WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR FEBRUARY 2021
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I was almost victim to another fraud. I paid my Target bill with a check in December someone tried to cash the check again in February. It is called double presentment. The bank may or may not catch it. I knew something was wrong because their was no check number in the bank statement. Oh bother. Just glad I caught it.6
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Zoom day today with my old school friends!
Don't know what we will do next week as my best friend is doing some locum work . She is a divorce solicitor and has to take on occasional jobs because her money situation is not sustainable without bouts of working. She will be 72 next week!
I've found the Zoom sessions very sustaining through the pandemic. That connection is around 60 years old, and we became best friends in 1965.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx3 -
Sue and Machka, talking on our phone while driving will also get you a fine here. I don't know the amount, but it's probably not enough! It was nice of the gal to own up to hitting the mailbox tho.....
Beth, I really have no words now..... {{{HUGS}}} for all of you tho. The puppy pic was worth waiting for! He is so cute!
Lisa, your driveway adventure was great! I have to agree with you, it's wonderful to have someone around who will help when you need it, but it's equally great to be able to do stuff for yourself.
Rita, hope the sub job comes thru and that you enjoy it!
Rebecca, the hair cut looks great! I've seen that joke before, it is funny!
Allie, glad to hear that you are taking care of yourself and that your lawyer is on the ball!
Pip, the place is shaping up well! So exciting!!
Facebook: I am on facebook quite a bit, I like it for keeping in touch with family and long distance friends. Well, all friends now, of course, because we can't get together in person! I am very careful about what I click on/like/share. I never open attachments that are sent to me via messenger, in fact, I don't always open videos that are emailed to me as most of the time I just can't be bothered. I prefer videos on Facebook as you can already see the beginning. I quite often hit the "hide all posts from ______" button when there is a bunch of junk showing up on my feed. Just about time to do that again. I have had very few issues, I just don't stray too far away from what I'm actually looking for. Technology is great but it's also a double edged sword!
I had a Zoom get together a few days ago, it was short, but four of us managed to catch up on what the others are doing (not much....), it was kind of fun. We are hoping that restrictions will ease a bit this spring so that we can get together in person (outside and distanced). In the meantime, the occasional zoom will have to do.
I'm sure there were other posts that I meant to comment on, but it's late and I really must get to bed.
Hugs for those needing them, congrats to those celebrating and welcome to the newbies!
Evelyn, Vancouver Island3 -
Facebook: I am on facebook quite a bit, I like it for keeping in touch with family and long distance friends. Well, all friends now, of course, because we can't get together in person! I am very careful about what I click on/like/share. I never open attachments that are sent to me via messenger, in fact, I don't always open videos that are emailed to me as most of the time I just can't be bothered. I prefer videos on Facebook as you can already see the beginning. I quite often hit the "hide all posts from ______" button when there is a bunch of junk showing up on my feed. Just about time to do that again. I have had very few issues, I just don't stray too far away from what I'm actually looking for. Technology is great but it's also a double edged sword!
Evelyn, Vancouver Island
Yep me too!
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Facebook: I am on facebook quite a bit, I like it for keeping in touch with family and long distance friends. Well, all friends now, of course, because we can't get together in person! I am very careful about what I click on/like/share. I never open attachments that are sent to me via messenger, in fact, I don't always open videos that are emailed to me as most of the time I just can't be bothered. I prefer videos on Facebook as you can already see the beginning. I quite often hit the "hide all posts from ______" button when there is a bunch of junk showing up on my feed. Just about time to do that again. I have had very few issues, I just don't stray too far away from what I'm actually looking for. Technology is great but it's also a double edged sword!
Evelyn, Vancouver Island
Yep me too!
And now that all the news is gone - no longer allowed, Facebook is a whole different place. Some sites are finding themselves and evolving plus we can see more from friends.
Machka in Oz1 -
I used my early wake up to finalise and refine tomorrow's delivery and book another slot for two weeks' time. If you try to do it at peak hours the website drags horribly. It's working well for us, having a regular delivery slot. DH fills up his fruit commitment with a local supermarket shop once a week, and I like to visit the deli round the corner for extra veg, bread etc. Also the fish market, maybe once a month, plus butcher same. Each place has things you can't get elsewhere.
