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Steve, I hear you. Stress definitely makes things more difficult. For me, I either get so stressed I can't eat or I go off the track completely. You are doing amazingly well with all you are dealing with. Keep on plugging away.
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Hi all. I wrote a long message and lost it all. The short story is that I read all your messages and find them very inspiring. So sorry Steve with what you are going through. You are an inspiration. I seem to be in a holding pattern with my weight loss. I need a ‘whoosh’. Anyway, did Aquafit this morning. Could barely finish, as I’m so tired. I think I’m going to start cutting my blood pressure medication in half tomorrow. Even though I haven’t lost a lot of weight, I think my blood pressure is going down. Some of my readings are kind of low. The doctor says I could try it. May make me feel better. Also, I’m eating a lot less carbs than I used to and that may be helping to lower my blood pressure. At least, I read that somewhere. I will monitor it closely the next few days. I have to do something though as I have no energy, and it isn’t normal. It could be a side effect of the pills.5
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Checking in. Yesterday was another good day food wise. Got a little whoosh going right now. That is helping me stay on track in the evening and limit the late night snacking.
Have a great day, all you beautiful people!6 -
Hi, all -
Mid-Michigan continues cold and gloomy, sometimes rainy/snowy and windy, so I've been alternating stationary bike and rowing machine. (Bike is usually a theoretical, imaginary 10k + a 3' cool down, takes about half an hour, good for (I figure) around 175 calories +/- because not very intense - I tend to play games on my phone while cycling! Rowing is usually 3 x 2k, with 2' in between the first 2, and 2' cool down at the end, takes around 35 minutes in total +/-, around 10' +/- some seconds for each 2k, depending on goals and how I feel; worth maybe 250-ish calories.)
That's a moderate exercise calorie down-shift from the summer routine, especially as I get less incidental walking when I don't go to the rowing club, carry boats, walk in the park after, etc. S'allright - just part of the seasonal adjustments. I don't know about y'all, but I find myself a little crave-y-er in the Fall heading into Winter, as the days get shorter. That creates a little "eat more, move less" dynamic that isn't helpful, but it should end up OK long run - it has been manageable over the last few years since initial weight loss.
Right now, I'm still in the throes of my potential 66-day 66th birthday celebration, with the actual Big Day yesterday, during which I ate and drank All The Things . . . and they were good. 😋 A couple of rowing buddies took me out for dinner, where I had a delicious house-made spinach & feta vegetarian "burger" with all the fixins, and the first deep-fried mushrooms I've eaten in a long time, with ample ketchup. (I'm "team ketchup" all the way on fried things, not "team ranch dressing".) I'd been craving something deep fried, preferably mushrooms, maybe onions, so it was even more satisfying to scratch that itch. That was just the tip of the celebratory iceberg, though. A friend brought over a selection of my favorite Oh MI chocolates (I ate a couple, not all) and a nice bottle of wine (still unopened, looks tempting). And so forth.
As a result of the random birthday meals with friends starting late last week, some minor indulgences in between, and yesterday's extravaganza, I was up 4.4 pounds this morning compared to a week ago, which is a fair bit on a base in the mid 120s. Most of that, of course, will turn out to be water weight; I may end up a pound or two by the end of all 66 days, though. 🤣
I'm not all that great at limiting my hedonistic impulses - I'm sure most of you are able to be much more adult about these kinds of things! Fortunately, I'm better at juggling the long term so I can fit that in . . . so far, anyway.
I continue to believe that personalization of weight management is super important, tailoring strategies to one's individual preferences, strengths, limitations, to keep the overall effort both relatively happy and relatively easy. For me, that includes managing inconsistent eating and exercise levels over time, since I do enjoy seasonal exercise types and the occasional foodie indulgence, and birthdays (and holidays) are a good time for that latter, I think. 😊
Wishing you all happy and productive experiences!5 -
Checking in - Woke up this morning to 28 degrees F here in East Tennessee. We have been having a cold snap here the last couple of weeks. Even though the mornings are cold the sun has been coming out and making my walks enjoyable. My morning walks have transformed into afternoon walks. The brisker temps are energizing and my pace has picked up. Maintenance is going well. I am actually on the low side of target weight.
