Uteruses only, no Duderuteruses.

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  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
    Why is it so hard to be friends with other women?
    On here I have several female friends, but in real life I just can't deal with most chicks.

    I find woman complicated as opposed to men. Simply by putting food and usually a alcoholic beverage in front of them and they more than likely be happy. It’s just not that simple with woman.

    That settles it. I must be a man. No other explanation
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    Why is it so hard to be friends with other women?
    On here I have several female friends, but in real life I just can't deal with most chicks.

    I find woman complicated as opposed to men. Simply by putting food and usually a alcoholic beverage in front of them and they more than likely be happy. It’s just not that simple with woman.

    That settles it. I must be a man. No other explanation

    Same. Gimme foods and alcohol and I'm happy.
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Why is it so hard to be friends with other women?
    On here I have several female friends, but in real life I just can't deal with most chicks.

    I find most other women to a.) have nothing in common with or b.) too catty/petty/competitive. It's been that way as long as I can remember, too.

    Agree 100%
    Sad to say I don't trust most women I know. I know them well enough to know they are two faced and presumably talk about me the way they talk about others behind their backs in unkind ways.
    I trust that they wouldn't poison me or push me into traffic, but I have to really watch what I say around my work friends.

    Likewise. I have a few female friends, but I would say only two of them are the types that can be completely trustworthy and I don't have to have my guard up around constantly for fear of betrayal. Sadly, we do not live anywhere near one another these days. Still, they are cool ladies.
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    Gal pals :lol:
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    Some women are Petty, like an alpha female thing. Wants all the power, all the attention, minions :lol:
    I just want people who just wanna be people. You don't have to be perfect, just be a good friend, for yourself and to others.
    Unfortunately I have trust issues with 'friends'. So who's in my little circle, are few.
  • saragd012
    saragd012 Posts: 693 Member
    Why is it so hard to be friends with other women?
    On here I have several female friends, but in real life I just can't deal with most chicks.

    I find woman complicated as opposed to men. Simply by putting food and usually a alcoholic beverage in front of them and they more than likely be happy. It’s just not that simple with woman.

    That settles it. I must be a man. No other explanation

    Same. Gimme foods and alcohol and I'm happy.

    Me too, 90% of the time my attitude can be immediately cured with good food and/or a drink. Though my experience with friendships in real life vs online is completely opposite, I am much better at communicating IRL and I don't think I'm interpreted well online.
  • ilfaith
    ilfaith Posts: 16,769 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    Gal pals :lol:
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    Some women are Petty, like an alpha female thing. Wants all the power, all the attention, minions :lol:
    I just want people who just wanna be people. You don't have to be perfect, just be a good friend, for yourself and to others.
    Unfortunately I have trust issues with 'friends'. So who's in my little circle, are few.

    Mom Jeans!
  • Fisah17
    Fisah17 Posts: 202 Member
    Why is it so hard to be friends with other women?
    On here I have several female friends, but in real life I just can't deal with most chicks.

    Some of my best friends are women because we are all honest with each other, even when it hurts or we don't agree. Also we're all comfortable in our own skin and don't feel the need to cut each other down which happens a lot in girl squads. Find individual women (me) or a group of women (no girl squads since my early 20s) that respect and value each other and its a beautiful thing!
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    Ugh, it's only Tuesday...?
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    Tired, more snow, blech.
    Oh hey, uteruses! And even the duderuteruses that lurk here.
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
    Hey! I am also feeling blech and tired! More chocolate is required
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  • Fisah17
    Fisah17 Posts: 202 Member
    I couldn't think of a better place to post this rant but this is ridiculous. I am in so much pain and it happens every month. No, its not that time...I'm just ovulating. One of I wonder how many women actually go through this. Does anyone else get ovulation pain and other than OTC meds what do you do to get rid of it? I cant stand taking meds so I usually just wait it out :/
  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
    Sorry, no ideas on my end.
  • urloved33
    urloved33 Posts: 3,323 Member
    happy Friday ladies...have a fantastic weekend. B)B)
  • Crafty_camper123
    Crafty_camper123 Posts: 1,440 Member
    Fisah17 wrote: »
    I couldn't think of a better place to post this rant but this is ridiculous. I am in so much pain and it happens every month. No, its not that time...I'm just ovulating. One of I wonder how many women actually go through this. Does anyone else get ovulation pain and other than OTC meds what do you do to get rid of it? I cant stand taking meds so I usually just wait it out :/

    Evening Primrose Oil is supposed to help with PMS symptoms and regulating hormones... Maybe could help the ovulation pain? I don't get ovulation pain, but it seemed to help with ongoing breast tenderness I had on my previous BC.
  • hud54014
    hud54014 Posts: 3,777 Member
    Fisah17 wrote: »
    I couldn't think of a better place to post this rant but this is ridiculous. I am in so much pain and it happens every month. No, its not that time...I'm just ovulating. One of I wonder how many women actually go through this. Does anyone else get ovulation pain and other than OTC meds what do you do to get rid of it? I cant stand taking meds so I usually just wait it out :/

    I got the mirena IUD... no periods at all for the past 8 years now. Unless you're trying to make babies, I recommend it.
  • ilfaith
    ilfaith Posts: 16,769 Member
    Fisah17 wrote: »
    I couldn't think of a better place to post this rant but this is ridiculous. I am in so much pain and it happens every month. No, its not that time...I'm just ovulating. One of I wonder how many women actually go through this. Does anyone else get ovulation pain and other than OTC meds what do you do to get rid of it? I cant stand taking meds so I usually just wait it out :/

    Ovulation pain can be totally normal, but have you been examined to rule out endometriosis or an ovarian cyst? These conditions can present themselves with painful ovulation (aka "Mittelschmerz"). Is the pain worse some months than others, or more prevalent on one side?

