Less Alcohol - JANUARY 2020- One Day at a Time
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Old habit: 1-4 drinks/evening.
Goal: Ease into only drinking on weekends! Consistantly be AF 5 days a week.
Jan 5- 2 drinks
Jan 6- 1 drink
Jan 7- AF π
Jan 8- AF π
Jan 9- AF π
Jan 10- None work night! 4 drinks
Jan 11- AF
Jan 12- 1 drink
Jan 13- AF
Jan 14- 3.5 drinks. Whoops! These snow days are throwing me off lol
Jan 15- 1 drink. Ok, today is the day! Need to be AF. I do a weight check on Friday mornings with a group of ladies on Facebook. Drinking alcohol the night before weighing in will make me retain water. So that will help me refrain
Jan 16- AF π
Jan 17- 1 drink
Jan 18- 3 drinks
Jan 19- 3 drinks
Jan 20- 2 drinks- I need to get my butt into gear! Determined to be AF the rest of the week!!
Jan 21- AF
Jan 22- AF
Jan 23- AF
9 AF Days / 19 Days6 -
Woot woot @brittgreenlikethecolor88 here is another ππππ5
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Dropping in to say that I am so appreciative of all of you and I hope this weekend brings whatever positive your way that you wish for. I'm running the 20 on Sunday and cooking a candlelight dinner that night. I'm in with 10 days no alcohol. I'm thinking about dessert...6
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And by dessert, I mean chocolate anything or butterscotch pudding with chocolate candy sprinkles over it.4
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Dropping in to say that I am so appreciative of all of you and I hope this weekend brings whatever positive your way that you wish for. I'm running the 20 on Sunday and cooking a candlelight dinner that night. I'm in with 10 days no alcohol. I'm thinking about dessert...
More ππππ's getting tossed around. Congrats @LoveyChar for your 10 streak and good luck in your race.
We luv's ya to!
And I am butterscotch girl over chocolate any day.5 -
I am very curious what the event is you will be attending - The make it, bake it, fake it .......what is this? Sounds interesting.
Everyone or almost everyone brings an item to donate to the auction. It can be "make it" home made DYI, something you cook "bake it", or buy something on etsy or other and "fake it". I took a bottle of wine with lovely ribbon tied around the neck, 3 bags of various candies in fancy bags with bows and a wine bottle tray. Others brought chocolate strawberries, baskets of goodies, crochet items, and other wine & cheese trays, dry mix of Jamabalya seasoning, stationary, etc. LOTS of choices. You go around and write down your bid on the paper next to the item ... and then go around again to outbid someone. End of the evening the last bid wins the item and settles up. It is a fun evening. We had wine, homemade lasagna, salad, and cake. All the money raised goes to a charity.5 -
Hey everyone, happy weekend to you! I'm appreciative of this group and the support I've gotten here. Its been so helpful!
@Lilylady3k I love the premise of that event, how fun.
@LoveyChar have a great race!
@MissMay that sure sounds like a challenging weekend to try to be AF. I hope it's not too bad. Make sure that "someone" isn't you!
Another AF day here for me. It feels good. My husband also cut way back. I am so proud of him.
Jan 1-7: AF (7 days)
Jan 8: 3 drinks (2 glasses of wine and a small bit of brandy)
Jan 9-13: AF (5 days)
Jan 14: 1 drink (1 glass wine)
Jan 15: 2 drinks (2 glasses wine)
Jan 16: AF
Jan 17: 4 drinks (date night)
Jan 18-20: AF (3 days)
Jan 21: 3 drinks
Jan 22: 5 drinks
Jan 23-24: AF (2 days)
AF days so far in Jan: 18/247 -
As usual, I am going to try for 16-20 AF days for the month.
I just made it to 16 for December.
Wednesday January 01 - 3 drinks
Thursday January 02 - 3 drinks
Friday January 03 - AF
Saturday January 04 - AF - Had to delay and delay and delay today, really wanted to have drinks...but I didn't.
