WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MAY 2022
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Hugs to all! Healing thoughts for illnesses and injuries.
Made it home from Kentucky in time to unload truck and head to massage. Really needed it after working outside! DH then called to let me know that the power was out. We visited with our nephew and another neighbor. Power was out about 3 hours.
Time to get ready for work.
Stay hydrated today especially if experiencing this heat wave.
Beth So tramatic! I am happy that the injuries weren't worse. I agree that the neighbors should pay the vet bills.
❤
Kylia back in Ohio1 -
I guess in a way I was hoping Vince would change his mind about going to Denise’s, but he’s about to cancel the hotel reservation so I guess we’re only going for the one day. Yes, it makes me sad, but at the same time, if we stayed it would be, in a sense, saying that what Denise did is OK
Michele NC
I'm sure you've thought this through and know what it will mean for the future.You've finally been given a chance to see PJ for 3 days.
You're cutting it back to 1 day.
Do you think you'll be given the chance to PJ again?
M in Oz
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Katie so sorry about your mom's expectations about your dad. It's something to be negotiated but it's so hard to be the child in a negotiation. Keep us in your pocket as you try to set limits.
I ate so much yesterday I will have to skimp all week to make up some calories. It was good food though.
Annie in Delaware1 -
For anyone who loves frou-frou coffee drinks but has given them up due to calories, may I suggest this one.
1 packet Folgers singles instant coffee with 6 oz of water (or 6 oz of brewed coffee)
1 scoop of Ancient Nutrition Salted Caramel Bone Broth
6 oz of pre-packaged protein drink - I used Aloha plant based vanilla
Scoop of ice cubes
Blend for 30 seconds
I had this with a two-ingredient bagel with soft cream cheese for breakfast this morning.
Slightly under 400 calories and 40 grams of protein
I only drink my calories when they also come with a bunch of protein; the coffee drink had close to 30 of those 40 in my breakfast. The bagel had the other 10 since it was made with Greek yogurt. The salted caramel bone broth is delicious but it doesn’t mix well unless you blend it. I have also used it in hot tea. I love it, but getting it dissolved is a pain in the rear. It mixes right in with the blender.
I am gearing up for a sugar free June. Protein is the only thing I’ve found to conquer the sugar craving.3 -
Good morning ladies
Beth - poor Cecil! That situation upsets the whole household for a while. I agree the dog owner needs to foot all of the bills. And if it were me, I'd also call animal control and report it. That dog needs to be logged in the system as a biter, you can probably go online and check the code enforcement regulations regarding animals. My theory is the next time he could bite a child. I wonder if the owners have a clue. Glad your son wasn't hurt when he broke up the fight.
Thank you everyone for your kind words regarding DH. I really, really appreciate it. He was a wise guy and a "corker" and lots of fun to be around. (He did have some characteristics though which kept the virtual cast iron skillet busy). Opinionated but a tender heart. He took care of me and kept me safe as long as he could. I couldn't have asked for anything more. He's now my guardian angel.
Yesterday our friends came out and got the yard caught up. There were 2 weed eaters going and the Toro was zipping around with Charlie at the helm. I'll tell you how lucky I am: Charlie mows his dad's place with a similar Toro. Charlie then went through DH's shop and poked around, got the little generator going in case I need it. He's going to come out with his chainsaw and get limbs pruned up for easier mowing, trees cut down that aren't thriving. He put the gas cans in his truck and is going to get "real" gas in them - no more of that 10% ethanol stuff. Kylia - you would love him!
Their son went through DH's firearms, will clean them and store them in his own gun safe until I figure out what I want to do with them. Other items of value DH had in his "sock drawer" went into our safe. I'm keeping the shotgun here, I need to have someone take me to the range and get some practice. DH always said "just pop in the shells and pull the trigger." But I really want to get a feel for it.
This morning I head to the funeral home to finish arrangements. Taking my time to get an obit written and memorial service arranged. Still notifying friends and relatives.
