Goals. Ugh

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  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I think generally humans are trying to forever find a purpose. Setting goals gives every little thing they do every day some kind of purpose. I share your sentiments, @caco_ethes. I don't particularly care to do anything with purpose. Nothing wrong with it though.

    But like anything purpose is subjective right - I have no real purpose to get fitter than i already am other than I just want to see if i can - I want to see if I’m disciplined enough- but I’m not sure what purpose it serves in the grand scheme - if I decided not to do this nothing would change good or bad I don’t guess ... hmm good thread caco good thread indeed

    See? It’s a rabbit hole! The subjectivity of it is what drives me nuts. I’m an accountant, man. I need things black and white.

    I’m curious how this whole concept fits in as well. Are people who readily meet inner and outer expectations more goal driven? See the quiz below

    https://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/

    I took this quiz and it said

    "On the cake spectrum, you are:

    Fruitcake. Loaded with calories, a lousy-Christmas-gift meme, and probably capable of killing someone if you're thrown hard enough."

    I didn't pay the extra $$ to find out more details--I think I've read enough about myself for the day. Introspection is hard
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  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    I think generally humans are trying to forever find a purpose. Setting goals gives every little thing they do every day some kind of purpose. I share your sentiments, @caco_ethes. I don't particularly care to do anything with purpose. Nothing wrong with it though.

    I was just PMing a friend who said maybe we’re just content. That isn’t the opposite of being driven, its just knowing when you have enough.

    I like the thought but if I’m so content, why do i fel like I should be more driven? Is that just american standards beating me down? 😅

    Yes.

    It could be contentment. It could be apathy. It could be that the electrician that wired you was on their last day and just forgot about that part.

    Couldn’t i at least have gotten a driven electrician? Sheesh
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I think generally humans are trying to forever find a purpose. Setting goals gives every little thing they do every day some kind of purpose. I share your sentiments, @caco_ethes. I don't particularly care to do anything with purpose. Nothing wrong with it though.

    But like anything purpose is subjective right - I have no real purpose to get fitter than i already am other than I just want to see if i can - I want to see if I’m disciplined enough- but I’m not sure what purpose it serves in the grand scheme - if I decided not to do this nothing would change good or bad I don’t guess ... hmm good thread caco good thread indeed

    See? It’s a rabbit hole! The subjectivity of it is what drives me nuts. I’m an accountant, man. I need things black and white.

    I’m curious how this whole concept fits in as well. Are people who readily meet inner and outer expectations more goal driven? See the quiz below

    https://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/

    I took this quiz and it said

    "On the cake spectrum, you are:

    Fruitcake. Loaded with calories, a lousy-Christmas-gift meme, and probably capable of killing someone if you're thrown hard enough."

    I didn't pay the extra $$ to find out more details--I think I've read enough about myself for the day. Introspection is hard

    You are

    FOR SURE

    a Questioner
  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m going to try to do a cut the next 10-12 weeks - just too see if I can - I’ve never set any real goals before - but will be 40 in sept - and my mantra if you will for 2019 was to be fit by 40 - being the procrastinator that I am I didn’t start working out til April and now it’s close to September i figure should probably get serious - so I started today and we’ll see how it goes - if I have abs by September I’ll throw a selfie in the shirts off thread like a mfp’n boss yo

    What day in September?

    5

    Dude, we are the same age--to the day

    Lol small world man - but fugg 40 bro

    40 is hot on dudes so don’t let it get to you

    Good to know
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I think generally humans are trying to forever find a purpose. Setting goals gives every little thing they do every day some kind of purpose. I share your sentiments, @caco_ethes. I don't particularly care to do anything with purpose. Nothing wrong with it though.

    But like anything purpose is subjective right - I have no real purpose to get fitter than i already am other than I just want to see if i can - I want to see if I’m disciplined enough- but I’m not sure what purpose it serves in the grand scheme - if I decided not to do this nothing would change good or bad I don’t guess ... hmm good thread caco good thread indeed

    See? It’s a rabbit hole! The subjectivity of it is what drives me nuts. I’m an accountant, man. I need things black and white.

