WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2020
Options
Replies
-
After knitting about a third of the baby blanket I'm doing for a woman I met on Zoom recently, I realized that I've made it too wide. After considering a variety of solutions, I decided to order more yarn and start over. I'll finish the blanket I've started and give it to Project LInus where it can go to a slightly older child. At first it sounded like a lot of money and then I realized that Jake just bought a hat he didn't need that cost more than the yarn and when we drove past the fancy coffee stand on the way to the grocery store yesterday, that people who buy a fancy coffee every morning spend more than that each week for coffee. Now it hardly seems extravagant at all.
Carol, Like you, I am very grateful for my quiet life.
Barbie in NW WA8 -
🖤💙❤️💜💚🤍🤎4
-
Well ordered groceries for pick up tomorrow at 9:30 am..here is hoping that goes well..took a little nap and waiting for my brother to come and pick me up for bloodwork..7
-
Pp1
-
Rita: I am usually the one who initiates phone calls with our daughter and her family. I enjoy talking with them, and don’t mind paying for long distance calls. We have been taking advantage of the magic of zoom calls whenever possible.
(((Tracey:))) I am so sorry about the loss of your dad. We each have our own timetable for grief & healing when confronted by the loss of a loved one. Moms and dads are high on that list. Your husband’s pushing is likely well intentioned but unrealistic. If he has not already experienced the loss of a parent or loved one, he likely doesn’t understand.
Kim in N CA: It is good to see your post.
Heather and Machka: I’m not gaining weight, either, but I feel as though I’m not active enough. Lock down is awful. I miss the gym, and also miss going out to the stable. The stable is a favorite place for me, but DH has been anxious and wants me to be at home. I’m hoping for vaccinations for all of us who need them to stay healthy & a better 2021.
Barbara: We all watched Auntie Mame via Amazon Prime. We rented the movie for $3. DH says that our son and family watched with our daughter’s family on a shared connection and we all watched at the same time. Our son timed things so that we started and ended together. I am grateful that I didn’t have to do any of the setup. :bigsmile:
SuziQ: I misunderstood DH. The car tires are okay but we need to buy a new rear windshield wiper. It has been ordered. I don’t know when it will arrive. :ohwell:
Debby in VA: Sending good thoughts for your daughters. :flowerforyou:
KJ: I crave light, too. I am so glad that the days are getting longer. :bigsmile:
Carol in GA: I hope we are all blessed with a good 2021. :flowerforyou:
Today we have frost on the deck and a slippery outside. I carefully let the dog off of the deck for his morning constitutional. It was too dark for me to see what little prizes he left on the lawn, so I’ll be going out there soon to pick up after him.
Be safe.
Katla in frosty NW Oregon
2 -
Checking in. Not talkative today.
RvRita12 -
The family's test results have come back today - negative.
I said they should ask for their money back as they paid a fortune (hundreds of pounds) for 24 hrs service. They missed out on seeing the other grandparents and us for Christmas. Not fit for purpose, taking 4 days.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx11 -
Heather: Hooray! The test results for your son & family are negative. YAYYYY!
I bought vitamins at Walmart this morning. I have a bit of sticker shock. The good news is that we will use them.
Katla in Sunny NW Oregon5 -
Well just had an awesome meal with Trudy...and relaxing watching tv,did my PT early..9
-
good things that happened in 2020:
-we have been able to save away some money. Always a good feeling, especially now with COVID
-I have gotten a handle on my Lichen Sclerosis, its just something that I used to have now.
-I found fasting, and though I don't do it 24/7, I do have fasting days, and it makes me feel better.
-Husband and I enjoy our live together, and I thank my lucky stars, every week I fill his pill container.
-My pen pals and I have continued to bounce life off each other, the good, the bad and the ugly. I have seen a couple of my pals go thru breakups, and surgeries. So our friendships are running a bit deeper.
Though I don't have a gratitude journal I do think about all my blessings, and that is what keeps me sane. From the re-evaluation (weekly) of how my communication is going between my sons, to my need to always "check in" with family members. That has to do with how I communicated with my own family when we were active Navy. We left the fold, so we checked in. Though there isn't the parental check in, I still feel the need. So I am the one that contacts my sisters, my sons, and I have to be ok with that. There are those days when I miss my mom calling me and asking "How are you Becky"? Phew, just typing that phrase makes me tear up.
So I check in with you all, and settle myself.
Had 3 pieces of fish today, with homemade tarter sauce. I might have some of my husband's hamburger helper tonight.