Will call our attorney at 8 and see if I need him to do anything. Our wills are stored in another attorney's vault in town so I'll need to swing by and grab his. And mine needs to be updated - things have changed since we had them done 15 years ago.
DH never liked to have the front blinds open. This is common with some other veterans I know. But now I opened them and let the sun shine in yesterday. Window washing is on my to do list!
Rosie is the best watch dog. She lets me know someone is coming up the sidewalk or walking on the road. What a good girl. Doing her schnauzer thing. UPS and Amazon delivery - beware!! You ring the doorbell at your own risk!!
DH always had the TV on, so I never bothered to turn on the radio. Yesterday I tuned into the local Rock N Roll station and let it play in the house all day.
Fridge and counter are full of cookies and food from friends and neighbors - I won't have to grocery shop for a week. I am so, so blessed.
I see I need to go back a few days and catch up with you gals.
Will close for now. Heading out for a walk with my pal in a few hours.
Make it a great day.
Lanette
Chilly SW WA State11 -
Lanette ~ You are wonderfully blessed to have so many people to help you through this time!
Carol in GA3 -
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Michele, I agree with all the others who said that your daughters need to work things out on their own. It's not your job to punish Michele. You are only punishing yourself. Consider going to visit by yourself and leave Vince at home.5
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Michele there's nothing that would keep me from seeing my grandson for 3 days! Don't punish yourself!!! 💞
Lanette we're all here for you 💞 it sounds like you have wonderful caring friends and family 💞1 -
🌺 Michele Barbie and others have given you good advice. Let Vince stay home and go visit your girls. 🌺0
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Good morning, afternoon and evening all,
For those just going back to work after three (or more) days off, hope it was a wonderful weekend.
For us retired folks, happy Tuesday.
Lanette, I woke up thinking of you. Glad to see your post, and so pleased that your community is stepping up to help.
Michele, Enjoy your time with PJ. I certainly don't have any answers on the rest, but families kind of baffle me anyway.
Writing this is just procrastinating getting the dark little toolroom under the carport cleaned out. But it's not going to clean itself. I think as soon as I have it stripped completely of everything, I'm going to paint the whole blinking thing with some of the old white paint I have around here from the year we moved in. It doesn't have to look good, but it has to be brighter. The older I get, the less well I deal with dim lighting.
That is pretty well the ambition for the day. Turn on some music that gets me moving and start cleaning.
Later, y'all,
Love,
Lisa2 -
Good morning, all. We had a bit of an eventful weekend. My middle son came up Thursday night, and then he and a friend went up to Washington on Friday for an air soft tournament. They were to come back Sunday, but they came back Saturday because my son was feeling sick. He tested positive on Sunday, so he's been isolating on our family room. On the one hand, I am glad he's here. On the other hand, it has been stressful because not only am I immune compromised, but my oldest son is recovering from pneumonia and bacteremia, so he shouldn't get sick either. I woke up with a minor sore throat. Hard to tell if it's something or just because we've kept windows open and it's cold and high pollen. Anyway, I'll do a spit test when I get to work. No one's around, because of summer break, so it will be fine. Just frustrating because we feel like oldest son is almost out of the woods, and now this. But we made it over two years without one of us getting sick, so kudos, I guess?
Michelle, you've gotten good advice, but I also realize the decision is not yours alone. I am a relatively low drama person, most of the time, so my tendency would be to let it go. I can't imagine how Jess ruined Denise's wedding, and I do not think Denise was under any obligation to go to Jess's graduation. No reason or excuse necessary. Maybe there's more going on between the two of them than is stated, but I would stay out of it, and not change plans. But your husband has to go along with that as well.
Beth, so sorry about your pup, but happy that it looks like he will be fine.
Lanette, thinking of you all weekend and happy to hear that you have good support.
Kayla, I continue to worry about you and your husband.
KJ, I hope you begin feeling better soon.
