Sorry babe. That's a deal-breaker

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  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    If he is not slimmer than me, it is a dealbreaker. I like my guys lean.

    If he doesn’t like my birds, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he’s a hardcore meat eater and not at least open minded to a pescatarian or plant based lifestyle, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he doesn’t believe in marriage or want kids it is a dealbreaker.

    You drive a hard bargain

    I don’t feel like I ask for too much. I offer a lot. But I know not everyone likes birds or eats the way I do.

    I love birds, but i dont think ive ever met a person who eats like i do.... if i was looking for someone with a like minded diet i think the search would be hopeless.

    This became an issue for me recently because all the meat eaters I was dating gave me a hard time about my diet ways.

    Well i think that is less a problem with difference of diet and more of a respect issue.

    I agree but also find it harder to do simple things like make a meal together or go out to eat when our dietary preferences are very different.
  • bojack5
    bojack5 Posts: 2,859 Member
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    If he is not slimmer than me, it is a dealbreaker. I like my guys lean.

    If he doesn’t like my birds, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he’s a hardcore meat eater and not at least open minded to a pescatarian or plant based lifestyle, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he doesn’t believe in marriage or want kids it is a dealbreaker.

    You drive a hard bargain

    I don’t feel like I ask for too much. I offer a lot. But I know not everyone likes birds or eats the way I do.

    I love birds, but i dont think ive ever met a person who eats like i do.... if i was looking for someone with a like minded diet i think the search would be hopeless.

    This became an issue for me recently because all the meat eaters I was dating gave me a hard time about my diet ways.

    Well i think that is less a problem with difference of diet and more of a respect issue.

    I agree but also find it harder to do simple things like make a meal together or go out to eat when our dietary preferences are very different.

    I can see that. While i would never even consider being a vegetarian, it does not disgust me the way they eat. I think it is much harder for a vegetarian to not be turned off by meat eaters, especially if their diet choice is one brought upon by their moral stance.
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    If he is not slimmer than me, it is a dealbreaker. I like my guys lean.

    If he doesn’t like my birds, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he’s a hardcore meat eater and not at least open minded to a pescatarian or plant based lifestyle, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he doesn’t believe in marriage or want kids it is a dealbreaker.

    You drive a hard bargain

    I don’t feel like I ask for too much. I offer a lot. But I know not everyone likes birds or eats the way I do.

    I love birds, but i dont think ive ever met a person who eats like i do.... if i was looking for someone with a like minded diet i think the search would be hopeless.

    This became an issue for me recently because all the meat eaters I was dating gave me a hard time about my diet ways.

    Well i think that is less a problem with difference of diet and more of a respect issue.

    I agree but also find it harder to do simple things like make a meal together or go out to eat when our dietary preferences are very different.

    I can see that. While i would never even consider being a vegetarian, it does not disgust me the way they eat. I think it is much harder for a vegetarian to not be turned off by meat eaters, especially if their diet choice is one brought upon by their moral stance.

    I agree with this.

    I try not to eat red meat, but when I do the carnage is appalling, barbaric, fiendish & primal.

    ...... a true blood letting.

    (And that's just Taco Tuesday)
  • Abs_magee89
    Abs_magee89 Posts: 127 Member
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    If he is not slimmer than me, it is a dealbreaker. I like my guys lean.

    If he doesn’t like my birds, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he’s a hardcore meat eater and not at least open minded to a pescatarian or plant based lifestyle, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he doesn’t believe in marriage or want kids it is a dealbreaker.

    You drive a hard bargain

    I don’t feel like I ask for too much. I offer a lot. But I know not everyone likes birds or eats the way I do.

    I love birds, but i dont think ive ever met a person who eats like i do.... if i was looking for someone with a like minded diet i think the search would be hopeless.

    This became an issue for me recently because all the meat eaters I was dating gave me a hard time about my diet ways.

