Let me know you a little better

Finishiitnow
Finishiitnow Posts: 896 Member
For who you are and not for the way my eyes believe the person you are.
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  • DeniseMayree
    DeniseMayree Posts: 133 Member
    amwbox wrote: »
    Movies can easily make me cry.

    Me too...if I dont cry...they make me fall asleep
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  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    edited August 2018
    newmeadow wrote: »
    I don't understand financial security.

    Outside of one committing all
    of one's independent effort to making lots of money, I don't know how on earth people casually get there. Especially I don't know how people afford single family houses with all the unecessasary stuff they fill the houses with.

    For my sister and I, our American Story had us starting from the bottom. Granted, we could have easily tapped our paternal grandfather's friends within the first week of our arrival to ease things for us, as NY wealthy as they are - we chose not to. There is a sense of satisfaction when you reflect on everything you have, a blessing, was a direct result of your own blood, sweat and toil.

    Our saving grace, God gifted, was jumping on the Bitcoin train in the early years. Our long bet, supporting that Bitcoin was going to hit $5000 at the end of 2017. We bet short on oil between 2015-2017. Luck? Yes. Blessings? Definitely.
    newmeadow wrote: »
    Plus two vehicles, vacations, nice clothes, restaurants, tuitions for the kids schooling, latest audio/visual and electronics, etc.

    Some of these aren't bought. My god son receives gadgets we're gifted with from rewards programs and other like perks. Work related skills upgrading seminars and workshops today avails Apple items. We take our products to the Award shows, other vendors gift us too with products ... The very same ones the stars get.
    We're also not opposed to purchasing gently used Motocross bikes, riding gear for him either. We have neighbours who can renew and rebuild just like new, so we don't see why not, most especially if we don't have to pay labour, just materials, if necessary.
    newmeadow wrote: »
    I strongly suspect most financially secure people are helped along by inheritance or some other form of bequeathment which is never discussed or outright denied.

    My mum still controls everything. We refuse to give her the satisfaction, as much as we love her, to take credit for ANYTHING we achieve. We've attended better schools and had dream jobs, without her contacts intervention. It's a different kind of bliss.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    I never grew up dreaming of a big princess wedding, babies or white picket fences.

    Ditto. Just a wedding ceremony. I did want the babies and the wrought iron/stone masonry fenced home.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    I never played with dolls, barbies or stuffed animals growing up.

    Neither. Parents bought us Cabbage Patch, Disney and Stuffed animals to fill our rooms whilst we were at boarding school. Striking it rich late syndrome. Made sense to them. Lol.
  • asuroxychick
    asuroxychick Posts: 4,358 Member
    Exactly! My mammaw was the worst! Lol
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    Some people honestly think something is wrong with me because having children was never my top priority. .

    Ask them what is wrong with them for thinking that foolishness!

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  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    I pretty lazy on my lazy days.
  • bojack5
    bojack5 Posts: 2,859 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    Try affording a place in NYC...:(

    I looked into it in the late 80s, mid 90s and in 2001 prior to 9/11. It was a travesty then and even worse now. Restaurants, museums, celebrity sightings and theatrical productions no longer call me like they once did. The rest of the NYC stuff can be found in any other city.

    My friend just recently bought a 1 bedroom apt 800 square feet for 700k. The prices here r insane

    I need to gtfo of here

    I was your age when I moved up to Westchester....it took a while to adjust, but it is a decision I don't regret. I can still easily commute into the city by car or train, but far enough away that I feel like I'm in paradise when I walk out the door of my house that doesn't cost like 6 million dollars if it was just 35 miles south.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    I can be tough and unyielding when the situation calls for it and I don't suffer fools easily.
    My gut instinct has always served me well.
  • mojo4717
    mojo4717 Posts: 256 Member
    I’ve never lost a fight or an argument

  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    mojo4717 wrote: »
    I’ve never lost a fight or an argument

    Oh yeah.. :p *put ya dukes up* :D
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    mojo4717 wrote: »
    I’ve never lost a fight or an argument

    Agree to disagree. There, draw.
    😋😉
    J/K