Less Alcohol - SEPTEMBER 2019 - One Day at a Time
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I need this. September is almost over, but I might as well start now.6
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Welcome @QueenZeeIsm it is never to late to start drinking "less". We start a new continued thread for each month. So if you do not have time for this one be sure to stop over on the October thread, link will be posting over the weekend. In the mean time check out page one here. There is a ton of helpful information on drinking less. 😊5
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Hello everyone.
Remember it is only a small glitch in your new drinking less routine IF you happen to have an unplanned drink. We have ALL done this and there is no need to be tough on yourself.
New day....new start.
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globalhiker wrote: »This week it was time to add on a new challenge, especially now that I don't get wine cravings anymore. I started a diet that my local hospital dietitian put me on to improve my health and lose 15 lbs, mostly anti-inflammatory, no meat, no dairy, no gluten, no fried, no juice, no diet soda with sucralose even, mostly plant based except for salmon, beans or egg whites. Chicken on occasion and meat ok once a month. Nothing packaged, nothing fake. Just nutrient dense food, organic if possible. This is REALLY HARD since it excludes 95% of the food in a typical american supermarket!
Today is day 2 and I am going thru ice cream withdrawals. Thank goodness I didn't start this at the same time I started my wine elimination diet.
Yikes! This would be hard for me to do but if it's doable to you that's great,hope it helps your inflammation ❤️ you guys will probably see more of me posting here cuz the no alcohol thread isn't very lively anymore, besides it's less alcohol and that's the point cuz I haven't been completely AF this year although I'm working on it 👍 cant believe Sept is nearly over!6 -
As usual, I am going to work on 4-5 AF days per week.
I managed 18AF days out of 31 for August somehow.
I am going away the last week of September and first week of October, and I will be in a bathing suit every day, so am wanting to rack up lots of AF days before that.
September 01 - Sunday 5 drinks! (Saturday between 1pm and 1am at the music festival I had 7 drinks and didn't even throw up strangely). Drinks 2 days in a row is such a no-no, it makes it become normal to have drinks on the 3rd day 4th day etc. But I won't.
September 02 - AF
September 03 - AF - my "scheduled" day to have drinks, but there is ice skating at one of the arenas tomorrow and I haven't skated since April, so, well, I don't want to have a hangover or anything and fall and break my head : - P
September 04 - AF - I was invited over to a friend's house for some wine, but declined. Skating was exhilarating today, even though it took me a few times around to get comfortable. Definitely didn't want to wreck the added calorie burn by having drinks.
September 05 - 3 drinks. Feeling so much different than yesterday. My second sleepless night this week and a stressful workday coupled with Anxiety that I just couldn't seem to meditate away even though I ran (drove) to the lake after work for a float under a cloudless clear blue sky with sparkling glass-like water and some deep breaths. Sleep deprivation is crappy. I realize that booze probably doesn't help Anxiety, but it has somehow tonight numbed me and relaxed me. Still using booze as a crutch I guess, although I tried other things first. Not going to beat myself up. Us humans can be so fragile! If only I could skate every day... : - )
September 06 - AF
September 07 - AF - I didn't intend to be, but I burned over 1100 calories through exercise and didn't want that to be wasted, so stayed AF
September 08 - 3 drinks - next planned drinks, Tuesday
September 09 - AF
September 10 - 3 drinks Tuesday. I didn't have enough to eat I guess and really felt it, thought that I was going to puke but didn't. I drank a lot of water after the drinks, so actually feel okay now. Time to rack up some more AF days.
September 11 - AF - Skated today, but with having drinks last night I didn't really feel that steady.
September 12 - 2 drinks, just couldn't have the 3rd which is unusual for me. Too tired to even make a 3rd drink. Long workday today, I must say that it was nice to have a couple of cocktails. Off to bed early.
September 13 - 2 drinks + an AF beer. Really, I never drink beer, but am glad that I bought that 6-pack of Labbatt AF to put in the fridge. I think that I have had 2 of them now. I wanted one more drink but didn't really feel like having more alcohol, and definitely did not want water. Broke the "never have drinks 2 days in a row" thing. But also didn't have my 3rd drink 2 days in a row. Faulty thinking, but whatever. 2 weeks of barely any sleep, have a hard time shutting off my brain even though my body is super tired. Maybe my discipline goes out the window, although I have been low on calories. Perhaps I will make the 4 AF days per week this week, maintained the 5 AF days for the week last week. Weekend, no big pressing events to look good or feel sharp. Just need to continue to work on harvesting and processing my garden tomorrow.
September 14 - AF - Felt like having drinks, but didn't.
