What’s a red flag for you?
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amorfati601070 wrote: »Jehovah’s Witness
If I witnessed Jehovah if probably tell everyone about it too.0 -
Shiny fingernails0
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happimess01 wrote: »happimess01 wrote: »if she won't hold my hand during takeoff
If he won’t clap with me during landing
nope, you can't just waltz in here whenever you want. I will see you in Feb, goodbye!
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happimess01 wrote: »happimess01 wrote: »if she won't hold my hand during takeoff
If he won’t clap with me during landing
nope, you can't just waltz in here whenever you want. I will see you in Feb, goodbye!
You’re the worst
I was kidding, it’s all good. I mean it would lead me to believe that you might not be a woman of your word and have questionable integrity but it’s totally fine. Not a big deal at all tbh.2 -
happimess01 wrote: »happimess01 wrote: »happimess01 wrote: »if she won't hold my hand during takeoff
If he won’t clap with me during landing
nope, you can't just waltz in here whenever you want. I will see you in Feb, goodbye!
You’re the worst
I was kidding, it’s all good. I mean it would lead me to believe that you might not be a woman of your word and have questionable integrity but it’s totally fine. Not a big deal at all tbh.
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I tell my nieces to run away from any man who doesn't love and respect his mama, demonizes his exes or has school-aged children.0
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what's wrong with school-aged children?
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GymGoddessGoals wrote: »what's wrong with school-aged children?
I wanna know too as I have 2 school-age children and two more who will be there in the near future and does this apply to woman or only men? 🤨3 -
< donning flame proof suit >
IMO, a man with younger children would be a man who (excepting widower status) possesses poor mate-choosing skills at best, and/or has abandoned a woman and his young children at worst. My nieces are young - in their early 20's; so they are probably not life-experienced enough to deal with the dynamics of older children - or a man old enough to have them.
If I had nephews, I'd probably give them the same advice. If a woman doesn't love and respect her daddy, RUN!
Not saying there aren't ever exceptions. I know there always are; but that's the advice I'd give to better the odds.
< ducks for cover >
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< donning flame proof suit >
IMO, a man with younger children would be a man who (excepting widower status) possesses poor mate-choosing skills at best, and/or has abandoned a woman and his young children at worst. My nieces are young - in their early 20's; so they are probably not life-experienced enough to deal with the dynamics of older children - or a man old enough to have them.
If I had nephews, I'd probably give them the same advice. If a woman doesn't love and respect her daddy, RUN!
Not saying there aren't ever exceptions. I know there always are; but that's the advice I'd give to better the odds.
< ducks for cover >
Leaves more great dads for the rest of us 🤷🏼♀️
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< donning flame proof suit >
IMO, a man with younger children would be a man who (excepting widower status) possesses poor mate-choosing skills at best, and/or has abandoned a woman and his young children at worst. My nieces are young - in their early 20's; so they are probably not life-experienced enough to deal with the dynamics of older children - or a man old enough to have them.
If I had nephews, I'd probably give them the same advice. If a woman doesn't love and respect her daddy, RUN!
Not saying there aren't ever exceptions. I know there always are; but that's the advice I'd give to better the odds.
< ducks for cover >
True.
They are in different stages in their lives.
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< donning flame proof suit >
IMO, a man with younger children would be a man who (excepting widower status) possesses poor mate-choosing skills at best, and/or has abandoned a woman and his young children at worst. My nieces are young - in their early 20's; so they are probably not life-experienced enough to deal with the dynamics of older children - or a man old enough to have them.
If I had nephews, I'd probably give them the same advice. If a woman doesn't love and respect her daddy, RUN!
Not saying there aren't ever exceptions. I know there always are; but that's the advice I'd give to better the odds.
< ducks for cover >
I am having a hard time translating...or comprehending what is being said here. Sounds like an interesting point but im not sure what is being said here....5 -
< donning flame proof suit >
IMO, a man with younger children would be a man who (excepting widower status) possesses poor mate-choosing skills at best, and/or has abandoned a woman and his young children at worst. My nieces are young - in their early 20's; so they are probably not life-experienced enough to deal with the dynamics of older children - or a man old enough to have them.
If I had nephews, I'd probably give them the same advice. If a woman doesn't love and respect her daddy, RUN!
Not saying there aren't ever exceptions. I know there always are; but that's the advice I'd give to better the odds.
< ducks for cover >
Leaves more great dads for the rest of us 🤷🏼♀️
I'd take a dad doing his best to coparent really well over other options any day.