I have been running 18/6 on my fasting. 18 hours fasting, and 6 hour eating window. Choices have been ok.
Hugs,
Rebecca
Whidbey
Washington10 -
Stat for the day-
Walk w/family- 2hrs 51min 28sec, 163elev, 2.88ap, 82ahr, 102mhr, 8.79mi= 869c
Strava app = 1065c5 -
I'm just trying to make it to January 5, 2021 for now. Short term goals for the time being.
It's raining here today, off and on. So far, we've gotten over .3 inches since midnight. That is significant for us. It's windy and there is most certainly more to come. I like watching the rain, because we just don't get much of it. I can do without the strong winds.
There isn't much positive to say about 2020. I can't even say "at least I have my health." I can be thankful that most of my family is healthy. We have managed to stay financially stable throughout. But there were far more hardships than happiness in 2020.
Tina in CA
7 -
Heather: Hooray! The test results for your son & family are negative. YAYYYY!
I bought vitamins at Walmart this morning. I have a bit of sticker shock. The good news is that we will use them.
Katla in Sunny NW Oregon
Vitamins aren't cheap huh! We get ours at Rite Aid, and do the buy one get one free thing. We go thru Calcium carbonate fast because Lee takes it 3 times a day. We both are on the same multi-vitamin so that's nice, and also the Calcium with a D3 thing. He also take Vitamin E, magnesium, baby asprin, and the rest are prescriptions. Did I state I AM PILL QUEEN... hahaha.
Rebecca4 -
Whidislander wrote: »Heather: Hooray! The test results for your son & family are negative. YAYYYY!
I bought vitamins at Walmart this morning. I have a bit of sticker shock. The good news is that we will use them.
Katla in Sunny NW Oregon
Vitamins aren't cheap huh! We get ours at Rite Aid, and do the buy one get one free thing. We go thru Calcium carbonate fast because Lee takes it 3 times a day. We both are on the same multi-vitamin so that's nice, and also the Calcium with a D3 thing. He also take Vitamin E, magnesium, baby asprin, and the rest are prescriptions. Did I state I AM PILL QUEEN... hahaha.
Rebecca
Ha! I read "Calcium carbonate fast" as a new kind of diet fast. Maybe I need a nap!!
I appreciate you, Rebecca!
Flea
Willamette Valley, OR2 -
Exercised today then came home to have breakfast then went to Aldi. Work tomorrow
We went to FL this Feb and to the restaurant “Left Turn” with friends, that was before all this covid stuff. This, to me, was a really neat restaurant. This is where the left turn was when they Daytona drivers used to race on the beach. Lots of memorabilia. OK, not exactly cheap. But great ambiance. Also, this year we saved money on less driving so less gas
Gained a bit of weight this holiday season but I’m on the way to losing it
SuziQ – what I’m doing right now about my foot is I am on it without the boot for a few hours then sit down and put my foot up. I’m hoping that it was just that I overdid it on Christmas Eve and just need to gradually get rid of the boot.
Debbie VA – (((HUGS)))) My heart goes out to you about your daughter
Went to the bowling alley. I think next week I’ll try bowling. Mahjongg tonight I’m wondering why I couldn’t use the recumbent bike after Jess and Colby leave? Not intensely, but just something to get back to the swing of things
Allie – sounds like you are really doing well. Keep it up!
How I miss aerobic exercise! Hopefully, I’ll be able to get back to it.
Heather – phew!!!
Fae – where are you?
Michele NC
3 -
2
-
Rebecca: Vitamins are not cheap, but they are good for our health. In addition to vitamins, I also bought other over the counter medicine and some dog treats.
I am reading a book by a favorite author and enjoying it. The author is Robyn Carr, and I’ve been reading her books for many years. This one is set in Northern California, in a fictional place called Virgin River. I like it as well as the rest of the books in this series. :bigsmile:
Katla in beautiful NW Oregon2 -
Julie-the 3 inches in height difference does impact things some (for some reason I was thinking you are taller than me!). Some of the ladies on here pointed out that BMI as we age is viewed differently. Yes, my BMI is @23 most days. My doctor prefers it doesn’t drop much more-I guess as we age we need a bit of body fat. However, how you feel is important and I know just 5 pounds can change that. Just don’t want you to beat yourself up! As the pandemic winds down and life returns to something like normal and you are walking as you did before I am sure you will get back to where you are more comfortable. Congrats on tracking three days in a row-I really think that helps.
SuziQ-don’t know if is that I am handy or spent so many years married to a cheap man! Plus, we always thought when money was tight, we would fix what we could. (since we saved money then, I don’t mind paying for getting some things done now!)
