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  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    empresssue wrote: »
    Ok, at the ripe old age of 50, I still breakout during that time of the month. My parents promised me it would stop when I got to be an adult. :angry:

    Noooooo! Is this what I have to look forward to? I was told my acne would dial down by now and it hasn't. Guess it never will.
  • empresssue
    empresssue Posts: 2,978 Member
    empresssue wrote: »
    Ok, at the ripe old age of 50, I still breakout during that time of the month. My parents promised me it would stop when I got to be an adult. :angry:

    Noooooo! Is this what I have to look forward to? I was told my acne would dial down by now and it hasn't. Guess it never will.

    I hear ya: I am prone to stress acne & time of the month acne. Why am I so lucky??????
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    empresssue wrote: »
    empresssue wrote: »
    Ok, at the ripe old age of 50, I still breakout during that time of the month. My parents promised me it would stop when I got to be an adult. :angry:

    Noooooo! Is this what I have to look forward to? I was told my acne would dial down by now and it hasn't. Guess it never will.

    I hear ya: I am prone to stress acne & time of the month acne. Why am I so lucky??????

    Me too. Makeup doesn't cover it up, either.

    Add to that that I can't stand having any bumps or scabs/scars on my skin.
  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
    I had to totally switch up my skin care regime and add in serums and stuff, but I don’t get nearly as much acne and the spots I have fade sooner.
  • saragd012
    saragd012 Posts: 693 Member
    I have the worst hormonal acne as well. I've tried using various treated concealers without any real luck, so now I just accept that my chin has decided to become a walking billboard advertising where I am in my menstrual cycle.
  • empresssue
    empresssue Posts: 2,978 Member
    saragd012 wrote: »
    I have the worst hormonal acne as well. I've tried using various treated concealers without any real luck, so now I just accept that my chin has decided to become a walking billboard advertising where I am in my menstrual cycle.

    My chin would be preferable-it's my neck that gives it away.
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    empresssue wrote: »
    saragd012 wrote: »
    I have the worst hormonal acne as well. I've tried using various treated concealers without any real luck, so now I just accept that my chin has decided to become a walking billboard advertising where I am in my menstrual cycle.

    My chin would be preferable-it's my neck that gives it away.

    Pretty much my entire face. Boo.
  • empresssue
    empresssue Posts: 2,978 Member
    The joys of being female.......
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    Found this and it made me think of you gals. :lol:
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  • marysjourneytolose
    marysjourneytolose Posts: 20 Member
    I need advice ladies! I just turned 30 and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. For a year and half now we've had absolutely no sex! It's driving me insane! The reason being is because we currently live with my mom in a trailer (paper thin walls) because we have too many bills to move yet. So....we can't make ANY noise and it makes him uncomfortable to have sex with her around. She never leaves the house unless it's with me. So...yeah. And honestly I've kinda lost my attraction to him sexually a little bit and I don't how to fix it. I've also recently started crushing on another guy who's way younger than me and it pisses me off. I wish I didn't like this other guy but I do. So my question is what the hell do I do? Do I try to repair what I have with my boyfriend because mind you he has recently decided he wants to give it a go again with having sex at my mom's (we'd be extra quiet) but like I said I just can't seem to get in the mood with him anymore. Or do I be honest with him about everything and end it?
  • saragd012
    saragd012 Posts: 693 Member
    I need advice ladies! I just turned 30 and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. For a year and half now we've had absolutely no sex! It's driving me insane! The reason being is because we currently live with my mom in a trailer (paper thin walls) because we have too many bills to move yet. So....we can't make ANY noise and it makes him uncomfortable to have sex with her around. She never leaves the house unless it's with me. So...yeah. And honestly I've kinda lost my attraction to him sexually a little bit and I don't how to fix it. I've also recently started crushing on another guy who's way younger than me and it pisses me off. I wish I didn't like this other guy but I do. So my question is what the hell do I do? Do I try to repair what I have with my boyfriend because mind you he has recently decided he wants to give it a go again with having sex at my mom's (we'd be extra quiet) but like I said I just can't seem to get in the mood with him anymore. Or do I be honest with him about everything and end it?