I need to get the kiddo up for school. He is using our bathroom since both of his brothers are sick with one thing or another, so we need to coordinate showers.
Love to all.
Flea
Willamette Valley OR7 -
OMG Beth! I sure hope they offer to pay for Cecil's vet bills. That's horrible that they know this about the dog but won't do anything about it!
Michele, I've used a couple different ones.
This one you have to put in your own recipe and it will give you the calorie count. It's fairly accurate. https://www.verywellfit.com/recipe-nutrition-analyzer-4157076
I just don't know what I would do, to be honest. I agree that I would want to see my grandson, but dealing with my daughters sometimes... yeah, I get you.
Lanette, your attitude is amazing! The blinds, the windows, your Rosie, the radio, your neighbors, friends, cookies, food. It's all amazing. You are Blessed.
Back to real work today. At least it's a open-windows day.
Unfortunately, I got word on Friday that they are making us ALL go back into the buildings next year. I am REALLY struggling with that. I love my job, but I really love working from home. And 95% of my job is online. There's no logical reason that I have to be in a building except that they want everyone in the buildings even though they don't have room for everyone. smh. So they've found a couple options, in a building, that's not horrible and it's where I go when I put on another VERY part-time hat of mine several times a year. So, I'll be heading over this week to choose where I want my desk next year. Wish me luck
Carla, in MN5 -
We are expecting a home health nurse this morning to check on DH. I hope she brings my calendar with her. She inadvertently left with it the last time she visited. I need it to track my responsibilities and appointments. I am hoping to get it back today. ❤️🙏🏻❤️
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Worked. They must have been pretty slow (no surprise), so there wasn’t much prep that needed to be done. What that transferred into was that I was able to go to the gym. Yea! Then I went to the Salvation Army.
Kim – every time I search on Skinnytaste, I keep getting their menus. I searched on the homepage, then by “all recipes”. Always the weekly menu.
Tracey – how I want to see Denise and spend time with PJ. But Vince is quite upset with her. Maybe I’ll give in this time and we’ll stay a shorter time. Then at another time we can go up on a Fri and come back on a Sun. Hotels are cheaper then, anyway. The thing is that she lied to our faces. If she had said “I don’t want to go” at least she would have been being honest. Then I probably would have said something to the effect of “as an adult, we sometimes need to do things that we don’t want to do”. But she didn’t say that. So glad you had a good time at the party
M – I don’t think I come up with creative reasons not to attend things very often. As a matter of fact, this weekend we’re going to Steve’s in PA for a “picnic”. At first Vince didn’t want to go, but I said to him “look Steve always comes here on his way from PA to FL and from FL to PA. We really should go”. So that’s the main reason we’re going now. Maybe Denise feels she’s just a stop on our way. Actually, going to her is out of our way. Denise told US that she wasn’t going, she never even sent Jess a congratulations card or called her to congratulate her. Jess’ friend from VA flew out, Colby’s sisters sent Jess a gift, others sent a gift, but her own sister couldn’t even call to say “congratulations”. Heck, she couldn’t even text! Vince already cancelled the hotel and the woman who watches the cats. The reason Denise couldn't go? "There was a noreaster". Steve left from the exact same airport and he didn't have a problem. But still...not to have even sent a card!
Oh, today is Denise's birthday. I just told Vince that we should give her a call.
I never thought of Vince staying home and just me going! Maybe I can do that one weekend. Thanks for the idea
Flea – we don’t know how Jess ruined Denise’s wedding, either. IF that’s the reason she refused to go to the graduation. Unfortunately, Vince does not agree with not changing our plans. He didn’t want to go at all, I was the one who negotiated being there at least one night.
Off to the pool. I have to go pick up a prescription for Loki and then I’ll probably go to the Salvation Army in Hickory. See, for some unknown reason, my garage door keeps opening and closing. The guy from the garage door place is supposed to be here this afternoon.
Michele NC4 -
Beth-- How scary. I hope Cecil is okay. I agree with the others, they should pay the vet bill.
