Are u the jealous type

kwph
kwph Posts: 7,375 Member
edited November 15 in Chit-Chat
Just curious ...& what makes u jealous in a relationship. ..I think everyone has at one point or another ,but are u the type that gets so jealous over everything
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  • Carbkiller1970
    Carbkiller1970 Posts: 3,289 Member
    No way waste of energy I just ask that he be respectful
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  • Gimsteinn
    Gimsteinn Posts: 7,678 Member
    Ok spit it out @Kwph Who is she?
  • Carbkiller1970
    Carbkiller1970 Posts: 3,289 Member
    Gimsteinn wrote: »
    Ok spit it out @Kwph Who is she?

    You think she's in his mouth? :#:D
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  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    MadMaxV8 wrote: »
    kwph wrote: »
    Just curious ...& what makes u jealous in a relationship. ..I think everyone has at one point or another ,but are u the type that gets so jealous over everything

    If they are the first ones into a new jar of peanut butter.

    IMG_2807.jpg

    Mmmm I wanna stick my finger in it.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    MadMaxV8 wrote: »
    kwph wrote: »
    Just curious ...& what makes u jealous in a relationship. ..I think everyone has at one point or another ,but are u the type that gets so jealous over everything

    If they are the first ones into a new jar of peanut butter.

    IMG_2807.jpg

    Mmmm I wanna stick my finger in it.

    Just your finger?
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  • Carbkiller1970
    Carbkiller1970 Posts: 3,289 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    MadMaxV8 wrote: »
    kwph wrote: »
    Just curious ...& what makes u jealous in a relationship. ..I think everyone has at one point or another ,but are u the type that gets so jealous over everything

    If they are the first ones into a new jar of peanut butter.

    IMG_2807.jpg

    Mmmm I wanna stick my finger in it.

    Just your finger?

    Smh....
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  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    kwph wrote: »
    Just curious ...& what makes u jealous in a relationship. ..I think everyone has at one point or another ,but are u the type that gets so jealous over everything

    Awww don't be jealous...I'm just super popular. ;)
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    I think a little bit of healthy jealousy is good for a relationship.

    I'm a lil jealous of those jail bars right about now.
  • sw33tp3a1
    sw33tp3a1 Posts: 5,065 Member
    I have found myself getting jealous in the past. I don't get jealous over everything. My jealousy only makes light when the person I care about flirts with other females and vice-versa. Some people are flirts by nature I get that...but I think my jealousy comes from not being secure in the relationship.
  • musclegood_fatbad
    musclegood_fatbad Posts: 9,809 Member
    Nope. not at all
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  • kwph
    kwph Posts: 7,375 Member
    I'm actually not referring 2 myself contrary 2 what ya think ....Just curious what makes ya jealous ...Lol
  • lutzsher
    lutzsher Posts: 1,153 Member
    I have been in a very happy marriage for 20 years and have never gotten jealous previously; however, there have been a few times when when I can see a sales clerk, or some woman while we are out somewhere, that is obviously flirting hard core with MY husband that I have secretly wanted to punch her in the face, haha. Guess that is what I signed up for when I married a handsome man! After a few moments I get to feel smug though when he ignores her and looks at me with love shining from his eyes.
  • KyleGrace8
    KyleGrace8 Posts: 2,205 Member
    I've never been jealous in a actual relationship but in that "just dating" phase when you aren't official yet and dating other people.....heck yes. BUT I would just be jealous by myself, I'd never let on that I was jealous to anyone but my diary. I do get jealous over people who really have their life together or a really nice @ss.
  • _Justinian_
    _Justinian_ Posts: 232 Member
    kwph wrote: »
    Just curious ...& what makes u jealous in a relationship. ..I think everyone has at one point or another ,but are u the type that gets so jealous over everything

    I'm jealous of those arms you have.
  • angelxsss
    angelxsss Posts: 2,402 Member
    I'm pretty sure I would be
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    idk1970 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    MadMaxV8 wrote: »
    kwph wrote: »
    Just curious ...& what makes u jealous in a relationship. ..I think everyone has at one point or another ,but are u the type that gets so jealous over everything

    If they are the first ones into a new jar of peanut butter.

    IMG_2807.jpg

    Mmmm I wanna stick my finger in it.

    Just your finger?

    Smh....

    @RunHardBeStrong has talents.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    jnichel wrote: »
    idk1970 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    MadMaxV8 wrote: »
    kwph wrote: »
    Just curious ...& what makes u jealous in a relationship. ..I think everyone has at one point or another ,but are u the type that gets so jealous over everything

    If they are the first ones into a new jar of peanut butter.

    IMG_2807.jpg

    Mmmm I wanna stick my finger in it.

    Just your finger?

    Smh....

    @RunHardBeStrong has talents.

    I sure damn do! :#
  • kwph
    kwph Posts: 7,375 Member
    So is it what someone else is doing 2 ur husband that makes u jealous or if he entertains it what makes u jealous?
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    MeganAM89 wrote: »
    lutzsher wrote: »
    I have been in a very happy marriage for 20 years and have never gotten jealous previously; however, there have been a few times when when I can see a sales clerk, or some woman while we are out somewhere, that is obviously flirting hard core with MY husband that I have secretly wanted to punch her in the face, haha. Guess that is what I signed up for when I married a handsome man! After a few moments I get to feel smug though when he ignores her and looks at me with love shining from his eyes.

    We were out to dinner once and the waitress asked for my order and then before asking my husband what he wanted she crouched down so that he could have a full view of her tits in her low-cut shirt and she said, "and what would you like?"

    Oh my god lol I was so pissed and I did not tip her, I just refused.

    Something like this, I would not get jealous over, UNLESS he flirted back. There are tons of sloozies out there. My jealousy would mainly be if HE expresses an interest in someone else. Not necessarily if women are doing the flirting with him. Eat your heart out, is how I feel about that.

    I think it's normal to be a little jealous when there are certain feelings involved, as long as you don't go stalker/psycho on someone. I wouldn't necessarily call it insecurity, although it might stem from a little of that. We're human and I think it's natural and perhaps a little healthy. I would hate to think that a significant other would not be bothered AT ALL by my expressing interest for another man, especially if it's mutual. Is it complete trust, or just not givingafuck? Sometimes trust has nothing to do with it. I could recall so many incidents when I was married but I'm divorced now so it's irrelevant. All that to say, I wish I weren't jealous, but yes I am, if I care, I get those feelings. If IDGAF, well then I just DGAF.

    Holycrap I think this is my longest post ever. sorry..
  • kwph
    kwph Posts: 7,375 Member
    Don't apologize ...Thank U!!!!
  • RoxieDawn
    RoxieDawn Posts: 15,488 Member
    Nope..jealousy to me is a form of hate. This all takes too much of my energy.
  • kwph
    kwph Posts: 7,375 Member
    Does it make a difference if the person is not a threat in any size,shape or form?...Ya know they don't stand a chance & it's not ur man's type & u just sit back and laugh while they waste their time cuz it ain't going anywhere as opposed 2 the potential threat that is very good looking & can be a problem ....So my question is ... same actions,different looks ...& really think about it ,cuz I guarantee ya fluffed someone off cuz they didn't stand a chance ,but in the end they were still flirting
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    Also, I never get jealous of what other people have. I'm happy for other people's blessings. I assume OP was asking about jealousy in relationships not necessarily tangible things.
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