Tonight is lamb, spinach, pea and potato curry. I will cook it straight after lunch in the IP and keep it warm, because of the Zoom.
Tomorrow is 20% off day on Deliveroo, so we are going to share a Fatto a Mano pizza and have an arugula and parmesan salad to make up the minimum. Already excited! A bottle of Primitivo. I have been AF for a couple of days.
Must write!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx2 -
Beth, i am so sorry. (((hugs)))0
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11 pomidoros again yesterday. There is a good office i can officially use.that was not always the case.
today slower to start.I started at about 10-ish yesterday and worked till past 4:30 with maybe 30 min break.today it's 12:30 Ive been in the office since 11. and have not yet worked much.that said i had dentist late afternoon far from home, and union stuff till quite late (about 10pm- finishing and forwarding mails). so i started later today.
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dentist, my dentist has retired and another was recommended and has good online reviews for what that's worth. BUT when i went their yesterday, he was supposed to do a temporary crown (which is about 200 covered by insurance) but i'm pretty sure he didn't do a temp crown, just put a nubbin of resin to cover the nub of molar. he didn't give me a bill which i found strange till i thought of that. cause if he bills me for a temp crown in its current state he'll be accused of fraud no doubt. not a big deal in the long run, BUT more concerning is--
i'm supposed to get FOUR CROWNS with him. so a bit of money and a long term thing in my body. And he put a little post in to hold a crown.
I asked him about materials of the post : if there is nickel in it, and about allergies, as i know people (and me) can be allergic to some metals (like i can really not easily wear any kind of earring, and i have a few allergies: pollen, dust mites, major gluten intolerance) and medium overall health. He was a bit evasive about the metal composition, and when i asked question whether there was contact with the so called temp crown he said "no, i"ll take care of the technical stuff", clearly implying he didn't appreciate my questions. so no record of the post (and materials) nor the non-crown. Not a good start for me. i do not like spending 2500 euros even if 1500 is reembursed by insurance, to have 4 things put long term in my mouth by someone who doesn't want questions.
i remembered my old previous dentist who is very good (but was very busy) who is in a circle of friends i used to hang with when i went to dance workshops 10 years ago.
I'm gonna try to get an appointment with her and see if it's not too dramatic if i put it off a bit, now that i have the nobbin.
and cancel with the guy who doesn't like questions.
bummer since hehas good reviews and i really trust the person who recommended him, but my experiences is alarming.
Oh yes, also, during our 20-25 min session,he was tapping his foot, humming and whistling while working on me.
not horrible things to do, and maybe i'm overjudgemental, but i thought that made him seem nervous while working on me (which maybe he is), and also, the next session is suppposed to be 2h and i would really rather not listen to him whistling and humming and tapping for 2h.
also he said it's not legal to pay in a few payments, but i have NEVER heard that.on the contrary it's very common for major dental work, legal or not.
i'm thinking of switching of course. a friend gave me the name of 2 other dentists too...
i have the sniffles and am wondering if it's a reaction to the metal post but probably not, i supppose. i just felt uneasy.
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i read all, thanks ! working as i can today so commenting much.1
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Beth -
I am glad your son will soon be home with you where he consistently receives the best care from his best advocate.
And that puppy is adorable!
Karen in Virginia
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Snowflake1968 wrote: »This map talk makes me thing how interesting it would be to have a map showing where we all are. Not specific address but county, nearest city or larger areas.
Tracey in Edmonton
When I worked as managing editor at the European office of a scientific journal we went to Tucson AZ to visit the US editorial office. My counterpart there had a "world map" on the wall, but when he asked me to point to where I lived, I couldn't because the top of the map was about 800 miles south of me.
I'm on page 63 now, slowly catching up.
Grandson (age 10) diagnosed with epilepsy and starting medication. Also, husband has signed contract to move "south" to northern Norway this summer, thus ending our long stay in the High Arctic.
/Penny, working through lots of changes at the
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bananasandoranges wrote: »i read all, thanks ! working as i can today so commenting much.
I would trust yourself on this one. It is your mouth and you will have to live with the consequences of the dentists work.
Taxes will be turned into the preparer who has done it for years for us. She is reasonable and does a good job. I was able to get things ready early this year.