September 15 - 3 drinks. no reason to have drinks really, just did. I have had 2 glasses of water since. I have had a couple of weeks of sleep deprivation, not that it is an excuse, but the few days that I was able to actually fall asleep were days where I had alcohol. I hope to do well when I am in Dallas for 2 weeks. I had tentatively booked an all-inclusive (much cheaper than Dallas) but I struggle so much with my weight loss and putting in some AF days every week that I knew that the all-inclusive option was only going to be setting me up for failure. Not that I will never do an all-inclusive again, but maybe after another 20 pounds down on the scale. Anyone here live in Dallas btw? Or have been to Dallas and know some great places to visit? There are 8 arenas with public skating 2-3 times per day 7 days a week, so y'all know that I will be ice skating every day (packing my skates in my suitcase since rental skates don't make me skate my best, and people hear that you are from Canada and expect you to be steady on your blades). I would be tickled pink if someone is from the area and wants to skate with me : - )
September 16 - AF
September 17 - Tuesday. 3 drinks over quite a space of time. I was one and a half drinks in when a friend that lives far away called me, so I put that drink in the freezer lol. Talked for 2 hours, then made something to eat and had the rest of that one and another one. My Tuesdays really are too much. I worked 14 hours, and it was stressful. Still using booze as a sedative from time to time. So far not every Tuesday, but I have sort of designated Tuesdays as the days that I will have a few drinks.
September 18 - AF
September 19 - AF - that was a tough long day then a friend came by to take me out for an early birthday drink, but I declined. Bonus skating in the morning that I don't want to be wobbly for, and planned drinks tomorrow.
September 20 - Martini, champagne, 3 other drinks.
Sept 21 - AF
Sept 22 - AF - I leave for Spokane tomorrow, then fly out of there to Dallas the next morning. I am not sure how I will do while away, but I don't plan on limiting myself too much. Definitely going to try Texas bbq! I have never had Brisket. I will be happy if I can accomplish 18 AF days for the month, so shooting for that. I will be checking in for sure.
September 23 - AF - in Spokane, flying out to Dallas in the morning 24th.
September 24 - 1/2 bottle of wine (2 6oz glasses). Very long traveling day, hardly any food, got lost in Dallas trying to find my motel...got there, went to the grocery store for some food and wine. Now I have a half bottle sitting there.
Running total: 14 AF days out of 24 days so far2 -
As usual, I am going to work on 4-5 AF days per week.
I managed 18AF days out of 31 for August somehow.
I am going away the last week of September and first week of October, and I will be in a bathing suit every day, so am wanting to rack up lots of AF days before that.
September 01 - Sunday 5 drinks! (Saturday between 1pm and 1am at the music festival I had 7 drinks and didn't even throw up strangely). Drinks 2 days in a row is such a no-no, it makes it become normal to have drinks on the 3rd day 4th day etc. But I won't.
September 02 - AF
September 03 - AF - my "scheduled" day to have drinks, but there is ice skating at one of the arenas tomorrow and I haven't skated since April, so, well, I don't want to have a hangover or anything and fall and break my head : - P
September 04 - AF - I was invited over to a friend's house for some wine, but declined. Skating was exhilarating today, even though it took me a few times around to get comfortable. Definitely didn't want to wreck the added calorie burn by having drinks.
September 05 - 3 drinks. Feeling so much different than yesterday. My second sleepless night this week and a stressful workday coupled with Anxiety that I just couldn't seem to meditate away even though I ran (drove) to the lake after work for a float under a cloudless clear blue sky with sparkling glass-like water and some deep breaths. Sleep deprivation is crappy. I realize that booze probably doesn't help Anxiety, but it has somehow tonight numbed me and relaxed me. Still using booze as a crutch I guess, although I tried other things first. Not going to beat myself up. Us humans can be so fragile! If only I could skate every day... : - )
September 06 - AF
September 07 - AF - I didn't intend to be, but I burned over 1100 calories through exercise and didn't want that to be wasted, so stayed AF
September 08 - 3 drinks - next planned drinks, Tuesday
September 09 - AF
September 10 - 3 drinks Tuesday. I didn't have enough to eat I guess and really felt it, thought that I was going to puke but didn't. I drank a lot of water after the drinks, so actually feel okay now. Time to rack up some more AF days.
September 11 - AF - Skated today, but with having drinks last night I didn't really feel that steady.
September 12 - 2 drinks, just couldn't have the 3rd which is unusual for me. Too tired to even make a 3rd drink. Long workday today, I must say that it was nice to have a couple of cocktails. Off to bed early.
