Parents on here I need advice, my daughter is seeing a guy way older than her

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  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    lookat6 wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    I don't think the OP is real... The whole virginity comment sets of my Bs detector...

    I'm pretty sure if she has sex with him he's going to brag about how he's having sex with a person of her age

    Okay now I know you're Bs.... Anyone who'd discuss their daughters sex life in this context in a public forum is just a Troll, and or has some type of issue
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  • Sugarand_spice
    Sugarand_spice Posts: 42 Member
    I don't see that as a big age gap at all! My best friend is 22 and engaged to a 38 year old. Obviously not just being used for one thing.
    They could actually really like each other
  • HeliumIsNoble
    HeliumIsNoble Posts: 1,213 Member
    edited July 2017
    lookat6 wrote: »
    abetterme9366 wrote: »
    You're daughter is a full blown adult. End of story.

    But as long as she's under my roof it's my business who comes to pick her up from my address
    Tell her Helium on MFP says to meet the guy outside the house, on the corner of the street.

    Problem solved.

  • carb_killer1
    carb_killer1 Posts: 266 Member
    i dont know if this is true but i kinda agree with healthy its odd to dicuss childrens sex lives dont u think ?
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    Newsflash, they're probably already banging. Virgin still at 22.....yeah, ok.
  • toned_thugs_n_harmony
    toned_thugs_n_harmony Posts: 1,001 Member
    Where do you think he takes her? Back to his place for a little bump and grind.
  • carb_killer1
    carb_killer1 Posts: 266 Member
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    Newsflash, they're probably already banging. Virgin still at 22.....yeah, ok.

    i agree with you but still hardto read and its not even my kid
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  • carb_killer1
    carb_killer1 Posts: 266 Member
    this is deep :/
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  • Deadman_Diggingup
    Deadman_Diggingup Posts: 3,082 Member
    carb_killer1 wrote: »
    this is deep :/

    That's what she said....
  • JeanieWww
    JeanieWww Posts: 4,037 Member
    My sister married a man 20+ years her senior. They have been married for 20+ years. It CAN work. Depends on the individuals.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    lookat6 wrote: »
    carb_killer1 wrote: »
    i dont know if this is true but i kinda agree with healthy its odd to dicuss childrens sex lives dont u think ?

    Well I'm just being honest I told her if she wanted to have sex at least let it be someone near her age or wait for the right one. He wants something young and inexperienced. I told her imagine getting married and your husband says "I wish I was your first" he will be disappointed so she needs to think about who she's having sex with

    Okay come on now, I can't believe there are people like this out there... Where do they come from...?

    Anyhow I've got a workout to finish...
  • carb_killer1
    carb_killer1 Posts: 266 Member
    id like to stay but jesse has to finish his work out and i need to watch giggles
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  • PikaJoyJoy
    PikaJoyJoy Posts: 280 Member
    lookat6 wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    I don't think the OP is real... The whole virginity comment sets of my Bs detector...

    I am real and serious I told her if she is going to have sex either wait until marriage or until she finds someone near her age

    Because somehow having sex and possibly getting pregnant is going to be better if she does it with someone closer to her age? What? No. lol.

    But go ahead and keep trying to micromanage her life. It's one thing to advise and express your concern, it's another to be controlling and trying to run her life. When she ends up running away to live with this guy and possibly making worse life decisions, I'm sure it'll be super satisfying when you get to tell all your friends and other family that you were right. (/sarcasm)
  • carb_killer1
    carb_killer1 Posts: 266 Member
    lookat6 wrote: »
    JeanieWww wrote: »
    My sister married a man 20+ years her senior. They have been married for 20+ years. It CAN work. Depends on the individuals.


    Very rarely do age gaps work out

    my parents are 17 yrs apart js
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    carb_killer1 wrote: »
    id like to stay but jesse has to finish his work out and i need to watch giggles

    Awesome :kissing_heart:
    You know studies show when women are watching, men show less fatigue, work harder, and have more energy... Probably better protein synthesis too haha!
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  • schtump
    schtump Posts: 71 Member
    lookat6 wrote: »
    abetterme9366 wrote: »
    You're daughter is a full blown adult. End of story.

    But as long as she's under my roof it's my business who comes to pick her up from my address

    Nope. You are allowed to be weary, you are allowed to have an adult conversation about the relationship with her, but you can't really stop her. No good will come from any other action. It will only create a divide. Your daughter has found someone with which to spend her time, even if nothing comes of it she is learning valuable tools in how to be in an adult relationship, and that deserves your respect.

    I'm 8 years older than my wife and the two of use met when we were a little older than your daughter is now. Sometimes the people that you want to spend time with aren't the same age as you.

    That said, good luck to you and to her.
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  • PikaJoyJoy
    PikaJoyJoy Posts: 280 Member
    lookat6 wrote: »
    PikaJoyJoy wrote: »
    lookat6 wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    I don't think the OP is real... The whole virginity comment sets of my Bs detector...

    I am real and serious I told her if she is going to have sex either wait until marriage or until she finds someone near her age

    Because somehow having sex and possibly getting pregnant is going to be better if she does it with someone closer to her age? What? No. lol.

    But go ahead and keep trying to micromanage her life. It's one thing to advise and express your concern, it's another to be controlling and trying to run her life. When she ends up running away to live with this guy and possibly making worse life decisions, I'm sure it'll be super satisfying when you get to tell all your friends and other family that you were right. (/sarcasm)

    Not trying to micromanage her but as a 51 year old with 30 years experience over her I know what I'm talking about. And if she's my daughter it's my job to voice my opinions when something doesn't seem right

    Voice your opinions, yes. Force your opinions is another thing. And they way you are going on in this thread, that's exactly what you are doing.
  • carb_killer1
    carb_killer1 Posts: 266 Member
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    carb_killer1 wrote: »
    id like to stay but jesse has to finish his work out and i need to watch giggles

    Awesome :kissing_heart:
    You know studies show when women are watching, men show less fatigue, work harder, and have more energy... Probably better protein synthesis too haha!

    i said i was watching lol not pole dancing :p
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