So I’m a Jerk

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  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Ddsb11 wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Ddsb11 wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Ddsb11 wrote: »
    🤦🏼‍♀️ MFP told me so, those exact words. It was regarding a comment that I genuinely meant no harm or disrespect, like a scenario where you mispronounce something wrong your whole life and someone finally tells you the correct way. I wouldn’t consider that person a jerk for informing me. I even stated that I hope it helped. I felt pretty bad that MFP would make issue of it (no one else did) and then I felt, unsettled, like wow, I have contributed for 6 years, and in 400ish posts I have received roughly 2000 positive responses. I don’t really think I’m a jerk, do you? Makes you not want to contribute anymore, ya know? I love this community. I think the dialogue is fun, fascinating, and it’s even cool to debate from time to time. I hope I haven’t hurt any of you on a personal level, and if so I want to sincerely apologize. I’m gonna crawl in a hole now 😐.
    In all honesty if something some random internet person said about you on MFP is bothering you this much, maybe it is time to reasses things? It’s just a Internet forum....

    Just my .002

    No way dude! Random internet people I’m cool with. A forum I’ve supported for 6 years calling me a jerk, that was uncalled for. That being said, I agree one shouldn’t dwell.

    Meh, MFP has been worse to me. Remember jail???

    Wait what?! Did you correct grammar and spelling? What is this jail you speak of?

    If you got too many warnings they would put bars on your profile and restrict posting...

    Do they still do that? Or are the forums more tame now?

    i haven't seen or heard of anyone going to jail on here in awhile. But I also don't always pay THAT close of attention. I was tossed in there once or twice.

    Not for grammar though LOL

    usually for ... well, my name is my name LMAO

    Good to know the prison population has been thinned...
  • qhob_89
    qhob_89 Posts: 105 Member
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    lgfrie wrote: »
    This horse is so beaten and dead it's impossible to tell if it's even a horse at this point, and yet I can't stop watching.

    I can't decide if this thread is amusing or horrifying, but I'm leaning toward amusing.

    Started as dead horse, but now it’s amusing...

    It’s... IT’S... IT’S A PIÑATA!!! adv1mpzal420.jpeg
  • callsitlikeiseeit
    callsitlikeiseeit Posts: 8,626 Member
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    You'll get your share of it. I've had several members email me directly because they felt my truth was too harsh on some responses I made back in the day. I think the one that really got the most was one I made on pregnant women using the excuse "eating for 2" and allowing themselves to gain 80+lbs. The responses I got from that were pretty crazy.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

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    but but but you were.... right? (runs and hides)

    i was obese with both my pregnancies (the first one not as much) and only gained 20 with my first and 16 with my second.
  • amarkula
    amarkula Posts: 15 Member
    Ddsb11 wrote: »
    Is this considered a dirty jerk? Asking for a friend.
    Bloody discusting, yet I support your right to be jerk. :)
    When going for shock factor without connection to discussion, you really did leave your real point out.
  • Fit_Happens_2021
    Fit_Happens_2021 Posts: 303 Member
    It's similar to 'Wheaton's Law', which I have always been okay with.
  • Ddsb11
    Ddsb11 Posts: 607 Member
    qhob_89 wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    lgfrie wrote: »
    This horse is so beaten and dead it's impossible to tell if it's even a horse at this point, and yet I can't stop watching.

    I can't decide if this thread is amusing or horrifying, but I'm leaning toward amusing.

    Started as dead horse, but now it’s amusing...

    It’s... IT’S... IT’S A PIÑATA!!! adv1mpzal420.jpeg

    Hahahaha! Clever lady 😏
  • Ddsb11
    Ddsb11 Posts: 607 Member
    edited February 2021
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    You'll get your share of it. I've had several members email me directly because they felt my truth was too harsh on some responses I made back in the day. I think the one that really got the most was one I made on pregnant women using the excuse "eating for 2" and allowing themselves to gain 80+lbs. The responses I got from that were pretty crazy.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

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    Oh man, I can only imagine! But did you get an email 😈

  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,052 Member
    Ddsb11 wrote: »
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    You'll get your share of it. I've had several members email me directly because they felt my truth was too harsh on some responses I made back in the day. I think the one that really got the most was one I made on pregnant women using the excuse "eating for 2" and allowing themselves to gain 80+lbs. The responses I got from that were pretty crazy.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    9285851.png

    Oh man, I can only imagine! But did you get an email 😈

    The Community Guidelines were just reworded with the "I won't be a jerk" language within the last few years.
  • LoveyChar
    LoveyChar Posts: 4,336 Member
    edited February 2021
    lgfrie wrote: »
    This horse is so beaten and dead it's impossible to tell if it's even a horse at this point, and yet I can't stop watching.

    I can't decide if this thread is amusing or horrifying, but I'm leaning toward amusing.[/quote
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    lgfrie wrote: »
    This horse is so beaten and dead it's impossible to tell if it's even a horse at this point, and yet I can't stop watching.

    I can't decide if this thread is amusing or horrifying, but I'm leaning toward amusing.

    Started as dead horse, but now it’s amusing...