September 13 - 2 drinks + an AF beer. Really, I never drink beer, but am glad that I bought that 6-pack of Labbatt AF to put in the fridge. I think that I have had 2 of them now. I wanted one more drink but didn't really feel like having more alcohol, and definitely did not want water. Broke the "never have drinks 2 days in a row" thing. But also didn't have my 3rd drink 2 days in a row. Faulty thinking, but whatever. 2 weeks of barely any sleep, have a hard time shutting off my brain even though my body is super tired. Maybe my discipline goes out the window, although I have been low on calories. Perhaps I will make the 4 AF days per week this week, maintained the 5 AF days for the week last week. Weekend, no big pressing events to look good or feel sharp. Just need to continue to work on harvesting and processing my garden tomorrow.
September 14 - AF - Felt like having drinks, but didn't.
September 15 - 3 drinks. no reason to have drinks really, just did. I have had 2 glasses of water since. I have had a couple of weeks of sleep deprivation, not that it is an excuse, but the few days that I was able to actually fall asleep were days where I had alcohol. I hope to do well when I am in Dallas for 2 weeks. I had tentatively booked an all-inclusive (much cheaper than Dallas) but I struggle so much with my weight loss and putting in some AF days every week that I knew that the all-inclusive option was only going to be setting me up for failure. Not that I will never do an all-inclusive again, but maybe after another 20 pounds down on the scale. Anyone here live in Dallas btw? Or have been to Dallas and know some great places to visit? There are 8 arenas with public skating 2-3 times per day 7 days a week, so y'all know that I will be ice skating every day (packing my skates in my suitcase since rental skates don't make me skate my best, and people hear that you are from Canada and expect you to be steady on your blades). I would be tickled pink if someone is from the area and wants to skate with me : - )
September 16 - AF
September 17 - Tuesday. 3 drinks over quite a space of time. I was one and a half drinks in when a friend that lives far away called me, so I put that drink in the freezer lol. Talked for 2 hours, then made something to eat and had the rest of that one and another one. My Tuesdays really are too much. I worked 14 hours, and it was stressful. Still using booze as a sedative from time to time. So far not every Tuesday, but I have sort of designated Tuesdays as the days that I will have a few drinks.
September 18 - AF
September 19 - AF - that was a tough long day then a friend came by to take me out for an early birthday drink, but I declined. Bonus skating in the morning that I don't want to be wobbly for, and planned drinks tomorrow.
September 20 - Martini, champagne, 3 other drinks.
Sept 21 - AF
Sept 22 - AF - I leave for Spokane tomorrow, then fly out of there to Dallas the next morning. I am not sure how I will do while away, but I don't plan on limiting myself too much. Definitely going to try Texas bbq! I have never had Brisket. I will be happy if I can accomplish 18 AF days for the month, so shooting for that. I will be checking in for sure.
September 23 - AF - in Spokane, flying out to Dallas in the morning 24th.
September 24 - 1/2 bottle of wine (2 6oz glasses). Very long traveling day, hardly any food, got lost in Dallas trying to find my motel...got there, went to the grocery store for some food and wine. Now I have a half bottle sitting there.
Running total: 14 AF days out of 24 days so far0 -
Argh, that went in twice, sorry3
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Thanks for your support Womona and Whitpauly!....and Dawn I hope you have a good trip over there...sounds like you will have fun and easier days will come your way now that the travel part is over.4
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@anglilacs wow that is really impressive! Congrats on sticking to the seltzer instead of a drink! Especially in that environment after a bad day.
Thank you! It was hard but I was so glad when I woke up this morning.4 -
Had some drinking pangs again tonight. Feeling a little stressed about different things. I decided I would wait until Friday night. One cool thing was that I spent more time talking with my son than I might have if I had the wine I really wanted to have.
Great job to everyone checking in!
9/3- AF
9/4- AF
9/5- AF
9/6- AF
9/7- AF
9/8-AF
9/9- 3 drinks (rounding up)
9/10 - AF
9/11 - AF
9/12 - AF
9/13 - AF
9/14 - 3 drinks
9/15 - AF
9/16 - AF
9/17 - AF
9/18 - AF
9/19 - AF
9/20 - 2 drinks
9/21 - 2 drinks
9/22 - 2 drinks
9/23 - AF
9/24 - AF
9/25 - AF5 -
Geez @anglilacs I think that wine would have made me more talkative not less : - P1
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As usual, I am going to work on 4-5 AF days per week.
I managed 18AF days out of 31 for August somehow.
I am going away the last week of September and first week of October, and I will be in a bathing suit every day, so am wanting to rack up lots of AF days before that.