    I'd think that starting to have sex again could revamp your attraction to him, generally a woman's sex drive increases the more sex she has. Is there another option of where you two could go where you didn't have to stress about being so quiet? Or even maybe buying your mom a movie ticket or something and explaining that you'd like to cook a nice dinner and have a nice date night with the bf? I think finding someone else attractive is pretty normal, I wouldn't go as far as to tell your partner unless you know for sure you want to end it, or if you think there's a chance you'll cross that line.
  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
    I think Sara gave you good advice.
  • marysjourneytolose
    marysjourneytolose Posts: 20 Member
    saragd012 wrote: »
    I need advice ladies! I just turned 30 and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. For a year and half now we've had absolutely no sex! It's driving me insane! The reason being is because we currently live with my mom in a trailer (paper thin walls) because we have too many bills to move yet. So....we can't make ANY noise and it makes him uncomfortable to have sex with her around. She never leaves the house unless it's with me. So...yeah. And honestly I've kinda lost my attraction to him sexually a little bit and I don't how to fix it. I've also recently started crushing on another guy who's way younger than me and it pisses me off. I wish I didn't like this other guy but I do. So my question is what the hell do I do? Do I try to repair what I have with my boyfriend because mind you he has recently decided he wants to give it a go again with having sex at my mom's (we'd be extra quiet) but like I said I just can't seem to get in the mood with him anymore. Or do I be honest with him about everything and end it?

    I'd think that starting to have sex again could revamp your attraction to him, generally a woman's sex drive increases the more sex she has. Is there another option of where you two could go where you didn't have to stress about being so quiet? Or even maybe buying your mom a movie ticket or something and explaining that you'd like to cook a nice dinner and have a nice date night with the bf? I think finding someone else attractive is pretty normal, I wouldn't go as far as to tell your partner unless you know for sure you want to end it, or if you think there's a chance you'll cross that line.

    Thank you! I don't want it to end. I love him so much. I just hope we can salvage things and become physical again. I also think I might be a little gun shy since we haven't had sex in so long. But also because of something from my past. But yes I think we can get a hotel and rekindle our sex lives. Thank you so much for your advice!
  • I need advice ladies! I just turned 30 and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. For a year and half now we've had absolutely no sex! It's driving me insane! The reason being is because we currently live with my mom in a trailer (paper thin walls) because we have too many bills to move yet. So....we can't make ANY noise and it makes him uncomfortable to have sex with her around. She never leaves the house unless it's with me. So...yeah. And honestly I've kinda lost my attraction to him sexually a little bit and I don't how to fix it. I've also recently started crushing on another guy who's way younger than me and it pisses me off. I wish I didn't like this other guy but I do. So my question is what the hell do I do? Do I try to repair what I have with my boyfriend because mind you he has recently decided he wants to give it a go again with having sex at my mom's (we'd be extra quiet) but like I said I just can't seem to get in the mood with him anymore. Or do I be honest with him about everything and end it?

    Time to get creative.
  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
    Can you guys go away for a vacation or even the weekend to spend some time together privately?
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    saragd012 wrote: »
    I need advice ladies! I just turned 30 and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. For a year and half now we've had absolutely no sex! It's driving me insane! The reason being is because we currently live with my mom in a trailer (paper thin walls) because we have too many bills to move yet. So....we can't make ANY noise and it makes him uncomfortable to have sex with her around. She never leaves the house unless it's with me. So...yeah. And honestly I've kinda lost my attraction to him sexually a little bit and I don't how to fix it. I've also recently started crushing on another guy who's way younger than me and it pisses me off. I wish I didn't like this other guy but I do. So my question is what the hell do I do? Do I try to repair what I have with my boyfriend because mind you he has recently decided he wants to give it a go again with having sex at my mom's (we'd be extra quiet) but like I said I just can't seem to get in the mood with him anymore. Or do I be honest with him about everything and end it?

    I'd think that starting to have sex again could revamp your attraction to him, generally a woman's sex drive increases the more sex she has. Is there another option of where you two could go where you didn't have to stress about being so quiet? Or even maybe buying your mom a movie ticket or something and explaining that you'd like to cook a nice dinner and have a nice date night with the bf? I think finding someone else attractive is pretty normal, I wouldn't go as far as to tell your partner unless you know for sure you want to end it, or if you think there's a chance you'll cross that line.

