He's/She's Just Not That Into You
Replies
-
Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »Avocado_AS5 wrote: »Avocado_AS5 wrote: »So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?
Did you watch this movie when you were home not being sick yesterday?
No, I watched like 7 episodes of Friends.
Basically I wanna know if any of these things apply to me. Wondering why I can't get anyone to date me longer than like 3 months. 😕
Some ppl may be afraid to commit esp if they are at an age where the next logical step is marriage and they just don’t know if thats what they want. So they run
Dating more than three months doesn’t mean marriage automatically3 -
Avocado_AS5 wrote: »Avocado_AS5 wrote: »So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?
Did you watch this movie when you were home not being sick yesterday?
No, I watched like 7 episodes of Friends.
Basically I wanna know if any of these things apply to me. Wondering why I can't get anyone to date me longer than like 3 months. 😕
Ain't no cure for the 90 day itch.0 -
Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »Avocado_AS5 wrote: »Avocado_AS5 wrote: »So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?
Did you watch this movie when you were home not being sick yesterday?
No, I watched like 7 episodes of Friends.
Basically I wanna know if any of these things apply to me. Wondering why I can't get anyone to date me longer than like 3 months. 😕
Some ppl may be afraid to commit esp if they are at an age where the next logical step is marriage and they just don’t know if thats what they want. So they run
Most come back around eventually, but by then my interest is gone.0 -
If they don’t like my family or vise versa
No work ethic
No sense of humor
Mocks my music choices2 -
Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »covetthycarbs wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »Avocado_AS5 wrote: »Avocado_AS5 wrote: »So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?
Did you watch this movie when you were home not being sick yesterday?
No, I watched like 7 episodes of Friends.
Basically I wanna know if any of these things apply to me. Wondering why I can't get anyone to date me longer than like 3 months. 😕
Some ppl may be afraid to commit esp if they are at an age where the next logical step is marriage and they just don’t know if thats what they want. So they run
Dating more than three months doesn’t mean marriage automatically
1 -
- if they smoke inside (home or car), infrequently enough that they don't smell like smoked meat is ok
- if they are racist, disrespectful or inconsiderate
- if they want (more) kids
- if they are a Mama's boy (with @justinewillcutyou distinction) - I'm currently trying to raise boys that will be men that love their mom, not men that are controlled by or dependent on their mom
- if there is no chemistry and/or not a match sexually
- if they aren't into ongoing learning/growing as a person
- if they are more than 5 years younger than me or older than my dad
- if they are into consumerism1 -
Not on the dating scene but no brsiners are smoking, inability or unwillingness to think critically, lack if insight or reflection, extreme views, lack of compassion etc. And no open mouthers....just to name a few.1
-
If they're selfish in bed.4
-
Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »covetthycarbs wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »covetthycarbs wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »Avocado_AS5 wrote: »Avocado_AS5 wrote: »So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?
Did you watch this movie when you were home not being sick yesterday?
No, I watched like 7 episodes of Friends.
Basically I wanna know if any of these things apply to me. Wondering why I can't get anyone to date me longer than like 3 months. 😕
Some ppl may be afraid to commit esp if they are at an age where the next logical step is marriage and they just don’t know if thats what they want. So they run
Dating more than three months doesn’t mean marriage automatically
There is no “limit” im just merely quoting what was given to me
My point is, some people date because they are trying to find “the one”. Maybe thats why it didnt last because they realize he/she isnt so they stop persuing after x amount of months or vice versa so they move on to the next
Some people date because they just want to experience as much as possible before settling down. Maybe after x amount of months, they want to experience something new
Some people date not expecting anything serious out of it. When it gets serious they run because thats not what they want and probably intimidated since it gets too serious
There can be hundreds of reasons for why someone would leave or break up and it doesn’t necessary mean its something you did wrong. U know the phrase “ its me, not you?” , its a real thing. Some people just dont have their priorities straight when it comes to dating and they just dont know what they want
Edit* when i said timer i meant to get married, not the months to date
I got your point and I agree. I just thought you meant it was official that it was three months then marriage lol.
I see now1 -
Avocado_AS5 wrote: »So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?
-Smoking
-Bad kissing
-Bad hygiene
-Constantly interrupting me as though nothing I say is important
-Having to repeat myself all the time
-Being very religious - I would be too offensive.
-Doesn't like or want to be around my family
-Wants 2938573945 pets (I love animals, but I don't want pets)
-Wants 29385734063745 kids (I love kids, but I don't want to be pregnant for 20 years)
-Pressure. I am immediately turned off by someone pressuring me to try something I am very against doing.
-Lack of common sense, common courtesy, and chivalry
-Lack of table manners, and manners in general (I dated a guy once, that I swear turned into a cow when it was meal time..... People next door could hear him chew...gross.)
-Lack of respect for others
-Lack of motivation to be better. I am all about bettering myself and my life in as many ways as I can.
-Long fingernails
-No sense of humor. I love to laugh. I want laughter in my life. If I'm not laughing, I'm not sticking around.
Damn...... I'm gonna be single forever. lol6 -
MistressSara wrote: »If I were dating, I'd rule out anyone who mocks or belittles; anyone who sees things as strictly black and white without compassion; pessimists; dreamy-eyed optimists who never do anything to make their dreams happen; people who don't read books; addicts not in recovery...
I guess it's a long list and they're the kinds of things you can't figure out from a questionnaire or a single meeting.
But wouldn't it be cool if you could hand over a questionnaire before the dating? And then if things look good on paper, see if things work in person.....2 -
I would need to get a date first before l can answer this question9
-
@too_much_bacon wrote: »Muffin tops
(like, if they eat the tops and leave me the stump)
Why do you think we would want to eat the stumps!!!
Especially if the tops have the big sugar crystals on top, I will leave you the stump every time.3
Categories
- 1.5M All Categories
- 1.4M Health, Wellness and Goals
- 387.3K Introduce Yourself
- 42.7K Getting Started
- 258.5K Health and Weight Loss
- 174.9K Food and Nutrition
- 47.1K Recipes
- 231.8K Fitness and Exercise
- 318 Sleep, Mindfulness and Overall Wellness
- 6.4K Goal: Maintaining Weight
- 8.4K Goal: Gaining Weight and Body Building
- 152.1K Motivation and Support
- 7.4K Challenges
- 1.2K Debate Club
- 96.1K Chit-Chat
- 2.5K Fun and Games
- 2.2K MyFitnessPal Information
- 20 News and Announcements
- 577 Feature Suggestions and Ideas
- 1.6K MyFitnessPal Tech Support Questions