Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..

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  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Guys....what’s your real opinion on confidence in women? Like, I hear that if she’s super confident in her body it can “make up” for what some might think of as flaws.

    To simplify it for some of you.....same woman, same body, same in bed...they are identical in every way. Except one is insecure about her “flaws” and it shows. The other one has a huge idgaf attitude over the same “flaws” and doesn’t care what anyone thinks about them. She still thinks she’s sexy as hell. And it shows. How much does that change the way you see her?

    Again....one is not PHYSICALLY hotter than the other. They are exactly the same in bed.

    It's usually the flaws she has that I really appreciate about her the most...

    So if she's always hiding them and never embraces them... It may be a problem...
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies-

    you like him a lot.
    but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
    and- he rocks the worlds worst combover

    but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.

    what ya'll doin?

    Asking for :eggplant pics for verification.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies-

    you like him a lot.
    but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
    and- he rocks the worlds worst combover

    but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.

    what ya'll doin?

    100% in. Your hair, your way!

    ...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies-

    you like him a lot.
    but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
    and- he rocks the worlds worst combover

    but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.

    what ya'll doin?

    100% in. Your hair, your way!

    ...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man

    okay but what if he also has a mustache

    this mustache:
    zxeeve38sofy.jpg

    and he is VERY happy with his look
  • Miss_Chiev0us
    Miss_Chiev0us Posts: 1,592 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies-

    you like him a lot.
    but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
    and- he rocks the worlds worst combover

    but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.

    what ya'll doin?

    Friend zone him
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies-

    you like him a lot.
    but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
    and- he rocks the worlds worst combover

    but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.

    what ya'll doin?

    Introduce him to my newly found interest in millinery. But only if he's into cufflinks. Otherwise, forget it altogether.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies-

    you like him a lot.
    but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
    and- he rocks the worlds worst combover

    but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.

    what ya'll doin?

    Friend zone him

    f3eql1hwvhay.gif
  • Miss_Chiev0us
    Miss_Chiev0us Posts: 1,592 Member
    edited September 2020
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies-

    you like him a lot.
    but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
    and- he rocks the worlds worst combover

    but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.

    what ya'll doin?

    Friend zone him

    f3eql1hwvhay.gif

    I mean.. I'd probably keep his phone number in case I'm drunk and bored some night but we would definitely turn the lights off if he comes over.
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    edited September 2020
    iMago wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies-

    you like him a lot.
    but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
    and- he rocks the worlds worst combover

    but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.

    what ya'll doin?

    100% in. Your hair, your way!

    ...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man

    okay but what if he also has a mustache

    this mustache:
    zxeeve38sofy.jpg

    and he is VERY happy with his look

    I mean...what that mustache do though? 🤷🏿‍♀️ If he can put it to work, then we can make it work.

    ...
    ...
    ETA: Otherwise, forget it altogether.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies-

    you like him a lot.
    but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
    and- he rocks the worlds worst combover

    but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.

    what ya'll doin?

    100% in. Your hair, your way!

    ...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man

    okay but what if he also has a mustache

    this mustache:
    zxeeve38sofy.jpg

    and he is VERY happy with his look

    I mean...what that mustache do though? 🤷🏿‍♀️ If he can put it to work, then we can make it work.

    oh no he doesn't like doing that either
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies-

    you like him a lot.
    but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
    and- he rocks the worlds worst combover

    but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.

    what ya'll doin?

    100% in. Your hair, your way!

    ...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man

    okay but what if he also has a mustache

    this mustache:
    zxeeve38sofy.jpg

    and he is VERY happy with his look

    I mean...what that mustache do though? 🤷🏿‍♀️ If he can put it to work, then we can make it work.

    oh no he doesn't like doing that either

    How in the hell do I "like him a lot" then?

    Fake news.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies-

    you like him a lot.
    but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
    and- he rocks the worlds worst combover

    but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.

    what ya'll doin?

    100% in. Your hair, your way!

    ...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man

    okay but what if he also has a mustache

    this mustache:
    zxeeve38sofy.jpg

    and he is VERY happy with his look

    I mean...what that mustache do though? 🤷🏿‍♀️ If he can put it to work, then we can make it work.

    oh no he doesn't like doing that either

    How in the hell do I "like him a lot" then?

    Fake news.

    i just figured yall would be attracted to his confidence ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    edited September 2020
    iMago wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies-

    you like him a lot.
    but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
    and- he rocks the worlds worst combover

    but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.

    what ya'll doin?

    100% in. Your hair, your way!

    ...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man

    okay but what if he also has a mustache

    this mustache:
    zxeeve38sofy.jpg

    and he is VERY happy with his look

    Ok, well the lip liner look flavor saver is a deal changer

    ...either I get him drunk and shave it and tell him he did it
    Or
    I barter with him, to change anything he wants about me
    *eta (for him to shave it)
  • Reckoner69_lmao
    Reckoner69_lmao Posts: 1,000 Member
    I’ve been to that mustache’s bookstore this year but I didn’t buy anything cause I was parked illegally
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    ladies-

    you like him a lot.
    but he's not even 40 and he's balding, horribly.
    and- he rocks the worlds worst combover

    but he is CONFIDENT he looks good with it, especially when using extra hair gel to hold it down.

    what ya'll doin?

    100% in. Your hair, your way!

    ...bonus, it will keep all those "comb over hating *kitten*" away from my man

    okay but what if he also has a mustache

    this mustache:
    zxeeve38sofy.jpg

    and he is VERY happy with his look

    I mean...what that mustache do though? 🤷🏿‍♀️ If he can put it to work, then we can make it work.

    oh no he doesn't like doing that either

    How in the hell do I "like him a lot" then?