    I agree with this.....
    And now I am thinking THIS "...generally a woman's sex drive increases the more sex she has" is why I have a low sex drive!! haha

    Damn..... this thread makes me realize how much I miss having close female friends IRL....
  • marysjourneytolose
    marysjourneytolose Posts: 20 Member
    I need advice ladies! I just turned 30 and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. For a year and half now we've had absolutely no sex! It's driving me insane! The reason being is because we currently live with my mom in a trailer (paper thin walls) because we have too many bills to move yet. So....we can't make ANY noise and it makes him uncomfortable to have sex with her around. She never leaves the house unless it's with me. So...yeah. And honestly I've kinda lost my attraction to him sexually a little bit and I don't how to fix it. I've also recently started crushing on another guy who's way younger than me and it pisses me off. I wish I didn't like this other guy but I do. So my question is what the hell do I do? Do I try to repair what I have with my boyfriend because mind you he has recently decided he wants to give it a go again with having sex at my mom's (we'd be extra quiet) but like I said I just can't seem to get in the mood with him anymore. Or do I be honest with him about everything and end it?

    Time to get creative.

    Trust me sweetheart I have been trying to get him to try a few things. Fifty shades gave me ideas. ;) But....he's not interested in being my sub. :( it's ok though I have so many other ideas. I'm ready to be adventurous I just hope he is. Lol.
  • hud54014
    hud54014 Posts: 3,777 Member
    I need advice ladies! I just turned 30 and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. For a year and half now we've had absolutely no sex! It's driving me insane! The reason being is because we currently live with my mom in a trailer (paper thin walls) because we have too many bills to move yet. So....we can't make ANY noise and it makes him uncomfortable to have sex with her around. She never leaves the house unless it's with me. So...yeah. And honestly I've kinda lost my attraction to him sexually a little bit and I don't how to fix it. I've also recently started crushing on another guy who's way younger than me and it pisses me off. I wish I didn't like this other guy but I do. So my question is what the hell do I do? Do I try to repair what I have with my boyfriend because mind you he has recently decided he wants to give it a go again with having sex at my mom's (we'd be extra quiet) but like I said I just can't seem to get in the mood with him anymore. Or do I be honest with him about everything and end it?

    Time to get creative.

    Trust me sweetheart I have been trying to get him to try a few things. Fifty shades gave me ideas. ;) But....he's not interested in being my sub. :( it's ok though I have so many other ideas. I'm ready to be adventurous I just hope he is. Lol.

    Use your weekends for camping :)
  • marysjourneytolose
    marysjourneytolose Posts: 20 Member
    Can you guys go away for a vacation or even the weekend to spend some time together privately?

    Yes we can. If the money is right and we plan it ahead of time. I would love to go to a hotel or a bed and breakfast. I've never been to one of those. And we have plans this summer for a vacation. :)
  • marysjourneytolose
    marysjourneytolose Posts: 20 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    saragd012 wrote: »
    I need advice ladies! I just turned 30 and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. For a year and half now we've had absolutely no sex! It's driving me insane! The reason being is because we currently live with my mom in a trailer (paper thin walls) because we have too many bills to move yet. So....we can't make ANY noise and it makes him uncomfortable to have sex with her around. She never leaves the house unless it's with me. So...yeah. And honestly I've kinda lost my attraction to him sexually a little bit and I don't how to fix it. I've also recently started crushing on another guy who's way younger than me and it pisses me off. I wish I didn't like this other guy but I do. So my question is what the hell do I do? Do I try to repair what I have with my boyfriend because mind you he has recently decided he wants to give it a go again with having sex at my mom's (we'd be extra quiet) but like I said I just can't seem to get in the mood with him anymore. Or do I be honest with him about everything and end it?

    I'd think that starting to have sex again could revamp your attraction to him, generally a woman's sex drive increases the more sex she has. Is there another option of where you two could go where you didn't have to stress about being so quiet? Or even maybe buying your mom a movie ticket or something and explaining that you'd like to cook a nice dinner and have a nice date night with the bf? I think finding someone else attractive is pretty normal, I wouldn't go as far as to tell your partner unless you know for sure you want to end it, or if you think there's a chance you'll cross that line.