September 01 - Sunday 5 drinks! (Saturday between 1pm and 1am at the music festival I had 7 drinks and didn't even throw up strangely). Drinks 2 days in a row is such a no-no, it makes it become normal to have drinks on the 3rd day 4th day etc. But I won't.
September 02 - AF
September 03 - AF - my "scheduled" day to have drinks, but there is ice skating at one of the arenas tomorrow and I haven't skated since April, so, well, I don't want to have a hangover or anything and fall and break my head : - P
September 04 - AF - I was invited over to a friend's house for some wine, but declined. Skating was exhilarating today, even though it took me a few times around to get comfortable. Definitely didn't want to wreck the added calorie burn by having drinks.
September 05 - 3 drinks. Feeling so much different than yesterday. My second sleepless night this week and a stressful workday coupled with Anxiety that I just couldn't seem to meditate away even though I ran (drove) to the lake after work for a float under a cloudless clear blue sky with sparkling glass-like water and some deep breaths. Sleep deprivation is crappy. I realize that booze probably doesn't help Anxiety, but it has somehow tonight numbed me and relaxed me. Still using booze as a crutch I guess, although I tried other things first. Not going to beat myself up. Us humans can be so fragile! If only I could skate every day... : - )
September 06 - AF
September 07 - AF - I didn't intend to be, but I burned over 1100 calories through exercise and didn't want that to be wasted, so stayed AF
September 08 - 3 drinks - next planned drinks, Tuesday
September 09 - AF
September 10 - 3 drinks Tuesday. I didn't have enough to eat I guess and really felt it, thought that I was going to puke but didn't. I drank a lot of water after the drinks, so actually feel okay now. Time to rack up some more AF days.
September 11 - AF - Skated today, but with having drinks last night I didn't really feel that steady.
September 12 - 2 drinks, just couldn't have the 3rd which is unusual for me. Too tired to even make a 3rd drink. Long workday today, I must say that it was nice to have a couple of cocktails. Off to bed early.
September 13 - 2 drinks + an AF beer. Really, I never drink beer, but am glad that I bought that 6-pack of Labbatt AF to put in the fridge. I think that I have had 2 of them now. I wanted one more drink but didn't really feel like having more alcohol, and definitely did not want water. Broke the "never have drinks 2 days in a row" thing. But also didn't have my 3rd drink 2 days in a row. Faulty thinking, but whatever. 2 weeks of barely any sleep, have a hard time shutting off my brain even though my body is super tired. Maybe my discipline goes out the window, although I have been low on calories. Perhaps I will make the 4 AF days per week this week, maintained the 5 AF days for the week last week. Weekend, no big pressing events to look good or feel sharp. Just need to continue to work on harvesting and processing my garden tomorrow.
September 14 - AF - Felt like having drinks, but didn't.
September 15 - 3 drinks. no reason to have drinks really, just did. I have had 2 glasses of water since. I have had a couple of weeks of sleep deprivation, not that it is an excuse, but the few days that I was able to actually fall asleep were days where I had alcohol. I hope to do well when I am in Dallas for 2 weeks. I had tentatively booked an all-inclusive (much cheaper than Dallas) but I struggle so much with my weight loss and putting in some AF days every week that I knew that the all-inclusive option was only going to be setting me up for failure. Not that I will never do an all-inclusive again, but maybe after another 20 pounds down on the scale. Anyone here live in Dallas btw? Or have been to Dallas and know some great places to visit? There are 8 arenas with public skating 2-3 times per day 7 days a week, so y'all know that I will be ice skating every day (packing my skates in my suitcase since rental skates don't make me skate my best, and people hear that you are from Canada and expect you to be steady on your blades). I would be tickled pink if someone is from the area and wants to skate with me : - )
September 16 - AF
September 17 - Tuesday. 3 drinks over quite a space of time. I was one and a half drinks in when a friend that lives far away called me, so I put that drink in the freezer lol. Talked for 2 hours, then made something to eat and had the rest of that one and another one. My Tuesdays really are too much. I worked 14 hours, and it was stressful. Still using booze as a sedative from time to time. So far not every Tuesday, but I have sort of designated Tuesdays as the days that I will have a few drinks.
September 18 - AF
September 19 - AF - that was a tough long day then a friend came by to take me out for an early birthday drink, but I declined. Bonus skating in the morning that I don't want to be wobbly for, and planned drinks tomorrow.
September 20 - Martini, champagne, 3 other drinks.
Sept 21 - AF
Sept 22 - AF - I leave for Spokane tomorrow, then fly out of there to Dallas the next morning. I am not sure how I will do while away, but I don't plan on limiting myself too much. Definitely going to try Texas bbq! I have never had Brisket. I will be happy if I can accomplish 18 AF days for the month, so shooting for that. I will be checking in for sure.
