Married and flirty....?
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beingmore1 wrote: »blackcomaro wrote: »Just popped through for educational purposes
whos hogging the popcorn? I'll just sit over here on the fence with @beingmore1 
hey now, whatya doin bringing me into this thread? gimme that popcorn.
You wana sip of coke to wash it down?0 -
@blackcomaro yeah I've heard that a time or two 1
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Cutaway_Collar wrote: »
Yeah, I agree with all that.Marriage is the most emotionally and physically satisfying thing that we will ever experience in our lifetime. To give yourself completely, body and soul, to someone else takes a huge amount of courage. You are the most vulnerable you ever been and yet, the strongest you've ever been. You never knew until that moment that you could ever even love someone that much. They literally become your reason to get out of bed each morning. You're happy together. You're sad together. You face hardships together. When you're first married, that love, that feeling: it's a feeling you never want to go away. You feel so safe and secure and happy. The only thing I can say at this point is: regardless of your religious or any other views, do whatever strengthens your marriage and keeps that feeling alive, because a strong marriage is the most important thing you can give yourself ... and your children. We all have different views and different ways of coping with life. Do what works for your marriage and makes both of you happy.
But aside all that, speaking like a man, high levels of testosterone and all that, I am not into the wife sharing thing. I cannot fathom it.
When I hear open marriage guys tell me, yeah, we love each other so much, we have been together for twenty years and we are best friends and lovers we go swinging blah blah blah... my first thought is - go drink some testo and locate your man card.
But of course, I believe that it’s the right thing to do to acknowledge that your spouse needs you at all times.
Dude. Just stop!
Ever think that these men are so secure in themselves that they don't need to worry about insecure *kitten* like that?
It's okay for it not to be your thing, but stop judging others for things you don't understand.3 -
@Ironandwine69 this is completely off topic but how long did it take you to get abs? And did you do core exercises or weight training or cardio or all the above?0
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Its one thing if its agreed upon as a couple...communication is key...here are the boundaries and respect and love that we expect from each other ...I never had an issue with the flirting...however, it wasn't always just flirting...that's not every person and we can't label every situation...however, I don't know that we can call someone insecure just because they don't want their SO to flirt with others ...
Not wanting your spouse to flirt with others is not being insecure.
Judging other people for not being like you, or saying that men that are okay with it need to check their men cards is, in fact insecurity.0 -
rickiimarieee wrote: »@Ironandwine69 this is completely off topic but how long did it take you to get abs? And did you do core exercises or weight training or cardio or all the above?
I don't train abs and hate cardio. Just heavy lifting.1 -
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@Ironandwine69 that's awesome, I've been trying to get some abs or atleast the outline. But I've been doing cardio and core.0
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Why what? Why do I do core and cardio or why do I want abs?0
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stop flirting you two0
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rickiimarieee wrote: »@Ironandwine69 that's awesome, I've been trying to get some abs or atleast the outline. But I've been doing cardio and core.
I've never been concerned about abs, and I don't think my abs are anything to brag about( wine ruins everything). But I think heavy lifting is better than core and cardio. My two cents.1 -
Soul_Radiation wrote: »Cutaway_Collar wrote: »Yeah, I agree with all that.
But aside all that, speaking like a man, high levels of testosterone and all that, I am not into the wife sharing thing. I cannot fathom it.
When I hear open marriage guys tell me, yeah, we love each other so much, we have been together for twenty years and we are best friends and lovers we go swinging blah blah blah... my first thought is - go drink some testo and locate your man card.
But of course, I believe that it’s the right thing to do to acknowledge that your spouse needs you at all times.
Once your friends end their relationships, upend their lives, move out of their houses, and stop having sex with their lovers of 20 years...
...what do they get with their man card?
lol
I ended a 20 year relationship...do I get my man card1 -
Soul_Radiation wrote: »Cutaway_Collar wrote: »Yeah, I agree with all that.
But aside all that, speaking like a man, high levels of testosterone and all that, I am not into the wife sharing thing. I cannot fathom it.
When I hear open marriage guys tell me, yeah, we love each other so much, we have been together for twenty years and we are best friends and lovers we go swinging blah blah blah... my first thought is - go drink some testo and locate your man card.
But of course, I believe that it’s the right thing to do to acknowledge that your spouse needs you at all times.
Once your friends end their relationships, upend their lives, move out of their houses, and stop having sex with their lovers of 20 years...
...what do they get with their man card?
lol
I ended a 20 year relationship...do I get my man card
Hey... whos handing out the cards?? This could be like a golden ticket.0 -
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MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »I hate to rain on the religious debate parade but @rickiimarieee is your new pp a completely different person?
she likes to keep things fresh and unflirty....sheesh1 -
MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »I hate to rain on the religious debate parade but @rickiimarieee is your new pp a completely different person?
Well like dah...its not the rock anymore or is he in descise. I have a black hat and coat on aswell as the black glasses 1 -
MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »I hate to rain on the religious debate parade but @rickiimarieee is your new pp a completely different person?
she likes to keep things fresh and unflirty....sheesh
I'm so confused, I can't keep *kitten* straight anymore on who's doing who. I mean who's who1 -
Well yeah I'm not the rock anymore0
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blackcomaro wrote: »MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »I hate to rain on the religious debate parade but @rickiimarieee is your new pp a completely different person?
Well like dah...its not the rock anymore or is he in descise 
I have a black hat and coat on aswell
And nothing underneath?1 -
rickiimarieee wrote: »Well yeah I'm not the rock anymore
So I flirted with you for nothing. Great.1 -
I think your abs are something to brag about it shows hard work! But I don't know I've always wanted abs and I do abs and core to gain core muscles and cardio for my health such as my heartz0
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Heart*0
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Ironandwine69 wrote: »blackcomaro wrote: »MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »I hate to rain on the religious debate parade but @rickiimarieee is your new pp a completely different person?
Well like dah...its not the rock anymore or is he in descise I have a black hat and coat on aswell
And nothing underneath?
Nope... you got me before i edited the emoji. It wouldnt let me change it to black glasses.0 -
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blackcomaro wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »blackcomaro wrote: »MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »I hate to rain on the religious debate parade but @rickiimarieee is your new pp a completely different person?
Well like dah...its not the rock anymore or is he in descise I have a black hat and coat on aswell
And nothing underneath?
Nope... you got me before i edited the emoji. It wouldnt let me change it to black glasses.
Sounds like a "say my name" sesh1 -
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Yeah it was about two years ago lol you should see me with blonde hair0
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