    I’m curious how this whole concept fits in as well. Are people who readily meet inner and outer expectations more goal driven? See the quiz below

    https://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/

    I took this quiz and it said

    "On the cake spectrum, you are:

    Fruitcake. Loaded with calories, a lousy-Christmas-gift meme, and probably capable of killing someone if you're thrown hard enough."

    I didn't pay the extra $$ to find out more details--I think I've read enough about myself for the day. Introspection is hard

    You are

    FOR SURE

    a Questioner

    Hmmm, I'll never tell. I'm stickin with "Fruit Cake"
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m going to try to do a cut the next 10-12 weeks - just too see if I can - I’ve never set any real goals before - but will be 40 in sept - and my mantra if you will for 2019 was to be fit by 40 - being the procrastinator that I am I didn’t start working out til April and now it’s close to September i figure should probably get serious - so I started today and we’ll see how it goes - if I have abs by September I’ll throw a selfie in the shirts off thread like a mfp’n boss yo

    What day in September?

    5
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m going to try to do a cut the next 10-12 weeks - just too see if I can - I’ve never set any real goals before - but will be 40 in sept - and my mantra if you will for 2019 was to be fit by 40 - being the procrastinator that I am I didn’t start working out til April and now it’s close to September i figure should probably get serious - so I started today and we’ll see how it goes - if I have abs by September I’ll throw a selfie in the shirts off thread like a mfp’n boss yo

    What day in September?

    5

    Dude, we are the same age--to the day

    my birthday is 9/5

    We all gotta make some sorta club
  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m going to try to do a cut the next 10-12 weeks - just too see if I can - I’ve never set any real goals before - but will be 40 in sept - and my mantra if you will for 2019 was to be fit by 40 - being the procrastinator that I am I didn’t start working out til April and now it’s close to September i figure should probably get serious - so I started today and we’ll see how it goes - if I have abs by September I’ll throw a selfie in the shirts off thread like a mfp’n boss yo

    What day in September?

    5

    Dude, we are the same age--to the day

    Lol small world man - but fugg 40 bro

    It'll be cool, I didn't expect to make it past 36 for some weird reason so it's all been bonus since then

    Ha - I just wanna make it to 75 and anything over is gravy - I wonder if I’ll feel like a failure in the afterlife if I don’t make it to 75 - damnit me and my goals - maybe it should drop the age to a more realistic # what do you think
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m going to try to do a cut the next 10-12 weeks - just too see if I can - I’ve never set any real goals before - but will be 40 in sept - and my mantra if you will for 2019 was to be fit by 40 - being the procrastinator that I am I didn’t start working out til April and now it’s close to September i figure should probably get serious - so I started today and we’ll see how it goes - if I have abs by September I’ll throw a selfie in the shirts off thread like a mfp’n boss yo

    What day in September?

    5

    Dude, we are the same age--to the day

    Lol small world man - but fugg 40 bro

    It'll be cool, I didn't expect to make it past 36 for some weird reason so it's all been bonus since then

    Ha - I just wanna make it to 75 and anything over is gravy - I wonder if I’ll feel like a failure in the afterlife if I don’t make it to 75 - damnit me and my goals - maybe it should drop the age to a more realistic # what do you think

    Shoot for 75. Why not? If I make it that long, I actually intend for those to be some of the happiest years of my life
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  • cayenne_007
    cayenne_007 Posts: 668 Member
    I'm a goalsetter.... I do write them down in a day planner. Some are weekly, some are monthly and then there are my long term goals. I so sometimes keep a gratitude journal of sorts, especially when I'm struggling with feeling that I haven't accomplished anything and I'm way behind where I thought I'd be at this age. It helps me to 'mentally reset' and quit comparing myself to people on a different journey than me.

    June Goals - 1. Hit 140 at least once 2. Walk on my lunch break 3-4 times a week 9 (it's freakin hot) 3. Ride my horses 6 days a week 4. Schedule a date night once a week 5. Payoff $500 in credit card debt 6. Planks/pushups daily


    I do read devotionals & my Bible every morning for about 30 min while drinking coffee. That's when I do the gratitude notes in my day planner. I wake up at 5:15 no matter what so that I can fit this into my schedule.