September 23 - AF - in Spokane, flying out to Dallas in the morning 24th.
September 24 - 1/2 bottle of wine (2 6oz glasses). Very long traveling day, hardly any food, got lost in Dallas trying to find my motel...got there, went to the grocery store for some food and wine. Now I have a half bottle sitting there.
September 25 - Well, I stared at that half bottle of wine and delayed and delayed. I went into the pool hot tub after dark without taking a glass with me even though I wanted to. I was doing well...but caved. I know that 2 days in a row leads to 3 days in a row and 4 days in a row etc. Still drinking way less than I would if I had gone to an all inclusive. Wine is not my drink of choice normally. Tomorrow night (and Saturday night) I am going to an NHL hockey game. Under my calorie limit the last few days, so that is good. In a bathing suit every day, so shouldn't be drinking because of the bloat. Whatever, I am on vacation, not going to go crazy though. Hoping to squeeze at least a couple more AF days in before the end of the month.
Running total: 14 AF days out of 25 days so far4 -
My plan is to have more AF days than drinking days each month. I will need to build up several in a row for September since I am starting my tracking on the 7th.
9/07 - AF
9/08 - AF
9/09 - AF
9/10 - AF
9/11 - 2 bottles Michelob Ultra
9/12 - AF
9/13 - 2 vodka/soda
9/14 - 1 Mich Ultra, 2/3 bottle of red wine, and an after dinner bourbon.
9/15 - AF
9/16 - AF
9/17 - AF
9/18 - AF
9/19 - 2 drinks
9/20 - AF
9/21 - 9 oz red wine. 2 oz vodka.
9/22 - AF
9/23 - AF
9/24 - 2 drinks
9/25 - AF Didn't even have a drink to celebrate the birth of my 2nd grandbaby this evening! A beautiful little girl with lots of dark hair like her mommy and daddy.
Tally AF (Starting 9/7/19) - 13 of 19 days. So happy with how well this is going!
Thank you all for keeping me accountable!8 -
You guys will probably see more of me posting here cuz the no alcohol thread isn't very lively anymore, besides it's less alcohol and that's the point cuz I haven't been completely AF this year although I'm working on it 👍 cant believe Sept is nearly over!
Great to see you again @whitpauly. You know you are always welcome here at "less alcohol" to lurk...linger and post. Wow how the months have flown by since we have been in here, huh?
Hope you have been doing well.
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globalhiker wrote: »This week it was time to add on a new challenge, especially now that I don't get wine cravings anymore. I started a diet that my local hospital dietitian put me on to improve my health and lose 15 lbs, mostly anti-inflammatory, no meat, no dairy, no gluten, no fried, no juice, no diet soda with sucralose even, mostly plant based except for salmon, beans or egg whites. Chicken on occasion and meat ok once a month. Nothing packaged, nothing fake. Just nutrient dense food, organic if possible. This is REALLY HARD since it excludes 95% of the food in a typical american supermarket!
Today is day 2 and I am going thru ice cream withdrawals. Thank goodness I didn't start this at the same time I started my wine elimination diet.
Wow that does sound super hard to follow. But in the end it will all be worth your strong determination and efforts to be a healthy you. Good luck.3 -
@anglilacs your drinking patteren looks so familiar to mine back in 2018. Pangs are normal. Bonus....more family time chatting with your son. Keep it up.3
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@dawnbgethealthy your vacation is making us envious! Enjoy the time away. Like you said. Your DRINKING LESS than you would have at an all inclusive. Have fun at the hockey games.2
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Had a small glass of wine at lunch after a golf outing yesterday, which made me need a big nap afterwards! Then another one at a clothing party. But I stopped at one- normally I would have been in for at least two. In both instances.m, I just didn’t like the way it made me feel!7
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@fitand50inSD congrats on the new granddaughter and for the thought process not to have a glass of wine. Win win!5
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Had a small glass of wine at lunch after a golf outing yesterday, which made me need a big nap afterwards! Then another one at a clothing party. But I stopped at one- normally I would have been in for at least two. In both instances.m, I just didn’t like the way it made me feel!
