How to approach girls in the gym???

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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    Seems to me that I may or may not need to get myself a gym membership....

    Go ahead and buy the gym membership, enjoy your workou.....

    Wait.


    What are you wearing?
  • PrincessTinyheart
    PrincessTinyheart Posts: 679 Member
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    Seems to me that I may or may not need to get myself a gym membership....

    Eh, get the gym membership. You can come back here with all kinds of scandalous stories about lecherous stares and ice cream dates.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    Seems to me that I may or may not need to get myself a gym membership....

    Eh, get the gym membership. You can come back here with all kinds of scandalous stories about lecherous stares and ice cream dates.

    I was once accused of staring at a lady while at the gym.

    The stare was easy to play off and deny.


    ..... the drool, not so much.
  • princess7955
    princess7955 Posts: 1,277 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Seems to me that I may or may not need to get myself a gym membership....

    Go ahead and buy the gym membership, enjoy your workou.....

    Wait.


    What are you wearing?

    Is this Jake from State Farm?
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,793 Member
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    Walk straight up to them. Facing them. My Parole Officer says I can't sneak up behind them any more.
  • Smilin40
    Smilin40 Posts: 1,828 Member
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  • BW__NOT
    BW__NOT Posts: 807 Member
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    The best approach is no approach...if they are interested in you...let them come to you.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Seems to me that I may or may not need to get myself a gym membership....

    Go ahead and buy the gym membership, enjoy your workou.....

    Wait.


    What are you wearing?


    I’m sober now. You’re right, motorsheen, the two are conflicting. But only if the guy is a jerk anyway. Maybe what I was trying to say is, don’t try to be something you’re not. Be you. But if that happens to be a jerk then, sucks for you. I think I like TheRoadDog’s answer better.

    @gearfreegains



    First rule of the forum, never doubt the wisdom of TheRoadDog.


    and yes, I once tried simply 'being me'..... restraining orders ensued.
  • Lift_More
    Lift_More Posts: 166 Member
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    Just stare at here in a creepy sort of way until she notices you and leaves. She will most likely leave her number. :D
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
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  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,799 Member
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    Right when she is reppin' it out on the bench press, kneel down to head level and whisper into her ear---- "psssst... wanna follow me into the sauna room in 5 minutes?" Give it a shot. I'd try it myself but I'm already banned from every gym in this puritanical state.
  • PrincessTinyheart
    PrincessTinyheart Posts: 679 Member
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    I would be really flattered if a man struck up a flirtatious conversation with me at the gym. It's never happened but I think it would be fun. I bet a lot of other women would enjoy it too
  • fitwithlipstick94
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    Probably not the best choice... If it were me, I would be straight up annoyed to be honest
  • Sober_Is_Sexy
    Sober_Is_Sexy Posts: 60 Member
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    Don’t *kitten* where you eat
  • ruffalicious
    ruffalicious Posts: 799 Member
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    Most people that i see at the gym are so up tight. honestly, a friendly face and encounter is not too bad, if you want to approach anyone, just start with a smile and maybe a HI or good morning. also, like what previous comments mentioned, do not speak to them when they are in the middle of working out, maybe when they are getting water or walking out of the gym. just dont be creepy, be cool lol
  • Deadman_Diggingup
    Deadman_Diggingup Posts: 3,082 Member
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    I wouldn't. But then again, I wouldn't approach anyone. Anywhere. Maybe if they were on fire. I might say, "excuse me ma'am, you appear to be on fire", then slink away nervously. Maybe.
  • PrincessVamp666
    PrincessVamp666 Posts: 1,176 Member
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    I wouldn't. But then again, I wouldn't approach anyone. Anywhere. Maybe if they were on fire. I might say, "excuse me ma'am, you appear to be on fire", then slink away nervously. Maybe.

    I don't mean to disturb you, sorry for bothering you :) I totally get that,.

    I wouldn't want to be approached at the gym - I'd probably spend like 15 minutes trying to catch my breath!

  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
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    FFS...
  • BW__NOT
    BW__NOT Posts: 807 Member
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    just workout and go home.....#wtfulookin@, #thisaintnoparty, #methree