WOMEN AGES 50 + FOR NOVEMBER 2018
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SIL passed away .Both his Sisters were with DD.He was like our son,a wonderful husband
& father ,a man who will be missed.19 -
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Trish - My condolences for all your family.
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Trish, so sorry your loss and your daughter's loss
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I'm so sorry about the loss of your son-in-law, dear heart.
Lisa0 -
stats for the day:
ride hm 2 gym= 78c
lateral macine- 30min, lvl 9, 2.7mi= 269c
ride dome 2 gym= 55c
run station 2 wk- 62c
run wk 2 station- 75c
ride dome 2 hm- 201c
total cal 7400 -
trisH_7183 wrote: »SIL passed away .Both his Sisters were with DD.He was like our son,a wonderful husband
& father ,a man who will be missed.
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Trish, so sorry to hear of sil's passing.
Kelly, oh my! Can Joaquin get any cuter??? I don't think so! lol
Lisa sounds like you might have a new job soon! It will go well with your new knee!
Penny, love the photos from the top of the world, stunning!
Heather, we moved over a year ago and are still finding places that don't have our new address! We did all the "important" ones, but I was just at the optometrist a few days ago and they still had our old address and phone number.
So, as I said, saw my optometrist a few days ago, was all ready to shell out for new glasses but he said my vision hasn't undergone any significant changes so it's not necessary! Woohoo! He also didn't dilate my eyes and I didn't have to pay anything as my extended benefits thru work covered it! Yay!!
That's my excitement for the week, lol.
Welcome to the newbies, hugs for those needing them and congrats to those celebrating!
Evelyn, Vancouver Island2 -
Trish- sorry about your loss (((
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Did an advanced strength DVD today. The plan for tomorrow is to take the water class
Margaret – I didn’t realize you knew that the house needed TLC, I thought you just found out. At least you were prepared. If the radon level had been bad, wouldn’t they have had to remediate it before the house could be sold?
Janetr – I’ll have to look at my WalMart. The last time I looked the one didn’t have tea, but since then the WM Neighborhood Market opened. They carry some different things that the other WM. For example, I can’t get the 8oz cups of yogurt at the Neighborhood Market but I can at the smaller store. I can get the individual boxes of raisins at the Neighborhood Market but not at the smaller store. Go figure!
Unfortunately, it’s raining cats & dogs here, but I really want to go to the soup kitchen and get the snacks from the general meeting out of my car and take some of the cookies to Lynette (less to tempt me). Even tho I’m supposed to be at the Green Room tomorrow and it’s supposed to be sunny, I want to get them out of my sight so I might very well stop there anyway.
Viv – what does MOT stand for?
Penny – there is no way Vince will touch Facebook. More and more people that I know won’t go there, either. It’s so frustrating when you forget something. I do hope your husband finds the cord
NYKaren – love your feeling of counting blessings not calories. I’d heard the quote from barbie before (the calories that matter are the ones between New Years and Thanksgiving). So true!
Trish – lovely photos
Newcomer bowling tonight
Went to the soup kitchen and dropped off the food then Lynette’s to give her some of her cookies. Volunteered at the Green Room then went to Dollar General, they had some toys on sale so I got some for Toys for Tots. Then went to Food Lion to get chicken to cook and sweet potatoes (29 cents/lb!). Made oatmeal raisin cookies, some for us and some for Lynette Got dinner ready and my breakfast for tomorrow to take to the Green Room. Update: I'm going to make another batch of the oatmeal raisin cookies for us and gave Lynette the ones I had for us since there wasn't much.
Jo in Chicago – that’s just great about your mom.
We had a breakout today. I was at the Green Room so I never opened the screen door for Shadow. Vince was in the living room and out walks Shadow. Seems she pushed the screen off the wooden frame and got out. I took a picture of it and said to Jess “where there’s a will, there’s a way”. I’m glad that Shadow feels comfortable enough to WANT to come out. I can tell she’s still conflicted, coming out means she has to be with those “other” cats. But one step at a time.