It is amazing the "thing" we thought brought us so much enjoyment either puts us to sleep or just does not live up to it's old taste. When I have a drink now a days. I have to make sure I am not wasting my time and $$ on something that is going to disappoint me afterwards. 😊5 -
dawnbgethealthy wrote: »Geez @anglilacs I think that wine would have made me more talkative not less : - P
Haha! Yes, wine does make me more talkative with adults, especially at a social event. I find when I am drinking at home, it makes me really drowsy and just ready for bed. And that’s what I crave sometimes - a nice warm feeling before bed and the brain is turned off...until it isn’t.3 -
I’ve definitely not been AF this week but I’m hosting a work event with out of town colleagues in my town. When I travel with these folks we are usually up late at the bar and struggling the next morning to focus on our meetings. This week I’ve managed to keep the drinks at dinner to just a couple, pacing with water and sipping slowly. Last night a couple extra bottles of champagne were purchased at the end of the dinner and I had only one glass since I was driving and had already had a couple glasses of wine. Went home, had one more glass while visiting with my sister in from out of town to help out this week.
This morning I woke up to late night texts from the group who stayed up way late at the bar and then morning texts complaining about how horrible they all feel. Meanwhile I’m getting in a short walk in the beautiful weather and getting ready to head to the office. I’m still tired and worn out from the week but far less so than if I had been at the bar late each night.
So yeah definitely not AF but definitely keeping in spirit of “less alcohol”. Tonight is book club and have a birthday party this weekend so I don’t think my AF tally will go up much more this month but it’s been a pretty successful September in my opinion9 -
WinoGelato wrote: »So yeah definitely not AF but definitely keeping in spirit of “less alcohol”.
@WinoGelato ........nice play on words! (spirit/alcohol)2 -
I am coming up on a couple of weeks of alcohol free and the scale that hasn't budged in a long time has finally budged.
I always like to think that I am tracking my calories of food and drink but somehow that reality wasn't panning out.
I think I read somewhere somebody saying "don't drink your calories."
I guess there is more to that than I was willing to believe.
My pattern - I exercise a good bit mostly consistently but sometimes sporadically. I always liked the effect of alcohol after a hard binge of exercise. In my imagination I always pretended like I was only having a beer and a shot after exercise. Reality was more like 2 of each. I always thought that I wasn't really getting drunk. Ugh. I wasn't really getting drunk like the alcoholics that I know. Heh! Not as bad as that guy.
I resolved to break that cycle pretty much every day. Relented pretty much every day.
Couple weeks ago I got put on a prescription called Metronidazol.
I read the directions. It said don't have alcohol. It said it will make you sick.
I always wanted to test that. I am all like really? Will it make me sick? How sick?
But I went for my exercise. Burned calories for a couple of hours and discovered that I had squirrelled away two miniatures of bourbon in my camelbak.
I thought about drinking them but then thought, I feel good from that exercise. Do I really want to take the chance of replacing that good feeling with sickness?
So I made a little geocache of them two miniatures up on the top of a pretty substantial climb.
They are still there after two weeks. I go by them on my exercise every other couple of days.
That medicine says don't have alcohol for several days after the medicine is done.
I keep thinking I will go back to them, heh, as if that is easier than going to a convenience store.
But I don't know. I might be able to keep this AF run going for a while.
Hard thing is not gaining weight in feast season. Eating, drinking and not exercising is what is coming.
Hmmm, AF might be a good thing to carry me through.12 -
@BuddysSurrogateGrandpa1 that is an interesting read. And so true. I thought for many years that alcohol was like a free pass in the calorie department. It was not until they really started to come out with all the light beers that a light went off in my head. Yikes really calories in beer?....When did that happen I thought. Than I tried to substitute the alcohol calories for the nutritious food calories and got in even worse of a mess.
Nice to have you in here with your pondering and thought provoking posts.4 -
My plan is to have more AF days than drinking days each month. I will need to build up several in a row for September since I am starting my tracking on the 7th.
9/07 - AF
9/08 - AF
9/09 - AF
9/10 - AF
9/11 - 2 bottles Michelob Ultra
9/12 - AF
9/13 - 2 vodka/soda
9/14 - 1 Mich Ultra, 2/3 bottle of red wine, and an after dinner bourbon.
9/15 - AF
9/16 - AF
9/17 - AF
9/18 - AF
9/19 - 2 drinks
9/20 - AF
9/21 - 9 oz red wine. 2 oz vodka.
9/22 - AF
9/23 - AF
9/24 - 2 drinks
9/25 - AF
9/26 - 2 drinks - Trying to wind down - didn't need it.
I think I am going to try Sober October. Planning to do the Last 90 Days challenge created by Rachel Hollis. One of the 5 to Thrive is giving up one food category you know you shouldn't be eating. I think alcohol would be a good choice. I should probably give up Diet Coke, but think I may set myself up to fail since it is my fiscal year end and the busiest time of year for me for work.
Tally AF (Starting 9/7/19) - 13 of 20 days.
