He's/She's Just Not That Into You
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Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »covetthycarbs wrote: »
So three months is the limit if you don’t want marriage yet you think the other person might. Why not seven months? Or five?Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
Not at all, but some people have a timer esp if thats what they think they want or completely not what they want but thinks its what the other wantscovetthycarbs wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »Avocado_AS5 wrote: »Avocado_AS5 wrote: »So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?
Did you watch this movie when you were home not being sick yesterday?
No, I watched like 7 episodes of Friends.
Basically I wanna know if any of these things apply to me. Wondering why I can't get anyone to date me longer than like 3 months. 😕
Some ppl may be afraid to commit esp if they are at an age where the next logical step is marriage and they just don’t know if thats what they want. So they run
Dating more than three months doesn’t mean marriage automatically
There is no “limit” im just merely quoting what was given to me
My point is, some people date because they are trying to find “the one”. Maybe thats why it didnt last because they realize he/she isnt so they stop persuing after x amount of months or vice versa so they move on to the next
Some people date because they just want to experience as much as possible before settling down. Maybe after x amount of months, they want to experience something new
Some people date not expecting anything serious out of it. When it gets serious they run because thats not what they want and probably intimidated since it gets too serious
There can be hundreds of reasons for why someone would leave or break up and it doesn’t necessary mean its something you did wrong. U know the phrase “ its me, not you?” , its a real thing. Some people just dont have their priorities straight when it comes to dating and they just dont know what they want
Edit* when i said timer i meant to get married, not the months to date
I got your point and I agree. I just thought you meant it was official that it was three months then marriage lol.
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Avocado_AS5 wrote: »So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?
-Smoking
-Bad kissing
-Bad hygiene
-Constantly interrupting me as though nothing I say is important
-Having to repeat myself all the time
-Being very religious - I would be too offensive.
-Doesn't like or want to be around my family
-Wants 2938573945 pets (I love animals, but I don't want pets)
-Wants 29385734063745 kids (I love kids, but I don't want to be pregnant for 20 years)
-Pressure. I am immediately turned off by someone pressuring me to try something I am very against doing.
-Lack of common sense, common courtesy, and chivalry
-Lack of table manners, and manners in general (I dated a guy once, that I swear turned into a cow when it was meal time..... People next door could hear him chew...gross.)
-Lack of respect for others
-Lack of motivation to be better. I am all about bettering myself and my life in as many ways as I can.
-Long fingernails
-No sense of humor. I love to laugh. I want laughter in my life. If I'm not laughing, I'm not sticking around.
Damn...... I'm gonna be single forever. lol6 -
MistressSara wrote: »If I were dating, I'd rule out anyone who mocks or belittles; anyone who sees things as strictly black and white without compassion; pessimists; dreamy-eyed optimists who never do anything to make their dreams happen; people who don't read books; addicts not in recovery...
I guess it's a long list and they're the kinds of things you can't figure out from a questionnaire or a single meeting.
But wouldn't it be cool if you could hand over a questionnaire before the dating? And then if things look good on paper, see if things work in person.....2 -
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I would need to get a date first before l can answer this question9
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@too_much_bacon wrote: »Muffin tops
(like, if they eat the tops and leave me the stump)
Why do you think we would want to eat the stumps!!!
Especially if the tops have the big sugar crystals on top, I will leave you the stump every time.3 -
After all the personality, humor, likes and interests, there is always a layer of sexual compatibility. Seriously, if she doesn't find I float her boat or she isn't into me like I feel comfortable and confident she's happy, let's just part ways and not deal with the drama down the road.2
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the beer and video games every waking moment guy. UGH.4
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boring in bed, you should always pretend to be THE best porn star the world has ever seen, lol1
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After all the personality, humor, likes and interests, there is always a layer of sexual compatibility. Seriously, if she doesn't find I float her boat or she isn't into me like I feel comfortable and confident she's happy, let's just part ways and not deal with the drama down the road.
So you wouldn't want her to fake it once in awhile?0 -
Avocado_AS5 wrote: »After all the personality, humor, likes and interests, there is always a layer of sexual compatibility. Seriously, if she doesn't find I float her boat or she isn't into me like I feel comfortable and confident she's happy, let's just part ways and not deal with the drama down the road.
So you wouldn't want her to fake it once in awhile?
No, but @mholl15 is all about making believe, lol.1 -
Avocado_AS5 wrote: »After all the personality, humor, likes and interests, there is always a layer of sexual compatibility. Seriously, if she doesn't find I float her boat or she isn't into me like I feel comfortable and confident she's happy, let's just part ways and not deal with the drama down the road.
So you wouldn't want her to fake it once in awhile?
Nope.3 -
Jealously, insecurities, possessiveness, hot headed.
Can't carry a conversation.
No sense of humor.
Can't put their phone down.
Substance abuse problems.
Narcissistic.
Bad hygiene.
Mama's boy.
Deadbeat, lazy.
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too_much_bacon wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »@too_much_bacon wrote: »Muffin tops
(like, if they eat the tops and leave me the stump)
Why do you think we would want to eat the stumps!!!
Especially if the tops have the big sugar crystals on top, I will leave you the stump every time.
Savage.
I go straight for the jugular.0 -
Jealously, insecurities, possessiveness, hot headed.
Can't carry a conversation.
No sense of humor.
Can't put their phone down.
Substance abuse problems.
Hot-headed I get, but what about...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4OGY0pQFG0 1 -
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_Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »_Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »Doesn't always want to put out when I want him to. 🙄
What? That's not a man. Or even a human. I think it's probably a mannequin with a tape recorder duct taped to it.
Well Damn, I never thought of putting a recorder on it. This could be a game changer 😜
I'm here to help. The first one's free. After that the tolls ad up quick, baby. Luckily, I work for innuendo.1 -
Bad temper controlling tendencies.2
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Racist
Bad hygiene
Whiney
Not great at sex
Not affectionate
If they don't seem very into me
Not kind or not respectful0 -
Smoking
Any anger or addiction issues
Selfish
Lazy
Poor hygiene
Overweight
Short
Only texts and doesn't value phone conversation0 -
BinaryPulsar wrote: »Racist
Bad hygiene
Whiney
Not great at sex
Not affectionate
If they don't seem very into me
Not kind or not respectful
All of these and including:
Self-Degrading
Lazy
Sexist
Controlling
Jealous
Clingy
And there's more, but then I just sound picky....
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CoffeeAndContour wrote: »If they lack manners
If they lack common curtesy and respect for others
If they are gossipy about their friends
Already said, but if they don’t put their family first
If they don’t like kids
If they don’t like animals
If they are stagnant in life
If they have bad hygiene
If they have no hobbies or passions
If they are a showboater
If they lack communication skills
If they don’t inspire me to be better
I thought I'd been eliminated when you got the part about hating snowboarders. . But then I read it again.. How do you feel about guys who are easily confused?2 -
I'm not seeing many dudes posting....0
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