  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m going to try to do a cut the next 10-12 weeks - just too see if I can - I’ve never set any real goals before - but will be 40 in sept - and my mantra if you will for 2019 was to be fit by 40 - being the procrastinator that I am I didn’t start working out til April and now it’s close to September i figure should probably get serious - so I started today and we’ll see how it goes - if I have abs by September I’ll throw a selfie in the shirts off thread like a mfp’n boss yo

    What day in September?

    5
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m going to try to do a cut the next 10-12 weeks - just too see if I can - I’ve never set any real goals before - but will be 40 in sept - and my mantra if you will for 2019 was to be fit by 40 - being the procrastinator that I am I didn’t start working out til April and now it’s close to September i figure should probably get serious - so I started today and we’ll see how it goes - if I have abs by September I’ll throw a selfie in the shirts off thread like a mfp’n boss yo

    What day in September?

    5

    Dude, we are the same age--to the day

    my birthday is 9/5

    zer0xc1bsy23.gif
  • Reckoner67
    Reckoner67 Posts: 3,344 Member
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m going to try to do a cut the next 10-12 weeks - just too see if I can - I’ve never set any real goals before - but will be 40 in sept - and my mantra if you will for 2019 was to be fit by 40 - being the procrastinator that I am I didn’t start working out til April and now it’s close to September i figure should probably get serious - so I started today and we’ll see how it goes - if I have abs by September I’ll throw a selfie in the shirts off thread like a mfp’n boss yo

    What day in September?

    5
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m going to try to do a cut the next 10-12 weeks - just too see if I can - I’ve never set any real goals before - but will be 40 in sept - and my mantra if you will for 2019 was to be fit by 40 - being the procrastinator that I am I didn’t start working out til April and now it’s close to September i figure should probably get serious - so I started today and we’ll see how it goes - if I have abs by September I’ll throw a selfie in the shirts off thread like a mfp’n boss yo

    What day in September?

    5

    Dude, we are the same age--to the day

    my birthday is 9/5

    zer0xc1bsy23.gif

    well i guess now we gotta have death match to see who gets to keep it as their birthday

    u and @Reckoner67 start and i will fight the winner

    This is gonna end up with me having X eyes, y'all can just go ahead. I'll pick a new day in late August or something
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m going to try to do a cut the next 10-12 weeks - just too see if I can - I’ve never set any real goals before - but will be 40 in sept - and my mantra if you will for 2019 was to be fit by 40 - being the procrastinator that I am I didn’t start working out til April and now it’s close to September i figure should probably get serious - so I started today and we’ll see how it goes - if I have abs by September I’ll throw a selfie in the shirts off thread like a mfp’n boss yo

    What day in September?

    5
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m going to try to do a cut the next 10-12 weeks - just too see if I can - I’ve never set any real goals before - but will be 40 in sept - and my mantra if you will for 2019 was to be fit by 40 - being the procrastinator that I am I didn’t start working out til April and now it’s close to September i figure should probably get serious - so I started today and we’ll see how it goes - if I have abs by September I’ll throw a selfie in the shirts off thread like a mfp’n boss yo

    What day in September?

    5

    Dude, we are the same age--to the day

    my birthday is 9/5

    We all gotta make some sorta club

    My friends all have the same birthday!
  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m going to try to do a cut the next 10-12 weeks - just too see if I can - I’ve never set any real goals before - but will be 40 in sept - and my mantra if you will for 2019 was to be fit by 40 - being the procrastinator that I am I didn’t start working out til April and now it’s close to September i figure should probably get serious - so I started today and we’ll see how it goes - if I have abs by September I’ll throw a selfie in the shirts off thread like a mfp’n boss yo

    What day in September?

    5
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I’m going to try to do a cut the next 10-12 weeks - just too see if I can - I’ve never set any real goals before - but will be 40 in sept - and my mantra if you will for 2019 was to be fit by 40 - being the procrastinator that I am I didn’t start working out til April and now it’s close to September i figure should probably get serious - so I started today and we’ll see how it goes - if I have abs by September I’ll throw a selfie in the shirts off thread like a mfp’n boss yo

    What day in September?