Thank you all for keeping me accountable!6 -
dawnbgethealthy wrote: »Geez @anglilacs I think that wine would have made me more talkative not less : - P
Haha! Yes, wine does make me more talkative with adults, especially at a social event. I find when I am drinking at home, it makes me really drowsy and just ready for bed. And that’s what I crave sometimes - a nice warm feeling before bed and the brain is turned off...until it isn’t.dawnbgethealthy wrote: »Geez @anglilacs I think that wine would have made me more talkative not less : - P
Haha! Yes, wine does make me more talkative with adults, especially at a social event. I find when I am drinking at home, it makes me really drowsy and just ready for bed. And that’s what I crave sometimes - a nice warm feeling before bed and the brain is turned off...until it isn’t.
So interesting that you said that. I am not a wine drinker, until this trip. I have had sleep problems/disorders since I was 7 years old. This week I got into red wine, and it is the best sleeps that I have ever had. The nice warm feeling like you said, the brain turned off. Felt amazing the next days and refreshed.
If I drink liquor (my usual), when I fall asleep I wake up in an hour.
Oh my, I could be a wino now. About to get drowsy.3 -
that I just couldn't seem to meditate away even though I ran (drove) to the lake after work for a float under a cloudless clear blue sky with sparkling glass-like water and some deep breaths. Sleep deprivation is crappy. I realize that booze probably doesn't help Anxiety, but it has somehow tonight numbed me and relaxed me. Still using booze as a crutch I guess, although I tried other things first. Not going to beat myself up. Us humans can be so fragile! If only I could skate every day... : - )
September 06 - AF
September 07 - AF - I didn't intend to be, but I burned over 1100 calories through exercise and didn't want that to be wasted, so stayed AF
September 08 - 3 drinks - next planned drinks, Tuesday
September 09 - AF
September 10 - 3 drinks Tuesday. I didn't have enough to eat I guess and really felt it, thought that I was going to puke but didn't. I drank a lot of water after the drinks, so actually feel okay now. Time to rack up some more AF days.
September 11 - AF - Skated today, but with having drinks last night I didn't really feel that steady.
September 12 - 2 drinks, just couldn't have the 3rd which is unusual for me. Too tired to even make a 3rd drink. Long workday today, I must say that it was nice to have a couple of cocktails. Off to bed early.
September 13 - 2 drinks + an AF beer. Really, I never drink beer, but am glad that I bought that 6-pack of Labbatt AF to put in the fridge. I think that I have had 2 of them now. I wanted one more drink but didn't really feel like having more alcohol, and definitely did not want water. Broke the "never have drinks 2 days in a row" thing. But also didn't have my 3rd drink 2 days in a row. Faulty thinking, but whatever. 2 weeks of barely any sleep, have a hard time shutting off my brain even though my body is super tired. Maybe my discipline goes out the window, although I have been low on calories. Perhaps I will make the 4 AF days per week this week, maintained the 5 AF days for the week last week. Weekend, no big pressing events to look good or feel sharp. Just need to continue to work on harvesting and processing my garden tomorrow.
September 14 - AF - Felt like having drinks, but didn't.
September 15 - 3 drinks. no reason to have drinks really, just did. I have had 2 glasses of water since. I have had a couple of weeks of sleep deprivation, not that it is an excuse, but the few days that I was able to actually fall asleep were days where I had alcohol. I hope to do well when I am in Dallas for 2 weeks. I had tentatively booked an all-inclusive (much cheaper than Dallas) but I struggle so much with my weight loss and putting in some AF days every week that I knew that the all-inclusive option was only going to be setting me up for failure. Not that I will never do an all-inclusive again, but maybe after another 20 pounds down on the scale. Anyone here live in Dallas btw? Or have been to Dallas and know some great places to visit? There are 8 arenas with public skating 2-3 times per day 7 days a week, so y'all know that I will be ice skating every day (packing my skates in my suitcase since rental skates don't make me skate my best, and people hear that you are from Canada and expect you to be steady on your blades). I would be tickled pink if someone is from the area and wants to skate with me : - )
September 16 - AF
September 17 - Tuesday. 3 drinks over quite a space of time. I was one and a half drinks in when a friend that lives far away called me, so I put that drink in the freezer lol. Talked for 2 hours, then made something to eat and had the rest of that one and another one. My Tuesdays really are too much. I worked 14 hours, and it was stressful. Still using booze as a sedative from time to time. So far not every Tuesday, but I have sort of designated Tuesdays as the days that I will have a few drinks.
