WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR OCTOBER 2017
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Um..... not sure people understood that when I talked about filling the national brand container with a store brand I was talking about AT HOME, not by trying to steal or scam from the store. I would never do that. That's called theft. I just tricked my children who wanted the name brand.
Marcelyn
who agrees with Mary in Arizona by the way
Yeah, that is what I was talking about too! I don't switch name brands to store brands AT THE STORE!!! Haha....I got scruples dontcha know!
Becca
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bSueBDew in TX , Oh dear, in reality I am a fair baker, but in my mind I am a master baker! Oh sheesh, don't say that out loud, it sounds wrong!! Hahaha!
Becca
A bawdy Lady in
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DH hit it with the "meat needler" so hopefully it will be tenderized a tad.
Lanette ~ What is a meat needler?
Just curious!
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Rye, Oh friend! (((((((((((((( tightly hugs ya!))))))))))))))))). Your childhood story touched me! Its hard when we had MISS MANNERS over our shoulder, and for me I think my Mom looked like BETTY CROCKER from the book in our kitchen. So always trying to do the right thing, but feeling like no one was speaking about what we wanted.
I lived in the country, so I had two coping mechanisms for that. First I would open my closet and pray really hard to God. I had a little alter in my closet. Hmmm kinda strange when I think about that. I was maybe 5 yrs old. Later on, in my grade school years, I would go to the barn and yell at our cows. Cows are great listeners, except they stick their tongues up their noses! I am a Gemini, so I tend to lash out. I haven't for years, maybe 3 years. Yelled at husband the last time.
But anyway, outlets are great. Safe havens to be yourself and express yourself is even better. I consider this site as a safe haven. No judgements. And even when you say something everyone disagrees with, they will tell you. Its their right to express their opinions about it. That is what discussions are made of.
I say continue, all of us to listen with our hearts and minds. That's what makes this site thread so gloriously refreshing. Sure its about learning to live a healthy lifestyle. But its also about accountability, and fellowship with women that we admire. And face it ladies, I'm your #1 fan! Hugs all round!
Becca
Oregon
See I smile politely, and not so toothy, to ya all!
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My Mom, Betty Crocker, or some people said she looked like Polly Bergen!
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Rye - Wow, I'd hate to meet Diedre today if she was allowed to continue on those line throughout her childhood. I'll bet she's one heck of an "entitled" woman. It's probably all about her. She wouldn't be in my circle of friends.
Marcelyn
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Just read this story of Facebook from someone by the name of Seth Mays. I thought it was one to pass on to you.
I hired a plumber to help me restore an old farmhouse, and after he had just finished a rough first day on the job: a flat tire made him lose an hour of work, his electric drill quit and his ancient one ton truck refused to start.
While I drove him home, he sat in stony silence. On arriving, he invited me in to meet his family. As we walked toward the front door, he paused briefly at a small tree, touching the tips of the branches with both hands.
When opening the door he underwent an amazing transformation.. His face was wreathed in smiles and he hugged his two small children and gave his wife a kiss.
Afterward he walked me to the car. We passed the tree and my curiosity got the better of me. I asked him about what I had seen him do earlier.
'Oh, that's my trouble tree,' he replied 'I know I can't help having troubles on the job, but one thing's for sure, those troubles don't belong in the house with my wife and the children.. So I just hang them up on the tree every night when I come home and ask God to take care of them. Then in the morning I pick them up again.' 'Funny thing is,' he smiled,' when I come out in the morning to pick 'em up, there aren't nearly as many as I remember hanging up the night before.
THIS ONE IS WORTH SENDING ON.
Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance. We all need a Tree!
(I didn't create this story, but loved it when I read it and wanted to share)
Home today because just got piano tuned. Past due. Will be fun to play again.
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(((Rye and Mary)))
Becca ~ Your mom does look like a Betty Crocker housewife. I know mine was! With 5 children she worked a lot outside the home, made special dresses when I had a recital or for church occasions, refinished furniture and floors, made lined drapery, decorated cakes, painted china, and taught Sunday School! I wish she and my dad had devoted more time to us children and let some of the other go by the wayside.
Keeping the grand daughter today as she must have a stomach bug. We have watched hours of "Horrid Henry". I just wish I was more like Kelly and could think of great things to do with her. We did learn to cut out snowflakes and I did print out some coloring pages for her.