    Definitely amusing...
  • LoveyChar
    LoveyChar Posts: 4,336 Member
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    lgfrie wrote: »
    This horse is so beaten and dead it's impossible to tell if it's even a horse at this point, and yet I can't stop watching.

    I can't decide if this thread is amusing or horrifying, but I'm leaning toward amusing.

    Started as dead horse, but now it’s amusing...

    Let me correct myself...

    It's definitely amusing! I say my piece and bail, let everyone else throw out whatever it is that they need to and have a giggle over it!
  • Ddsb11
    Ddsb11 Posts: 607 Member
    edited February 2021
    You might want to take a look at the Guidelines #15 too....discussing moderation publicly...

    https://www.myfitnesspal.com/community-guidelines

    This is just a discussion at this point I think 😊 It was resolved in the first couple posts. Many of us have tried to make it at least somewhat humorous as it organically carries on. It wouldn’t hurt my feelings if they removed it though.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,028 Member
    Ddsb11 wrote: »
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    You'll get your share of it. I've had several members email me directly because they felt my truth was too harsh on some responses I made back in the day. I think the one that really got the most was one I made on pregnant women using the excuse "eating for 2" and allowing themselves to gain 80+lbs. The responses I got from that were pretty crazy.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    9285851.png

    Oh man, I can only imagine! But did you get an email 😈
    No. But later I got banned for awhile for arguing on line with a guy who set up a fantasy football league on here, mostly with all new beginners, and when some trades were made I called collusion and he dismantled my team. From there it was a war of words.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

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  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,052 Member
    Ddsb11 wrote: »
    kshama2001 wrote: »
    Ddsb11 wrote: »
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    You'll get your share of it. I've had several members email me directly because they felt my truth was too harsh on some responses I made back in the day. I think the one that really got the most was one I made on pregnant women using the excuse "eating for 2" and allowing themselves to gain 80+lbs. The responses I got from that were pretty crazy.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    9285851.png

    Oh man, I can only imagine! But did you get an email 😈

    The Community Guidelines were just reworded with the "I won't be a jerk" language within the last few years.

    Speaking of, you had this in bold when you posted the rules: attacks against the member’s spelling or command of written English

    Attacks! This didn’t happen. At all. So I guess they need to change it to, whether polite or not, don’t correct grammar. And they can probably take out the jerk part when someone isn’t trying to be a jerk. I respond really well to gifs, maybe replace it with something like that 🤓

    Yes, also in that post I said:

    "Also, the guidelines say "attacks against the member’s spelling or command of written English" and I do believe you were coming from a place of CARING, not belittling."
  • Ddsb11
    Ddsb11 Posts: 607 Member
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    Ddsb11 wrote: »
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    You'll get your share of it. I've had several members email me directly because they felt my truth was too harsh on some responses I made back in the day. I think the one that really got the most was one I made on pregnant women using the excuse "eating for 2" and allowing themselves to gain 80+lbs. The responses I got from that were pretty crazy.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    9285851.png

    Oh man, I can only imagine! But did you get an email 😈
    No. But later I got banned for awhile for arguing on line with a guy who set up a fantasy football league on here, mostly with all new beginners, and when some trades were made I called collusion and he dismantled my team. From there it was a war of words.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    9285851.png

    Get. Him. Back. Here.
  • Ddsb11
    Ddsb11 Posts: 607 Member
    edited February 2021
    kshama2001 wrote: »
    Ddsb11 wrote: »
    kshama2001 wrote: »
    Ddsb11 wrote: »
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    You'll get your share of it. I've had several members email me directly because they felt my truth was too harsh on some responses I made back in the day. I think the one that really got the most was one I made on pregnant women using the excuse "eating for 2" and allowing themselves to gain 80+lbs. The responses I got from that were pretty crazy.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    9285851.png

    Oh man, I can only imagine! But did you get an email 😈

    The Community Guidelines were just reworded with the "I won't be a jerk" language within the last few years.

    Speaking of, you had this in bold when you posted the rules: attacks against the member’s spelling or command of written English

    Attacks! This didn’t happen. At all. So I guess they need to change it to, whether polite or not, don’t correct grammar. And they can probably take out the jerk part when someone isn’t trying to be a jerk. I respond really well to gifs, maybe replace it with something like that 🤓

    Yes, also in that post I said:

    "Also, the guidelines say "attacks against the member’s spelling or command of written English" and I do believe you were coming from a place of CARING, not belittling."

    No, I appreciate you posting it cause it hit me the next day that it said attack. I was like, wait I didn’t though. Don’t know why I didn’t notice that word earlier, you even bolded it for me 😊
  • Ddsb11
    Ddsb11 Posts: 607 Member
    edited February 2021
    The only time to correct a persons grammar is when you are their teacher, parenting a young child.. or there is an agreement to do so between friends. Otherwise.. it makes the person feel stupid and small.

    Hey didn’t mean to skim over your response. I always thought if you meant well and you were helping than people can take it the way they want. I can’t live my life trying to do what I assume everyone else wants me to do. I’ve always lived my life doing what seemed pure in my heart, or at least I try to. But I appreciate your POV and certainly take it to heart.
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