September 18 - AF
September 19 - AF - that was a tough long day then a friend came by to take me out for an early birthday drink, but I declined. Bonus skating in the morning that I don't want to be wobbly for, and planned drinks tomorrow.
September 20 - Martini, champagne, 3 other drinks.
Sept 21 - AF
Sept 22 - AF - I leave for Spokane tomorrow, then fly out of there to Dallas the next morning. I am not sure how I will do while away, but I don't plan on limiting myself too much. Definitely going to try Texas bbq! I have never had Brisket. I will be happy if I can accomplish 18 AF days for the month, so shooting for that. I will be checking in for sure.
September 23 - AF - in Spokane, flying out to Dallas in the morning 24th.
September 24 - 1/2 bottle of wine (2 6oz glasses). Very long traveling day, hardly any food, got lost in Dallas trying to find my motel...got there, went to the grocery store for some food and wine. Now I have a half bottle sitting there.
September 25 - Well, I stared at that half bottle of wine and delayed and delayed. I went into the pool hot tub after dark without taking a glass with me even though I wanted to. I was doing well...but caved. I know that 2 days in a row leads to 3 days in a row and 4 days in a row etc. Still drinking way less than I would if I had gone to an all inclusive. Wine is not my drink of choice normally. Tomorrow night (and Saturday night) I am going to an NHL hockey game. Under my calorie limit the last few days, so that is good. In a bathing suit every day, so shouldn't be drinking because of the bloat. Whatever, I am on vacation, not going to go crazy though. Hoping to squeeze at least a couple more AF days in before the end of the month.
September 26 - The NHL hockey game was so great, other than getting lost on foot afterward in the dark in downtown Dallas. I opted to take transit park n ride instead of my rental car because I didn't want to have to park so far away and walking at night by myself in downtown. Lol. Anyway, I finally found the way to the bus stop after asking people. then, the bus didn't seem to be arriving after 45 minutes and I feared that they had stopped running for the night. Then I saw a sign with a phone number for "DART" and there was one scheduled. It came in awhile and I was very glad to be on a bus safe, and got back to the park n ride 40 minutes later. Yep, stopped at Kroger and bought more wine. Had 2 glasses. Yes, drinking less, but another day not AF.
Running total: 14 AF days out of 26days so far2 -
Happy Friday everyone. I am just going to vent.
Since I have been on this medicine, alcohol hasn't even been an option, which has been very nice. Today is my 10th day AF. I have more energy, have lost three pounds, slept better last night than I have in a long time (minus my sinuses and subsequent sleeping with my mouth open -- yuck--and I may be a snorer) and am able to make much better food choices (even during lunch when I wouldn't be drinking). I know it could be the medication making me feel better, as you can start feeling a difference within a week, but I know it is because of the lack of wine. I love my wine and it is eye opening to see just how much it was integrated into my life. Tired? Have a glass or two. Stressed? Heck half a bottle or more will make you feel better. Making dinner? Classy to hold that glass. Going out to dinner? At least three. Then I do nothing after that...mostly fall asleep on the couch. No laundry, no cuddling up to hubby, no Uno with the kids.
There is such a fine line between societies view of alcohol (again, wine, scotch, bourbon, craft beer...they all sound so grown up!) and being borderline in a bad place. I don't need it, I never put myself or my family in danger by drinking and driving (really, never...that terrifies me beyond words), but the habit has become too engrained and I used these excuses to FUEL the habit, not end it. My tolerance is VERY high and I would drink it very fast. Unnecessary calories, lots of sugar and money, and while i wouldn't have a "hangover" the next day, it is always very obvious I am not as energetic and happy. Combined with very situational depression and anxiety, you can see how I chose to cope. What a cycle we can get ourselves into. You can swap alcohol for fried food, shopping, immersing yourself in video games or your phone...whatever takes the edge off of reality. I love this group because I see everyone being open, honest and breaking it down, so at the end of the month, you can see the patterns, new habits, triggers, whatever.
Just needed to write something today. Hoping as we move into October, everyone is successful in whatever goal they have.13 -
Hi all!
Had another night where I really wanted a drink but I talked myself out of it and I’m glad I did. Thanks, Yesterday Me! 😆
I had one of those days where I was unproductive at work, ate more than I planned, and didn’t get my workout in. So, I thought “I’ve really made a mess of this day. Why not have a drink?” I was really too full to have a drink and I fell asleep 10 minutes after my head hit the pillow. Having Friday as a planned drinking day helped me to resist the urge.
Hope you are all doing well. Great job checking in!
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9/9- 3 drinks (rounding up)
9/10 - AF
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9/20 - 2 drinks
9/21 - 2 drinks
9/22 - 2 drinks
9/23 - AF
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