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woollenmonarch wrote: »
Only if you wear white socksKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Agree with everything except that no woman should wear ugg boots because they are uglyKosmosKitten wrote: »Imagine being offended/upset because someone dares to wear clothing you don't appreciate. It's not your body and doesn't affect you, so why do you care?
This goes in the same category of "concern trolling" I reserve for people who comment on my weight, or assume that because I'm overweight I automatically have health problems (I don't, my blood work and tests are perfect) or that because I don't wear makeup, I don't care about my appearance or take care of myself.
What a bunch of rude, condescending and petty people.
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Fashion police
What about Crocs? Are they okay via fashion police regulations or nah?
Oh, I'm set then. I only wear wacky/tacky knee-high socks. Well on my way to being a crazy old lady. I just need a red hat and I'll be set.3 -
And Persian catsKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Only if you wear white socksKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Agree with everything except that no woman should wear ugg boots because they are uglyKosmosKitten wrote: »Imagine being offended/upset because someone dares to wear clothing you don't appreciate. It's not your body and doesn't affect you, so why do you care?
This goes in the same category of "concern trolling" I reserve for people who comment on my weight, or assume that because I'm overweight I automatically have health problems (I don't, my blood work and tests are perfect) or that because I don't wear makeup, I don't care about my appearance or take care of myself.
What a bunch of rude, condescending and petty people.
Signed:
Fashion police
What about Crocs? Are they okay via fashion police regulations or nah?
Oh, I'm set then. I only wear wacky/tacky knee-high socks. Well on my way to being a crazy old lady. I just need a red hat and I'll be set.
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woollenmonarch wrote: »
And Persian catsKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Only if you wear white socksKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Agree with everything except that no woman should wear ugg boots because they are uglyKosmosKitten wrote: »Imagine being offended/upset because someone dares to wear clothing you don't appreciate. It's not your body and doesn't affect you, so why do you care?
This goes in the same category of "concern trolling" I reserve for people who comment on my weight, or assume that because I'm overweight I automatically have health problems (I don't, my blood work and tests are perfect) or that because I don't wear makeup, I don't care about my appearance or take care of myself.
What a bunch of rude, condescending and petty people.
Signed:
Fashion police
What about Crocs? Are they okay via fashion police regulations or nah?
Oh, I'm set then. I only wear wacky/tacky knee-high socks. Well on my way to being a crazy old lady. I just need a red hat and I'll be set.
Yeah, I'm down with this, even though Persian cats have sqoosh face and are hard to take care of because of said face (they have breathing problems and problems with their ears pretty routinely).0 -
I like youKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
And Persian catsKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Only if you wear white socksKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Agree with everything except that no woman should wear ugg boots because they are uglyKosmosKitten wrote: »Imagine being offended/upset because someone dares to wear clothing you don't appreciate. It's not your body and doesn't affect you, so why do you care?
This goes in the same category of "concern trolling" I reserve for people who comment on my weight, or assume that because I'm overweight I automatically have health problems (I don't, my blood work and tests are perfect) or that because I don't wear makeup, I don't care about my appearance or take care of myself.
What a bunch of rude, condescending and petty people.
Signed:
Fashion police
What about Crocs? Are they okay via fashion police regulations or nah?
Oh, I'm set then. I only wear wacky/tacky knee-high socks. Well on my way to being a crazy old lady. I just need a red hat and I'll be set.
Yeah, I'm down with this, even though Persian cats have sqoosh face and are hard to take care of because of said face (they have breathing problems and problems with their ears pretty routinely).
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woollenmonarch wrote: »
I like youKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
And Persian catsKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Only if you wear white socksKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Agree with everything except that no woman should wear ugg boots because they are uglyKosmosKitten wrote: »Imagine being offended/upset because someone dares to wear clothing you don't appreciate. It's not your body and doesn't affect you, so why do you care?
This goes in the same category of "concern trolling" I reserve for people who comment on my weight, or assume that because I'm overweight I automatically have health problems (I don't, my blood work and tests are perfect) or that because I don't wear makeup, I don't care about my appearance or take care of myself.
What a bunch of rude, condescending and petty people.
Signed:
Fashion police
What about Crocs? Are they okay via fashion police regulations or nah?