Cari – I’d be afraid to store the cookies in the garage. One time I put cookies on our screened-in porch. But some animal chewed thru the screen! I’d be afraid they’d chew thru the container. That’s a wonderful idea to get the tea pods online. I never thought of doing that.
Welcome to any newcomers that I may have missed
Have a butternut squash in the oven roasting. The timer just went off so need to go see if it’s soft enough.
It rained so much that our septic is pretty full, when I run the water in the kitchen the sink downstairs starts to gurgle. So trying to use as little water as possible. Vince said to me “you go to the bathroom at bowling, not at home”
Ann – welcome to a great group of women
Kj – Joaquin gets cuter and cuter all the time. I especially like the look on his face in the second pic
Trish – So sorry for your SIL
Allie – sorry to hear about your aunt
I did find that if I take Vince’s 16oz cup (stainless steel) to the Green Room, I can get 12oz of water in it. I just have to remove the drain while I’m brewing the tea, then return the drain. But at least I can get a larger amount of tea
Michele in NC
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Trish: My sympathy to you and your family at this terribly sad time.
Kelly: Joaquin is too cute, and so bright!
Gratitude calendar:
14. Sight Blue skies after a snowy day
15. Season Autumn. Love colors, chrysanthemums and all things pumpkin spiced.
It has been a week for re-connections. Three former colleagues connected by phone, and tomorrow will have lunch with another cluster of former associates who are in town for a national meeting. Everyone has been asking "are you ready to come back yet?", and my honest answer is "NO, definitely, NO." I'm still only in my first year of retirement, and don't miss the work at all.
My Thanksgiving cards are ready to be mailed tomorrow. Yogurt is chilling in the fridge. My basketball team is playing well. Life is good
Stay well, friends. We can do this.
Rori
Colorado Foothills3 -
Hi Gals,
Margaret – that’s a brilliant way to help him short term and long term! Great thought process
Trish – my thoughts are with you and your family.
I’ve been in the dumps for a couple of days, right on the edge of tears most of the day… and have not been able to figure out any reason why… when suddenly it hit me. My friends I usually spend the holidays with have a group text (which I am part of) they are planning the group Thanksgiving weekend, which usually I’d be part of instead this year I am having dinner with my bio-family – this is my choice – but it is a obligatory attendance and I will go with the right attitude but will miss my friends… I think I am jealous.
November Gratitude’s
1. Smell = clean dog
2. Technology = smart phone
3. Color = sunrise
4. Food = herbal tea
5. Sound = silence, but heard the coyotes talking, and loved hearing them
6. Nature = the waves
7. Memories = I think one of my favorite memories, is a conglomerate of memories – in the summer when I was a kid – Dad and I would go out to the grass to “pull weeds” we would pull a few, but really we would look at the clouds and point out the things we saw, or make up stories about were the airplanes were going overhead, who was in them… We were not in a flight path but way way high you would see a plane occasionally. And sometimes a small plane those were even more fun to make up stories about.
8. Book – oh so many I love – but the harry potter series as my god-son and I got them together and read them and talked about them almost every night
9. Place – I think the Grand Canyon – I did a 10 day rafting trip down the river for my 50th birthday and it was a life changing event and helped me grow and believe in myself enough to face coming home and being laid off 10 days later.
10. Taste – sweet or salty – for me it is always sweet! But favorite taste is my mom’s marinara sauce with meatballs, it cooks all day, and I could smell it from the corner of our street and knew one of my favorite dinners was that night
11. Holiday – tough one, I have a love of Christmas but it is also the day I was beaten by my domestic abuser so it has mixed memories…
12. Texture – I love cashmere
13. Abilities – I’m very thankful for my abilities – I think the one that comes to mind right now is planning, I can look ahead and figure out how to plan out things that need to be done to make the most of the time and money available.
