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  • Deadman_Diggingup
    Deadman_Diggingup Posts: 3,082 Member
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    I used to be tough on the outside and soft on the inside... now I am soft on the outside and tough on the inside and my life is infinitely better because of it.

    ❤️
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
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    I’m a perfectionist.
    Unfortunately, if I feel I can’t do it perfectly I don’t want to even bother trying.
    I need to get over it.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    edited December 2018
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    I used to be tough on the outside and soft on the inside... now I am soft on the outside and tough on the inside and my life is infinitely better because of it.

    I like this :heart:

    But one can be soft on the inside and still strong...

    Me 🤷🏽‍♂️😂
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
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    I used to be tough on the outside and soft on the inside... now I am soft on the outside and tough on the inside and my life is infinitely better because of it.

    You know what else is tough on the outside and soft on the inside? a lindt truffle

    and I ate about 10 of them this morning while delivering them to clients... no regrets :)

  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
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    I used to be tough on the outside and soft on the inside... now I am soft on the outside and tough on the inside and my life is infinitely better because of it.

    I like this :heart:

    But one can be soft on the inside and still strong...

    Me 🤷🏽‍♂️😂

    I agree... let me rephrase this so that semantics don't get in the way of my sentiments here. I used to put up a wall to protect my vulnerable nature in an effort to control the outcome... as if I didn't trust my ability to handle my own emotions. Now, I am comfortable with my vulnerability and I even welcome it, all while knowing that I am in full control of my emotional state. None of this means I am unfeeling, in fact its quite the opposite. I am still a very deep feeling person... I am just no longer afraid of it. In a way, I feel limitless and untouchable... not because limits don't exist or that I cannot be hurt, but because I know I will survive and even thrive, either way :)

    I need to learn this. <3
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
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    For who you are and not for the way my eyes believe the person you are.

    I am the thing that is stuff, but not the person that does the information.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,440 Member
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    I don't know who I am anymore and I have more hate and anger in my heart than I've ever had.

    I don't know what a regular friendship is like anymore.

    I often crave attention, but then when I get it, I'm instantly skeptical.

    I get jealous of the way some people talk to others on here. Especially when it's things nobody has or will ever say to me.

    When I post a picture, it's because I'm feeling good about myself, but nearly every time, it ends in me feeling bad. Then I do it again.

    There you go. More honesty. I know I'm a mess.

    Hugs Tj.. 🙂 it's not much, but it's heartfelt.
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    edited December 2018
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    Although we traded letters and had a couple phone conversations,
    my biological mother passed away before I could meet her.
    We shared the same handwriting, love of animals, vices, made similar life choices and I look exactly like her.
    My biological father on the other hand I have met.
    I look nothing like him and we have completely opposite ways of seeing the world.
    I have half siblings, none of which have shown any desire to meet.
    I’m okay with it.



  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    I used to be tough on the outside and soft on the inside... now I am soft on the outside and tough on the inside and my life is infinitely better because of it.

    I like this :heart:

    But one can be soft on the inside and still strong...

    Me 🤷🏽‍♂️😂

    I agree... let me rephrase this so that semantics don't get in the way of my sentiments here. I used to put up a wall to protect my vulnerable nature in an effort to control the outcome... as if I didn't trust my ability to handle my own emotions. Now, I am comfortable with my vulnerability and I even welcome it, all while knowing that I am in full control of my emotional state. None of this means I am unfeeling, in fact its quite the opposite. I am still a very deep feeling person... I am just no longer afraid of it. In a way, I feel limitless and untouchable... not because limits don't exist or that I cannot be hurt, but because I know I will survive and even thrive, either way :)

    Love it when you get all eloquent :kissing_heart:
  • Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings
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    I used to be tough on the outside and soft on the inside... now I am soft on the outside and tough on the inside and my life is infinitely better because of it.

    I like this :heart:

    But one can be soft on the inside and still strong...

    Me 🤷🏽‍♂️😂

    I agree... let me rephrase this so that semantics don't get in the way of my sentiments here. I used to put up a wall to protect my vulnerable nature in an effort to control the outcome... as if I didn't trust my ability to handle my own emotions. Now, I am comfortable with my vulnerability and I even welcome it, all while knowing that I am in full control of my emotional state. None of this means I am unfeeling, in fact its quite the opposite. I am still a very deep feeling person... I am just no longer afraid of it. In a way, I feel limitless and untouchable... not because limits don't exist or that I cannot be hurt, but because I know I will survive and even thrive, either way :)

    Love it when you get all eloquent :kissing_heart:

    Sounds like you need me to explain it again ;)
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
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    I used to be tough on the outside and soft on the inside... now I am soft on the outside and tough on the inside and my life is infinitely better because of it.

    I like this :heart:

    But one can be soft on the inside and still strong...

    Me 🤷🏽‍♂️😂

    I agree... let me rephrase this so that semantics don't get in the way of my sentiments here. I used to put up a wall to protect my vulnerable nature in an effort to control the outcome... as if I didn't trust my ability to handle my own emotions. Now, I am comfortable with my vulnerability and I even welcome it, all while knowing that I am in full control of my emotional state. None of this means I am unfeeling, in fact its quite the opposite. I am still a very deep feeling person... I am just no longer afraid of it. In a way, I feel limitless and untouchable... not because limits don't exist or that I cannot be hurt, but because I know I will survive and even thrive, either way :)

    Love it when you get all eloquent :kissing_heart:

    Sounds like you need me to explain it again ;)

    Couldn't hurt... ❤️

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  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
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    I don't know who I am anymore and I have more hate and anger in my heart than I've ever had.

    I don't know what a regular friendship is like anymore.

    I often crave attention, but then when I get it, I'm instantly skeptical.

    This is SO me!

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  • elsie6hickman
    elsie6hickman Posts: 3,864 Member
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    I made gratitude my watchword for 2018. It has left me feeling peaceful and happy, because I finally realize how blessed I am. Haven't picked a word for 2019 yet.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
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    I love birds so much. Here is my Sweetpea waving.

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