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KetoneKaren wrote: »Rye! I will play pin the tail on the donkey with you anytime!
Karen in Virginia
I know. That made me so sad.
I was a December birthday, though, so we played pin the nose on Rudolph. Lol
Love you, Rye. That was beautifully and touchingly written.
Felicia
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NyKaren, I'm glad you are going to the hematologist to get things straightened out. Let us know what they say.
Oh Margaret, that story is beautiful and I will definitely pass it on.
Looks like I may be leading a "Winter Craft" here at work as part of our Wellness Program. People can make any decoration they want based on the centerpiece I'm going to make (got to go downstairs and see what I have in the way of supplies). I'm sure some will make centerpieces or wreaths but it doesn't really matter. It will be done on their lunch hour. Just got to figure out how to do this. I've taught wreath decorating in the past for co-workers that wanted to learn, but not with a formal group. Should be fun. To hard to describe, but will send a picture when I get the sample done. I think whatever I make I will send to my cousin in Las Vegas. I send him and his wife something every year.
Terry in VT5 -
DH hit it with the "meat needler" so hopefully it will be tenderized a tad.
Lanette ~ What is a meat needler?
Just curious!
Carol in GA
Carol - it's a meat tenderizer device - hope this illustration/amazon ad comes thru... if not, just google it. You place it over the meat and push down and it drives "needles" down into the meat. Also a torture device! LOL!
OK I don't think it's gonna come thru, but just it's a Kleemoo meat tenderizer with 48 needles! Yikes!
Lanette
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I just have to say that I feel that I got kicked in the teeth by Deidre. I have never posted any political propaganda on here I have only reacted to those that have posted it with an opposing viewpoint. In defense of other women that may not be able to speak up for themselves. I am a middle child!5
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Hi friends. I'm still lurking here. Hope to be more chatty! Thinking of you all!3
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Lanette ~ Thanks for the info!1
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"Sometimes my best laid plans get muddled up".
So I had budgeted $86 per week. Then husband and spent $21 on Sunday each getting a sandwich from Subways. Today was shopping, because its " Senior Day" at our grocery store. My original shopping list was $98 worth of items making 9 dinner meals, some lunches and breakfasts meals. So trimming off some side dishes, and readjusting what I had guesstimated we left the store paying $57. I am afraid we will dip into next weeks amounts until we have a slim week. That's happened before, and heck we are both overweight so cinching our belts will be good for us! Its all good, and I can always make a pinto and kidney bean soup! I have a ham slice too!
I did whine abit and bought a "Real Simple" magazine. Just love that mag! It has some best things, ( items they have found the best of, like the best body wash, our the best cleaning item). Also a recycling story, with places to visit to recycle odd things. Companies that will take back items like Nike's to make playground equipment etc.
Well, time to reheat coffee, and have my second cuppa. Cheers all!
Becca1 -
Pics to get y'all in the mood!
Becca
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Rye - Please don't go; we all have differences in opinions. I don't think my posting was not a divisive action; but, I also see it as a punch to how I feel when I hear or see people keep stirring everything up. I'm conservation; yet liberal enough to know we need to 'try' to love our neighbors, to respect 'all lives', I don't support abortion, except maybe for a pregnancy incurred by 'incest' or 'rape'. Even then there are other options; but, to most mothers, being pregnant for 9 months with the result to be a baby conceived this way should not have 9 months of knowing this. I'm Catholic and that is a difficult subject. On first look, the sign might look 'ok'; but, if you read it, it's a pretty liberal sign. What about our vets and their lives, being able to get medical care for wars the did not start; but, they signed up for this duty and the ultimate price that gets paid is the life. What about 'blue lives matter'? EMT and police and fire me/women don't hesitate, they run into the direction of the shooter or fire or someone caught under an unstable piece of rock or steel.
I don't want you to leave because some have disagreed about what they seen in this sign, leaving isn't going to afford you the encouragement we can give when it comes to our goals, our lives, and our friendships.
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I choose love and to focus on good. I ran 2 hours ten minutes yesterday. Tripped and fell and twisted ankle, but rolled with it and managed to keep running. No pain or swelling today. Took Major to visit an elderly lady I know: Wendy
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Hi all,
Had such a great evening!