Katiebug--Sending prayers and hugs. Hope your mom will understand that you need the extra help. Sorry to hear your dad is not doing well. Glad to read he will be okay.
KJ--Pray you are feeling better soon.
Lanette--Sending hugs and prayers
Flea--Sending prayers that you and son stay well, and other son is better fast.
Well back to work today and end of the month. Having to track down calanders for June for the different doctor offices. It comes around every month, but I still have to call for them to be faxed. Also today was weekly weight in and down just under a pound. For the month I am down 2.4 for the month of May. Not a lot but will take it.
Blessings, Vicki GRAND ISLAND, NE2 -
Can't believe it is the last day of may and I am way behind skipped a few pages and started again at P68.
Had a busy week with mum last week and volunteering at the theatre. Mum has bought a new mobility scooter, she was looking at powered wheelchairs but they are too sensitive for her and she couldn't control it. Shame because her legs are really bothering her and she is finding it difficult to walk . I might have to ring the doctors tomorrow to see how long the referral will take. (She has been referred to have a made to measure knee brace) but not sure when this will happen.
Had a terrible nights sleep last night (or lack of sleep!) Not sure what the problem was but I tossed and turned all night. Felt as if I was sleeping on a pile of bricks, I hope I have a better night tonight.
I went for a lovely walk with DD and the dog on Sunday, it had been raining most of the day but the sun came out and we walked near the farm where DD works, it was so peaceful lots of green fields and the birds singing just what I needed to recharge my batteries. We couldn't walk all the way around like we used to because the environmental agency have bought up some of the land to help with the flood defences - such a shame, they have re routed the river and have reinforced the banks. I know it needs to be done, but I feel sorry for the wildlife that have lost their homes.
Poor Leah (the dog) her allergies have flared up again. We wash her feet and tummy after every walk, but she is still a bit itchy.
Not sure if I will catch up with all the posts, but if not I'll see you on the June thread.
Love to all
Viv UK2 -
Lanette - so sorry for your loss, sending love to you an your family
Viv UK1 -
Beth I hope little Cecil is okay, poor pup what a horrible thing to happen in his own garden. Like others I think the neighbours should pay towards the vet bill. I would also ask them to invest in a very large fence to keep their dog from attacking again!
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Virtually standing by your side Lanette. 🫂💕👽
Mellow mood but not much more to say right now. Stay strong ladies!
RvRita3 -
Beth- thanks for posting the update on your pup- so scary for all of you, I am sure.
Kelly- I think I have the same crud as you- Felt terrible all weekend. I didn't cancel my daycare
because it is just the one and only half day. If I still had all the kids, I would seriously be thinking of canceling-Don't remember ever canceling but sure felt like it MANY times- always felt guilty thinking about it. Just hoping it doesn't trigger my asthma again-it is close, I can feel it. Slept off and on until 9:30 when dh came home from work.
Carla- I hope your new situation at work turns out ok.
Viv- hope your mom can find what works best for her
Time for another cup of hot tea- drank so much last night that I was full and skipped dinner(barely ate lunch, skipped breakfast) had a bean burrito for lunch and a few pieces of beef jerky in the afternoon.
Debbie
Napa Valley,CA4 -
I didn't go to my own uni graduation, nor my MA graduation. I did not go to either of my sons' graduations. I don't recall anyone sending gifts, or cards. It was just a piece of paper to me. I did keep the certificates in a drawer, but I don't think I've ever had to show them!
Had a nice chat with my friend G this afternoon. I haven't spoken to anyone for days, apart from DH! My friend L hasn't replied to my texts, though she has read them. I hope she is OK. She has assistance coming in twice a day.
DDIL has sent lots of lovely photos and a video from their holiday in Greece. Missing them, but it's great to see them having a great time. Sailing, paddle boarding, etc. I hope their return flight won't be disrupted. Many flights and holidays are being cancelled at the last minute because of lack of staff. Chaos is widespread and on the news.
