What’s a red flag for you?
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Cutemesoon wrote: »This has been one of my favourite threads to read through. For me, when ready to get back out there, I will certainly watch out for:
1) An unwillingness to accept responsibility or to apologise.
2) Any attempts to isolate me from friends and family.
3) Anger issues.
4) Lack of empathy.
5) Expecting me to put in all of the effort.
6) Disappears without an explanation.
7) Demands updates on where I am and who I'm with every half hour - and getting unnecessarily angry if it doesn't happen.
8) Wants to be top priority but I'm not even in their top 5 🤷♀️
9) Makes up things I supposedly did in the past and holds them against me.
10) Accuses me of being manipulative or controlling when my point of view is different to theirs.
Excellent observations! I used to deal with someone who has the traits in bold. It was HORRIBLE!
Not fun to deal with! Glad you got away from that person
So am I! He was incorrigible. 😤1 -
Having too many red flags
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Motorsheen wrote: »
How about the gas mask she wearing? Lol0 -
“Ah,,,, let me call you because my phone is screwy and I normally don’t hear it.”0
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Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.5
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seems angry2
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GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.
For a moment I thought this was a 'the person above you. . ' thread. Whew.1 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.
For a moment I thought this was a 'the person above you. . ' thread. Whew.
The criteria has been laid out, now it could be *any* of us!!!! That's actually a good point about this thread, come to think of it...I could turn myself into the most unwanted person in the entire world of internet if I took the time to write all this stuff down0 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.
For a moment I thought this was a 'the person above you. . ' thread. Whew.
LOL
No one should take it personal. I mean unless they have a the personality flaw of being a misogynistic pompous *kitten*.3 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.
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Reckoner68 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.
For a moment I thought this was a 'the person above you. . ' thread. Whew.
The criteria has been laid out, now it could be *any* of us!!!! That's actually a good point about this thread, come to think of it...I could turn myself into the most unwanted person in the entire world of internet if I took the time to write all this stuff down
You do have a record of it.1 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.
For a moment I thought this was a 'the person above you. . ' thread. Whew.
LOL
No one should take it personal. I mean unless they have a the personality flaw of being a misogynistic pompous *kitten*.
I thought it was about honeybee_12 for a moment. It had me perplexed.0 -
Reckoner68 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.
For a moment I thought this was a 'the person above you. . ' thread. Whew.
The criteria has been laid out, now it could be *any* of us!!!! That's actually a good point about this thread, come to think of it...I could turn myself into the most unwanted person in the entire world of internet if I took the time to write all this stuff down
You do have a record of it.
I swore a blood oath never to check past pages of the forums; any time previous pages are on the screen, I have to close my eyes.
It's not my fault, it's just how the world works sometimes2 -
Reckoner68 wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.
For a moment I thought this was a 'the person above you. . ' thread. Whew.
The criteria has been laid out, now it could be *any* of us!!!! That's actually a good point about this thread, come to think of it...I could turn myself into the most unwanted person in the entire world of internet if I took the time to write all this stuff down
You do have a record of it.
I swore a blood oath never to check past pages of the forums; any time previous pages are on the screen, I have to close my eyes.
It's not my fault, it's just how the world works sometimes
You could delegate to a familiar, though.2 -
Reckoner68 wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.
For a moment I thought this was a 'the person above you. . ' thread. Whew.
The criteria has been laid out, now it could be *any* of us!!!! That's actually a good point about this thread, come to think of it...I could turn myself into the most unwanted person in the entire world of internet if I took the time to write all this stuff down
You do have a record of it.
I swore a blood oath never to check past pages of the forums; any time previous pages are on the screen, I have to close my eyes.
It's not my fault, it's just how the world works sometimes
You could delegate to a familiar, though.
Only if they have a bar code tattooed on the back of their neck.1 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.
For a moment I thought this was a 'the person above you. . ' thread. Whew.
The criteria has been laid out, now it could be *any* of us!!!! That's actually a good point about this thread, come to think of it...I could turn myself into the most unwanted person in the entire world of internet if I took the time to write all this stuff down
You do have a record of it.
I swore a blood oath never to check past pages of the forums; any time previous pages are on the screen, I have to close my eyes.
