    wow this really explains why I've always compared women to Ali Larter from Varsity Blues

    I wonder how many partners you've talked into donning a whipped cream bikini.

    MVfoBY5.gif

    Well that's a damn shame.

    Thats the line he uses every time. Works like a charm.

    “No baby, no one’s ever done that for me before. You are so special.”
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    wow this really explains why I've always compared women to Ali Larter from Varsity Blues

    I wonder how many partners you've talked into donning a whipped cream bikini.

    MVfoBY5.gif

    Well that's a damn shame.

    Thats the line he uses every time. Works like a charm.

    “No baby, no one’s ever done that for me before. You are so special.”

    you will be proud to know that i regularly express disinterest or outright disdain in most things they say or do.
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    wow this really explains why I've always compared women to Ali Larter from Varsity Blues

    I wonder how many partners you've talked into donning a whipped cream bikini.

    MVfoBY5.gif

    Well that's a damn shame.

    Thats the line he uses every time. Works like a charm.

    “No baby, no one’s ever done that for me before. You are so special.”

    you will be proud to know that i regularly express disinterest or outright disdain in most things they say or do.
    I know. You have educated me on the effectiveness of pretended apathy and backhanded compliments.
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,272 Member
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    Makes sense. i am strongly attracted to stuffed bunnies. But im pretty sure i was born this way.

    😂🤣
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    wow this really explains why I've always compared women to Ali Larter from Varsity Blues

    I wonder how many partners you've talked into donning a whipped cream bikini.

    MVfoBY5.gif

    Well that's a damn shame.

    Thats the line he uses every time. Works like a charm.

    “No baby, no one’s ever done that for me before. You are so special.”

    you will be proud to know that i regularly express disinterest or outright disdain in most things they say or do.
    I know. You have educated me on the effectiveness of pretended apathy and backhanded compliments.

    well let it never been said you're not clever
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    This cant be right...my "first" is the complete opposite of what I go for

    It's not a hard and fast rule, people are complex.
    Here's the article. It's quite fascinating imo.
    https://www.inverse.com/article/41245-rats-in-lingerie-might-help-explain-your-sexual-preferences
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    This cant be right...my "first" is the complete opposite of what I go for

    It's not a hard and fast rule, people are complex.
    Here's the article. It's quite fascinating imo.
    https://www.inverse.com/article/41245-rats-in-lingerie-might-help-explain-your-sexual-preferences
    Thanks for the link. Sincerely.
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    This cant be right...my "first" is the complete opposite of what I go for

    It's not a hard and fast rule, people are complex.
    Here's the article. It's quite fascinating imo.
    https://www.inverse.com/article/41245-rats-in-lingerie-might-help-explain-your-sexual-preferences
    Thanks for the link. Sincerely.

    Again, my pleasure. Truly.
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    wow this really explains why I've always compared women to Ali Larter from Varsity Blues

    I wonder how many partners you've talked into donning a whipped cream bikini.

    MVfoBY5.gif

    Well that's a damn shame.

    Thats the line he uses every time. Works like a charm.

    “No baby, no one’s ever done that for me before. You are so special.”

    you will be proud to know that i regularly express disinterest or outright disdain in most things they say or do.
    I know. You have educated me on the effectiveness of pretended apathy and backhanded compliments.

    well let it never been said you're not clever

    Uh huh
  • Glazed_and_Confused
    Glazed_and_Confused Posts: 1,307 Member
    mike_rom wrote: »
    REALLY trying not to partake of these donuts that were brought into my office :/
    What flavors?? I need some donut pørn.
    mike_rom wrote: »
    REALLY trying not to partake of these donuts that were brought into my office :/

    Donut eat that!
    @DonutEatThat apologies for the plagiarism
    T'was perfect 👍
  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    I listened to a pretty interesting podcast this morning about sexual preferences, who we are attracted to, how it even goes so deep down as race, body type, hair color, etc. Apparently your first pleasurable sexual experience, with the release of oxytocin and dopamine during orgasm, strongly imprints the characteristics of that person sharing that experience with you into your preferences. That is almost impossible to unlearn. But you can add other preferences over a lifetime.

    wow this really explains why I've always compared women to Ali Larter from Varsity Blues

    I wonder how many partners you've talked into donning a whipped cream bikini.

    MVfoBY5.gif

    Well that's a damn shame.

    Thats the line he uses every time. Works like a charm.

    “No baby, no one’s ever done that for me before. You are so special.”

    you will be proud to know that i regularly express disinterest or outright disdain in most things they say or do.

    I am not surprised by this.
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    I wanna make a sheet cake and eat it by myself, with my hands, straight from the pan.

    But I’m going to the gym instead.
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,272 Member
    I wanna make a sheet cake and eat it by myself, with my hands, straight from the pan.

    But I’m going to the gym instead.

    Discipline
  • LiftingSpirits
    LiftingSpirits Posts: 2,207 Member
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fLJsdqxnZb0


    I think everyone should watch this. It is about 12 minutes long, but offers so many valid things to consider
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    iMago wrote: »
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    @This_far 😁
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,272 Member
    My elbows are killing me today. 😤
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,272 Member
    My elbows are killing me today. 😤

    Welcome to my world of getting old brother!

    Dude!

    Feel I need a lube job 😂
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    My elbows are killing me today. 😤

    Welcome to my world of getting old brother!

    Dude!

    Feel I need a lube job 😂

    🤐
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    I forgotten what a humid 81 degrees feels 😥

    Awh... it's finally SPRING!
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,272 Member
    My elbows are killing me today. 😤

    Welcome to my world of getting old brother!

    Dude!

    Feel I need a lube job 😂

    Hahaha! Funny not funny!

    Serious about the elbows