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Motorsheen wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
In the future you might want to include a period at the end of your sentences.
You may wish to avail yourself the use of a comma to delineate time from advice.
The grammar police givith, the grammar police taketh away.4 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
In the future you might want to include a period at the end of your sentences.
You may wish to avail yourself the use of a comma to delineate time from advice.
The grammar police givith, the grammar police taketh away.
Weeohhweeohhweeeeeooohhh
Wooop
Woop
Beeeebeeebeee4 -
twitchandshout wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
How unsolicited are we intending? Like completely out of the blue, or just a little early/no stamp on the already composed invite?
You chooseKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
Me tooKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
So.....what if i observe you training and notice if you continue doing what you are doing you will most likely tear your rotator cuff.....do i, A- keep my mouth shut and let you do damage to yourself.....B - offer advice and let you do damage to me as you shout me down for mansplaining or some other sexist charge......or C - send a D pic 😆
Let the bro get hurt
Well you would hate me then. First off i dont normally workout in health club type gyms so this kind of thing rarely happens. Secondly, im a person first a bro second, if i see someone possibly hurting themselves im gonna say something and I dont give a rats *kitten* if it offends them or if they get all butthurt by it. They can curse at me or mean mug me all they want, ill smile at them and go about my business and leave them to their toils knowing i tried.
Now, if it isnt a matter of someone hurting themselves......i dont even acknowledge them let alone talk or give advice.2 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
In the future you might want to include a period at the end of your sentences.
You may wish to avail yourself the use of a comma to delineate time from advice.
The grammar police givith, the grammar police taketh away.
Weeohhweeohhweeeeeooohhh
Wooop
Woop
Beeeebeeebeee
..... and the thing is, I read the original post and thought: "Comma? I don't need no stinkin' comma !"1 -
twitchandshout wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
How unsolicited are we intending? Like completely out of the blue, or just a little early/no stamp on the already composed invite?
You chooseKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
Me tooKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
So.....what if i observe you training and notice if you continue doing what you are doing you will most likely tear your rotator cuff.....do i, A- keep my mouth shut and let you do damage to yourself.....B - offer advice and let you do damage to me as you shout me down for mansplaining or some other sexist charge......or C - send a D pic 😆
Let the bro get hurt
Well you would hate me then. First off i dont normally workout in health club type gyms so this kind of thing rarely happens. Secondly, im a person first a bro second, if i see someone possibly hurting themselves im gonna say something and I dont give a rats *kitten* if it offends them or if they get all butthurt by it. They can curse at me or mean mug me all they want, ill smile at them and go about my business and leave them to their toils knowing i tried.
Now, if it isnt a matter of someone hurting themselves......i dont even acknowledge them let alone talk or give advice.
I once gave some unsolicited advice in this exact same situation.
The lady was going to tear a rotator cuff.
She had horrible form, too much weight & a stupid angle on the bar.
She became super indignant:
"I've been lifting for several years, blah, blah, my form is spot-on, blah, blah, blah...."
"Sure, okay lady; have at it. Sorry I bothered you."3 -
Motorsheen wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
How unsolicited are we intending? Like completely out of the blue, or just a little early/no stamp on the already composed invite?
You chooseKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
Me tooKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
So.....what if i observe you training and notice if you continue doing what you are doing you will most likely tear your rotator cuff.....do i, A- keep my mouth shut and let you do damage to yourself.....B - offer advice and let you do damage to me as you shout me down for mansplaining or some other sexist charge......or C - send a D pic 😆
Let the bro get hurt
Well you would hate me then. First off i dont normally workout in health club type gyms so this kind of thing rarely happens. Secondly, im a person first a bro second, if i see someone possibly hurting themselves im gonna say something and I dont give a rats *kitten* if it offends them or if they get all butthurt by it. They can curse at me or mean mug me all they want, ill smile at them and go about my business and leave them to their toils knowing i tried.
Now, if it isnt a matter of someone hurting themselves......i dont even acknowledge them let alone talk or give advice.
I once gave some unsolicited advice in this exact same situation.
The lady was going to tear a rotator cuff.
