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  • 366to266
    366to266 Posts: 473 Member
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    Am 55. Have tried it. Cannot get on with them at all. Nothing in common. Cultural references too different. Values, current place we're in in life, goals, outlook, philosophy, life history and experiences, all just too different and so there is just no common ground whatever.

    Also, I've put in the years and learned the lessons and reached a certain level of emotional maturity -- they haven't, and nurse-maiding them isn't what I want in a proper man-woman emotional relationship. Often they still want lots of dramas, display lots of immaturity etc.

    So do you mean a relationship or do you mean just having sex with them? If the latter, still not a great match, in my experience.

    They are only interested in older women because of porn. They seek a MILF, they think we can "teach them" all about sex. They think we WANT to teach them what to do, that we don't want a man who already knows.... HUH! They think that what an older woman really wants is a nervous, inexperienced, clumsy bloke who has to be taught what to do.

    They also most have not learned any sort of impulse control. They nag for sex on the selfish grounds that THEY want a release - and hold you responsible for keeping them happy at all times.

    If you do happen to be "lucky" enough to meet one who isn't any of the above, then he'll break your heart by leaving you for a woman he can have kids with.

    So I guess it is a lose-lose situation all round.
  • pcastagner
    pcastagner Posts: 1,606 Member
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    In for finding out who the cougars on this site are and the names of females to give out when feminists call me a pig for going out with a much younger women.

    I get older, they stay the same age. Awwwww, yeah.
  • _Waffle_
    _Waffle_ Posts: 13,049 Member
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    If you were an older woman and unattached, would you consider dating a much younger man?

    There are a lot of women here doing that already. You're not alone.

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  • BeachIron
    BeachIron Posts: 6,490 Member
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    If I was a much older and rich woman, and I was single, I'd date me.
  • hOw2lozeAgiN10dAze
    hOw2lozeAgiN10dAze Posts: 1,841 Member
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    No.
  • jonsey_s
    jonsey_s Posts: 222
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    just break up
  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,136 Member
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    Ok...so here's my question...

    If you were an older woman and unattached, would you consider dating a much younger man?

    Not trolling, just curious.

    Thanks.

    Yes, as long as he is at least 18 y/o (legal age in Canada, or 21 y/o to cover all countries).
  • littlepinkhearts
    littlepinkhearts Posts: 1,055 Member
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    Am 55. Have tried it. Cannot get on with them at all. Nothing in common. Cultural references too different. Values, current place we're in in life, goals, outlook, philosophy, life history and experiences, all just too different and so there is just no common ground whatever.

    Also, I've put in the years and learned the lessons and reached a certain level of emotional maturity -- they haven't, and nurse-maiding them isn't what I want in a proper man-woman emotional relationship. Often they still want lots of dramas, display lots of immaturity etc.

    So do you mean a relationship or do you mean just having sex with them? If the latter, still not a great match, in my experience.

    They are only interested in older women because of porn. They seek a MILF, they think we can "teach them" all about sex. They think we WANT to teach them what to do, that we don't want a man who already knows.... HUH! They think that what an older woman really wants is a nervous, inexperienced, clumsy bloke who has to be taught what to do.

    They also most have not learned any sort of impulse control. They nag for sex on the selfish grounds that THEY want a release - and hold you responsible for keeping them happy at all times.

    If you do happen to be "lucky" enough to meet one who isn't any of the above, then he'll break your heart by leaving you for a woman he can have kids with.

    So I guess it is a lose-lose situation all round.

    wowwww....soooo not my experience, but hey.

    Answer: date (who dates anymore?) yes Marriage...probably not.
  • danasings
    danasings Posts: 8,218 Member
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    Been there, done that. When I was single, I was mostly dating much younger guys because they were the ones asking me out. Older guys/guys my own age were only interested in sex. Strange dichotomy, since I was age 27-32 at the time, but it was true. The young 20-something fellas were actually interested in getting to know me while 30-something guys were just trying to "hit it." And older than that...men in their late 30s to early 40s...they didn't ask me out at all. One guy I met through online dating and met for a drink only once told me he couldn't date me because I looked like I could be his daughter. I was 31 and he was 36. It was pretty odd, actually.

