What screams "I'm very insecure"?

George_of_the_Jungle

That disappointed look

your_future_ex_wife

George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »

That disappointed look

Is that all? ☹️

George_of_the_Jungle

your_future_ex_wife wrote: »

George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »

That disappointed look

Is that all? ☹️

For now. Plenty more disappointment to follow.

oooaarrrr79

I am insecure and I will hold my hands up, probably everything i do "screams insecurity".
From a very early age I was told I was the fat ugly one who wouldn't do anything with my life. I got married and was told I was fat and ugly and no one would want me if I left my husband. So yes insecurities was instilled in me practically all my life. I realised my EX husband was the insecure one that's why he turned that around on to me so I wouldn't leave him.
I realised I am me, I am a good person whatever I look like.
Fat....I can lose weight
Ugly....simple don't look at my face
I wouldn't do anything with my life....I have got 4 beautiful children, who are 26, 20, 19 and 3 who I am very proud of that I raised to be respectful, good, honest people.

I know insecure people and I believe these insecurities are a product of people other people whether family, partners, co-workers, being bullied at school and no one has the right to make anyone feel less than what they would like to be treated themselves. I find people demand respect but give no respect to others and it is a two way street.
We shouldn't beat someone down for being insecure, we should encourage people to be proud of who they are and their achievements however big or small. I believe everyone has insecurities in one way or another maybe it is showing them or admitting that we have them is the real problem.
We live in a society where females whatever age should look a certain way and if we don't we get punished by being slated for then trying to look that way in whatever means we can, life is hard without these added socially acceptable pressures.

These are just my opinions based on my own experiences and other people I know.