Issues with SO

melmelw03

nesa98 wrote: »

happilymegan wrote: »

Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?

I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsd

Sounds like you've got a whole lot more issues than just the not being supportive with eating healthy thing.

You need to get out.

I mean, checking up on you during bathroom time?! Hell no. No. Just no.

lavachickie

nesa98 wrote: »

happilymegan wrote: »

Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?

I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsd

nesa98 wrote: »

happilymegan wrote: »

Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?

I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsd

nesa98 wrote: »

happilymegan wrote: »

Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?

I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsd

nesa98 wrote: »

happilymegan wrote: »

Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?

I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsd

JLAJ81

nesa98 wrote: »

happilymegan wrote: »

Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?

I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsd

I'm no expert but in most cases when someone is like that, not trusting no matter what you are doing they are usually doing something they shouldn't be.

mskimee

jjewell1981 wrote: »

nesa98 wrote: »

happilymegan wrote: »

Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?

I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsd

I'm no expert but in most cases when someone is like that, not trusting no matter what you are doing they are usually doing something they shouldn't be.

Pretty much the 1st thought that came into my head....

cahubbard6421

Playing devils advocate here:
Maybe him being overbearing and continually checking up in her is due to some past issues of his. He sees her making life changes and it is making his insecurities run haywire.

Disclaimer:
Dont take his *kitten* lightly. Take it as seriously as you would some random person constantly checking up on your kids. Having a controlling spouse is dangerous. Not being able to see how dangerous is the reason for many people no longer being able to be here today.