Sunday January 05 - 3 drinks
Monday January 06 - AF
Tuesday January 07 - 3 drinks. Although I have skipped some Tuesdays in the past, it is my designated drink day. I felt off the rails today and know that I need to make some changes with jobs, because the Tuesdays are increasingly just too much for me. Tough to find another job at 59, but the stress is ridiculous. That first sip of alcohol was nicely numbing. I know intellectually that it is not the best way to decompress, but it certainly is surefire and quick.
Wednesday January 08 - AF
Thursday January 09 - 3 drinks - worked early morning until 8pm today, started thinking by 7pm of having a drink when I got home after a grueling day...and I did. I sure am not racking up many AF days this month so far! I know that I won't get rid of that 5 pound gain over the holidays (which took me 7 months to lose!) unless I stop the alcohol. Work in progress.
Friday January 10 - AF. Planned wine tomorrow evening with a friend.
Saturday January 11 - Wine and Brandy. The conversation flowed so easily as those of you who have imbibed in alcohol know how that goes. I was pretty good about having a water in between each drink, that made me feel as if I was "drinking less". Ready to get serious about racking up some AF days soon.
Sunday January 12 - AF
Monday January 13 - AF
Tuesday January 14 - 3 drinks. Pretty much 1 for 1. Going to try to do a little better. No regrets for having drinks tonight. I am never going to be an abstainer, but definitely want to drink less.
Wednesday January 15 - AF - halfway to the lower end of my goal for the month.
Thursday January 16 - 3 drinks - wanted the 4th, but knew that it would make me throw up, so didn't. I want to get back to trying to get 2 AF days in a row each time in between.
Friday January 17 - AF
Saturday January 18 - AF - It was touch and go there for a couple of hours, I really felt like having a couple of drinks. I am sure that I will be happy about it in the morning that I managed to resist.
Sunday January 19 - 3 drinks. Definitely will be AF tomorrow, Tuesdays are usually a very busy day for me.
Monday January 20 - AF
Tuesday January 21 - AF - Very busy day tomorrow working out of town. No booze today!
Wednesday January 22 - 3 drinks. Helluva long day. I realize that I reward myself with drinks for working ridiculously long, or the opposite, having a good relaxing day. Thinking about that.
Thursday January 23 - AF. Dinner and the Ballet tomorrow night where we usually have wine. We'll see, really trying to get back to 2 AF days in a row between drinks days.
Friday January 24 - AF - The Ballet was great, "Anne of Green Gables", a Canadian Classic Story set in PEI re-imagined as a Ballet. Usually my girlfriends and I have drinks with dinner and wine at the Ballet, but nobody did since everyone was driving, so it was very easy to be AF tonight.
Running tally: 14AF days out of 24 days so far.6 -
@MissMay
I look forward to hearing what concert that you attended.
You will be clear headed when everyone else is hungover it sounds like, but hopefully you get some enjoyment from the trip, the new surroundings, the concert.
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Lilylady3k wrote: Β»I am very curious what the event is you will be attending - The make it, bake it, fake it .......what is this? Sounds interesting.
Everyone or almost everyone brings an item to donate to the auction. It can be "make it" home made DYI, something you cook "bake it", or buy something on etsy or other and "fake it". I took a bottle of wine with lovely ribbon tied around the neck, 3 bags of various candies in fancy bags with bows and a wine bottle tray. Others brought chocolate strawberries, baskets of goodies, crochet items, and other wine & cheese trays, dry mix of Jamabalya seasoning, stationary, etc. LOTS of choices. You go around and write down your bid on the paper next to the item ... and then go around again to outbid someone. End of the evening the last bid wins the item and settles up. It is a fun evening. We had wine, homemade lasagna, salad, and cake. All the money raised goes to a charity.