She had horrible form, too much weight & a stupid angle on the bar.
She became super indignant:
"I've been lifting for several years, blah, blah, my form is spot-on, blah, blah, blah...."
"Sure, okay lady; have at it. Sorry I bothered you."
Personally, i take my glasses off, turn my music up, and mind my business.3 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
In the future you might want to include a period at the end of your sentences.
I was totally under the impression that periods at the end of a sentence was rude...............
Am I rite?.
Ut oh....
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Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
In the future you might want to include a period at the end of your sentences.
I was totally under the impression that periods at the end of a sentence was rude...............
Am I rite?.
no, no. it’s capitalizing that’s rude2 -
🤗Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
How unsolicited are we intending? Like completely out of the blue, or just a little early/no stamp on the already composed invite?
You chooseKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
Me tooKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
So.....what if i observe you training and notice if you continue doing what you are doing you will most likely tear your rotator cuff.....do i, A- keep my mouth shut and let you do damage to yourself.....B - offer advice and let you do damage to me as you shout me down for mansplaining or some other sexist charge......or C - send a D pic 😆
Let the bro get hurt
Well you would hate me then. First off i dont normally workout in health club type gyms so this kind of thing rarely happens. Secondly, im a person first a bro second, if i see someone possibly hurting themselves im gonna say something and I dont give a rats *kitten* if it offends them or if they get all butthurt by it. They can curse at me or mean mug me all they want, ill smile at them and go about my business and leave them to their toils knowing i tried.
Now, if it isnt a matter of someone hurting themselves......i dont even acknowledge them let alone talk or give advice.
I once gave some unsolicited advice in this exact same situation.
The lady was going to tear a rotator cuff.
She had horrible form, too much weight & a stupid angle on the bar.
She became super indignant:
"I've been lifting for several years, blah, blah, my form is spot-on, blah, blah, blah...."
"Sure, okay lady; have at it. Sorry I bothered you."
Personally, i take my glasses off, turn my music up, and mind my business.
Personally I just don't go. I can tear a rotator cuff falling down my stairs thank you...and I have. 😬
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Motorsheen wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
How unsolicited are we intending? Like completely out of the blue, or just a little early/no stamp on the already composed invite?
You chooseKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
Me tooKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
So.....what if i observe you training and notice if you continue doing what you are doing you will most likely tear your rotator cuff.....do i, A- keep my mouth shut and let you do damage to yourself.....B - offer advice and let you do damage to me as you shout me down for mansplaining or some other sexist charge......or C - send a D pic 😆
Let the bro get hurt
Well you would hate me then. First off i dont normally workout in health club type gyms so this kind of thing rarely happens. Secondly, im a person first a bro second, if i see someone possibly hurting themselves im gonna say something and I dont give a rats *kitten* if it offends them or if they get all butthurt by it. They can curse at me or mean mug me all they want, ill smile at them and go about my business and leave them to their toils knowing i tried.
Now, if it isnt a matter of someone hurting themselves......i dont even acknowledge them let alone talk or give advice.
I once gave some unsolicited advice in this exact same situation.
The lady was going to tear a rotator cuff.
She had horrible form, too much weight & a stupid angle on the bar.
She became super indignant:
"I've been lifting for several years, blah, blah, my form is spot-on, blah, blah, blah...."
"Sure, okay lady; have at it. Sorry I bothered you."
Yup.....but thats ok. Her words didnt hurt. Thats how i look at it. Hey even though im a trainer its not my job to walk through the gym like a drill instructor telliing people to suck in that gut, and stand up straight soldier!.......i honestly dont want to be bothered either. But if someone is going to get hurt, ill say something. Just like i wont walk by the poor sap that tried benching too mich without a spotter as hes trying to wiggle out from under the bar. If i pull it off him and he gets annoyed telling me hey man i had that i didn't need your help....ill laugh at him but wont argue. Doing whats right isnt an option to me, how its handled afterward is.5 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
In the future you might want to include a period at the end of your sentences.
I was totally under the impression that periods at the end of a sentence was rude...............