We walked along the seafront to the "Mom and Pop" Italian restaurant. There was a group of young men doing their kettlebells together in the dusk, with another running round the markers they had put up on the stretch of grass. Another group further on were running an exercise session. Loads of people were running/cycling up and down the promenade in the twilight. One young woman was skating along in a silver jacket. I wanted that jacket!
The meal was fabulous. I had Spaghetti alla vongole, DH chicken and mushroom ravioli. All completely homemade.
We wandered back and felt it was a bit too early to go home. A pub a few doors away was emanating live music so we ambled in. It was called Paris Pub and was covered in photos of Paris in film stars from the fifties and sixties. Just my thing! The live singer and band was great and even played a few "chansons" , which delighted me. Altogether an unexpected treat.
It reminds me of why we thought we might move to Brighton /Hove. I just LOVE it.
Lots of love, Heather UK xxxxxxx4 -
Janice: Welcome to a great group of supportive women. Stop by often to give and get support and encouragement. :flowerforyou:
smudjlemfp: Welcome back. Did you use a different name before?
Barbie: Our townhouse community, like your neighborhood, has a rule that doesn't allow us to display political signs on either our homes or the fences. We can put them in the windows of our cars in the parking lot if we want. It is technically public parking. I think it does make for a more harmonious neighborhood. Because our Women 50+ thread is such a diverse multinational group, I also think that avoiding such topics is a good idea here. I accept that someone may express their opinion on a sensitive topic from time to time. I don't have to agree, disagree or respond.
Margaret: I love the story of the trouble tree. Thanks for sharing.
Mary: Chalk it up to a bad moment and remember that you have many, many friends here. :flowerforyou:
Wendy: I love the photo of Major and the older woman. Thanks for sharing. :bigsmile:
I'm in the process of putting up my Halloween outdoor display. DH is currently taking a nap, and I need his help for the next bit so I'm waiting. I'm not fond of waiting but he had to have an MRI today and deserves a little downtime.
Katla in beautiful NW Oregon
My mother had a favorite saying: "Everyone is strange except me and thee, and sometimes I even wonder about thee."5 -
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fanncy0626 wrote: »I just have to say that I feel that I got kicked in the teeth by Deidre. I have never posted any political propaganda on here I have only reacted to those that have posted it with an opposing viewpoint. In defense of other women that may not be able to speak up for themselves. I am a middle child!
Stating your opinion, politely as you did is not being obnoxious or forward, or belligerent in any way. It isn't even propaganda, it is simply discussion. Was the sign political? Yes, I believe so. It was a political statement, perhaps not meant that way by Rye but it was a political statement. Rye has the right to post the photo. You have the right to speak your dissenting opinion in a polite way, which you did. And others have the right to disagree or agree.
We don't stray into politics very often but I will admit that I am often frustrated that certain points of view are often presented in random back-door and allowed a pass but if I were to post my viewpoint, which tends to be conservative Christian based I would be raked over the coals (and I have been on this board, usually in private so kudos to those of you that have responded to me privately instead of on the board). So I am silent because I just get tired of being told that I'm immoral, racist or ignorant simply because I hold to a different viewpoint.
Nobody in this issue attacked anyone else personally, that would be over the line and not acceptable. I would never do so and apologize if I ever have. Neither Rye nor Mary were in the wrong, they just had different opinions. We have different view points, each and every one of us does. Some hold to them strongly and others just don't care that much. Personality has much to do with that I think.
Understanding is not gained through shutting down discourse but through conversation, hopefully polite conversation. I hope we can all agree with that. We may not always agree on everything but I believe that we can all learn from each other and maintain a chatty nice group without having to ban all touchy subjects. They are bound to come up once in a while and we all do a great job keeping the majority of issue out of the threads.
I'll leave you with this. It is a post I put on my blog. Skip through the construction pictures and random family pictures down to the part about the sign. It will basically explain why I agreed with Mary. A different sign, but the same viewpoints and attitude that I see so often with signs such as the one I write about and Rye posted. I run into this attitude a LOT where I live and am told time and time again that I need to sit down and shut my ignorant mouth. Yes, that has been said more than once to me in less than polite terms.
https://puddlingabout.wordpress.com/2017/10/02/october-2-2017/
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Oh boy, Hallowe'en is on the way....
I used to have this one as my screensaver at work:
Working with a group of engineers, it came in handy!
