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Karb_Kween wrote: »DeficitDuchess wrote: »
What's reverse psychology against a manipulitive controlling assdick?
When people react the opposite way, in which they expect/desire you to; they either don't bother and/or change, how they; treat you!2 -
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DeficitDuchess wrote: »Karb_Kween wrote: »DeficitDuchess wrote: »
What's reverse psychology against a manipulitive controlling assdick?
When people react the opposite way, in which they expect/desire you to; they either don't bother and/or change, how they; treat you!
I'm mostly D on what I want so that wouldn't work for me ha0 -
Thanks everyone0
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Children or not, unless talking really changes things completely and permanently I think you should try and find support to get out of the relationship, and get as much custody of the kids as you can too. Whatever he says it's far less healthy or safe for them to have to grow up with that kind of influence and it's not good for you either.
I do know it can be hard though, but there seem to be plenty of people here to support you if you need it and I wish you the best of luck.1 -
happilymegan wrote: »Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?
I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsd
Just curious, do you actually answer him when he does these things?0 -
I'd give advice but I'd probably be yelled at for not being married so I couldn't possibly be qualified to give advice.1
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Before I started MFP in 2012, I use to eat nothing but junk food. My wife on the other hand ate healthy. I never forced her to eat the way I did and I was always impressed by her willpower to avoid the fried, fatty foods. She also never forced me to eat healthy. None of us fully knows your situation, but maybe have a heart to heart with your SO. Let him know EXACTLY how you feel. Remember, guys are not good at catching hints or reading in between the lines.1
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happilymegan wrote: »Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?
I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsd
Sounds like you've got a whole lot more issues than just the not being supportive with eating healthy thing.
You need to get out.
I mean, checking up on you during bathroom time?! Hell no. No. Just no.1 -
happilymegan wrote: »Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?
I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsdhappilymegan wrote: »Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?
I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsdhappilymegan wrote: »Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?
I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsdhappilymegan wrote: »Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?
I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsd
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happilymegan wrote: »Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?
I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsd
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jjewell1981 wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »Sounds like he's trying to hinder you. Does he have an insecurity issues?
I honestly believe he does ... no friends ... no nothing ... he has taken me away from all of mine plus my family ... hates me on social media, hates that I'm not up his *kitten* 24/7 ... if I'm in the bathroom he comes to check on me... if I'm helping our daughter with hw he checks up on me... like wtf am I doing that's so wrong? Nothing ... I'm a housewife with bad ptsd
Pretty much the 1st thought that came into my head....1 -
Playing devils advocate here:
Maybe him being overbearing and continually checking up in her is due to some past issues of his. He sees her making life changes and it is making his insecurities run haywire.
Disclaimer:
Dont take his *kitten* lightly. Take it as seriously as you would some random person constantly checking up on your kids. Having a controlling spouse is dangerous. Not being able to see how dangerous is the reason for many people no longer being able to be here today.1
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