But also... I'm hoping he doesn't want more kids or have kids younger than 10. My kids are older and I'm not looking to get half way decent at this phase (or middling because... teens) and move on to other joys/challenges, only to find myself staring that path down again. I may be experienced, but I'm going to be tired.4 -
Is it a normal thing now for girls to tell their boyfriend they want a break or space for a while (1 month or longer) to think about things or do they really want to break up but just can't say it? My situation
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Is it a normal thing now for girls to tell their boyfriend they want a break or space for a while (1 month or longer) to think about things or do they really want to break up but just can't say it? My situation
We been saying that.
Asking for a break is the cruelest thing one can ask for from another person. Here you are weeks, months later being hopeful, and waiting, wasting your time.1 -
Is it a normal thing now for girls to tell their boyfriend they want a break or space for a while (1 month or longer) to think about things or do they really want to break up but just can't say it? My situation
We been saying that.
Asking for a break is the cruelest thing can one can ask for from another person. Here you are weeks, months later being hopeful, and waiting, wasting your time.
My ex recommended a break and then hooked up with another dude.. Lol I am no fan of breaks
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jessienani wrote: »Is it a normal thing now for girls to tell their boyfriend they want a break or space for a while (1 month or longer) to think about things or do they really want to break up but just can't say it? My situation
We been saying that.
Asking for a break is the cruelest thing can one can ask for from another person. Here you are weeks, months later being hopeful, and waiting, wasting your time.
My ex recommended a break and then hooked up with another dude.. Lol I am no fan of breaks
I’ve seen it happen so many times the person is usually interested and getting to know someone else.0 -
Is it a normal thing now for girls to tell their boyfriend they want a break or space for a while (1 month or longer) to think about things or do they really want to break up but just can't say it? My situation
Just want to clarify the timeline here...
She wants to get back together just before Valentine's Day?
Also, are you the same guy who went to church a few weeks ago and she avoided you the entire service?
She's not fit for you, my friend.3 -
Is it a normal thing now for girls to tell their boyfriend they want a break or space for a while (1 month or longer) to think about things or do they really want to break up but just can't say it? My situation
Is this the person you saw outside of a church and they ignored you Or was that something I read in a book(I'm being serious here cause I'm really not sure)? But if it is then I'd try to move forward and get on with your life. You deserve to it instead of waiting in limbo. IMO, anyone who says 'I need space' is trying to take the easy comfortable(for them) way out. Don't invest any more of your one life in this person.
ETA: Ah, ok, I see Malted Tea remembers the same post that I did so definitely let her go and go forward.2 -
Yep, same guy. Last we talked was Jan 5th through text. She didn't even want to meet up in person. I was ready to call it quits. She says the break is needed but not sure if or when the break will end. It sucks. I fell hard for her. But contemplating trying to meet up tomorrow.3
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Yep, same guy. Last we talked was Jan 5th through text. She didn't even want to meet up in person. I was ready to call it quits. She says the break is needed but not sure if or when the break will end. It sucks. I fell hard for her. But contemplating trying to meet up tomorrow.
Honestly, I would have moved on the second "need a break" came outta her mouth.6 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Yep, same guy. Last we talked was Jan 5th through text. She didn't even want to meet up in person. I was ready to call it quits. She says the break is needed but not sure if or when the break will end. It sucks. I fell hard for her. But contemplating trying to meet up tomorrow.
Honestly, I would have moved on the second "need a break" came outta her mouth.eatpolerepeat wrote: »Yep, same guy. Last we talked was Jan 5th through text. She didn't even want to meet up in person. I was ready to call it quits. She says the break is needed but not sure if or when the break will end. It sucks. I fell hard for her. But contemplating trying to meet up tomorrow.
Think she said it all right there. I'm sorry this is happening to you
I'm sorry, dude, but they're right. It sounds inevitable that the break is for good. Tell her you are too good for childish games, and find the right one for you… Good luck, mate.9 -
if she keeps licking her ring pop on our first date1
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happimess01 wrote: »if she keeps licking her ring pop on our first date
You sure you put this in the right topic?1 -
In an app profile:
"I'm an open book"
If he fills an app generated question about weird attractions with "redheads".1 -
happimess01 wrote: »if she keeps licking her ring pop on our first date
You sure you put this in the right topic?
I try not to be predictable. What's the fun in that?1 -
If he wears his mask under his nose. It's been almost 1 year we have to wear one now... it takes less time to potty train a toddler. Imagine the other stuff.. 🤭7
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How would you feel about dating someone who had no prior long-term dating experience? Do you try to find out about the guy's past dating experience beyond if he's married and has kids?0
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When I’m standing outside the action watching repeated patterns of bad behavior and I’m powerless to stop it because people are shady af.5
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