Lanette
SW WA State3 -
Hi all: It is a gorgeous day out today and I got some work done out there. The horses are enjoying the sun. The pastures are growing now that we have had some rain and everything that was brown and sere is greening up. DD and I got a load of junk out of our riding arena and taken to the dump. We are currently working on a winter place for the goats, a shed that is more closed in than their current shelter and hopefully snugger for the cold weather. We are going out tonight to a restaurant at the small airport here. Since the weather is nice I think we will be able to sit outside and watch the hot air balloons and the sky divers. My mom is here until Saturday when she flies home. I will miss having her here.
Heather - Glad you had a great birthday.
Rye and Mary - You are each valuable members of this thread.
Margaret - Love that story!
Machka - Glorious pictures.
Welcome to all the newbies. Keep coming back.
Everyone take care, Sue in WA4 -
Rye – I definitely would not be Deidra friend either. My first childhood BFS, were a set of twins. My mother and theirs were BF since college. For some reason when we got together at their house a 4th girl was invited, and, most of the time I was invited when they came to her house. I did not ‘much’ care for her Mother – who I can remember ‘yelling at her’ if she was ‘perfect’ in every way possible. It did not take much for her to ‘cry’ and I’d usually get blamed. One thing I do remember is when I wanted the twins to come over, I do not believe she was invited, unless I wanted her to be invited. I think there were more arguments when they were 4 of us than when it was just 3. Maybe you did not have 1 left out while the other watched; but, I was used to that because of 3 girls in my family. When we would go to the other girls to play, we HAD to ‘go outside’ and rarely could we come inside.
IF we went to her room, her Mother would come to the door and remind ALL of us that we were NOT to play with the Madam Alexander dolls displayed in her room. She had a pink room with a white furniture and a white lace coverlet on it. Lord Forbid one of should we touch it. She had a playhouse big enough for 6 people to play in; but, I spent most of the time outside of it, playing in the yard. We never grew close; but, I still get together with the twins 2 or 4 times a year. I’ve invited the other one to come to our Luncheon; but, she always has an excuse. Fine; but, when I found out she was coming to town 2x a week (to check on her parents) that let me know she just did not want to pick up. That’s fine, too. We had to laugh when we spent the night with another girl who was a cheerleader when the rest of us were. Another cheerleader also stayed the night … there was a ‘party’ of some sort [not a reunion]. One said that she saw her going up the steps to the B&B upstairs over the restaurant and she had one a very ‘wild girl’ outfit, complete with lace hose and over-the-knee boots. This one made me laugh.
When she caught her husband cheating on her; she filed for a divorce. He came back begging her to stay. She made him apologize to her parents and grandparents. Maybe I was wrong in ‘thinking’ this … but, he probably was the one who got her to dress up like she was. Such a reminder of Julia Robert’s role in “Pretty Woman.” I was told when she called out to her that she looked, and kept on going. Sometimes I don’t think our conceptions change as we grow up.
However, I do understand the situation about the ‘Pin the Tail on the Donkey’. I ‘loved’ the game, too. The twins and I went to the same nursery school associated with the college our mothers had. I don’t recall where she went; but, we all took piano together and were in the same dance classes.
My Mother taught me ‘similar little pieces or junks of etiquette’ and quite often they did seem to be very contradictory. As I got older, still remembering all the lessons, I taught my sons the same things. I think boys are easier; because they don’t ‘whine’ (or at least MINE didn’t). We had 2 sets of boxing gloves, 4 stakes and enough rope to set off a rink. When the neighborhood boys had a ‘tiff’ they came down to settle it at our house. She was such a ‘prissy pot’ and none of the rest of us were.
We have so many women from all over the world; and, something I have to use Cortana (search engine) to look up what they are talking about. Mainly, because it is so different in other countries. We can’t always ‘think’ that everybody is going to have our same views, even if they have political issues in their own countries … BREXIT was an example. I learned a lot from it; but, at first I definitely did not understand what or why they were so ‘up in the air’ about it.