    I agree with this.....
    And now I am thinking THIS "...generally a woman's sex drive increases the more sex she has" is why I have a low sex drive!! haha

    Damn..... this thread makes me realize how much I miss having close female friends IRL....

    Same here girl. Same here. Lol. But yes I had no idea that no sex or hardly no sex could decrease my sex drive. Now that I do I'm going to get his butt in bed. ;):D
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    empresssue wrote: »
    Ok, at the ripe old age of 50, I still breakout during that time of the month. My parents promised me it would stop when I got to be an adult. :angry:

    Me too!!!! I thought I was grown up already!
  • marysjourneytolose
    marysjourneytolose Posts: 20 Member
    hud54014 wrote: »
    I need advice ladies! I just turned 30 and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. For a year and half now we've had absolutely no sex! It's driving me insane! The reason being is because we currently live with my mom in a trailer (paper thin walls) because we have too many bills to move yet. So....we can't make ANY noise and it makes him uncomfortable to have sex with her around. She never leaves the house unless it's with me. So...yeah. And honestly I've kinda lost my attraction to him sexually a little bit and I don't how to fix it. I've also recently started crushing on another guy who's way younger than me and it pisses me off. I wish I didn't like this other guy but I do. So my question is what the hell do I do? Do I try to repair what I have with my boyfriend because mind you he has recently decided he wants to give it a go again with having sex at my mom's (we'd be extra quiet) but like I said I just can't seem to get in the mood with him anymore. Or do I be honest with him about everything and end it?

    Time to get creative.

    Trust me sweetheart I have been trying to get him to try a few things. Fifty shades gave me ideas. ;) But....he's not interested in being my sub. :( it's ok though I have so many other ideas. I'm ready to be adventurous I just hope he is. Lol.

    Use your weekends for camping :)

    We actually are really eager to go camping this year in the spring or summer. It would be so much fun. I've never been!
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    saragd012 wrote: »
    I need advice ladies! I just turned 30 and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. For a year and half now we've had absolutely no sex! It's driving me insane! The reason being is because we currently live with my mom in a trailer (paper thin walls) because we have too many bills to move yet. So....we can't make ANY noise and it makes him uncomfortable to have sex with her around. She never leaves the house unless it's with me. So...yeah. And honestly I've kinda lost my attraction to him sexually a little bit and I don't how to fix it. I've also recently started crushing on another guy who's way younger than me and it pisses me off. I wish I didn't like this other guy but I do. So my question is what the hell do I do? Do I try to repair what I have with my boyfriend because mind you he has recently decided he wants to give it a go again with having sex at my mom's (we'd be extra quiet) but like I said I just can't seem to get in the mood with him anymore. Or do I be honest with him about everything and end it?

    I'd think that starting to have sex again could revamp your attraction to him, generally a woman's sex drive increases the more sex she has. Is there another option of where you two could go where you didn't have to stress about being so quiet? Or even maybe buying your mom a movie ticket or something and explaining that you'd like to cook a nice dinner and have a nice date night with the bf? I think finding someone else attractive is pretty normal, I wouldn't go as far as to tell your partner unless you know for sure you want to end it, or if you think there's a chance you'll cross that line.

    I agree with this.....
    And now I am thinking THIS "...generally a woman's sex drive increases the more sex she has" is why I have a low sex drive!! haha

    Damn..... this thread makes me realize how much I miss having close female friends IRL....

    Same here girl. Same here. Lol. But yes I had no idea that no sex or hardly no sex could decrease my sex drive. Now that I do I'm going to get his butt in bed. ;):D


    BAHAHA
    Times like these, I wish I had a boyfriend.... Or, ya know, just a friend.... ;) haha
    You and I are in the same "dry" boat!
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
    Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings Posts: 5,545 Member
    edited March 2018
    I need advice ladies! I just turned 30 and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. For a year and half now we've had absolutely no sex! It's driving me insane! The reason being is because we currently live with my mom in a trailer (paper thin walls) because we have too many bills to move yet. So....we can't make ANY noise and it makes him uncomfortable to have sex with her around. She never leaves the house unless it's with me. So...yeah. And honestly I've kinda lost my attraction to him sexually a little bit and I don't how to fix it. I've also recently started crushing on another guy who's way younger than me and it pisses me off. I wish I didn't like this other guy but I do. So my question is what the hell do I do? Do I try to repair what I have with my boyfriend because mind you he has recently decided he wants to give it a go again with having sex at my mom's (we'd be extra quiet) but like I said I just can't seem to get in the mood with him anymore. Or do I be honest with him about everything and end it?