Am I rite?.
no, no. it’s capitalizing that’s rude
Nono, that's YELLING, which is also rude
i heard that 😁1 -
twitchandshout wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
In the future you might want to include a period at the end of your sentences.
I was totally under the impression that periods at the end of a sentence was rude...............
Am I rite?.
no, no. it’s capitalizing that’s rude
Damn Right !0 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
How unsolicited are we intending? Like completely out of the blue, or just a little early/no stamp on the already composed invite?
You chooseKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
Me tooKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
So.....what if i observe you training and notice if you continue doing what you are doing you will most likely tear your rotator cuff.....do i, A- keep my mouth shut and let you do damage to yourself.....B - offer advice and let you do damage to me as you shout me down for mansplaining or some other sexist charge......or C - send a D pic 😆
Let the bro get hurt
Well you would hate me then. First off i dont normally workout in health club type gyms so this kind of thing rarely happens. Secondly, im a person first a bro second, if i see someone possibly hurting themselves im gonna say something and I dont give a rats *kitten* if it offends them or if they get all butthurt by it. They can curse at me or mean mug me all they want, ill smile at them and go about my business and leave them to their toils knowing i tried.
Now, if it isnt a matter of someone hurting themselves......i dont even acknowledge them let alone talk or give advice.
I once gave some unsolicited advice in this exact same situation.
The lady was going to tear a rotator cuff.
She had horrible form, too much weight & a stupid angle on the bar.
She became super indignant:
"I've been lifting for several years, blah, blah, my form is spot-on, blah, blah, blah...."
"Sure, okay lady; have at it. Sorry I bothered you."
Personally, i take my glasses off, turn my music up, and mind my business.
Personally I just don't go. I can tear a rotator cuff falling down my stairs thank you...and I have. 😬
I once tore a rotator cuff by patting myself on the back.2 -
I think it should pretty much be a rule that you don't comment on another person's appearance. I don't like how I look and if someone comments on it, it just reminds me that everything I hate about my appearance is obvious to everyone, and likely the first thing they see. And it doesn't matter if they're commenting in a positive way.2
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HerNameIsMischief wrote: »I think it should pretty much be a rule that you don't comment on another person's appearance. I don't like how I look and if someone comments on it, it just reminds me that everything I hate about my appearance is obvious to everyone, and likely the first thing they see. And it doesn't matter if they're commenting in a positive way.
I can understand that. And it’s weird to compliment people on things they mostly have no control over. But I like getting nice comments anyway.0 -
It depends if you think they're nice. I've gotten a lot of people who told me I looked like a football player, a bodyguard, and other oafish stereotypes that only confirmed to me that I really did look as unattractive as I had feared.2
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Motorsheen wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
How unsolicited are we intending? Like completely out of the blue, or just a little early/no stamp on the already composed invite?
You chooseKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
Me tooKashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
So.....what if i observe you training and notice if you continue doing what you are doing you will most likely tear your rotator cuff.....do i, A- keep my mouth shut and let you do damage to yourself.....B - offer advice and let you do damage to me as you shout me down for mansplaining or some other sexist charge......or C - send a D pic 😆
Let the bro get hurt
Well you would hate me then. First off i dont normally workout in health club type gyms so this kind of thing rarely happens. Secondly, im a person first a bro second, if i see someone possibly hurting themselves im gonna say something and I dont give a rats *kitten* if it offends them or if they get all butthurt by it. They can curse at me or mean mug me all they want, ill smile at them and go about my business and leave them to their toils knowing i tried.
Now, if it isnt a matter of someone hurting themselves......i dont even acknowledge them let alone talk or give advice.
I once gave some unsolicited advice in this exact same situation.
The lady was going to tear a rotator cuff.
She had horrible form, too much weight & a stupid angle on the bar.
She became super indignant:
"I've been lifting for several years, blah, blah, my form is spot-on, blah, blah, blah...."
"Sure, okay lady; have at it. Sorry I bothered you."
Personally, i take my glasses off, turn my music up, and mind my business.
Personally I just don't go. I can tear a rotator cuff falling down my stairs thank you...and I have. 😬
I once tore a rotator cuff by patting myself on the back.
