What made you suddenly lose interest in someone you were pursuing?
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Or 3 Doors Down.0
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She was a Nickelback fan.
JK.
Actually she turned out to be a smoker. Deal breaker for me.1 -
Another one hated children.0
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Wears shorts and t-shirts in Jan. In 14 degree weather.0
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She wanted a relationship and went back to her boyfriend
(☞ﾟ∀ﾟ)☞0 -
Bad kissing. Went on a date and it went well. He was super nice and friendly and genuine. End of the night, and he kissed me. Thought it would be a nice small kiss, but no. Pretty sure he was trying to suck on my whole face at once. It was awful, and I had to fight for air, and to get out of his arms (he was a lot larger than me). Needless to say, we never, ever, ever, ever went out again......
Also, constant interruptions. Another time I was out with a guy and he would ask me something. As I am responding, he interrupts with something related or unrelated. Didn't matter. Whatever I said didn't even reach his ears. It was all about him. It happens a lot with me... not just with dates either. Makes me not want to talk to people.3 -
bad breath/smelly ...
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I realized they were too good for me.
I realized I had no chance with them.
I realized they were engaged.
Take your pick...2 -
Bad sword fighter2
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IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »
In reality, or in my own perception?
People who think highly of themselves will never understand it.
People who don't know exactly what I mean.
It kind of goes back to the 8-10 thread and the out of your league thread.0 -
i know iv been big on the clingy thing but- Expects me to change. I dont date easily if i agree to the title its been some solid time and getting to know eachother. Why would the title then mean i have to suddenly make time for you ALWAYS and why would you expect me to change....You know i disappear some nights into my loner bubble after a long days work...You know im watching netflix and talking to no one, So why it suddenly seems people think i must be off at bars cheating or something because they are now my partner..? Or that im suddenly just going to happily be around them always.2
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IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »
In reality, or in my own perception?
People who think highly of themselves will never understand it.
People who don't know exactly what I mean.
It kind of goes back to the 8-10 thread and the out of your league thread.
I think you are a pretty cool guy. And from what I have seen you score pretty highly on the rating scale0 -
IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »
In reality, or in my own perception?
People who think highly of themselves will never understand it.
People who don't know exactly what I mean.
It kind of goes back to the 8-10 thread and the out of your league thread.
I just don't get it. If you think they are so great, why wouldn't you be happy you snagged them?
Just explain one situation you had where you lost interest because you thought they were too good for you. To me, that's like winning the lottery and not being happy about it.
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IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »
In reality, or in my own perception?
People who think highly of themselves will never understand it.
People who don't know exactly what I mean.
It kind of goes back to the 8-10 thread and the out of your league thread.
I think you are a pretty cool guy. And from what I have seen you score pretty highly on the rating scale
Thank you.
My self-image has changed a bit over the last decade or so, but it's not been a full 180.
That's also part of the reason I like on-line interactions - easier to hide parts of me I'm not so proud of.
Depression has been, for me, like alcoholism for some... even if you aren't consumed by it, it's always there, lurking in the depths, waiting to reappear.9 -
IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »
In reality, or in my own perception?
People who think highly of themselves will never understand it.
People who don't know exactly what I mean.
It kind of goes back to the 8-10 thread and the out of your league thread.
I think you are a pretty cool guy. And from what I have seen you score pretty highly on the rating scale
Definitely agree with this!
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IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »
In reality, or in my own perception?
People who think highly of themselves will never understand it.
People who don't know exactly what I mean.
It kind of goes back to the 8-10 thread and the out of your league thread.
I just don't get it. If you think they are so great, why wouldn't you be happy you snagged them?
Just explain one situation you had where you lost interest because you thought they were too good for you. To me, that's like winning the lottery and not being happy about it.
Why chase something you don't believe you can catch?
Maybe it's a wording issue - it's not so much that I lost interest in them, it's that I didn't think I could win the chase. So I gave up on what I thought to be a losing battle.2 -
IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »
In reality, or in my own perception?
People who think highly of themselves will never understand it.
People who don't know exactly what I mean.
It kind of goes back to the 8-10 thread and the out of your league thread.
I just don't get it. If you think they are so great, why wouldn't you be happy you snagged them?
Just explain one situation you had where you lost interest because you thought they were too good for you. To me, that's like winning the lottery and not being happy about it.
Why chase something you don't believe you can catch?
Maybe it's a wording issue - it's not so much that I lost interest in them, it's that I didn't think I could win the chase. So I gave up on what I thought to be a losing battle.
Oh yeah, I have done that. I figure he wouldn't be interested anyway, and if he was, it wouldn't last more than 5 seconds before he found someone better.
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