    Time to get creative.

    Trust me sweetheart I have been trying to get him to try a few things. Fifty shades gave me ideas. ;) But....he's not interested in being my sub. :( it's ok though I have so many other ideas. I'm ready to be adventurous I just hope he is. Lol.

    Thats not quite what I meant... sexual attraction is animalistic and one of the keys to a healthy relationship. If the desire for one another is strong then you will find a way and a place to be intimate, thats where the creativity comes in... you are reading fictional books fantasizing about being adventurous when you're not even being intimate at all. Considering human nature I'm not sure he would want to be submissive to you if he is not having his basic needs met in the first place. If you're eye is wandering and you're desire for intimacy with your partner is waning... get creative, whether that means reigniting the spark between you both or moving on to other things...Just my opinion. All the best :)
  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
    Out of curiosity, how often were you having sex before you moved in with your mom? I can't imagine going a year and a half without sex, especially not if I was sleeping next to someone else. This could be my own issues and inability to trust, but would seem off to me :|
  • marysjourneytolose
    marysjourneytolose Posts: 20 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    saragd012 wrote: »
    I need advice ladies! I just turned 30 and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. For a year and half now we've had absolutely no sex! It's driving me insane! The reason being is because we currently live with my mom in a trailer (paper thin walls) because we have too many bills to move yet. So....we can't make ANY noise and it makes him uncomfortable to have sex with her around. She never leaves the house unless it's with me. So...yeah. And honestly I've kinda lost my attraction to him sexually a little bit and I don't how to fix it. I've also recently started crushing on another guy who's way younger than me and it pisses me off. I wish I didn't like this other guy but I do. So my question is what the hell do I do? Do I try to repair what I have with my boyfriend because mind you he has recently decided he wants to give it a go again with having sex at my mom's (we'd be extra quiet) but like I said I just can't seem to get in the mood with him anymore. Or do I be honest with him about everything and end it?

    I'd think that starting to have sex again could revamp your attraction to him, generally a woman's sex drive increases the more sex she has. Is there another option of where you two could go where you didn't have to stress about being so quiet? Or even maybe buying your mom a movie ticket or something and explaining that you'd like to cook a nice dinner and have a nice date night with the bf? I think finding someone else attractive is pretty normal, I wouldn't go as far as to tell your partner unless you know for sure you want to end it, or if you think there's a chance you'll cross that line.

    I agree with this.....
    And now I am thinking THIS "...generally a woman's sex drive increases the more sex she has" is why I have a low sex drive!! haha

    Damn..... this thread makes me realize how much I miss having close female friends IRL....

    Same here girl. Same here. Lol. But yes I had no idea that no sex or hardly no sex could decrease my sex drive. Now that I do I'm going to get his butt in bed. ;):D


    BAHAHA
    Times like these, I wish I had a boyfriend.... Or, ya know, just a friend.... ;) haha
    You and I are in the same "dry" boat!

    Lol! Sad but true! :'(:D
  • marysjourneytolose
    marysjourneytolose Posts: 20 Member
    I need advice ladies! I just turned 30 and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. For a year and half now we've had absolutely no sex! It's driving me insane! The reason being is because we currently live with my mom in a trailer (paper thin walls) because we have too many bills to move yet. So....we can't make ANY noise and it makes him uncomfortable to have sex with her around. She never leaves the house unless it's with me. So...yeah. And honestly I've kinda lost my attraction to him sexually a little bit and I don't how to fix it. I've also recently started crushing on another guy who's way younger than me and it pisses me off. I wish I didn't like this other guy but I do. So my question is what the hell do I do? Do I try to repair what I have with my boyfriend because mind you he has recently decided he wants to give it a go again with having sex at my mom's (we'd be extra quiet) but like I said I just can't seem to get in the mood with him anymore. Or do I be honest with him about everything and end it?