My fitness goals are ahead of target and my non fitness targets are behind a month or 2. Due mainly to the fact that people don't want to work anymore. Since retirement, the focus has been on downsizing and living in the cabin at the lake. We have downsized and are living in the cabin on the lake( 3 months later than planned). We updated and put our previous main home on the market and it is under contract. The first closing date was to be Sept. 17th(3 months later than plan). The new closing date that has moved 3 times is Dec. 23rd. Why? There is a shortage of appraisers. Everything is done except for someone walking through the house and placing a value on it. Even in retirement there is stress.
Been reading some awesome posts. Congrats to those with great success stories! To those who are having difficulties, hang in there you got this!
@alteredsteve175 Continued prayers and positive thoughts!
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Hi all! Been using myfitnesspal on and off maybe six years. I'm 63 years young, need to drop 30 lbs and it's just not coming off. Tried Keto, intermittent fasting, extended fasting, paleo. Hired a personal trainer and lift heavy three times a week. Can't get my nutrition right where this weight will come off. Help???3
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catsch1958 wrote: »Hi all! Been using myfitnesspal on and off maybe six years. I'm 63 years young, need to drop 30 lbs and it's just not coming off. Tried Keto, intermittent fasting, extended fasting, paleo. Hired a personal trainer and lift heavy three times a week. Can't get my nutrition right where this weight will come off. Help???
Welcome to the group, @catsch1958.
Are you logging all your food? Using a scale to ensure accuracy?
I've tried different eating schedules and food plans, but none of that is really important for me. I can lose weight when I'm burning more calories than I'm eating.4 -
alteredsteve175 wrote: »catsch1958 wrote: »Hi all! Been using myfitnesspal on and off maybe six years. I'm 63 years young, need to drop 30 lbs and it's just not coming off. Tried Keto, intermittent fasting, extended fasting, paleo. Hired a personal trainer and lift heavy three times a week. Can't get my nutrition right where this weight will come off. Help???
Welcome to the group, @catsch1958.
Are you logging all your food? Using a scale to ensure accuracy?
I've tried different eating schedules and food plans, but none of that is really important for me. I can lose weight when I'm burning more calories than I'm eating.
Welcome catsch1958,
What Steve said is gospel. You can exercise til the cows come home but at the end of the day if calories in are more than calories out you are not gonna lose. You have to accurately count calories and hold your self accountable. You got this!2 -
Hi all. Checking in and also interested on how you deal with Thanksgiving. I've been doing well with food choices and weight loss but concerned about Turkey Day.0
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Hi all. Checking in and also interested on how you deal with Thanksgiving. I've been doing well with food choices and weight loss but concerned about Turkey Day.
My holiday philosophy is "one day is a drop in the ocean". When I was losing, I was somewhat thoughtful about it, but ate to enjoyment nonetheless. (After one has been counting for a while, one knows which things are calorie bombs, and which things create most delight - sometimes, those are the same things, but IME not always. Even when losing, I needed at least a bit of the "delight" items on the holiday, and enough of other things to feel celebratory, but I didn't need to eat to maximum stuffed. Next day, back on regular habits.)
ETA: Thanksgiving, in part, is supposed to be about connection, tradition, family or friends, celebration, gratitude, etc., yes? Over-focusing on food, either on the side of over-indulgence or over-stressing about calorie goals and the like, can interfere with those dimensions. Balance?8 -
Welcome catsch. What Steve said works for me. I find that logging my food every day takes a lot of the guesswork out of this process. I’m losing, slowly, but steadily since I started again on mfp. Last night I RE-evaluated my night time snack after seeing how many calories I was over my goal for the day. It worked. I had another small loss this morning. I’m proud of myself. I never would have done that before. I’m very motivated.