It's not my fault, it's just how the world works sometimes
You could delegate to a familiar, though.
Only if they have a bar code tattooed on the back of their neck.
Have you checked yourself lately?0 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.
For a moment I thought this was a 'the person above you. . ' thread. Whew.
The criteria has been laid out, now it could be *any* of us!!!! That's actually a good point about this thread, come to think of it...I could turn myself into the most unwanted person in the entire world of internet if I took the time to write all this stuff down
You do have a record of it.
I swore a blood oath never to check past pages of the forums; any time previous pages are on the screen, I have to close my eyes.
It's not my fault, it's just how the world works sometimes
You could delegate to a familiar, though.
Only if they have a bar code tattooed on the back of their neck.
Have you checked yourself lately?
I did a breast exam just this morning. No lumps. Yay me!3 -
doesn't like dogs3
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GymGoddessGoals wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.
For a moment I thought this was a 'the person above you. . ' thread. Whew.
The criteria has been laid out, now it could be *any* of us!!!! That's actually a good point about this thread, come to think of it...I could turn myself into the most unwanted person in the entire world of internet if I took the time to write all this stuff down
You do have a record of it.
I swore a blood oath never to check past pages of the forums; any time previous pages are on the screen, I have to close my eyes.
It's not my fault, it's just how the world works sometimes
You could delegate to a familiar, though.
Only if they have a bar code tattooed on the back of their neck.
Have you checked yourself lately?
I did a breast exam just this morning. No lumps. Yay me!
Second opinion? You know, just to be safe.
No barcodes either?
I was hoping you would not wreck yourself.0 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.
For a moment I thought this was a 'the person above you. . ' thread. Whew.
The criteria has been laid out, now it could be *any* of us!!!! That's actually a good point about this thread, come to think of it...I could turn myself into the most unwanted person in the entire world of internet if I took the time to write all this stuff down
You do have a record of it.
I swore a blood oath never to check past pages of the forums; any time previous pages are on the screen, I have to close my eyes.
It's not my fault, it's just how the world works sometimes
You could delegate to a familiar, though.
Only if they have a bar code tattooed on the back of their neck.
Have you checked yourself lately?
I did a breast exam just this morning. No lumps. Yay me!
Second opinion? You know, just to be safe.
No barcodes either?
I was hoping you would not wreck yourself.
I'm definitely not a bar code kind of lady.0 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »Reckoner68 wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Is a misogynistic pompous *kitten* who thinks when women don't meet his ridiculous standards of a 50's housewife it's a personality flaw.
For a moment I thought this was a 'the person above you. . ' thread. Whew.
The criteria has been laid out, now it could be *any* of us!!!! That's actually a good point about this thread, come to think of it...I could turn myself into the most unwanted person in the entire world of internet if I took the time to write all this stuff down
You do have a record of it.
I swore a blood oath never to check past pages of the forums; any time previous pages are on the screen, I have to close my eyes.
It's not my fault, it's just how the world works sometimes
You could delegate to a familiar, though.
Only if they have a bar code tattooed on the back of their neck.
Have you checked yourself lately?
I did a breast exam just this morning. No lumps. Yay me!
Second opinion? You know, just to be safe.
No barcodes either?
I was hoping you would not wreck yourself.
I'm definitely not a bar code kind of lady.
Interest is piqued.0 -
- Anger issues
- Controlling
- A mean drunk
- Too regimented (not willing to go on adventures, too serious about organization)
- Takes themselves and situations too seriously all the time2 -
When he doesn’t like that I don’t like that he doesn’t like coffee3
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bourbon_n_barbells wrote: »
Being allergic to dogs and not liking dogs are not the same thing.2 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »bourbon_n_barbells wrote: »
Being allergic to dogs and not liking dogs are not the same thing.
True!0 -
Being allergic to not liking dogs is a huge red flag for me. I put it right up there with constantly cancelling plans so she can wash her hair1
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Reckoner68 wrote: »Being allergic to not liking dogs is a huge red flag for me. I put it right up there with constantly cancelling plans so she can wash her hair
Why would you even wanna date a chick with hair that nasty?1
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