    If you'd rather not take OTC painkillers, there are a few other options that might help alleviate your monthly discomfort...

    https://naturalwomanhood.org/charting-and-natural-remedies-for-mittelschmerz/
  • taunto_
    taunto_ Posts: 91 Member
    I don't understand why this sexist thread continues on the forums! #EqualRights
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    :lol:
  • Fisah17 wrote: »
    I couldn't think of a better place to post this rant but this is ridiculous. I am in so much pain and it happens every month. No, its not that time...I'm just ovulating. One of I wonder how many women actually go through this. Does anyone else get ovulation pain and other than OTC meds what do you do to get rid of it? I cant stand taking meds so I usually just wait it out :/

    It might be worth it for you to get an ultrasound done and check for uterine fibroids. They are painful, but can be removed.
  • UltraVegAthlete
    UltraVegAthlete Posts: 667 Member
    I recently had a friend of mine get yelled at for breastfeeding her daughter in public. The baby is 10 months old. What are your opinions on women breastfeeding in public?
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    I think if you're doing it tactfully, it's not a problem.
  • Fisah17
    Fisah17 Posts: 202 Member
    edited March 2018
    ilfaith wrote: »
    Fisah17 wrote: »
    I couldn't think of a better place to post this rant but this is ridiculous. I am in so much pain and it happens every month. No, its not that time...I'm just ovulating. One of I wonder how many women actually go through this. Does anyone else get ovulation pain and other than OTC meds what do you do to get rid of it? I cant stand taking meds so I usually just wait it out :/

    Ovulation pain can be totally normal, but have you been examined to rule out endometriosis or an ovarian cyst? These conditions can present themselves with painful ovulation (aka "Mittelschmerz"). Is the pain worse some months than others, or more prevalent on one side?

    If you'd rather not take OTC painkillers, there are a few other options that might help alleviate your monthly discomfort...

    https://naturalwomanhood.org/charting-and-natural-remedies-for-mittelschmerz/

    This month its the right side but it varies. Its always mid cycle and I do use an app to track it so I am pretty sure that's what is going on. Read the article and it was right on track with what I'm experiencing. Yoga, essential oils and tea time until it passes :)
  • ilfaith
    ilfaith Posts: 16,769 Member
    I recently had a friend of mine get yelled at for breastfeeding her daughter in public. The baby is 10 months old. What are your opinions on women breastfeeding in public?

    I nursed my three boys for 14-16 months a piece. I breastfed them anywhere and everywhere. I joked that everyone in northeast Florida had gotten a glimpse of my boobs one time or another, but in reality, it is very easy to nurse discretely. I had a "hooter hider" cover, and a couple of ponchos (they were in vogue when my first was born)...but I rarely fed my kids under one of those tents. Easy enough to wear a tee shirt over a nursing cami, lift the tee, lower the flap on the cami, revealing just enough nipple for baby to latch on.

    But if a woman is comfortable whipping out her entire breast in public, I don't have a problem with that. We all have different levels of modesty. Not enough public places have private nursing lounges. Nobody wants to feed their baby while sitting on a toilet. I've nursed in department stores, in museums (among the Greek and Roman sculptures...plenty of exposed bosoms there already), at the beach, NFL stadiums (I was a little nervous about getting caught on camera and flashed on the Jumbotron), on amusement park rides, on planes, trains, and automobiles (I once climbed into the backseat of our minivan, and hovered, teats dangling, over my baby, who was safely strapped into his carseat, while my husband drove in I-95 traffic).

    I would occasionally get disapproving looks...once, I held a nursing baby in one arm, while I nursed a margarita with the other. The woman at the next table looked horrified...as though I was mainlining tequila directly into my child. That's not how making breast milk works.
  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    I think if you're doing it tactfully, it's not a problem.

    People should look the other way. My older son didn't like getting covered up and so I didn't do it, but with the baby pressed up against your body there is nothing to see. Why should you have to go sit in a hot car or a nasty bathroom because people are nosy? I don't think covering has anything to do with modesty, not on sees anything unless they are gawking at you in my experience.
  • empresssue
    empresssue Posts: 2,978 Member
    Ok, at the ripe old age of 50, I still breakout during that time of the month. My parents promised me it would stop when I got to be an adult. :angry:
  • KyleGrace8
    KyleGrace8 Posts: 2,205 Member
    empresssue wrote: »
    Ok, at the ripe old age of 50, I still breakout during that time of the month. My parents promised me it would stop when I got to be an adult. :angry:

    ikr when will it stop?
  • empresssue
    empresssue Posts: 2,978 Member
    KyleGrace8 wrote: »
    empresssue wrote: »
    Ok, at the ripe old age of 50, I still breakout during that time of the month. My parents promised me it would stop when I got to be an adult. :angry:

    ikr when will it stop?

    Apparently not until I’m dead. :disappointed:
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