What made you suddenly lose interest in someone you were pursuing?
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They identified as a woman....but was not physically a woman.14
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They lost interest in me. I have no problem pursuing but when it's not reciprocated, I'm out.11
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They identified as a woman....but was not physically a woman.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W2HwKnMacNA 2 -
Generally when they become to clingy and wont leave me alone ever. Sometimes i just dont want to hear from you all the time...Leave me alone to binge watch my netflix. Stop texting me always. I know it sounds backwards but when people spend way to much energy trying to impress me/be around me all the time i cringe away quickly.
I once lost interest in a guy i thought was so hot after a few months because he started talking to me about going on a lemon juice and water cleanse for a few weeks. Tried to talk to him about exercising with me and ill show him how to eat but he said he knew beter. For what its worth he went from being sexy and fit and now hes fat and balding. Overall general crazy thoughts and an inability to logically look at things and discuss them turns me right off of a person.
My ex lost his job and was showing very little interest in anything adult in life at all...no desire to get another job just wanted to sit around getting drunk and eating all day. We broke up fast. If you cant be a productive adult when your fully capable of being a productive adult and you choose to stew in your self made mess unwilling to pull yourself up. Sorry but i can only try to motivate you for so long before you drag me down to and im out.
May be a little less fun of answers thn you hoped for xD I guess i know what i dont like hah
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Bad kisser. Deal breaker.3
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I found out they were married. I don't share12
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@JaydedMiss - I can NOT do clingy or needy. The last guy I dated used to text every morning to ask if he could bring me coffee. Cute at first...not after week 26. And if I said I was too busy, his immediate response was, well when can I see you then.
Sometimes I just don't wanna see your face, is that so wrong?7 -
She would text back and showed interest. But when it came time to plan to meet up - there was always something going on in her life.
I've since learned that a woman will make time for you if she really wants to.11 -
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oh snap. Also when people are super passive. Its obvious they want something from me...like to meet up...but instead of just saying hey lets meet up...for example...I said i needed to go to the mall and instead of asking if he can come he said "ya i need to go to the mall myself" cool okay...but then for every day multiple times a day hed bring up that he should go to the mall....but never did...because i didnt bite and say lets go together.....so cringy and painfully obvious. Why not just say lets go...
Side note...that story ended with us at the mall...and he got nothing. He didnt even fake need anything. After mentioning he needed to go 3 times a day for a good 3 days before i got annoyed and just said fine lets go -.-2 -
She had bigger junk than me.
Found out the HARD way.5 -
@JaydedMiss - I can NOT do clingy or needy. The last guy I dated used to text every morning to ask if he could bring me coffee. Cute at first...not after week 26. And if I said I was too busy, his immediate response was, well when can I see you then.
Sometimes I just don't wanna see your face, is that so wrong?
ya its like....i love when you do cute things for me. Its cute. The guy thats around me right now stands no chance and i feel bad because hes super sweet...But he keeps trying to buy me things and be around me all the time and im here like O_O Im so sorry your so nice but your so passive and needy and im not it will never work >.< He picks up literally every chance to try and see me. Im glad someone understands because i feel like a *kitten* xD I work a very dirty tough job, No i dnt want to see you every night i want to see no one i want to sit in bed and wind down alone. When clingy is mixed with the passiveness i pointed out above its a TERRIBLE mixShe had bigger junk than me.
Found out the HARD way.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4_Bxqp2tQU 1 -
He talked a big game about wanting a real relationship and was a genuinely nice and gentle guy but, 6-7 weeks later, still had not taken me on a real date, still didn't know anything about me (we are talking almost 2 months of "hanging out" and he still didn't know what I went to college for or how many siblings I had or what I did for work.) A couple other things that just made me notice he wasn't the one. I just didn't have the butterflies and when I was traveling one weekend, that's when I realized it wouldn't work because I wasn't excited to share my fun weekend with him. I want someone to share everything with and he wasn't it, and that's okay, but still hate breaking it off with someone who finally showed that there are nice guys out there
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Bad driving would be instant drop.0
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He had horrible grammar despite being extremely clean cut and good looking. As soon as he started talking and sounded like he came straight from one of the inbreds from The Hills Have Eyes, I was out.7
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RunHardBeStrong wrote: »He had horrible grammar despite being extremely clean cut and good looking. As soon as he started talking and sounded like he came straight from one of the inbreds from The Hills Have Eyes, I was out.