Barbie – As a Federal government employee I was allowed to have political signs in our yard. We never have had one in our yard. That way we don’t have to answer any questions. The County Commissioner for this area said that the former one, his opponent, had ‘fixed’ the roads in this area just before Election Day. I had called him several times, and because he had been to ‘roads crew manager in another county’. I told this one that if he was elected I would be calling him every time our road was messed up from them putting the blade to the lowest point and dragging off the red sand we kept asking for. He’s had many calls and true to his word, he has had them out her pronto. I’d vote for him again, I’m just not sure he will. Hopefully, he will and they can get all the dirt roads passable. I rode by the road crew manager, whipped around and drove up so our driver’s side were face-to-face and complained about the berm the guy was making and told him that I don’t know what type of physics classes any of them had; but, for the 17 years we’ve been out here, only one has done the blading correctly. Then he was a Trustee for a long time. He only made two passes over the road, now it take 4. But, now we have ditches on the sides that need ditches; and, the next time they come they are going to back-blade the small cliff (15” high), down. He just wanted me to know I would not have grass there if they did it. At least Louis can mow the grass without worrying about running off it. We haven't had a good rain yet to see if the places are 'fixed' or not. The roads crew man knew who I was talking about. Said they found the grader of the far end of his property; but, he was back in the Trustee position again.
Terry – He will get a 2nd opinion; but, I want him to go talk to someone (would have to be in Columbus, Tallahassee or Macon to get out from under the “Phoebe Umbrella” and I want him to do it BEFORE he has another bad attack. So if his Urologist cannot clean out his pipes, I don’t have to be the one, to make that decision. Just got to find the time.
I like to put peanut butter on toast. Sometimes a few ‘greenish’ banana slices.
Marcelyn – Those types of “Deidra’s” grow up to be ‘high maintenance women’ (poor husbands). Never happy about anything. You could go to a class reunion and find they have not changed any. Still very ‘shallow’ and dropping ‘names’ and such.
Margaret – Loved the story about the “Trouble Tree”. Sometimes Louis comes home upset; so I don’t want to ask him about his day. I wait until he has cleaned his brushes, taken his shower, and wait for him to say something … I will give him 30 minutes before I pipe up and ask. For the most part, it is usually ‘pretty good’ or ‘okay, got a lot finished’. Today, they did not work much at the MD’s house. I told Louis that he was going to let him ‘finish’ what he can, then NOT pay him for it. He said that he’s gotten his money … so if they don’t pay him, won’t matter much. He won’t ever have to see him anyway. Today was a total ‘bust’ for me. Weigh-in, weight stayed the same; but, everything that should have gone down – did; and, everything that was supposed to go up – did. I am sure since I wore a little heavier pants (not shorts) was part of the reason. But, this was also after a long weekend at the beach.
Can I borrow you little story?
Felicia – My middle granddaughter has a Christmas Eve birthday (usually celebrated in the summer while they are at friends’ home, so we don’t get to celebrate). The do it for both their children. This past year was her 16th; and, why my DDnL#1 decided this year to throw a ‘Sweet 16’ party on the weekend of her birthday and why she got so ill because people called at the last minute to cancel remains a mystery to me. Needless to say only the friends (of DOS and DDnL#1) and their children were there. Felt so sorry for Madison because she was very quiet … she said it did not matter; but, she looked hurt. DDnL#1 admitted that it bothered her, probably because she had not taken her ‘medication’. I asked her why she did not go and take it now. You would have thought I had slapped her across the face. “BECAUSE I won’t be able to get to sleep tonight!’ Touchy!
Lanette – I have one of those metal double-ended tenderizers. Good to use when you are a little pissed off.
Mary – Don’t see anything you posted as ‘political propaganda’. I’m the ‘baby’ …. So nothing I say is listened to. LOL!!!! But, my middle sister is REALLY pushy about politics although all 3 of us have said that our beach trip is ‘politic - religion’ discussion-free. She started within an hour of getting there about these ‘racist bigots that voted for Trump’. I was thinking ‘oh $#*T here we go’. Oldest sister [neither she nor husband voted because he was in ICU in Miami] called her out on it saying that she can’t clump all Republicans in that group and repeated verbatim what she had said. Then she denied it. I kept my mouth shut. She DID say it.
I bought a subscription to “Real Simple” magazine … think it is printed on recycled paper. It has that feel to it, to me. Love it, too. Yep, Nike can grind up all that rubber – I think they even pave ‘some’ roads with the rubber (and make playground equipment). I hope that Mallory is selling magazines again this year. The others were selling something else, wrapping paper and candy and that sort of thing.
Lenora
I hope we get a lot more ‘good’ out of this site, than ‘bad’. It is meat to encourage one another. But, sometimes we vent about a lot of things, including the things we aren’t supposed to.
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