Allie-your progress sounds good, and a bit speedy given what you have been through (even though I am sure to you it is slow as molasses).
Good for the year/accomplishments
-Interior doors replaced (haven’t painted them yet)
-DIL seems to have recovered from Covid with no long term side effects
-While several staff have had Covid and two have been hospitalized, no one has passed from it (220 staff)
-Maintained my weight
-Got some stuff cleaned out (more to go)
-Maintained contact with ladies group at church which provides good support
-Kept up with this group for the most part!
-Have not gone into complete isolation even though I live alone
-Contacted social security today (realized last month I did hit full retirement age of 66) and I can, indeed, draw my husbands social security while I am working with no income restrictions. Official on-line application is in February, but it will retro back to November.
As long as we are here, have a tremendous gift.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
2 -
As we're getting closer to the end of 2020, I'll ask this question ...
What are some of your highlights of 2020?
Good things. Happy things. Accomplishments.- Kept my promise to myself that I would maintain my hard won weight loss.
- Managed to decrease my %age body fat and increase my %age muscle mass.
- Wrote a considerable portion of my memoir as a birthday gift for DEGS
- wrote numerous poems, painted some pictures, made all my own Christmas cards.
- Managed to stay safe and sane through the covid Glitter
☘️ Terri
7 -
Highlights and Accomplishments from 2020
⁃ I think one of the biggest highlights for me is how well Rodger and I have gotten through this year being more on top of one another than we are used to. I have found myself very stressed throughout different stages of the year and he’s been my rock throughout.
⁃ I’m incredibly proud of how my eldest daughter has handled this year. She has always struggled and doubted her parenting skills. She has shone through this.
⁃ My youngest daughter and her husband have a new house and a new puppy.
⁃ My Mom has stayed safe.
⁃ Even though we couldn’t see each other as often as we normally would I think the visits we did have were even more cherished and meaningful.
Susie - the song at my Dad’s funeral sort of described how happy our loved ones are waiting for us to join them. One of the lines is “I’ll be sitting drawing pictures in the sand”.
Kelly - what a wonderful face to get a call from.
Heather - so happy your son’s family is negative. If they paid extra for 24 hour results they should receive something back. We don’t pay for them here and there is no way of getting results faster than someone else unless you are in hospital or work in healthcare and are showing symptoms. Even our prevalence screening each week is not rushed. We get our results 2-4 days after the test.
Rebecca - I teared up reading about your post of hearing from your Mom. We moved away and it became our responsibility to be the one to keep in contact except for my Dad. He called me weekly. For many, many years on Saturday nights because the phone company had a 2.00 talk as long as you want deal those nights. Once I had unlimited long distance he would call me even more, he would let the phone ring twice so the number displayed and then I would call him back. I miss our chats, and other than my best friend no one calls now. I do all of the checking in, so I know how you feel about the family. My heart hurts for you about your son not calling though. You are handling it much better than I would I think.
Katla - is the book series Virgin River what the Netflix Series is based on?
Terri - you have worked so hard at keeping your weight off and it’s worked. Congratulations.
I went and borrowed my eldest daughter’s sewing machine and took a lot of her scraps today. I have to make 6 mattresses, 6 pillows and 6 blankets for a birthday present for Michaela. Rodger is making her two bunk bed sets, each three beds high, for her babies. She has 6 and doesn’t think they should share a bed. She has been using the stairs but with her mother having fall issues this is not safe.
I bought flannel and quilt batting today and will try to get them completed by Saturday. It may end up being my New Year’s Day project.
I am doing some laundry now and should have started it much earlier in the day. It may not all get done tonight. I have enough clothes for 3 days of work so I’m fine if it doesn’t get finished.
Tracey in Edmonton6
Categories
- All Categories
- 1.4M Health, Wellness and Goals
- 391.4K Introduce Yourself
- 43.5K Getting Started
- 259.7K Health and Weight Loss
- 175.6K Food and Nutrition
- 47.3K Recipes
- 232.3K Fitness and Exercise
- 389 Sleep, Mindfulness and Overall Wellness
- 6.4K Goal: Maintaining Weight
- 8.5K Goal: Gaining Weight and Body Building
- 152.7K Motivation and Support
- 7.8K Challenges
- 1.3K Debate Club
- 96.3K Chit-Chat
- 2.5K Fun and Games
- 3.2K MyFitnessPal Information
- 22 News and Announcements
- 918 Feature Suggestions and Ideas
- 2.3K MyFitnessPal Tech Support Questions