    My husband is five years younger than I, and the age difference is only noticeable when we talk about when we were little kids. We also grew up on opposite coasts, so that makes a difference as well. But he is mature, kind, loving, and a great husband and father. The age difference doesn't matter.

    If I happened to end up single again, I wouldn't make those decisions based on age because it's too much of a generalization. My past experiences showed me that pretty clearly.
  • DOElston
    DOElston Posts: 102
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    It really depends on the man. If he is intelligent, thoughtful, insightful, witty.....the age difference (unless it's ridiculously so), is inconsequential.
  • billyboybalbo
    billyboybalbo Posts: 156
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    im 21 and iv slept with a few older women, talking like 30s and 40s, best sex iv ever had.
  • sunglasses_and_ocean_waves
    sunglasses_and_ocean_waves Posts: 2,757 Member
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    Of course
  • 1PatientBear
    1PatientBear Posts: 2,089 Member
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    Am 55. Have tried it. Cannot get on with them at all. Nothing in common. Cultural references too different. Values, current place we're in in life, goals, outlook, philosophy, life history and experiences, all just too different and so there is just no common ground whatever.

    Also, I've put in the years and learned the lessons and reached a certain level of emotional maturity -- they haven't, and nurse-maiding them isn't what I want in a proper man-woman emotional relationship. Often they still want lots of dramas, display lots of immaturity etc.

    So do you mean a relationship or do you mean just having sex with them? If the latter, still not a great match, in my experience.

    They are only interested in older women because of porn. They seek a MILF, they think we can "teach them" all about sex. They think we WANT to teach them what to do, that we don't want a man who already knows.... HUH! They think that what an older woman really wants is a nervous, inexperienced, clumsy bloke who has to be taught what to do.

    They also most have not learned any sort of impulse control. They nag for sex on the selfish grounds that THEY want a release - and hold you responsible for keeping them happy at all times.

    If you do happen to be "lucky" enough to meet one who isn't any of the above, then he'll break your heart by leaving you for a woman he can have kids with.

    So I guess it is a lose-lose situation all round.

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  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member
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    Define "date".

    date[ deyt ]
    noun
    1. a particular month, day, and year at which some event happened or will happen: July 4, 1776 was the date of the signing of the Declaration of Independence.
    2. the day of the month: Is today's date the 7th or the 8th?
    3. an inscription on a writing, coin, etc., that shows the time, or time and place, of writing, casting, delivery, etc.: a letter bearing the date January 16.
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
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    Am 55. Have tried it. Cannot get on with them at all. Nothing in common. Cultural references too different. Values, current place we're in in life, goals, outlook, philosophy, life history and experiences, all just too different and so there is just no common ground whatever.

    Also, I've put in the years and learned the lessons and reached a certain level of emotional maturity -- they haven't, and nurse-maiding them isn't what I want in a proper man-woman emotional relationship. Often they still want lots of dramas, display lots of immaturity etc.

    So do you mean a relationship or do you mean just having sex with them? If the latter, still not a great match, in my experience.

    They are only interested in older women because of porn. They seek a MILF, they think we can "teach them" all about sex. They think we WANT to teach them what to do, that we don't want a man who already knows.... HUH! They think that what an older woman really wants is a nervous, inexperienced, clumsy bloke who has to be taught what to do.

    They also most have not learned any sort of impulse control. They nag for sex on the selfish grounds that THEY want a release - and hold you responsible for keeping them happy at all times.

    If you do happen to be "lucky" enough to meet one who isn't any of the above, then he'll break your heart by leaving you for a woman he can have kids with.

    So I guess it is a lose-lose situation all round.

    There, there sweety. It'll be ok. One day you will find you a nice, young, rich, handsome, only wanting sex when you want, never bothering you, boy.
  • luv2garnets
    luv2garnets Posts: 14
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    It depends on his maturity level. Older doesn't necessarily mean more mature. I'm 41. I think if I met someone in his early 30's and we clicked I wouldn't have a problem being in a relationship with him.
  • RainHoward
    RainHoward Posts: 1,599 Member
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    It's quite simple really. If you like them and they like you then like each other and enjoy. Do not worry about what others think or say.

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