In future I will pay the bill that had double presentment on line. I paid that bill in person at a store so sad someone at the store or at the bank took that check. Just never occured to me this culd happen. Hopefully they can trace it to see it doesn't happen to someone else. I know businesses have a division who just work on fraud.0 -
Facebook ... I've blocked/hid so many on my feed that it's pretty much just me and the advertisers now ...
Penny ... glad to hear your grandson has been diagnosed and receiving treatment. How do you feel about moving "south?"
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margaretturk wrote: »bananasandoranges wrote: »i read all, thanks ! working as i can today so commenting much.
I would trust yourself on this one. It is your mouth and you will have to live with the consequences of the dentists work.
Taxes will be turned into the preparer who has done it for years for us. She is reasonable and does a good job. I was able to get things ready early this year.
In future I will pay the bill that had double presentment on line. I paid that bill in person at a store so sad someone at the store or at the bank took that check. Just never occured to me this culd happen. Hopefully they can trace it to see it doesn't happen to someone else. I know businesses have a division who just work on fraud.
I haven't paid anything with a cheque since 2008 and then it was just monthly rent for 4 months.
I haven't paid a bill with a cheque since ... oh ... before 2004. I can't actually remember.
I don't think businesses would accept a cheque here.
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Hello all! Happy Wednesday!
Pip- The house is looking great! Can't wait to see "finished/put together" pics!
Beth- Oh no! I am so sorry to hear of your son's worsening condition. Sending prayers for skilled physicians and a complete recovery! Also praying for better care options that will give him his independence, yet keep him safe! ((hugs))
Heather- Congrats on your lottery win! Whoot! No matter the size of the prize; winning is better than not winning! The grands look so cool in their very "street" poses. lol I am glad the weather is warming up for you!
Tracey- Happy that you are getting some relief with your back/hips! Finally, huh?!
Cathy in Arlington- So glad you have weathered the winter storm! My daughter's family never lost power/water; although she was ready for it if they had.
Machka's questions - I am a four/six season girl! I love them all! And although the smell of dirt and worms is one of my favorite smells spring is not my favorite season. I am pretty sure if I had to pick a favorite season it would be winter. I love the quietness of it. Living in a summer town, it is crowded and busy from the time the temps get above 50F (so spring-fall). Winter is when stores reduce their hours or just close for the season, less people out and about (because only the hardiest souls like the cold), car traffic lessens... Winter is just a good time to stop, rest, breathe and enjoy the quiet.
Backpacks- Oddly, I never used a backpack or bag during my school years. I carried everything in my arms. As an adult, I often travel with just a backpack or a tote. No baggage. I also use a backpack on my field trips with the kids. My purse is very small or just my wallet OR (if I can get away with it) identificatiion, and $$ in a pocket. I hate having to carry a purse. Just another thing to keep track of. I hate phones for the same reason. lol
I wrote this an hour and a half ago and forgot to press post! Surrounded by small people now. Will chat later. ttfn xoxoxo Hug to all I missed! KJ1 -
Morning ladies
I got dressed and did my walk and made a tuna sandwich.. will do my PT in a bit ..
Made a mistake and the dogs dont go to the groomers until next Thursday ,thats ok..im hoping to have the car back in my possession by then..2 -
Morning peeps. Yesterday Kirby got a call to schedule him for the vaccine, today at 2:30. Pretty cool, we will be able to walk there, it’s at our local grocery store. Kirby says a week from Saturday we will call my sister to borrow her son and pickup to make a trip to bring the big stuff over. If it was me, I’d be like this weekend!!! Oh well......2
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Evelyn: I seldom visit facebook these days. I would rather call the people I care about on the phone., facetime with them, or zoom. I will go there to contact two or three special friends that I rarely hear from.
Machka: I love I before E—it put a smile on my face this morning. Thanks! :bigsmile:
Sue: I do need Arrow time, and he might be needing my time, too. DH has been needy and that has kept me home for a while. Arrow has had a foot problem. He needs to be walked, but not ridden. I would love to go out and walk him in the arena. The road to his home has recently been blocked due to trees across the roadway. I don’t know whether that has been cleared up yet. :ohwell: I ’ll give my friend a call later this morning and find out whether the road is open.
Pip: I am delighted for you that things are coming along. :flowerforyou:
Beth: I agree with Karen in VA. Your son will be so much better cared for when he is home with you. The puppy is a charmer. :flowrforyou:
Allie: Our dog goes to the groomer this morning. I am grateful that we have such a good and patient groomer.
