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Weight transformation programme when you think your life’s over

Dontletitbeatyou2018Dontletitbeatyou2018 Posts: 13Member Member Posts: 13Member Member
Hi all

After a 6 year relationship coming to an end abruptly, I had to face reality deep down I knew the real reason was because she lost an attraction for me, I ballooned from 14 stone in 2013 to 25.11 stone in a period of five years. I’ve had to face reality and started doing something, extreme long term fasts and cardio, dropped 6 stone in 5 and a half months, another 6 to go but I’m so driven from this that I don’t want to give up

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edited December 2018

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  • snooky211snooky211 Posts: 65Member Member Posts: 65Member Member
    Good for you...you've done so well already.
  • Dontletitbeatyou2018Dontletitbeatyou2018 Posts: 13Member Member Posts: 13Member Member
    snooky211 wrote: »
    Good for you...you've done so well already.

    Thank you so much getting under 20 was such a phycological battle it’s just the next big push it’s amazing how much motivation you can have when you don’t want to see you ex thinking that he’s destroyed and never going to achieve anything again I won’t let her ruin me 🤞🏼

  • Dontletitbeatyou2018Dontletitbeatyou2018 Posts: 13Member Member Posts: 13Member Member
  • Dontletitbeatyou2018Dontletitbeatyou2018 Posts: 13Member Member Posts: 13Member Member
    Down to 19.6 now 🙏🏼 keep pushing
  • PAFC84PAFC84 Posts: 1,349Member Member Posts: 1,349Member Member
    Great stuff. Make sure you are doing it for yourself though and not to prove a point to an ex or anyone else.
  • 1Nana2many1Nana2many Posts: 172Member, Premium Member Posts: 172Member, Premium Member
    Good work! Remember you are worth his effort!
  • PAFC84PAFC84 Posts: 1,349Member Member Posts: 1,349Member Member
    PAFC84 wrote: »
    Great stuff. Make sure you are doing it for yourself though and not to prove a point to an ex or anyone else.

    Thanks that’s true I think I started it off by doing it for her but when she said it doesn’t matter how much weight you loose I won’t be getting back with you it clicked that I need to follow this through for my self and happiness you can’t force someone to love you !

    Sorry to hear that she said that but it's great that you didn't pack it all in and go into a funk. You'll find someone that you don't need to convince to love you.
  • Dontletitbeatyou2018Dontletitbeatyou2018 Posts: 13Member Member Posts: 13Member Member
  • Dontletitbeatyou2018Dontletitbeatyou2018 Posts: 13Member Member Posts: 13Member Member
  • dsbooheaddsboohead Posts: 1,715Member Member Posts: 1,715Member Member
    There may have been a painful ending to one fraction of your life but you are molding a new beginning in your horizon.
    You have a good attitude which is always an attractive quality concerning adversity💖
  • mackfoomackfoo Posts: 21Member Member Posts: 21Member Member
    LOL, I was going to say something about your rate of loss (one week?), then I realized it was the European date order. day/month

    Good job! (seriously, doesn't month/day make more sense you silly Brits?)

    Don't spam me! Just kidding :)
    edited January 11
  • Dontletitbeatyou2018Dontletitbeatyou2018 Posts: 13Member Member Posts: 13Member Member
    Guys just a quick one to everyone whose following this thread thank you ! I wanted to talk about cheat meals not cheat days, guys without the one cheat meal a week normally Saturday night I wouldn’t of been able to keep going with this, I belive when your so so strict with a regime if there’s no shorterm rewards you will FAIL yes people will say it hinders progress but all I’d say to them is look at the facts and figures don’t be afraid to have the night blow out if you’ve been good all the other days good luck !!!!
  • snowflake954snowflake954 Posts: 3,655Member Member Posts: 3,655Member Member
    Guys just a quick one to everyone whose following this thread thank you ! I wanted to talk about cheat meals not cheat days, guys without the one cheat meal a week normally Saturday night I wouldn’t of been able to keep going with this, I belive when your so so strict with a regime if there’s no shorterm rewards you will FAIL yes people will say it hinders progress but all I’d say to them is look at the facts and figures don’t be afraid to have the night blow out if you’ve been good all the other days good luck !!!!

    Cheat meals or days will work when you have a lot to lose. As you get closer to goal, it will likely sabotage progress, because you will lose slowly and have to be very precise. Good luck--you're doing great.
  • Dontletitbeatyou2018Dontletitbeatyou2018 Posts: 13Member Member Posts: 13Member Member
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