What made you suddenly lose interest in someone you were pursuing?
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peaceout_aly wrote: »Oh I lost interest REALLY quick when someone HURT my animals...all of them. One after the other each animal kept having really weird stuff happen to them (i.e. bruises on the ears, "running into a table leg" causing a brain bleed) and it turns out it was just this douche bag purposefully hurting the animals because they annoyed him. Kicked him to the curb real quick. And then met the LOML who is a total animal person just like me Now the animals get treated like royalty to the point where when we move into our new home they get their own "suite" ahahah
WTF? Omg this makes my blood boil.1 -
When she started sucking another dudes hang-dang, I was pretty sure it was time to move on.2
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when she posted a pic kissing another guy. I think im plagued to remain single lol4
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When he ignored me suddenly for no reason.4
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When she stopped shaving her mustache!1
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But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.
Why didn't you just communicate?
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capnrus789 wrote: »When she started sucking another dudes hang-dang, I was pretty sure it was time to move on.
Hang-dang 😅0 -
I can’t handle people who expect you to hop on to their pity party the second something goes wrong. Or who always have to be right. If you can’t admit when you’re wrong, they you need to grow up before trying to deal someone else into your life.0
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bhadbahabi wrote: »Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.
I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .7 -
Cameron_1969 wrote: »bhadbahabi wrote: »Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.
I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .
Dis me0 -
caco_ethes wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »bhadbahabi wrote: »Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.
I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .
Dis me
But. . but. .why!?0 -
Her parole officer.0
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Cameron_1969 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »bhadbahabi wrote: »Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.
I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .
Dis me
But. . but. .why!?
I like a persistent man who can push through the unpleasantness in a relationship3 -
Okay, I am starting to worry about my lack of recent practice in the kissing department. This may severely limit my chances of ever having a relationship. I need kisses!!!!2
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All she ever wanted to do is Kiss I wanted and needed more!0
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I gave him my number and he didn't call.0
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Versicolour wrote: »Okay, I am starting to worry about my lack of recent practice in the kissing department. This may severely limit my chances of ever having a relationship. I need kisses!!!!
ME TOO!!1 -
bhadbahabi wrote: »Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.
This reminds me of my first kiss.. gross.2 -
IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.
Why didn't you just communicate?
I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise1 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.
Why didn't you just communicate?
I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise
That's true. She totally kept me inside.1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »bhadbahabi wrote: »Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.
I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .
Dis me
But. . but. .why!?
I like a persistent man who can push through the unpleasantness in a relationship
It's not so much unpleasant as just plain yucky. . And people don't become better kissers. . It's like hoping someone's big feet to get smaller. .1 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.
Why didn't you just communicate?
I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise
I think it's necessary to either figure out a solution, or to figure out if there is no solution, and time to move on. Either way, communicate.
Brings me to the other reason I'd lose interest. If she turns into a ghost. F that! I will lose all respect for someone who turns into a ghost.
Love never dies, bubbe. Love never dies.
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Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.
Why didn't you just communicate?
I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise
I think it's necessary to either figure out a solution, or to figure out if there is no solution, and time to move on. Either way, communicate.
Brings me to the other reason I'd lose interest. If she turns into a ghost. F that! I will lose all respect for someone who turns into a ghost.
Love never dies, bubbe. Love never dies.
I knew there was someone you reminded me of Swanny.. it's Peter Griffin!1 -
Cameron_1969 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »bhadbahabi wrote: »Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.
I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .
Dis me
But. . but. .why!?
I like a persistent man who can push through the unpleasantness in a relationship
It's not so much unpleasant as just plain yucky. . And people don't become better kissers. . It's like hoping someone's big feet to get smaller. .
How is this possible? Is everyone born with a certain level of talent for kissing and that's all they and their partner can ever hope for, or expect?
I call shenanigans. No way this is true. People can get better at just about anything.
I think kissing has other pieces involved besides ability...thin lips/thick lips, big tongue/little tongue, funky teeth/ no teeth, previous partners kissing style...and those things can effect how compatible you are as a kisser...so maybe compatibility not ability0 -
Cameron_1969 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »Cameron_1969 wrote: »bhadbahabi wrote: »Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.
I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .
Dis me
But. . but. .why!?
I like a persistent man who can push through the unpleasantness in a relationship
It's not so much unpleasant as just plain yucky. . And people don't become better kissers. . It's like hoping someone's big feet to get smaller. .
How is this possible? Is everyone born with a certain level of talent for kissing and that's all they and their partner can ever hope for, or expect?
I call shenanigans. No way this is true. People can get better at just about anything.
I think everyone has a style, and most people prefer their partner to have the same or similar style.
People can adjust their style to suit their partner. But some people don't or won't adjust and they become the "bad kisser".
Or they go in crazy from the beginning, and try to gnaw on your chin or something..... to me, that's a bad kisser. And there is no coming back from that.1 -
You feel it in his kiss... always in his kiss.1
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Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »You feel it in his kiss... always in his kiss.
That's where it is. Oh yeah
Gonna have that song stuck in my head now..... lol0 -
Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »Bullet_with_Butterfly_Wings wrote: »IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.
Why didn't you just communicate?
I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise
I think it's necessary to either figure out a solution, or to figure out if there is no solution, and time to move on. Either way, communicate.
Brings me to the other reason I'd lose interest. If she turns into a ghost. F that! I will lose all respect for someone who turns into a ghost.
Love never dies, bubbe. Love never dies.
I knew there was someone you reminded me of Swanny.. it's Peter Griffin!
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