This sounds like funπ 6:39 am in Vegas another 24 AF for me,just found out my iron levels are super low! I thought by going without booze for so long I'd be in perfect health,well this explains alot of my horrible symptoms that I have=no mojo alot of the time, everyone sounds great have a great day π6 -
One glass at dinner last night, and I couldnβt finish it. I do not enjoy that moment when I go from feeling normal to a little tipsy. Itβs weird, I used to like that moment! Another good thing about cutting back.9
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AF since December 31st. Last week-end I didn't think that I would complete the month, but no so close to the end, motivation is high to have a cold turkey January. Impact on mental clarity & memory is obvious. Too bad I didn't see the same impact physically (weight).11
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1 beer last night, but nothing on my flight this morning. I don't know what it's like where you all live, but in the UK it's really common for people to drink in the airport even before very early flights when they're heading off on holiday. And then drink all the way there too. I always drew the line at 7am beer (although plenty this morning didn't) but it's a 5 hour flight and it often gets to wine o clock before we land. But no alcohol on the flight today for me. That's not to say I won't have some later, but it still counts as cutting down!10
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helen_goldthorpe wrote: Β»1 beer last night, but nothing on my flight this morning. I don't know what it's like where you all live, but in the UK it's really common for people to drink in the airport even before very early flights when they're heading off on holiday. And then drink all the way there too. I always drew the line at 7am beer (although plenty this morning didn't) but it's a 5 hour flight and it often gets to wine o clock before we land. But no alcohol on the flight today for me. That's not to say I won't have some later, but it still counts as cutting down!
Good going!
Is it Spain you are going to this time?
I enjoy hearing about your travels.4 -
Yes, Spain. My dad lives here so we come out a couple of times each winter to get some sun while it's cold and dark at home!5
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@Zircher Yes, less alcohol does = running faster and I need all the help I can get. I'm slow π¬!
@shorepine Thank you!
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Old habit: 1-4 drinks/evening.
Goal: Ease into only drinking on weekends! Consistantly be AF 5 days a week.
Jan 5- 2 drinks
Jan 6- 1 drink
Jan 7- AF π
Jan 8- AF π
Jan 9- AF π
Jan 10- None work night. 2 drinks
Jan 11- AF
Jan 12- 1 drink
Jan 13- AF
Jan 14- 3.5 drinks
Jan 15- 1 drink.
Jan 16- AF π
Jan 17- 1 drink
Jan 18- 3 drinks
Jan 19- 3 drinks
Jan 20- 2 drinks
Jan 21- AF
Jan 22- AF
Jan 23- AF π
Jan 24- 2 drinks
Jan 25- 2 drinks.
Ok, time to get serious for the work week! I'm determined to be AF for 5 straight days & end the month strong πͺEven with football tomorrow, I'm going to pass on the beer π7 -
I haven't been looking forward to this day for a couple of weeks now but I made it! We went to TWO surprise birthday parties today, one was at a local brewery with a lot of my friends who I like to enjoy a beer or two with on occasion. The first one - at the brewery wasn't too difficult - I ordered a soda water with lime and just enjoyed the food and time with my friends. The second one was tougher - I would have appreciated a drink to just loosen up because I don't really enjoy small talk and/or big groups. I powered through it with a cappuccino and a pb cookie.
Glad to be home and planning my boot camp class for tomorrow morning. 8 more days!
Keep fighting the good fight, MF Pals!11 -
bourbon_n_barbells wrote: Β»I haven't been looking forward to this day for a couple of weeks now but I made it! We went to TWO surprise birthday parties today, one was at a local brewery with a lot of my friends who I like to enjoy a beer or two with on occasion. The first one - at the brewery wasn't too difficult - I ordered a soda water with lime and just enjoyed the food and time with my friends. The second one was tougher - I would have appreciated a drink to just loosen up because I don't really enjoy small talk and/or big groups. I powered through it with a cappuccino and a pb cookie.
Glad to be home and planning my boot camp class for tomorrow morning. 8 more days!
Keep fighting the good fight, MF Pals!
Nice willpower!5 -
January goal - Alcohol free until January 27th - exams are over and I have a concert that night
January 1 - Too many drinks from NYE
January 2 - AF
January 3 - AF
January 4 - AF
January 5 - AF
January 6 - AF
January 7 - AF
January 8 - AF
January 9 - AF
January 10 - AF
January 11 - AF - This one was harder than the others as I was with friends who were drinking wine while I helped one move!