Had a lovely swim this afternoon. I love the feel and flow of the water on my skin. It feels like soft velvet. I don’t count on the exercise to make me lose. I just enjoy my swim. I’m slow and swim in a very leisurely manner. I like how it stretches out my muscles. It’s all good.6 -
@richum1960
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Happy belated birthday @AnnPT77! And I love your attitude towards food.
Food is good. Good food is even better. I tend to not waste my calories on mediocre food. If I'm going to consume calories, the food needs to be a) nutritious or b) amazing. I try to keep that philosophy over the holidays too. And then buckle down January 2 to lose whatever I gained. That's the difference in my "new", healthier, life. In the past I just packed on the pounds year after year.
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Hi everyone. I'm back. I introduced myself awhile back and then forgot about this board, so this time I've bookmarked it so I remember. Is that a sign of aging? LOL
I have about 25ish pounds to lose. Just like catsch, I've done various different eating programs; Whole30, keto, fasting, etc., but I've not found any of them sustainable for me.
I'm hypothyroid and also have SVT (tachycardia) which I take a drug for. I've been on MFP since 2013 and it's interesting to look at my weight graph. In 2018 when I was diagnosed, the graph went up on a steep diagonal and within 3 months I had gained 10 pounds. My doctor and cardiologist both acknowledge the fact that it causes weight gain. So, my cardio said I could try cutting back. I thought he said 25% which I did for a couple of weeks and the weight starting coming back down. Turns out I was only supposed to drop it back by half of that and it seems that the weight has stabilized again. I'm reluctant to change drugs because it is very effective at keeping the SVT in check.
I know that I don't get enough exercise and I don't drink enough water. I do like to walk. Usually 2 or 3 times a week, a couple of miles at a time. Do yoga once a week (should be more) and have hand weights but don't use them. I have a treadmill (which I'm not in love with, but it's better than nothing when the weather is not co-operating).
The latest program for me was a modified keto where I had altered my macros in MFP to highter protein and fat with much lower carbs. I've since set everything back to almost default, using their calorie count of 1290. The only thing I've tweaked is to lower the carbs by 10% and up the fat by 10% because I do function better on lower carbs.
That's my story. Looking forward to getting to know everyone.
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@richum1960
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catsch1958 wrote: »Hi all! Been using myfitnesspal on and off maybe six years. I'm 63 years young, need to drop 30 lbs and it's just not coming off. Tried Keto, intermittent fasting, extended fasting, paleo. Hired a personal trainer and lift heavy three times a week. Can't get my nutrition right where this weight will come off. Help???
Belated welcome!
(Apologies in advance for what has turned into a freakin' long essay!)
I'm another in the "calories are key" camp, with a nod to an opinion I think I maybe mentioned up-thread, that personalizing one's strategies and tactics is a major success factor. Each of us has different preferences, strengths, and limitations; figuring out how to work with those is useful.
Further, I think those in our age group have a secret advantage, if we recognize and take advantage of it: We probably know ourselves pretty well by now, and we've practiced maximizing our preferences, exploiting our strengths, and working around our limitations to accomplish other life goals that involve patient work over long time periods, such as education, career, raising a family, home-making, etc.
For those reasons - for myself at least - I'm not a fan of popular named diets. We're unique individuals, and those diets are cookie cutters, and some are even gimmicks, IMO (designed to obfuscate what's simple in order to generate profit for someone(s) via book sales, for-pay training programs, etc.).
I'm not making an argument that this would work best for all (because personalization! 😉), but what worked for me was to start from what I was already eating and enjoying, start logging, get a calorie goal, and gradually tweak my eating in more positive directions. Longer term, the goal was to balance tastiness, nutrition, satiation, practicality, and more, within my calorie goal . . . but I didn't need to do all of that at once. (Humans are adaptive omnivores: If not starting with a major diagnosed deficiency, eating improvements need not be instant, can take a few weeks or months to accomplish, and that can help make them sustainable.)