Oh, I'm set then. I only wear wacky/tacky knee-high socks. Well on my way to being a crazy old lady. I just need a red hat and I'll be set.
Yeah, I'm down with this, even though Persian cats have sqoosh face and are hard to take care of because of said face (they have breathing problems and problems with their ears pretty routinely).
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Let’s adopt a kitty on the internetKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
I like youKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
And Persian catsKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Only if you wear white socksKosmosKitten wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Agree with everything except that no woman should wear ugg boots because they are uglyKosmosKitten wrote: »Imagine being offended/upset because someone dares to wear clothing you don't appreciate. It's not your body and doesn't affect you, so why do you care?
This goes in the same category of "concern trolling" I reserve for people who comment on my weight, or assume that because I'm overweight I automatically have health problems (I don't, my blood work and tests are perfect) or that because I don't wear makeup, I don't care about my appearance or take care of myself.
What a bunch of rude, condescending and petty people.
Signed:
Fashion police
What about Crocs? Are they okay via fashion police regulations or nah?
Oh, I'm set then. I only wear wacky/tacky knee-high socks. Well on my way to being a crazy old lady. I just need a red hat and I'll be set.
Yeah, I'm down with this, even though Persian cats have sqoosh face and are hard to take care of because of said face (they have breathing problems and problems with their ears pretty routinely).
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KosmosKitten wrote: »Imagine being offended/upset because someone dares to wear clothing you don't appreciate. It's not your body and doesn't affect you, so why do you care?
This goes in the same category of "concern trolling" I reserve for people who comment on my weight, or assume that because I'm overweight I automatically have health problems (I don't, my blood work and tests are perfect) or that because I don't wear makeup, I don't care about my appearance or take care of myself.
What a bunch of rude, condescending and petty people.
FWIW... I do this on occasion if I'm not careful. I just can't fathom how someone can not care about what others think. Is not meant to be condescending or judgemental, though I understand how it can be construed as such.
I'm so fundamentally broken and inherently insecure that my default is ALWAYS outward appearances and how I'm being perceived, and I project that onto others if I'm not careful.
I don't mean that as a justification for anything, just my feelings. Do with them as you will.6 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »Imagine being offended/upset because someone dares to wear clothing you don't appreciate. It's not your body and doesn't affect you, so why do you care?
This goes in the same category of "concern trolling" I reserve for people who comment on my weight, or assume that because I'm overweight I automatically have health problems (I don't, my blood work and tests are perfect) or that because I don't wear makeup, I don't care about my appearance or take care of myself.
What a bunch of rude, condescending and petty people.
FWIW... I do this on occasion if I'm not careful. I just can't fathom how someone can not care about what others think. Is not meant to be condescending or judgemental, though I understand how it can be construed as such.
I'm so fundamentally broken and inherently insecure that my default is ALWAYS outward appearances and how I'm being perceived, and I project that onto others if I'm not careful.
I don't mean that as a justification for anything, just my feelings. Do with them as you will.
I appreciate the insight.
I used to care a lot more about appearance (my own, anyway) than I do now. It's not that I don't care about taking care of myself, but merely that at some point, I realized that the opinions of others should hold no sway over how I conduct myself and that I was tired of feeling shame/resentment/remorse because of how others perceive or treated me.
I mean, if they were already going to judge me based on what I was wearing, what I owned or whether or not I committed to wearing makeup, then why should I give them the time of day?2 -
It would be weird if s/he kept it from me but yeah, it’s fine.Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
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May I have your phone number so we can talk about thisKashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
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Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
Sure they can ask him. He will tell them just call me but they can ask him.1 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
Sure they can ask him. He will tell them just call me but they can ask him.
What if I feel like she may have ulterior motives?
He will still tell her to call me. LOL1 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
Kinda weird when they could just ask you, but who knows? I want to say it's slightly suspicious, but it could be nothing. I would need more observable data to go off of.
Did the b/f willingly tell you that your friend had requested his number? If so, at least it sounds like he wasn't hiding anything and probably just found it amusing at best. I'd be more suspicious if he had kept it secret and/or if he was defensive about it when you found out.