14. Sight- my god daughter smiling at me…
15. Season- I love them all – it’s winter so it is my favorite right now.
Smiles
Kim from N. California
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I have nothing to add, but love ya all.💞💞👍
Rebecca
Whidbey island
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Trish, so sorry for your loss. Biggest big hug
Janetr OKC0 -
Trish ,
My sincerest condolences,he is now at peace..wow,your son in law,my aunt and Roy Clark all in one day..heaven sure got quite a few angels yesterday...2 -
Michelle good question about the radon. I am not sure who would have been responsible for correcting the problem. These owners never seemed too interested in maintaining the property. I could have asked for some repairs but I would not trust them to to get it done properly. I could have also asked them to lower the price more but I would rather they have to deal with their renters and hopefully get the property sooner without renters. It motivates them to try to get the renters out earlier. This way I could get in and get some repairs done before our son moves into the home. It motivates them to try to get the renters out It also motivates them to clear out their own mess.
There are renters on the property that they were trying to get me to have for a couple of weeks after closing. The inspection gave me the leverage to insist the property be vacant before I do the closing. I think their real reason they wanted me to take over early and let the renters continue to live there for a couple of weeks was so they could continue to store their boats in the garage for a couple more weeks and piles of junk. This motivates them to clear out this garage and not leave their mess behind for me to clean up. After cleaning up after a brother that hoards iI have no interest in cleaning up after them. It has a two car garage that the renters did not use because the owners are using it for storage. I met the renters and they are lovely, but I do not want the liability. There are some safety issues the owners never addressed. Also in the garage they store their boats it has an old garage spring. if that snaps and damages their boats when they are stored under my watch who is liable. Also I worry I will have no leverage for them to clean up the garage or anything the renters leave behind. It can add to the cost on my end to clean up the property. Let alone the frustration and time.
I also feel they put the renters there I did not and it is their job to finish dealing with renters not me. By my post you can tell I do not think much of these sellers. They basically miked the property for all they could get. Now that all repairs are needed they want to dump it. I think they also wanted me to clean up their mess in the garage. The only reason I am willing to take it on with all its repairs is they did lower the price. It is also in the location our son wants to live. He needs a place soon because he needs to be out of where he is living and rents are very high here. The home is in our price range.
My son knows this area very well and I agree with him for what is out there in this price range this is one of the best options. Others must of thought so too because when the property listing lowered others bid on the property too.
As Heather just went through deals can fall through. I had a sleepless night last night because after the inspection I was ready to walk away from this property. I still could.
The sellers are probably not going to be too happy that they are being held accountable for finishing off with their renters and losing two week of free boat storage for them and a mess for me to clean up. I think they will be surprised that I figured out what they are up to.
The agent that I am working with is young and I don't think this occurred to him. He kept telling me he didn't think there would be any problems with letting these renters continue to rent. Strangely enough it is not the renters I worry about in this scenario but the sellers. I did tell him as he works with future buyers this is one piece of ideal that needs to be insisted upon.That the property be vacant in the best interest of his buyers.
If they refuse to do this I will walk. It is in their court now.Margaret
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Whew... 41 pages of messages (I didn't read *all* of them, but most of them.
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A bit about me:
Hey, y'all. I'm Willow. I'm 53 this year and I have a laundry list of things (quote) wrong with me (unquote). All of these things make me unable to work. In other words, I'm disabled. The main culprits that have contributed to my gaining weight and the inability to lose weight are the fact that my thyroid and my lungs both decided to quit on me about six years ago. I've had asthma for oh... twenty years now, but this is different. They call it COPD-undefined. Whatever that means. All I know is that some days I have trouble walking to the sink and other days I can make it to the mailbox. And here y'all are out running marathons.I spend most of my day watching videos, blogging, and other fun (but non-taxing) things.
