Issues with SO
Does anyone on here have a significant other that just brings them down with everything that you try to do to better yourself?? I mean .. like you try to lose weight and all they do is damn near force feed you crappy food or make you so depressed that you binge eat to no end??? Just wondering
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No one can control what I shovel into my mouth except me. I always thought that was a weird concept.4
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Drop 'em2
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Are you married?
Kids?2 -
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If I did I would be getting a new one.. Sorry you are going through an SO that is a SOB..
Since I do not have any details about you or your relationship, just eff em, ignore and do your own thing despite what they or any other human being on the planet thinks or says. or ditch and replace.1 -
I'm sorry you're going through this. I would say it is something typical of someone with insecurity or low self-esteem. He or she sabotages your diet so they feel better about their own issues. I don't know if he or she is overweight but there are some issues that may need addressing. If it continues or gets worse and you want to continue in the relationship, I would recommend seeing a licensed counselor. Good luck!2
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Sucks, talk to them about it. Communication is so important . If that doesn't work... move on! Best of luck and we are here to support you!1
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My ex was a downer. We're divorced.2
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What's keeping you in the relationship?0
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Yeah I don't eat what I don't want to
I do make D fatty with my cooking... I call it "feeding him like a king." I want my man to eat well0 -
Yes... married with 4 kids ... it's getting to the point of me wanting to ditch him but he's very manipulative and will use the kids against me... it sucks0
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Sorry to hear that, we are all here for support or to vent. Anything we can do1
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DeficitDuchess wrote: »
What's reverse psychology against a manipulitive controlling assdick?3 -
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happilymegan wrote: »Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?
I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsd0 -
Karb_Kween wrote: »DeficitDuchess wrote: »
What's reverse psychology against a manipulitive controlling assdick?
When people react the opposite way, in which they expect/desire you to; they either don't bother and/or change, how they; treat you!2 -
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Stand up for yourself! You are in control of you and people that try to control you shouldn't be in your life.
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DeficitDuchess wrote: »Karb_Kween wrote: »DeficitDuchess wrote: »
What's reverse psychology against a manipulitive controlling assdick?
When people react the opposite way, in which they expect/desire you to; they either don't bother and/or change, how they; treat you!
I'm mostly D on what I want so that wouldn't work for me ha0 -
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Thanks everyone
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Children or not, unless talking really changes things completely and permanently I think you should try and find support to get out of the relationship, and get as much custody of the kids as you can too. Whatever he says it's far less healthy or safe for them to have to grow up with that kind of influence and it's not good for you either.
I do know it can be hard though, but there seem to be plenty of people here to support you if you need it and I wish you the best of luck.1 -
happilymegan wrote: »Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?
I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsd
Just curious, do you actually answer him when he does these things?0 -
I'd give advice but I'd probably be yelled at for not being married so I couldn't possibly be qualified to give advice.1
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Before I started MFP in 2012, I use to eat nothing but junk food. My wife on the other hand ate healthy. I never forced her to eat the way I did and I was always impressed by her willpower to avoid the fried, fatty foods. She also never forced me to eat healthy. None of us fully knows your situation, but maybe have a heart to heart with your SO. Let him know EXACTLY how you feel. Remember, guys are not good at catching hints or reading in between the lines.1
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