What’s a red flag for you?

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  • isalsayourface123
    isalsayourface123 Posts: 2,153 Member
    jujaws wrote: »
    Men wearing fashion necklaces 😂. It was always a thing of mine, ESPECIALLY if it was a gold chain.

    Same. It's a deal breaker.
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,794 Member
    Verbal abuse at the Target snack bar
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    jujaws wrote: »
    Men wearing fashion necklaces 😂. It was always a thing of mine, ESPECIALLY if it was a gold chain.
    isalsayourface123 wrote: »
    jujaws wrote: »
    Men wearing fashion necklaces 😂. It was always a thing of mine, ESPECIALLY if it was a gold chain.

    Same. It's a deal breaker.

    What about if I match it with a gold grill 🤷🏽‍♂️...
  • Whydahdad71
    Whydahdad71 Posts: 319 Member
    Past restraining orders can be a real mood killer.
  • jujaws
    jujaws Posts: 190 Member
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    jujaws wrote: »
    Men wearing fashion necklaces 😂. It was always a thing of mine, ESPECIALLY if it was a gold chain.
    isalsayourface123 wrote: »
    jujaws wrote: »
    Men wearing fashion necklaces 😂. It was always a thing of mine, ESPECIALLY if it was a gold chain.

    Same. It's a deal breaker.

    What about if I match it with a gold grill 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    😂😂😂 Only if it's home made. I'm talking tin foil and gold nail polish.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    kam26001 wrote: »
    Verbal abuse at the Target snack bar

    Cold Corn Dogs Will Not Be Tolerated.



    ..... red polo shirts notwithstanding.
  • TarryTaffy
    TarryTaffy Posts: 883 Member
    edited November 2019
    Whydahdad71 wrote: »
    Past restraining orders can be a real mood killer.

    Skeletal remains in the cloak closet are a bummer, too.

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  • ArmyVeteranM1A1C
    ArmyVeteranM1A1C Posts: 1,045 Member
    When she gets a text and then has to use the bathroom
  • bishopjulia
    bishopjulia Posts: 205 Member
    🚩🚩🚩
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    When he is overly turned off by my memes or overly concerned about red flags, it is a red flag to me.
  • bojack5
    bojack5 Posts: 2,859 Member
    If they have ex's they have never met

    Also agree with @nooshi713, overly concerned about red flags....
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    Someone who continuously externalizes blame and never takes ownership or responsibility.

    Someone who suggests lying as a way to dodge unpleasantness or awkwardness. If their relationship with honesty is that casual and opportunistic, chances are some day you will also be lied to as an avoidance strategy.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    _Miss_chievous_ wrote: »
    If he slams the breaks at a yellow light, he's probably not going to do the things I like.

    But Heyyy... This has saved me so much money in accidents over the years

    Babies are expensive 🤷🏽‍♂️
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  • floreslori413
    floreslori413 Posts: 4 Member
    putting aside triggers you may have, because that is important as well. Not keeping their word. all talk no action. Late night text. Canceling last minute.
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    banshee925 wrote: »
    Catching him trying on my dresses and underwear I don’t mind so much 🤷🏻‍♀️

    Wearing my 👠 is just one step too far ! 🥴

    I feel like your line is VERY clearly drawn. ++
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    Flowing black robes and a scythe
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    If he doesn’t realize the earth is flat and that nelson mandela keeps making alternate realities willy-nilly
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    If she can't appreciate Charlie Brown holiday specials... I mean you don't have to appreciate them like I do, but if you are just apathetic about them... 🚩
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    If she can't appreciate Charlie Brown holiday specials... I mean you don't have to appreciate them like I do, but if you are just apathetic about them... 🚩

    I would much rather Charlie Brown than A Christmas Story.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    If she can't appreciate Charlie Brown holiday specials... I mean you don't have to appreciate them like I do, but if you are just apathetic about them... 🚩

    I would much rather Charlie Brown than A Christmas Story.

    The best part in a Christmas story is when he beats the *kitten* out of bully 😂, whooped his *kitten*...

    Other than that, I'm just like... That damn brat is gonna shoot his eye out 👀
  • s131951
    s131951 Posts: 3,776 Member
    _Miss_chievous_ wrote: »
    If he slams the breaks at a yellow light, he's probably not going to do the things I like.

    Clever.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    A glaring lack of appreciation for homemade guacamole.... and/or ghost peppers.
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,794 Member
    When she introduces me to her friends and I notice they're referring to her by the nickname of Icepick. 😯
  • 08dmd
    08dmd Posts: 11 Member
    No friends. And controlling
  • mattig89ch
    mattig89ch Posts: 2,648 Member
    When they take compliments but never give them

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