This describes that kind of "gradually remodel your eating" approach that worked for me, in more detail (with some mistakes and false starts left out 😉):
http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10636388/free-customized-personal-weight-loss-eating-plan-not-spam-or-mlm/p1
Just the logging helped lots, for me: I found very quickly that there were things I was routinely eating that were "expensive" in calorie terms, but weren't subjectively all that important to me for happiness, nutrition, or satiation. You may not find that, since you've been on MFP for a while, but it was eye-opening for a then-newbie like me.
Others on MFP do succeed primarily by manipulating the calorie balance equation mostly/entirely on the exercise front, but similar to comments by others above, that didn't work for me. In my case, I'd proven it to myself by becoming very active in my mid-40s, but staying near the class 1 obese line (little over/under) for well over a decade . . . this was training 6 days most weeks in a short-endurance sport (rowing), even competing in races (not always unsuccessfully, in age-group terms). I lost some fat and gained some muscle (over yeeeaaaarssss) to the point of dropping a couple of pants sizes, but my weight stayed fairly constant: It was super easy to eat those few hundred extra daily calories from exercise, when I wasn't counting them. (Guilty admission: I wouldn't even have done all that "exercise" if it hadn't been super fun, so fun that I would've done it even if it hadn't been good for me. I'm a weak character, when it come to discipline/motivation. Gaming my weaknesses, that can work. 😉)
Since I'm shamelessly promoting threads here, another thing I'd mention is that daily life habits (other than exercise) can be surprisingly meaningful. There's research suggesting that fidgety people can burn a couple of hundred extra calories daily, compared to otherwise similar non-fidgety ones. I'm not encouraging fidgeting as a lifestyle necessarily, just using that as an example of small changes adding up. I don't know about you, but as I've aged, it's been easy to gradually adopt less movement-oriented habits, without even noticing. That's a thing that can be countered, too, essentially creating a bias toward movement in daily life. This is a thread where people shared ideas about that:
http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10610953/neat-improvement-strategies-to-improve-weight-loss/p1
TL;DR: My advice would be to eat in a way you enjoy/sustain at proper calories, find fun exercise, and create a bias toward moving more in daily life. Personalize!
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New here. I've used MFP off and on for several years. Because of heart health issues, my exercise is limited to about 10 minutes a day on a treadmill for now. Weight loss is extremely slow, and I need to lose at least 35 pounds. I log my food, but feel deprived much of the time. As you can tell, I am having my own little "pity party"!8
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My weight is barely coming off, but my eating and food behavior has changed very much. I found I need to be so patient with weight loss but I’m not getting discouraged recently because I see I am sustaining new eating habits. Food is a main concern of mine. How much I have ( I am not food insecure) how it’s prepared, choices of what to eat and cooking it and shopping for it. My goal is to lose 37 more lbs. It could take me years with how slow it’s coming off. I’m in it for the rest of my life. If I take my eye off my goals I could gain the 42 lbs I lost almost 7 yrs. ago back. Yes. I’ve kept 42 lbs. off for almost 7 yrs. it’s hard for me to believe. I just need to stay strong. I am very proud of myself! We all can do this with patience and persistence. I want to heal my food issues to before I started gaining weight. I want to be healthy. This is my goal of a lifetime!12
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ridiculous59 wrote: »Happy belated birthday @AnnPT77! And I love your attitude towards food.
Food is good. Good food is even better. I tend to not waste my calories on mediocre food. If I'm going to consume calories, the food needs to be a) nutritious or b) amazing. I try to keep that philosophy over the holidays too. And then buckle down January 2 to lose whatever I gained. That's the difference in my "new", healthier, life. In the past I just packed on the pounds year after year.
When I worked full time in an office, I used to employ a rule that I dubbed "The Homemade Rule," particularly around the holiday times. If someone brought in a handmade or homemade treat, I would let myself have the goodie. If it was store bought cookies or such, I usually held back. It wasn't a hard or fast rule per se, but it allowed me to enjoy the season much more sensibly. Oreos are tasty but avoiding them when when homemade cookies are available was a no brainer!7 -
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