I once pulled mine BADLY trying to pull a housecoat out from under me. 😂1 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited advice is my #1 biggest pet peeve
So.....what if i observe you training and notice if you continue doing what you are doing you will most likely tear your rotator cuff.....do i, A- keep my mouth shut and let you do damage to yourself.....B - offer advice and let you do damage to me as you shout me down for mansplaining or some other sexist charge......or C - send a D pic 😆
Well, you can take C off the choices right now and send them to me. Good idea, no?
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HerNameIsMischief wrote: »It depends if you think they're nice. I've gotten a lot of people who told me I looked like a football player, a bodyguard, and other oafish stereotypes that only confirmed to me that I really did look as unattractive as I had feared.
I agree. I've been called Moose when I was younger. It's not only embarrassing, it's(to me) derogatory. But if there's a trainer going through, or somebody who acts like they're being sincere and honestly want to help, then I feel it'd be more helpful. However, IF they don't appear helpful, or just need to feel superior then I'd thank them and keep on doing what I'm doing. I think each situation calls for specific reactions.
Maybe a silly comparison but during my dh and my first years together, we tried tennis. We were bad. His abilities were just as bad as mine. I figured we were in it for bonding time.
But he felt the need to correct my form, etc. Hey buster......:) You get the idea. 2 -
twitchandshout wrote: »Women, Which is more loathsome - an unsolicited d pic or unsolicited advice in the gym?
Unsolicited d pic for sure. Someone would have to go through a lot of effort to spit some unsolicited advice at me in the gym. I wish those d pics were as rare.3 -
Avast, m’hearties!
Are you more open with your friends or your lovers? With whom do you share more of your heart? With whom are you more honest?0 -
Lovers for sure . I don't have any friends
Well come to think about it I don't have any lovers either ,,
so my Cat , yep he's a good listener .
Except when I don't feed him ,,then he's is a little pissy5 -
twitchandshout wrote: »Avast, m’hearties!
Are you more open with your friends or your lovers? With whom do you share more of your heart? With whom are you more honest?
Lovers for sure. I bet they wish that they knew less about me. 😅1 -
twitchandshout wrote: »Avast, m’hearties!
Are you more open with your friends or your lovers? With whom do you share more of your heart? With whom are you more honest?
Strangers! Less potential for damage. Less connection. Easier to walk away from. Not sure what this says about me...
I don’t open up easily.4 -
When younger friends, but now that I am getting old I feel like I have less and less friends so my husband is the only one who knows all these days.2
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twitchandshout wrote: »Avast, m’hearties!
Are you more open with your friends or your lovers? With whom do you share more of your heart? With whom are you more honest?
Strangers! Less potential for damage. Less connection. Easier to walk away from. Not sure what this says about me...
I don’t open up easily.
I feel this1 -
4legsRbetterthan2 wrote: »When younger friends, but now that I am getting old I feel like I have less and less friends so my husband is the only one who knows all these days.
It is hard to make & keep friends as an adult1 -
twitchandshout wrote: »Avast, m’hearties!
Are you more open with your friends or your lovers? With whom do you share more of your heart? With whom are you more honest?
Strangers! Less potential for damage. Less connection. Easier to walk away from. Not sure what this says about me...
I don’t open up easily.
A lot like this2 -
will_it_go_round_in_circles wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Avast, m’hearties!
Are you more open with your friends or your lovers? With whom do you share more of your heart? With whom are you more honest?
Strangers! Less potential for damage. Less connection. Easier to walk away from. Not sure what this says about me...
I don’t open up easily.
A lot like this
Hey there, stranger0 -
twitchandshout wrote: »will_it_go_round_in_circles wrote: »twitchandshout wrote: »Avast, m’hearties!
Are you more open with your friends or your lovers? With whom do you share more of your heart? With whom are you more honest?
Strangers! Less potential for damage. Less connection. Easier to walk away from. Not sure what this says about me...
I don’t open up easily.
A lot like this
Hey there, stranger
You wanna pull that mask down so's I can see you? Acting like we're in a pandemic or something. Sheesh.2
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