    5

    Dude, we are the same age--to the day

    my birthday is 9/5

    zer0xc1bsy23.gif

    well i guess now we gotta have death match to see who gets to keep it as their birthday

    u and @Reckoner67 start and i will fight the winner

    This is gonna end up with me having X eyes, y'all can just go ahead. I'll pick a new day in late August or something

    the fight will be the form of a poetry slam

    So battle rap freestyle counts as poetry right??
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    Setting goals just helps me keep focused. I set short term fitness goals every 8-12 weeks and long term fitness goals once a year. Usually my long term goal is set for my birthday every year. Sometimes I will use a intense 30 day goal to get back on track or refocus if I haven't been doing so well.
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  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    Make horrifying experimental music that would make people want to smash their soundsystem into pieces

    This is your goal - or!??
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  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    1sphere wrote: »
    Make horrifying experimental music that would make people want to smash their soundsystem into pieces

    This is your goal - or!??
    I meant that this was my goal yes. I'm drawn to terror, and strange noises...

    Interesting
  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I think generally humans are trying to forever find a purpose. Setting goals gives every little thing they do every day some kind of purpose. I share your sentiments, @caco_ethes. I don't particularly care to do anything with purpose. Nothing wrong with it though.

    But like anything purpose is subjective right - I have no real purpose to get fitter than i already am other than I just want to see if i can - I want to see if I’m disciplined enough- but I’m not sure what purpose it serves in the grand scheme - if I decided not to do this nothing would change good or bad I don’t guess ... hmm good thread caco good thread indeed

    See? It’s a rabbit hole! The subjectivity of it is what drives me nuts. I’m an accountant, man. I need things black and white.

    I’m curious how this whole concept fits in as well. Are people who readily meet inner and outer expectations more goal driven? See the quiz below

    https://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/

    I took this quiz and it said

    "On the cake spectrum, you are:

    Fruitcake. Loaded with calories, a lousy-Christmas-gift meme, and probably capable of killing someone if you're thrown hard enough."

    I didn't pay the extra $$ to find out more details--I think I've read enough about myself for the day. Introspection is hard

    You are

    FOR SURE

    a Questioner

    I got Rebel but I disagree

    Obliger 🤷‍♂️
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I think generally humans are trying to forever find a purpose. Setting goals gives every little thing they do every day some kind of purpose. I share your sentiments, @caco_ethes. I don't particularly care to do anything with purpose. Nothing wrong with it though.

    But like anything purpose is subjective right - I have no real purpose to get fitter than i already am other than I just want to see if i can - I want to see if I’m disciplined enough- but I’m not sure what purpose it serves in the grand scheme - if I decided not to do this nothing would change good or bad I don’t guess ... hmm good thread caco good thread indeed

    See? It’s a rabbit hole! The subjectivity of it is what drives me nuts. I’m an accountant, man. I need things black and white.

    I’m curious how this whole concept fits in as well. Are people who readily meet inner and outer expectations more goal driven? See the quiz below

    https://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/

    I took this quiz and it said

    "On the cake spectrum, you are:

    Fruitcake. Loaded with calories, a lousy-Christmas-gift meme, and probably capable of killing someone if you're thrown hard enough."

    I didn't pay the extra $$ to find out more details--I think I've read enough about myself for the day. Introspection is hard

    You are

    FOR SURE

    a Questioner

    I got Rebel but I disagree

    Obliger 🤷‍♂️

    I got rebel. I’m very surprised. 😐
  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I think generally humans are trying to forever find a purpose. Setting goals gives every little thing they do every day some kind of purpose. I share your sentiments, @caco_ethes. I don't particularly care to do anything with purpose. Nothing wrong with it though.

    But like anything purpose is subjective right - I have no real purpose to get fitter than i already am other than I just want to see if i can - I want to see if I’m disciplined enough- but I’m not sure what purpose it serves in the grand scheme - if I decided not to do this nothing would change good or bad I don’t guess ... hmm good thread caco good thread indeed

    See? It’s a rabbit hole! The subjectivity of it is what drives me nuts. I’m an accountant, man. I need things black and white.