You shore gots a purdy mouf.3 -
he told me he wanted to sleep w men. blood went cold. end of that.0
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She became a Beachbody coach.9
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JaydedMiss wrote: »@JaydedMiss - I can NOT do clingy or needy. The last guy I dated used to text every morning to ask if he could bring me coffee. Cute at first...not after week 26. And if I said I was too busy, his immediate response was, well when can I see you then.
Sometimes I just don't wanna see your face, is that so wrong?
ya its like....i love when you do cute things for me. Its cute. The guy thats around me right now stands no chance and i feel bad because hes super sweet...But he keeps trying to buy me things and be around me all the time and im here like O_O Im so sorry your so nice but your so passive and needy and im not it will never work >.< He picks up literally every chance to try and see me. Im glad someone understands because i feel like a *kitten* xD I work a very dirty tough job, No i dnt want to see you every night i want to see no one i want to sit in bed and wind down alone. When clingy is mixed with the passiveness i pointed out above its a TERRIBLE mixShe had bigger junk than me.
Found out the HARD way.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4_Bxqp2tQU
Yesss! Feels like work after a while.
Maybe I’ll just date you2 -
He drank too much, way too often.
Then there's the guy who made a pass at a friend's 12 yo daughter. *kitten* no.1 -
JaydedMiss wrote: »@JaydedMiss - I can NOT do clingy or needy. The last guy I dated used to text every morning to ask if he could bring me coffee. Cute at first...not after week 26. And if I said I was too busy, his immediate response was, well when can I see you then.
Sometimes I just don't wanna see your face, is that so wrong?
ya its like....i love when you do cute things for me. Its cute. The guy thats around me right now stands no chance and i feel bad because hes super sweet...But he keeps trying to buy me things and be around me all the time and im here like O_O Im so sorry your so nice but your so passive and needy and im not it will never work >.< He picks up literally every chance to try and see me. Im glad someone understands because i feel like a *kitten* xD I work a very dirty tough job, No i dnt want to see you every night i want to see no one i want to sit in bed and wind down alone. When clingy is mixed with the passiveness i pointed out above its a TERRIBLE mixShe had bigger junk than me.
Found out the HARD way.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4_Bxqp2tQU
Yesss! Feels like work after a while.
Maybe I’ll just date you
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_Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »I was with my ex husband for 20 years so I'm just starting to date, I imagine I'll be the one screwing things up.
Things that would make me lose interrest in someone : -someone who's too clingy
-if I felt like i was the only one putting effort and didn't feel like the other person meet me half way.
...or if they post Chicago songs to the song thread.2 -
Treats anyone as a lesser person.4
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Right cross to the eye.0
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In the past, I found out a guy I was talking to was married and I immediately left him alone.
I also lose interest if I suspect they are dating other people and we have been on more than few dates.0 -
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jillstreett wrote: »He talked a big game about wanting a real relationship and was a genuinely nice and gentle guy but, 6-7 weeks later, still had not taken me on a real date, still didn't know anything about me (we are talking almost 2 months of "hanging out" and he still didn't know what I went to college for or how many siblings I had or what I did for work.) A couple other things that just made me notice he wasn't the one. I just didn't have the butterflies and when I was traveling one weekend, that's when I realized it wouldn't work because I wasn't excited to share my fun weekend with him. I want someone to share everything with and he wasn't it, and that's okay, but still hate breaking it off with someone who finally showed that there are nice guys out there
I saw this and nearly peed my pants. Your post reminded me of it:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3MSRu9CfNCY
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