January 12 - AF
January 13 - AF
January 14 - AF - I really wanted one after my exam because I feel TERRIBLE about it...but I stayed away and said that I can always re-sit for the exam in August if I need to
January 15 - AF
January 16 - AF
January 17 - AF - While sitting at home on a Friday is boring, I'm loving what abstaining is doing to my wallet AND waistline. Since I've stopped drinking, I am losing steadily and am loving it!
January 18 - AF
January 19 - AF
January 20 - AF
January 21 - AF - This is much easier than I thought it would be and I honestly don't think I've even had soda in over a week and I was a daily soda drinker too.
January 22 - AF
January 23 - AF
January 24- AF
January 25 - Today is my last scheduled AF day as I'm headed to a concert tomorrow. I also got some news about some family drama this morning but it's hard to help when you are on the other side of the world. At least the 4 people who matter in this family are in consensus! Will not drink about this today but I may have one extra tomorrow at the concert5 -
6:28 am in Vegas another 24 π hope everyone has a great day!4
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I made a personal goal of an almost AF January and I feel so good to be keeping it. Had a dinner party last night for 8 of us and there was lots of good wine (my old fav). Had a sip of two reds from my sweetie's glass and felt happier drinking my water. At the end of the night I felt especially good knowing I still had energy and would feel great in the morning. For me, the AF is largely about how I feel more energetic with no/little alcohol in my life. Life is so good!6
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As usual, I am going to try for 16-20 AF days for the month.
I just made it to 16 for December.
Wednesday January 01 - 3 drinks
Thursday January 02 - 3 drinks
Friday January 03 - AF
Saturday January 04 - AF - Had to delay and delay and delay today, really wanted to have drinks...but I didn't.
Sunday January 05 - 3 drinks
Monday January 06 - AF
Tuesday January 07 - 3 drinks. Although I have skipped some Tuesdays in the past, it is my designated drink day. I felt off the rails today and know that I need to make some changes with jobs, because the Tuesdays are increasingly just too much for me. Tough to find another job at 59, but the stress is ridiculous. That first sip of alcohol was nicely numbing. I know intellectually that it is not the best way to decompress, but it certainly is surefire and quick.
Wednesday January 08 - AF
Thursday January 09 - 3 drinks - worked early morning until 8pm today, started thinking by 7pm of having a drink when I got home after a grueling day...and I did. I sure am not racking up many AF days this month so far! I know that I won't get rid of that 5 pound gain over the holidays (which took me 7 months to lose!) unless I stop the alcohol. Work in progress.
Friday January 10 - AF. Planned wine tomorrow evening with a friend.
Saturday January 11 - Wine and Brandy. The conversation flowed so easily as those of you who have imbibed in alcohol know how that goes. I was pretty good about having a water in between each drink, that made me feel as if I was "drinking less". Ready to get serious about racking up some AF days soon.
Sunday January 12 - AF
Monday January 13 - AF
Tuesday January 14 - 3 drinks. Pretty much 1 for 1. Going to try to do a little better. No regrets for having drinks tonight. I am never going to be an abstainer, but definitely want to drink less.
Wednesday January 15 - AF - halfway to the lower end of my goal for the month.
Thursday January 16 - 3 drinks - wanted the 4th, but knew that it would make me throw up, so didn't. I want to get back to trying to get 2 AF days in a row each time in between.
Friday January 17 - AF
Saturday January 18 - AF - It was touch and go there for a couple of hours, I really felt like having a couple of drinks. I am sure that I will be happy about it in the morning that I managed to resist.
Sunday January 19 - 3 drinks. Definitely will be AF tomorrow, Tuesdays are usually a very busy day for me.
Monday January 20 - AF
Tuesday January 21 - AF - Very busy day tomorrow working out of town. No booze today!
Wednesday January 22 - 3 drinks. Helluva long day. I realize that I reward myself with drinks for working ridiculously long, or the opposite, having a good relaxing day. Thinking about that.
Thursday January 23 - AF. Dinner and the Ballet tomorrow night where we usually have wine. We'll see, really trying to get back to 2 AF days in a row between drinks days.
