What made you suddenly lose interest in someone you were pursuing?

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  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,365 Member
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    He drank too much, way too often.

    Then there's the guy who made a pass at a friend's 12 yo daughter. *kitten* no.
  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
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    pudgy1977 wrote: »
    JaydedMiss wrote: »
    pudgy1977 wrote: »
    @JaydedMiss - I can NOT do clingy or needy. The last guy I dated used to text every morning to ask if he could bring me coffee. Cute at first...not after week 26. And if I said I was too busy, his immediate response was, well when can I see you then.
    Sometimes I just don't wanna see your face, is that so wrong?

    ya its like....i love when you do cute things for me. Its cute. The guy thats around me right now stands no chance and i feel bad because hes super sweet...But he keeps trying to buy me things and be around me all the time and im here like O_O Im so sorry your so nice but your so passive and needy and im not it will never work >.< He picks up literally every chance to try and see me. Im glad someone understands because i feel like a *kitten* xD I work a very dirty tough job, No i dnt want to see you every night i want to see no one i want to sit in bed and wind down alone. When clingy is mixed with the passiveness i pointed out above its a TERRIBLE mix

    ChaelAZ wrote: »
    She had bigger junk than me.

    Found out the HARD way.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4_Bxqp2tQU

    Yesss! Feels like work after a while.

    Maybe I’ll just date you

    :*
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,864 Member
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    _Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »
    I was with my ex husband for 20 years so I'm just starting to date, I imagine I'll be the one screwing things up.

    Things that would make me lose interrest in someone : -someone who's too clingy
    -if I felt like i was the only one putting effort and didn't feel like the other person meet me half way.

    ...or if they post Chicago songs to the song thread.
  • ChaelAZ
    ChaelAZ Posts: 2,240 Member
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    Treats anyone as a lesser person.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    ChaelAZ wrote: »
    She had bigger junk than me.

    Found out the HARD way.

    How Hard?
  • JeromeBarry1
    JeromeBarry1 Posts: 10,182 Member
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    Right cross to the eye.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
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    In the past, I found out a guy I was talking to was married and I immediately left him alone.
    I also lose interest if I suspect they are dating other people and we have been on more than few dates.
  • IHaveMyActTogether
    IHaveMyActTogether Posts: 945 Member
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    jillstreett wrote: »
    He talked a big game about wanting a real relationship and was a genuinely nice and gentle guy but, 6-7 weeks later, still had not taken me on a real date, still didn't know anything about me (we are talking almost 2 months of "hanging out" and he still didn't know what I went to college for or how many siblings I had or what I did for work.) A couple other things that just made me notice he wasn't the one. I just didn't have the butterflies and when I was traveling one weekend, that's when I realized it wouldn't work because I wasn't excited to share my fun weekend with him. I want someone to share everything with and he wasn't it, and that's okay, but still hate breaking it off with someone who finally showed that there are nice guys out there :(


    I saw this and nearly peed my pants. Your post reminded me of it:


    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3MSRu9CfNCY
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
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    _Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »
    CoffeeAndContour wrote: »
    When he snapped his fingers at the waitress. I left right then.

    Definitely a deal breaker, I used to be a bartender when I was in university and there's nothing more insulting.

    Tell half the universe that.

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  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
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    Somebody who never offers anything in return emotionally or intellectually. Uhh I can't carry the weight of all the feels or be the brains 24/7.
  • goodweighthunting
    goodweighthunting Posts: 13 Member
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    They were running too fast
  • debrakgoogins
    debrakgoogins Posts: 2,034 Member
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    Not someone I was pursuing but I always wondered about my first real love and "what if". I later found out he was in a struggling band and kept his mullet until way past it was cool. He was also a stay at home dad so he could make his band work out. Nothing wrong with stay at home dads if it works for the family but his reasoning seemed super off putting. I never wondered "what if" again.
  • IHaveMyActTogether
    IHaveMyActTogether Posts: 945 Member
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    81Katz wrote: »
    Somebody who never offers anything in return emotionally or intellectually. Uhh I can't carry the weight of all the feels or be the brains 24/7.

    :D:D
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
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    If they listen to Creed.
    Bye ... 😂
  • IHaveMyActTogether
    IHaveMyActTogether Posts: 945 Member
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    debrakgoogins wrote: »
    Not someone I was pursuing but I always wondered about my first real love and "what if". I later found out he was in a struggling band and kept his mullet until way past it was cool. He was also a stay at home dad so he could make his band work out. Nothing wrong with stay at home dads if it works for the family but his reasoning seemed super off putting. I never wondered "what if" again.

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