No vaccine yet. The health department says they’ll call us when they get some vaccine. Their message is clear- “Don’t call us. We’ll call you.” :grumble:
Katla in beautiful NW Oregon
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Beth: prayers and hugs. So, sorry for what you are going through.0
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bananas: As a former dental hygienist (29 years), I would definitely recommend you going to a dentist who will answer your questions, as this is an important part of patient-care. I wouldn't trust anyone with my teeth who isn't willing to explain what their treatment plan is.2
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Beth: Continued prayers for your family and especially your son! Wow, the snow photos really show what y'all have been going through. Love the pup...he looks like he is going to be a very large dog if his paws are an indication.
Allie: As everyone else has mentioned, it is a shame that Tom picked this time to bring up money matters. It shows that he is self-absorbed and callous.
Sue: I am sorry about your mailbox debacle. At least the young lady acknowledged what she had done and hope her insurance will help repair the damage. In Georgia, it is against the law to talk on the phone while driving. But, I guess if she has blue ray technology she could have been within the law.
Debbie: I have wondered about all the green house planting. Now that your father has passed, will y’all continue to harvest such large crops? Does your family use this as a supplement to their income? Just curious as that sounds like a lot of work and effort.
I agree with Tina regarding lending/giving money! If and when we help our son’s family, it will be a gift and we will not expect to be paid back. We helped them when they were first struggling as she was in college and they both worked full time.
Ginny: I hope they will be able to locate the area where the thyroid trouble is. My husband has to have a parathyroid gland removed after they located the one giving him trouble. But, he will wait until he feels it is safe to be in the hospital overnight. After that, he needs to have cataract surgery and knee surgery. Too much going on for a 73 yr old.
Rebecca: Glad you were able to get a hair trim. And, the conversation between the husband and wife was funny!
Margaret: Glad you caught the fraudulent check casher. I keep finding these latest Amazon scams saying I had purchased an expensive phone...they all go to my spam folder thank God.
Penny: Prayers for your grandson and hope his treatment will be successful.
I am going to go get my car washed today for the first time in about a year. Finally got my radio code re-entered
yesterday. It had gone out when my husband had to replace the battery. Driving with no radio or clock was not fun.
Everyone have a great day and hope it is sunny for you as it is today in Georgia!
Carol in GA
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Carol - I hope your husband's health problems get cleared up with ease. My ex MIL had all her parathyroid removed. The only ill effects were a serious case of vit D poisoning. In the 70s they didn't check these things properly. They told her she was only saved by drinking so much tea!
Penny - I feel quite sad that you are moving.
How long is it that you have been living there? However, it could be that a future cruise takes us to Tromsö, so I may get to see you again! How do you feel about it? You must have mixed feelings.
I'm currently trying to interest DH in a cruise for March 2022. He is not biting yet. This would be to the Mediterranean, taking in Sicily, Sardinia, and Tunis. He is worried about his vestibular problems, plus the viability of Saga after the covid layoff.
If he can't contemplate a cruise I may decide to go alone, I haven't made my mind up. We would pay the deposit with a credit card. The company is currently looking to refinance their debts, but they say they are viable.
Zoom was good, with a few connection issues. Nice to see them though.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx1 -
blackburn23 wrote: »bananas: As a former dental hygienist (29 years), I would definitely recommend you going to a dentist who will answer your questions, as this is an important part of patient-care. I wouldn't trust anyone with my teeth who isn't willing to explain what their treatment plan is.
I agree. I have had several crowns within the past few years and none of them contained metal (they have gone away because it expands and contracts and causes more issues). If you are not comfortable with his responses, switch. Dentists are expensive. You need to know what you're paying for and what they are doing to your body.
Tina in CA2 -
I somehow twisted my ankle, not badly, but just enough that I can't do squats or lunges, stairs are a pain and my indoor marching in place is unlikely. I have to remember that injuries are an expected part of an active life, and not a catastrophe. I've wrapped my ankle even though it felt like overkill. I want to give it a reason to feel better tomorrow.
Hugs to those who need them, probably all of us these days!
Annie in Delaware2 -
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Hung out 1dt pic in the spare bathroom and the curtain is up
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Starting to put stuff in
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