Friday January 24 - AF - The Ballet was great, "Anne of Green Gables", a Canadian Classic Story set in PEI re-imagined as a Ballet. Usually my girlfriends and I have drinks with dinner and wine at the Ballet, but nobody did since everyone was driving, so it was very easy to be AF tonight.
Saturday January 25 - 3 drinks
Running tally: 14AF days out of 25 days so far.5 -
January accountability ~ 25
No Alcohol: 17 days
Alcohol: 8 days (15 drinks)
Goal: AF days 3 per week / 12 per month
DH went DRY for January which is a real challenge for him as well β¦ and Iβm trying to be supportive.
Youβll never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret of your success is found in your daily routine. - John C. Maxwell
Including December in my weekly view.
Dec 30 - 2 glasses wine
Dec 31 - AF π
Jan 1 - AF
Jan 2 - AF
Jan 3 - AF
Jan 4 - AF
Jan 5 - AF
6 AF days out of 7 this week!!!
Jan 6 - AF
Jan 7 - AF
Jan 8 - AF
Jan 9 - AF Virgin Bloody Mary & water at happy hour. Water π at Bunco!
Jan 10 - 2 glasses wine
Jan 11 - AF
Jan 12 - 3 glasses wine β¦ DH & I visiting my sister
5 AF days out of 7 this week!
Jan 13 - AF LSU National Champions GEAUX Tigers! πππππ
Jan 14 - AF
Jan 15 - AF π Book Club usually split a bottle of wine with DD but she is doing Dry January so it worked this month
Jan 16 - AF
Jan 17 - 2 drinks @ fishing camp
Jan 18 - 2 glasses of wine @ fishing camp
Jan 19 - AF π @ fishing camp ... Amazed!
5 AF days out of 7 this week!
Jan 20 - 1 glass wine celebrate with DH he passed a required certification test; AF π at Book Club
Jan 21 - AF
Jan 22 - AF
Jan 23 - 1 glass of wine @ Alumnae Meeting - Make It, Bake It, Fake It fundraiser
Jan 24 - 2 glasses of wine β¦ date night out with DH
Jan 25 - 2 mimosas @ daughterβs bridal shower brunch
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Ugh drank way too much last night and was hung over all day. Two glasses of wine and a big cognac. Disappointed in myself because even though I had only 11/26 AF days, I was able to easily only have one glass of wine when I did choose to drink. (I was out a lot this month!)
Well, back in the saddle! A setback isnβt going to derail me.12 -
As usual, I am going to try for 16-20 AF days for the month.
I just made it to 16 for December.
Wednesday January 01 - 3 drinks
Thursday January 02 - 3 drinks
Friday January 03 - AF
Saturday January 04 - AF - Had to delay and delay and delay today, really wanted to have drinks...but I didn't.
Sunday January 05 - 3 drinks
Monday January 06 - AF
Tuesday January 07 - 3 drinks. Although I have skipped some Tuesdays in the past, it is my designated drink day. I felt off the rails today and know that I need to make some changes with jobs, because the Tuesdays are increasingly just too much for me. Tough to find another job at 59, but the stress is ridiculous. That first sip of alcohol was nicely numbing. I know intellectually that it is not the best way to decompress, but it certainly is surefire and quick.
Wednesday January 08 - AF
Thursday January 09 - 3 drinks - worked early morning until 8pm today, started thinking by 7pm of having a drink when I got home after a grueling day...and I did. I sure am not racking up many AF days this month so far! I know that I won't get rid of that 5 pound gain over the holidays (which took me 7 months to lose!) unless I stop the alcohol. Work in progress.
Friday January 10 - AF. Planned wine tomorrow evening with a friend.
Saturday January 11 - Wine and Brandy. The conversation flowed so easily as those of you who have imbibed in alcohol know how that goes. I was pretty good about having a water in between each drink, that made me feel as if I was "drinking less". Ready to get serious about racking up some AF days soon.
Sunday January 12 - AF
Monday January 13 - AF
Tuesday January 14 - 3 drinks. Pretty much 1 for 1. Going to try to do a little better. No regrets for having drinks tonight. I am never going to be an abstainer, but definitely want to drink less.