    Fake news.

    i just figured yall would be attracted to his confidence ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    Honestly... I think if he owns it and doesn't taken any opinions seriously...

    They'll love him...

    I've been cutting my own hair precovid and sometimes I nail it, sometimes it's a disaster 😂...

    I particularly like showing it off to a certain someone when it's a disaster and I kinda like to think she finds it all kinds of adorable 🥰😂...

    And I don't even really care if I'm living a fantasy or not 🤷🏽‍♂️😂
  • MaltedTea
    MaltedTea Posts: 6,286 Member
    hrichts wrote: »
    Girls:

    A guy you meet seems to be great in every way so far. He’s employed, uses an appropriate amountof hair gel, calls his mom, and has a car. One fiiiine *kitten* package

    But the first time you get him out of his pants, you see every woman’s worst nightmare:

    Elephant ear tattoos on either side of his long dong silver

    And he’s proud of them. The tattoos and the.. doobledydoo

    Next move?

    Demand varied reenactments of movie scenes with elephants in them. He and his now thespian doobledydoo have separate roles. Each scene in his ever-expanding repertoire must be at least 3 minutes long in order for my laughter while pointing at his junk to really hit home (un)ironically.

    Otherwise? Yup...forget it altogether.
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    hrichts wrote: »
    Girls:

    A guy you meet seems to be great in every way so far. He’s employed, uses an appropriate amountof hair gel, calls his mom, and has a car. One fiiiine *kitten* package

    But the first time you get him out of his pants, you see every woman’s worst nightmare:

    Elephant ear tattoos on either side of his long dong silver

    And he’s proud of them. The tattoos and the.. doobledydoo

    Next move?

    Sorry just trying to decide on cinnamon & sugar or powdered sugar.
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    Girls,

    How would you handle jealousy in a friendship with a girl?
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    Girls,

    How would you handle jealousy in a friendship with a girl?

    Find a real friend to complain about it to.
  • CacoEther
    CacoEther Posts: 2,465 Member
    MaltedTea wrote: »
    hrichts wrote: »
    Girls:

    A guy you meet seems to be great in every way so far. He’s employed, uses an appropriate amountof hair gel, calls his mom, and has a car. One fiiiine *kitten* package

    But the first time you get him out of his pants, you see every woman’s worst nightmare:

    Elephant ear tattoos on either side of his long dong silver

    And he’s proud of them. The tattoos and the.. doobledydoo

    Next move?

    Demand varied reenactments of movie scenes with elephants in them. He and his now thespian doobledydoo have separate roles. Each scene in his ever-expanding repertoire must be at least 3 minutes long in order for my laughter while pointing at his junk to really hit home (un)ironically.

    Otherwise? Yup...forget it altogether.

    I am dying 😂😂
  • CacoEther
    CacoEther Posts: 2,465 Member
    hrichts wrote: »
    Girls:

    A guy you meet seems to be great in every way so far. He’s employed, uses an appropriate amountof hair gel, calls his mom, and has a car. One fiiiine *kitten* package

    But the first time you get him out of his pants, you see every woman’s worst nightmare:

    Elephant ear tattoos on either side of his long dong silver

    And he’s proud of them. The tattoos and the.. doobledydoo

    Next move?

    Sorry just trying to decide on cinnamon & sugar or powdered sugar.

    I don’t even want to admit how long this took me to understand

    I mean its ALWAYS cinn & sug
  • Revolu7
    Revolu7 Posts: 1,035 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Guys....what’s your real opinion on confidence in women? Like, I hear that if she’s super confident in her body it can “make up” for what some might think of as flaws.

    To simplify it for some of you.....same woman, same body, same in bed...they are identical in every way. Except one is insecure about her “flaws” and it shows. The other one has a huge idgaf attitude over the same “flaws” and doesn’t care what anyone thinks about them. She still thinks she’s sexy as hell. And it shows. How much does that change the way you see her?

    Again....one is not PHYSICALLY hotter than the other. They are exactly the same in bed.

    Confidence trumps non confidence. Im not too worried about physical flaws at all. And really what is a flaw? Its life, and im cool with life.....makes it a hell of a lot better if my girl is too.
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    hrichts wrote: »
    hrichts wrote: »
    Girls:

    A guy you meet seems to be great in every way so far. He’s employed, uses an appropriate amountof hair gel, calls his mom, and has a car. One fiiiine *kitten* package

    But the first time you get him out of his pants, you see every woman’s worst nightmare:

    Elephant ear tattoos on either side of his long dong silver

    And he’s proud of them. The tattoos and the.. doobledydoo

    Next move?

    Sorry just trying to decide on cinnamon & sugar or powdered sugar.

    I don’t even want to admit how long this took me to understand

    I mean its ALWAYS cinn & sug

    I've read it several times 😬still lost
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Girls,

    How would you handle jealousy in a friendship with a girl?

    With some self depreciating humor and humility to make them feel better if I value their friendship...

    Although jealous people sometimes will see this as an opportunity to make you less so they can be more...

    I'd probably end up distancing myself honestly...
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Guys- would you prefer a lady who is emotional (all pros and cons...does things for you, expresses her feelings, thoughful) or someone emotionally unavailable (all pros and cons...a challenge, never know what's shes thinking, maybe she'll hang out maybe she wont)

    no brainer

    give me the emotions







    ... in a bikini

    .