What made you suddenly lose interest in someone you were pursuing?

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  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    shaf238 wrote: »
    No passion about anything. Like, no hobbies or interests. No desire to do anything active. Not even enthusiastic about their job. Just "existing".

    I hate this.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    Oh I lost interest REALLY quick when someone HURT my animals...all of them. One after the other each animal kept having really weird stuff happen to them (i.e. bruises on the ears, "running into a table leg" causing a brain bleed) and it turns out it was just this douche bag purposefully hurting the animals because they annoyed him. Kicked him to the curb real quick. And then met the LOML who is a total animal person just like me :) Now the animals get treated like royalty to the point where when we move into our new home they get their own "suite" ahahah

    WTF? Omg this makes my blood boil.
  • capnrus789
    capnrus789 Posts: 2,736 Member
    When she started sucking another dudes hang-dang, I was pretty sure it was time to move on.
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  • THS2HASPASSED
    THS2HASPASSED Posts: 1,055 Member
    when she posted a pic kissing another guy. I think im plagued to remain single lol
  • Ironlady70
    Ironlady70 Posts: 777 Member
    When he ignored me suddenly for no reason.
  • epr3996
    epr3996 Posts: 2,719 Member
    When she stopped shaving her mustache!
  • IHaveMyActTogether
    IHaveMyActTogether Posts: 945 Member
    But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.

    Why didn't you just communicate?
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    capnrus789 wrote: »
    When she started sucking another dudes hang-dang, I was pretty sure it was time to move on.

    Hang-dang 😅
  • AmberGlitterSparkles
    AmberGlitterSparkles Posts: 699 Member
    I can’t handle people who expect you to hop on to their pity party the second something goes wrong. Or who always have to be right. If you can’t admit when you’re wrong, they you need to grow up before trying to deal someone else into your life.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    bhadbahabi wrote: »
    Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.


    I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .

    Dis me
  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,855 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    bhadbahabi wrote: »
    Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.


    I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .

    Dis me

    But. . but. .why!?
  • brian_w7
    brian_w7 Posts: 186 Member
    Her parole officer.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    bhadbahabi wrote: »
    Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.


    I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .

    Dis me

    But. . but. .why!?

    I like a persistent man who can push through the unpleasantness in a relationship
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
    Okay, I am starting to worry about my lack of recent practice in the kissing department. This may severely limit my chances of ever having a relationship. I need kisses!!!!
  • epr3996
    epr3996 Posts: 2,719 Member
    All she ever wanted to do is Kiss I wanted and needed more!
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    I gave him my number and he didn't call.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    Okay, I am starting to worry about my lack of recent practice in the kissing department. This may severely limit my chances of ever having a relationship. I need kisses!!!!

    ME TOO!! :*
  • bhadbahabi wrote: »
    Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.

    This reminds me of my first kiss.. gross.
  • But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.

    Why didn't you just communicate?

    I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.

    Why didn't you just communicate?

    I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise

    That's true. She totally kept me inside.
  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,855 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    bhadbahabi wrote: »
    Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.


    I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .

    Dis me

    But. . but. .why!?

    I like a persistent man who can push through the unpleasantness in a relationship

    It's not so much unpleasant as just plain yucky. . And people don't become better kissers. . It's like hoping someone's big feet to get smaller. .
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    denny_mac wrote: »
    But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.

    Why didn't you just communicate?

    I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise

    I think it's necessary to either figure out a solution, or to figure out if there is no solution, and time to move on. Either way, communicate.

    Brings me to the other reason I'd lose interest. If she turns into a ghost. F that! I will lose all respect for someone who turns into a ghost.

    Love never dies, bubbe. Love never dies.

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  • SwannySez wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.

    Why didn't you just communicate?

    I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise

    I think it's necessary to either figure out a solution, or to figure out if there is no solution, and time to move on. Either way, communicate.

    Brings me to the other reason I'd lose interest. If she turns into a ghost. F that! I will lose all respect for someone who turns into a ghost.

    Love never dies, bubbe. Love never dies.

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    I knew there was someone you reminded me of Swanny.. it's Peter Griffin! :D
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    denny_mac wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    bhadbahabi wrote: »
    Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.


    I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .

    Dis me

    But. . but. .why!?

    I like a persistent man who can push through the unpleasantness in a relationship

    It's not so much unpleasant as just plain yucky. . And people don't become better kissers. . It's like hoping someone's big feet to get smaller. .

    How is this possible? Is everyone born with a certain level of talent for kissing and that's all they and their partner can ever hope for, or expect?

    I call shenanigans. No way this is true. People can get better at just about anything.

    I think kissing has other pieces involved besides ability...thin lips/thick lips, big tongue/little tongue, funky teeth/ no teeth, previous partners kissing style...and those things can effect how compatible you are as a kisser...so maybe compatibility not ability
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    denny_mac wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    bhadbahabi wrote: »
    Bad kissers. This one guy just kept thrusting his tongue into my mouth like a wiener and I was not partial to it, not one bit.


    I once "kissed" a girl who tilted her head back, closed her eyes, then simply opened her mouth and left it like that. . it was like trying to kiss someone while they were passed out in the dentist chair with that jaw-prop thing in their mouth. .

    Dis me

    But. . but. .why!?

    I like a persistent man who can push through the unpleasantness in a relationship

    It's not so much unpleasant as just plain yucky. . And people don't become better kissers. . It's like hoping someone's big feet to get smaller. .

    How is this possible? Is everyone born with a certain level of talent for kissing and that's all they and their partner can ever hope for, or expect?

    I call shenanigans. No way this is true. People can get better at just about anything.

    I think everyone has a style, and most people prefer their partner to have the same or similar style.
    People can adjust their style to suit their partner. But some people don't or won't adjust and they become the "bad kisser".
    Or they go in crazy from the beginning, and try to gnaw on your chin or something..... to me, that's a bad kisser. And there is no coming back from that.
  • You feel it in his kiss... always in his kiss.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    edited August 2018
    You feel it in his kiss... always in his kiss.

    That's where it is. Oh yeah



    Gonna have that song stuck in my head now..... lol
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    SwannySez wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    But....you guys said, communication solves EVERYTHING.

    Why didn't you just communicate?

    I don't believe communication solves everything, but it is certainly a good starting point. Admittedly, I'm not always the best communicator as I tend to hold things inside... but I do feel it is crucial for every type of relationship... romantic or otherwise

    I think it's necessary to either figure out a solution, or to figure out if there is no solution, and time to move on. Either way, communicate.

    Brings me to the other reason I'd lose interest. If she turns into a ghost. F that! I will lose all respect for someone who turns into a ghost.

    Love never dies, bubbe. Love never dies.

    tenor.gif?itemid=10517390

    I knew there was someone you reminded me of Swanny.. it's Peter Griffin! :D

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