Wednesday January 15 - AF - halfway to the lower end of my goal for the month.
Thursday January 16 - 3 drinks - wanted the 4th, but knew that it would make me throw up, so didn't. I want to get back to trying to get 2 AF days in a row each time in between.
Friday January 17 - AF
Saturday January 18 - AF - It was touch and go there for a couple of hours, I really felt like having a couple of drinks. I am sure that I will be happy about it in the morning that I managed to resist.
Sunday January 19 - 3 drinks. Definitely will be AF tomorrow, Tuesdays are usually a very busy day for me.
Monday January 20 - AF
Tuesday January 21 - AF - Very busy day tomorrow working out of town. No booze today!
Wednesday January 22 - 3 drinks. Helluva long day. I realize that I reward myself with drinks for working ridiculously long, or the opposite, having a good relaxing day. Thinking about that.
Thursday January 23 - AF. Dinner and the Ballet tomorrow night where we usually have wine. We'll see, really trying to get back to 2 AF days in a row between drinks days.
Friday January 24 - AF - The Ballet was great, "Anne of Green Gables", a Canadian Classic Story set in PEI re-imagined as a Ballet. Usually my girlfriends and I have drinks with dinner and wine at the Ballet, but nobody did since everyone was driving, so it was very easy to be AF tonight.
Saturday January 25 - 3 drinks
Sunday January 26 - AF - I am battling a flu/cold, so a glass of red wine or a Brandy would have been nice, but shouldn't do 2 days in a row with drinks.
Running tally: 15AF days out of 25 days so far.8 -
I've had no alcohol this month! No alcohol till Feb 2!13
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Good luck to all !! Maters' of your destiny!8
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Happy Monday to all -
I made it through my get-a-away weekend just fine. I was even happier to have that "someone" in our crowd, keep within their drinking boundaries and stay awake through the concert. Even though they wanted to pub crawl to many places in this new city experience, they kept it to one at each bar and even asked for water on the side.
I must be rubbing off on people without even talking to them about about drinking less. π10 -
January accountability ~ 26
No Alcohol: 18 days
Alcohol: 8 days (15 drinks)
Goal: AF days 3 per week / 12 per month
DH went DRY for January which is a real challenge for him as well β¦ and Iβm trying to be supportive.
Youβll never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret of your success is found in your daily routine. - John C. Maxwell
Including December in my weekly view.
Dec 30 - 2 glasses wine
Dec 31 - AF π
Jan 1 - AF
Jan 2 - AF
Jan 3 - AF
Jan 4 - AF
Jan 5 - AF
6 AF days out of 7 this week!!!
Jan 6 - AF
Jan 7 - AF
Jan 8 - AF
Jan 9 - AF Virgin Bloody Mary & water at happy hour. Water π at Bunco!
Jan 10 - 2 glasses wine
Jan 11 - AF
Jan 12 - 3 glasses wine β¦ DH & I visiting my sister
5 AF days out of 7 this week!
Jan 13 - AF LSU National Champions GEAUX Tigers! πππππ
Jan 14 - AF
Jan 15 - AF π Book Club usually split a bottle of wine with DD but she is doing Dry January so it worked this month
Jan 16 - AF
Jan 17 - 2 drinks @ fishing camp
Jan 18 - 2 glasses of wine @ fishing camp
Jan 19 - AF π @ fishing camp ... Amazed!
5 AF days out of 7 this week!
Jan 20 - 1 glass wine celebrate with DH he passed a required certification test; AF π at Book Club
Jan 21 - AF
Jan 22 - AF
Jan 23 - 1 glass of wine @ Alumnae Meeting - Make It, Bake It, Fake It fundraiser
Jan 24 - 2 glasses of wine β¦ date night out with DH
Jan 25 - 2 mimosas @ daughterβs bridal shower brunch
Jan 26 - AF
3 AF days out of 7 this week. Some weeks are tougher than others β¦ squeaked through meeting my weekly goal.5
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