    I hugged this. I've always been worried that if i got into a relationship with a vegan or vegetarian, they'd be the ones giving me a hard time for eating meat.

    My husband eats meat and so does my daughter. I’ve been vegan for 4 years and it’s rarely been a problem in our relationship. People who get all preachy and sanctimonious about veganism would be that way about whatever cause they feel they are fighting for. It’s not a lifestyle issue, it’s their personality. And you can weed those people out pretty quick.

  • Abs_magee89
    Abs_magee89 Posts: 127 Member
    My deal breakers: Can’t have a meaningful conversation, zero compassion or empathy, no goals or ambition, terrible listener.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    If he is not slimmer than me, it is a dealbreaker. I like my guys lean.

    If he doesn’t like my birds, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he’s a hardcore meat eater and not at least open minded to a pescatarian or plant based lifestyle, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he doesn’t believe in marriage or want kids it is a dealbreaker.

    You drive a hard bargain

    I don’t feel like I ask for too much. I offer a lot. But I know not everyone likes birds or eats the way I do.

    I love birds, but i dont think ive ever met a person who eats like i do.... if i was looking for someone with a like minded diet i think the search would be hopeless.

    This became an issue for me recently because all the meat eaters I was dating gave me a hard time about my diet ways.

    I hugged this. I've always been worried that if i got into a relationship with a vegan or vegetarian, they'd be the ones giving me a hard time for eating meat.

    I used to eat meat. I grew up with it. I have always loved animals and didn’t fully realize the consequence of my choices until I got older. When I did eat meat, I was turned off by the overly preachy vegans. Not all of them are like that.

    I am very passionate about this issue but don’t force it on anyone else. It is just so much easier to date someone with similar ways. I’m not saying it is necessary to eat the same to be compatible but from personal experience, I have realized how important having this particular thing in common is for me in a relationship.
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  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    edited March 2020
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    If he is not slimmer than me, it is a dealbreaker. I like my guys lean.

    If he doesn’t like my birds, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he’s a hardcore meat eater and not at least open minded to a pescatarian or plant based lifestyle, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he doesn’t believe in marriage or want kids it is a dealbreaker.

    You drive a hard bargain

    I don’t feel like I ask for too much. I offer a lot. But I know not everyone likes birds or eats the way I do.

    I love birds, but i dont think ive ever met a person who eats like i do.... if i was looking for someone with a like minded diet i think the search would be hopeless.

    This became an issue for me recently because all the meat eaters I was dating gave me a hard time about my diet ways.

    I hugged this. I've always been worried that if i got into a relationship with a vegan or vegetarian, they'd be the ones giving me a hard time for eating meat.

    I used to eat meat. I grew up with it. I have always loved animals and didn’t fully realize the consequence of my choices until I got older. When I did eat meat, I was turned off by the overly preachy vegans. Not all of them are like that.

    I am very passionate about this issue but don’t force it on anyone else. It is just so much easier to date someone with similar ways. I’m not saying it is necessary to eat the same to be compatible but from personal experience, I have realized how important having this particular thing in common is for me in a relationship.

    Maybe I'd go out with you. But I also wear a fur coat. Is that a deal breaker?

    It isn’t but I can’t imagine wanting to wear a fur coat in Southern California!
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    If he is not slimmer than me, it is a dealbreaker. I like my guys lean.

    If he doesn’t like my birds, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he’s a hardcore meat eater and not at least open minded to a pescatarian or plant based lifestyle, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he doesn’t believe in marriage or want kids it is a dealbreaker.

    You drive a hard bargain

    I don’t feel like I ask for too much. I offer a lot. But I know not everyone likes birds or eats the way I do.

    I love birds, but i dont think ive ever met a person who eats like i do.... if i was looking for someone with a like minded diet i think the search would be hopeless.

    This became an issue for me recently because all the meat eaters I was dating gave me a hard time about my diet ways.

    Well i think that is less a problem with difference of diet and more of a respect issue.