    Time to get creative.

    Trust me sweetheart I have been trying to get him to try a few things. Fifty shades gave me ideas. ;) But....he's not interested in being my sub. :( it's ok though I have so many other ideas. I'm ready to be adventurous I just hope he is. Lol.

    Thats not quite what I meant... sexual attraction is animalistic and one of the keys to a healthy relationship. If the desire for one another is strong then you will find a way and a place to be intimate, thats where the creativity comes in... you are reading fictional books fantasizing about being adventurous when you're not even being intimate at all. Considering human nature I'm not sure he would want to be submissive to you if he is not having his basic needs met in the first place. If you're eye is wandering and you're desire for intimacy with your partner is waning... get creative, whether that means reigniting the spark between you both or moving on to other things...Just my opinion. All the best :)

    Oh ok I gotcha. And you're right but to be honest he's the one who decided we couldn't have sex while living my mom. I used to practically beg him for sex and then I just gave up when the answer was always no. And now he's all of a sudden wanting to. He really confuses me. And also the whole fifty shades thing will fade away with time. I get obsessed with things like that but it never last. :)
  • marysjourneytolose
    marysjourneytolose Posts: 20 Member
    Out of curiosity, how often were you having sex before you moved in with your mom? I can't imagine going a year and a half without sex, especially not if I was sleeping next to someone else. This could be my own issues and inability to trust, but would seem off to me :|

    Barely any at all. Honestly he lived with his parents before we moved in with my mom. Before I met him I wasn't having sex regularly anyways. It'd been awhile. But I crave it now more than I ever have.
  • I need advice ladies! I just turned 30 and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. For a year and half now we've had absolutely no sex! It's driving me insane! The reason being is because we currently live with my mom in a trailer (paper thin walls) because we have too many bills to move yet. So....we can't make ANY noise and it makes him uncomfortable to have sex with her around. She never leaves the house unless it's with me. So...yeah. And honestly I've kinda lost my attraction to him sexually a little bit and I don't how to fix it. I've also recently started crushing on another guy who's way younger than me and it pisses me off. I wish I didn't like this other guy but I do. So my question is what the hell do I do? Do I try to repair what I have with my boyfriend because mind you he has recently decided he wants to give it a go again with having sex at my mom's (we'd be extra quiet) but like I said I just can't seem to get in the mood with him anymore. Or do I be honest with him about everything and end it?

    Time to get creative.

    Trust me sweetheart I have been trying to get him to try a few things. Fifty shades gave me ideas. ;) But....he's not interested in being my sub. :( it's ok though I have so many other ideas. I'm ready to be adventurous I just hope he is. Lol.

    Thats not quite what I meant... sexual attraction is animalistic and one of the keys to a healthy relationship. If the desire for one another is strong then you will find a way and a place to be intimate, thats where the creativity comes in... you are reading fictional books fantasizing about being adventurous when you're not even being intimate at all. Considering human nature I'm not sure he would want to be submissive to you if he is not having his basic needs met in the first place. If you're eye is wandering and you're desire for intimacy with your partner is waning... get creative, whether that means reigniting the spark between you both or moving on to other things...Just my opinion. All the best :)

    Oh ok I gotcha. And you're right but to be honest he's the one who decided we couldn't have sex while living my mom. I used to practically beg him for sex and then I just gave up when the answer was always no. And now he's all of a sudden wanting to. He really confuses me. And also the whole fifty shades thing will fade away with time. I get obsessed with things like that but it never last. :)

    Is there a chance he might be going through something on deeper level such as depression? I am in no way promoting frivolously moving on from from a meaningful partnership. I think that is what is entirely wrong with today's society... we make everything to be disposable and it's bleeding into our relationships, sadly. Only you know if you're strong enough together to overcome the ebb and flow. Put simply, where there is a will there is a way. I think a much needed conversation is in order for you two...
    And gurl... ain't nobody should be begging for some lovin' :D:blush:;)