But I know this extra weight isn't helping. So here I am. I've been on all kinds of diets before, but not for weight loss. Nope, I have an angry gut -- IBS, GERD, and whatnot. And I've been trying to calm that down for decades. And I've tried everything. It's still angry. Well, now I'm just trying to get back down to the weight I was before my thyroid quit on me... which was about 180 pounds. Ideally, I'd be great at 160 pounds, but I'll take 190. I'm at 262 right now.
Um, so anyway, I'm pretty rusty when it comes to message boards, so bear with me if I can't keep up. I'll try.
To Trish and Allie, I'm sorry to hear about your losses.
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Willow North Bend, WA USA6 -
Good Morning, 09:15 am in my region.. clear, ice cold, sunny weather outside , hot coffee inside with me. I wish all of you a great day ! Me I'm planning a trip to rome these days. Just for me... it will be my reward for loosing 5 Kilos til the 31.01.2019. So much fun run virtually through Rome :-)2
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Hi all
Welcome Lucy and Willow.
Trish and Allie condolences to you both at this sad time.
Michele - MOT is a certificate you need to show that your car is roadworthy and safe to be on the road. I think you need an MOT certificate to get car insurance too. There were a few things wrong which have now been fixed, but DD is just over £400 poorer! It was a little more than expected, but at least it "safe" for the winter weather!
I know what you mean about Facebook taking up too much time, I go on to check on messages from a group I have joined and always end up looking at other things posted on my timeline. Before I know it a few hours have passed in the blink of an eye! I try to limit my time on it.
Had a few bad nights sleep wise, I've been falling asleep downstairs, but the minute my head touches the pillow, I'm wide awake! It's bad enough that I have to visit the bathroom every few hours, but it's as if a switch is turned on in my head saying "no sleep for you" and my mind won't settle, or I can't get comfy.
I've split the Strong Women video into two as one hour was too long for me. I'm trying to do half an hour every day. So far so good! But I know what I am like, it doesn't take much to derail me.
Going shopping this morning, so I'd better motivate myself - need to exercise first!Viv UK
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I'm so sorry for your loss, Pat. Good to hear that your daughter and his sisters were together at the time so they could support each other.
Kelly - Joaquin is no longer a babybut he sure is one cute little boy!
At dance this morning I felt extra clumsy and was worried until I noticed that I'd accidentally worn dog walking shoes instead of dance shoes so my feet were much heavier.
This made me chuckle.Penny, I feel your pain about troubles with your step counter. I have had troubles with mine and I was surprised at how sad I was about it.
Yeah! A couple times I've achieved my step goal but when I connected the device, the day's steps and heartrate data vanished into cyberspace - even though the data from my run were safe. I've felt cheated! Aren't we silly?Jo, I am really fortunate to be retired and living in a community where walking in the dark is safe. Otherwise, I'd have to seek more indoor alternatives. I walk my dogs for about two hours in the morning which at this time of year is mostly in the dark. Good news about your mom.
My version of this is when I'm jogging at our holiday place on the mainland. I feel safe knowing there's zero likelihood of encountering polar bears. Up here in the winter, darkness is a given so we just deal with it.lucyogrady, Welcome. I found MFP at age 62 after decades of failure at weight loss. I started by making a plan for my day of what I would eat and logging the food into my food diary. For many days I found myself watching the clock waiting for time for my next meal. I read this thread every day and read other things about healthy eating and exercise to help me create a slightly better plan each day. I figured out a plan that works for me. My eating is simple and I stopped eating for recreation and entertainment. Willingness was the first step for me. I hope you will keep coming back.
The statement in bold really struck me. No quantum leaps: just small but consistent improvement. That's what will succeed in the end. You put it in a nutshell. Thanks Barbie!
Today's gratitude:
16. Body - Basically, I'm grateful everything that works. But today I'm feeling vain, so I'll say I'm grateful for the dainty ankles I inherited from my mother.
/Penny at the
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