    I’m curious how this whole concept fits in as well. Are people who readily meet inner and outer expectations more goal driven? See the quiz below

    https://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/

    I took this quiz and it said

    "On the cake spectrum, you are:

    Fruitcake. Loaded with calories, a lousy-Christmas-gift meme, and probably capable of killing someone if you're thrown hard enough."

    I didn't pay the extra $$ to find out more details--I think I've read enough about myself for the day. Introspection is hard

    You are

    FOR SURE

    a Questioner

    I got Rebel but I disagree

    Obliger 🤷‍♂️

    I got rebel. I’m very surprised. 😐

    What did you think you were? I would think of myself as a questioner but guess not
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I think generally humans are trying to forever find a purpose. Setting goals gives every little thing they do every day some kind of purpose. I share your sentiments, @caco_ethes. I don't particularly care to do anything with purpose. Nothing wrong with it though.

    But like anything purpose is subjective right - I have no real purpose to get fitter than i already am other than I just want to see if i can - I want to see if I’m disciplined enough- but I’m not sure what purpose it serves in the grand scheme - if I decided not to do this nothing would change good or bad I don’t guess ... hmm good thread caco good thread indeed

    See? It’s a rabbit hole! The subjectivity of it is what drives me nuts. I’m an accountant, man. I need things black and white.

    I’m curious how this whole concept fits in as well. Are people who readily meet inner and outer expectations more goal driven? See the quiz below

    https://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/

    I took this quiz and it said

    "On the cake spectrum, you are:

    Fruitcake. Loaded with calories, a lousy-Christmas-gift meme, and probably capable of killing someone if you're thrown hard enough."

    I didn't pay the extra $$ to find out more details--I think I've read enough about myself for the day. Introspection is hard

    You are

    FOR SURE

    a Questioner

    I got Rebel but I disagree

    Obliger 🤷‍♂️

    I got rebel. I’m very surprised. 😐

    What did you think you were? I would think of myself as a questioner but guess not

    I thought questioner too because i was torn between those two answers most of the way through the test.
  • Cowsfan1
    Cowsfan1 Posts: 7,937 Member
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I think generally humans are trying to forever find a purpose. Setting goals gives every little thing they do every day some kind of purpose. I share your sentiments, @caco_ethes. I don't particularly care to do anything with purpose. Nothing wrong with it though.

    But like anything purpose is subjective right - I have no real purpose to get fitter than i already am other than I just want to see if i can - I want to see if I’m disciplined enough- but I’m not sure what purpose it serves in the grand scheme - if I decided not to do this nothing would change good or bad I don’t guess ... hmm good thread caco good thread indeed

    See? It’s a rabbit hole! The subjectivity of it is what drives me nuts. I’m an accountant, man. I need things black and white.

    I’m curious how this whole concept fits in as well. Are people who readily meet inner and outer expectations more goal driven? See the quiz below

    https://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/

    I took this quiz and it said

    "On the cake spectrum, you are:

    Fruitcake. Loaded with calories, a lousy-Christmas-gift meme, and probably capable of killing someone if you're thrown hard enough."

    I didn't pay the extra $$ to find out more details--I think I've read enough about myself for the day. Introspection is hard

    You are

    FOR SURE

    a Questioner

    I got Rebel but I disagree

    Obliger 🤷‍♂️

    I got rebel. I’m very surprised. 😐

    What did you think you were? I would think of myself as a questioner but guess not

    I thought questioner too because i was torn between those two answers most of the way through the test.

    At least you can say “hi I’m Sara, don’t fugg with me I’m an mfp’n rebel” so that’s cool -

    Me on the other hand “hi I’m Rob - what can I do for ya? “ lol
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I think generally humans are trying to forever find a purpose. Setting goals gives every little thing they do every day some kind of purpose. I share your sentiments, @caco_ethes. I don't particularly care to do anything with purpose. Nothing wrong with it though.