Son and Bea.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
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Michele-I agree with Tracey. Jess and Denise are adults and they should work it out and not put you and Vince in the middle. Don't punish yourselves and PJ for their behavior. I’d also just go by myself if the mister chose not to.
Beth-Glad the pup is going to be OK.
Tracey-So sorry about your daughter and SIL.
Katie-My mother was taking care of my grandmother when she had dementia. It got to the point that it was too difficult and she was not qualified to perform the care my grandmother needed. Eventually, she had to go into a care facility. It was not the ideal situation, but my mother could not take care of herself and my grandmother anymore and the health of both started severely suffering.
Well, I have my workout completed. Am sitting outside in the sun to cool down. It has started getting really windy very early in the morning now, so the cool wind with the warm sun is nice right after a good sweat. The rest of they day, it’ll be too cold to sit outside like this.
Tina in CA4 -
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sending good thoughts to all. hugs and support and encouragement to those who need them
long day, as usual, nothing special, taking care of stuff, all seems to take more time all told than is available. conundrum! weather is nice.2 -
Beth agree with Lisa. I learned that if your dog is attacked to pick up the legs of the attacking dog to get them to stop. Also when neighbors dog was aggressive towards me I put a broom between me and the dog. I also called the city on their dog. The city will take the dog and the dog has to prove it is not aggressive.
This could have been a small child. I love dogs as you know but it is not safe and their human is not reponsible the city needs to decide what to do with the dog. When walking with Drew I met a dog trainer and he comment on what a sweet temperment she has. I am very cautious with her and said it can take only one bad encounter. So as I walk with DrewB I say to her say hello until we know. In the meantime I put myself between her and the other dog and will keep a distance.
Your situation is more like the irresponsible neighbors I have. They no longer have their dog. Fortunately no animals or people got hurt.
An unprovoked dog attack makes the owners legally responsible especially if it happened in your yard. Give them the vet bill period. They will more than likely have to cover it because many insurance companies do not cover agressive breeds. That is their problem not yours. They made enough of a problem for you, your family, and your dog. Tell them you made a report and do it so they are held accountable.
The problem with neighbors putting up a fence is the dog will charge the fence. It is like leash aggression and you will no longer be able to have your dog in the back yard because the dog will terrify your dog. This is what happened to the neighbors who were next to the aggressive dog behind me. They could not have their dog out in the backyard when the aggresive dog was out in the yard even though the yard was fenced. This dog escaped the fence twice and charged me. The only reason she did not get me is one time I had a broom and the other was I was in my fenced in yard.
I will just say it the dog needs to go. It is your neighbor's fault not yours. They knew the dog couldn't be trust yet they did not take the steps they needed to make sure he wouldn't hurt someone or another animal.
I would not talk to the neighbors either because you might need to take legal action to get them to pay the vet bill. You have a kind heart and might agree to something that is not good for you in the long run.
The sorries from your neighbors are too late!!!
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Michelle - Add me to the list of people that have concerns of you getting between Jess and Denise. You already have a tenuous relationship with Denise. She doesn't want you to visit and has no interest in visiting you. If you turn down this visit because of Jess, will she offer a visit again in the future or will you be sealing your fate of never seeing her or PJ again? Extreme consequence? Maybe? From what you've told us, she is holding a grudge against Denise for something that you aren't aware of. It doesn't seem like a leap to me.
As for her giving you an excuse instead of just saying she didn't want to go to Jess' graduation.....sounds like she learned that from you. You often tell us you are skipping one event or another with Newcomers and give them an excuse you make up instead of just saying no. You've even told us you hope Vince doesn't let the cat out of the bag by telling them a different reason for you not attending. One of the biggest lessons I've learned is it is ok to say No to an invitation. Not I would love to but I can't because.....or I want to but I can't because......Just No.
Good luck. I hope it all works out for you like you want it to.
Okie in the TX Hill Country8 -
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