    I agree but also find it harder to do simple things like make a meal together or go out to eat when our dietary preferences are very different.

    I can see that. While i would never even consider being a vegetarian, it does not disgust me the way they eat. I think it is much harder for a vegetarian to not be turned off by meat eaters, especially if their diet choice is one brought upon by their moral stance.

    It doesn’t disgust me, but it does make me sad. The only thing that disgusts me is when someone eats pork.....
  • jimmyhstewart
    jimmyhstewart Posts: 19 Member
    Smoking... that is a deal breaker for me not just in a partner but close friends too.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    Smoking... that is a deal breaker for me not just in a partner but close friends too.

    Same
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    bojack5 wrote: Β»
    If he is not slimmer than me, it is a dealbreaker. I like my guys lean.

    If he doesn’t like my birds, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he’s a hardcore meat eater and not at least open minded to a pescatarian or plant based lifestyle, it is a dealbreaker.

    If he doesn’t believe in marriage or want kids it is a dealbreaker.

    You drive a hard bargain

    I don’t feel like I ask for too much. I offer a lot. But I know not everyone likes birds or eats the way I do.

    I love birds, but i dont think ive ever met a person who eats like i do.... if i was looking for someone with a like minded diet i think the search would be hopeless.

    This became an issue for me recently because all the meat eaters I was dating gave me a hard time about my diet ways.

    Well i think that is less a problem with difference of diet and more of a respect issue.

    I agree but also find it harder to do simple things like make a meal together or go out to eat when our dietary preferences are very different.

    I can see that. While i would never even consider being a vegetarian, it does not disgust me the way they eat. I think it is much harder for a vegetarian to not be turned off by meat eaters, especially if their diet choice is one brought upon by their moral stance.

    I agree with this.

    I try not to eat red meat, but when I do the carnage is appalling, barbaric, fiendish & primal.

    ...... a true blood letting.


    (And that's just Taco Tuesday)

    πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜„πŸ˜…πŸ˜†
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    If he has a problem with what I eat regardless if I eat meat or only veggies.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited March 2020
    Any version of β€œHa ha, I can’t figure you out” or β€œYou’re too much πŸ€£β€

    For you I am. Damn right
  • _Miss_chievous_
    _Miss_chievous_ Posts: 2,765 Member
    Flat earthers
  • Amanda_mermaid
    Amanda_mermaid Posts: 25 Member
    Learning about his 20 other current girlfriends
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Flat earthers

    You know... New science is changing this whole theory... The entire universe may actually be flat πŸ€“
  • _Miss_chievous_
    _Miss_chievous_ Posts: 2,765 Member
    Flat earthers

    Right? If people can look at the whole earth and think it’s flat, they’re going to be severely disappointed with my bra size

    πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
  • _Miss_chievous_
    _Miss_chievous_ Posts: 2,765 Member
    Flat earthers

    You know... New science is changing this whole theory... The entire universe may actually be flat πŸ€“

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  • bdgfn
    bdgfn Posts: 7,719 Member
    Smokers, uncompromising, liars, egotistical.
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    iMago wrote: Β»
    you go over to spend some time with a nice lady at her tiny little apartment and then you go into the bathroom and see something like this
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    ladies πŸ‘ this πŸ‘ is πŸ‘ not πŸ‘ a πŸ‘ trash πŸ‘ can

    The claps omg πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
  • GettinLean19
    GettinLean19 Posts: 452 Member
    If were on a date and he keeps swipping right on his phone.

    πŸ˜‚
  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,855 Member
    😏
    As time goes by my list gets shorter and shorter, lol.

    Yes, this does seem to be a trend for me too. Things that used to be a 'no way' have become a 'maybe it's okay'.
  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    Men like Tom Hanks son,
    who grew up in the suburbs, extremely privileged but acts otherwise. And act as if he’s born and raised in a different culture. πŸ’β€β™€οΈ

    https://youtu.be/chMvcqHhaZ0