About the friend: Is the friend usually a person with ulterior motives? Does she have a propensity to needlessly flirt with people she knows are involved in monogamous relationships? It really depends person to person.1 -
Is she prettyKashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
May I have your phone number so we can talk about thisKashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
You can have her number
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What is your typeKashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Is she prettyKashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
May I have your phone number so we can talk about thisKashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
You can have her number
Not my type
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Kashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
What is your typeKashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Is she prettyKashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
May I have your phone number so we can talk about thisKashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
You can have her number
Not my type
Unavailable men!
Good Afternoon ! 2 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
What is your typeKashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Is she prettyKashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
May I have your phone number so we can talk about thisKashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
You can have her number
Not my type
Unavailable men!
Good Afternoon !
🤣
Come here often? 😏
nope, first time.... you ?1 -
Sliding into your inboxKashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
What is your typeKashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Is she prettyKashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
May I have your phone number so we can talk about thisKashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
You can have her number
Not my type
Unavailable men!
I can wear suits again
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woollenmonarch wrote: »
Sliding into your inboxKashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
What is your typeKashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
Is she prettyKashmir_314_ wrote: »woollenmonarch wrote: »
May I have your phone number so we can talk about thisKashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
You can have her number
Not my type
Unavailable men!
I can wear suits again
Opportunistic suit wearing is predatorial.3 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
Strange (why wouldn't she just ask me for his number if she wanted to communicate with him?) but okay. Maybe she wants to plan a surprise party for you with his help?
I think I'd be more freaked out about the potential surprise party than anything else.2 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
Strange (why wouldn't she just ask me for his number if she wanted to communicate with him?) but okay. Maybe she wants to plan a surprise party for you with his help?
I think I'd be more freaked out about the potential surprise party than anything else.
You read my mind. I was thinking of a secret birthday party when I wrote my response.
I'm gonna hope for happy surprise instead of ulterior motive that isn't so kind. Although.. I guess it depends on whether you like surprise parties or not.1 -
KosmosKitten wrote: »Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
Strange (why wouldn't she just ask me for his number if she wanted to communicate with him?) but okay. Maybe she wants to plan a surprise party for you with his help?
I think I'd be more freaked out about the potential surprise party than anything else.
You read my mind. I was thinking of a secret birthday party when I wrote my response.
I'm gonna hope for happy surprise instead of ulterior motive that isn't so kind. Although.. I guess it depends on whether you like surprise parties or not.
Honestly, if he told me she asked him, I think I'd be impressed and thinking more along the lines of something good, as opposed to thinking something nefarious.
I hope it's a good surprise!1 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
Honestly, I'm probably guilty of the same offense multiple times over, it's never occurred to me before now that there was an issue with it - the idea that my friend's partner would see me in that kind of light is not something I've ever considered
...But I am utterly clueless when it comes to this stuff. My sincere regrets to all my friends. 2 -
Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Ladies -
Is it ok if your friend asks your boyfriend for his phone number?
How would you feel if you only found out through him?
Courtesy would have warranted "your friend" letting you know that she needed to ask your bf for his number. Then again, common courtesy had disappeared a long time ago when I was in high school and bffs swapped boyfriends openly.
Kudos to the boyfriend for disclosing.0 -
What's everyone doing tonight? 🤷🏽♂️1
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Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »What's everyone doing tonight? 🤷🏽♂️
Finishing work. Commuting home. Then unpacking/laundry from our 5 day work holiday last week.0 -
Eating chips in bed, having a good cry, do it again tomorrowMr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »What's everyone doing tonight? 🤷🏽♂️
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777Gemma888 wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »What's everyone doing tonight? 🤷🏽♂️
Finishing work. Commuting home. Then unpacking/laundry from our 5 day work holiday last week.Kashmir_314_ wrote: »Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »What's everyone doing tonight? 🤷🏽♂️
Drinking wine, eating cheese, heading to bed ...work tomorrow
OMG I feel so nosey now 😂...
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twitchandshout wrote: »Eating chips in bed, having a good cry, do it again tomorrow
Why isn't the picture moving? Any hand snack in bed must be a gif, this is known.
Edit: +1 for the lays entendre1 -
twitchandshout wrote: »Eating chips in bed, having a good cry, do it again tomorrow
Why isn't the picture moving? Any hand snack in bed must be a gif, this is known.
I can’t do anything right 😞0
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