    But like anything purpose is subjective right - I have no real purpose to get fitter than i already am other than I just want to see if i can - I want to see if I’m disciplined enough- but I’m not sure what purpose it serves in the grand scheme - if I decided not to do this nothing would change good or bad I don’t guess ... hmm good thread caco good thread indeed

    See? It’s a rabbit hole! The subjectivity of it is what drives me nuts. I’m an accountant, man. I need things black and white.

    I’m curious how this whole concept fits in as well. Are people who readily meet inner and outer expectations more goal driven? See the quiz below

    https://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/

    I took this quiz and it said

    "On the cake spectrum, you are:

    Fruitcake. Loaded with calories, a lousy-Christmas-gift meme, and probably capable of killing someone if you're thrown hard enough."

    I didn't pay the extra $$ to find out more details--I think I've read enough about myself for the day. Introspection is hard

    You are

    FOR SURE

    a Questioner

    I got Rebel but I disagree

    Obliger 🤷‍♂️

    I got rebel. I’m very surprised. 😐

    What did you think you were? I would think of myself as a questioner but guess not

    I thought questioner too because i was torn between those two answers most of the way through the test.

    At least you can say “hi I’m Sara, don’t fugg with me I’m an mfp’n rebel” so that’s cool -

    Me on the other hand “hi I’m Rob - what can I do for ya? “ lol

    😂❤️
  • 2baninja
    2baninja Posts: 519 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Reckoner67 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Cowsfan1 wrote: »
    I think generally humans are trying to forever find a purpose. Setting goals gives every little thing they do every day some kind of purpose. I share your sentiments, @caco_ethes. I don't particularly care to do anything with purpose. Nothing wrong with it though.

    But like anything purpose is subjective right - I have no real purpose to get fitter than i already am other than I just want to see if i can - I want to see if I’m disciplined enough- but I’m not sure what purpose it serves in the grand scheme - if I decided not to do this nothing would change good or bad I don’t guess ... hmm good thread caco good thread indeed

    See? It’s a rabbit hole! The subjectivity of it is what drives me nuts. I’m an accountant, man. I need things black and white.

    I’m curious how this whole concept fits in as well. Are people who readily meet inner and outer expectations more goal driven? See the quiz below

    https://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/

    I took this quiz and it said

    "On the cake spectrum, you are:

    Fruitcake. Loaded with calories, a lousy-Christmas-gift meme, and probably capable of killing someone if you're thrown hard enough."

    I didn't pay the extra $$ to find out more details--I think I've read enough about myself for the day. Introspection is hard

    You are

    FOR SURE

    a Questioner

    I got Rebel but I disagree

    I got rebel, I totally agree.
  • 2baninja
    2baninja Posts: 519 Member
    Making goals is very personal, some people need them to do anything and everything. Some people have goals but they don't call them goals.
    I've had a long term goal forever, to be fit enough to do a Sprint Triathlon. I've have other long term goals, become a healthy weight, become a healthy person.

    I try to make short term goals, lose 5# a month, work out 4 days a week...

    Goals don't motivate me, they are just there, so if goals do nothing for you, then let them go, don't worry about them.

    If you want to have a goal, but don't like that word, use something different.

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  • jan110144
    jan110144 Posts: 1,281 Member
    I am inherently a "goal" person. I have a number of short, mid_term and long-term goals.

    My most significant long-term goal is to live independently as long as possible (I am 74, in excellent health, and have a family history of longevity). To achieve that goal, I eat a healthy diet, exercise daily, get a check-up (with full blood work) once a year and get recommended tests as recommended.

    Mid -term (probably 2 years out) is to get my Gold Medal with my horse Annie. To do that, I ride a minimum of six days a week, go to the gym to continue to develop more core strength, take lessons twice a week, and read and watch instruction dressage videos.

    I have many short-term goals that typically have a duration of a week or two. They include things like getting my backyard cleaned up and "groomed", decluttering the house and getting rid of everything I don't actually use, logging food and exercise in MFP daily, etc.

    I find that these goals help to make sure I don't get to the end of the day/month/year having just let time go by (which I have found, is amazingly easy to do when you are retired and accountable to nobody but yourself!)
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