Ummmmm is this E harmony (fitness)?

rml_16

We're NOT all here for the same reasons.

Apparently not. And apparently, some people are here for the right reasons and some for the wrong reasons.

I think the "right" reasons are whatever the reasons that specific person is here for.

VeganLexi

Haha this thread is funny :laugh:

A3L7

What in the world? People use this to find dates? Heck.....I'm trying to lose weight with support....not find someone to stress me the hell out and trigger my emotional eating.... Geez! Get your priorities right. Wow!

Then stay out of the topics where this is happening.
I actually met my husband on a site like this. Not because i was looking but because we both happened to be on the same site, threads, groups etc and it just happened. I was there for support and found it beyond the internet.

Congrats... and more importantly, GO EAGLES!

BrainyBurro

What in the world? People use this to find dates? Heck.....I'm trying to lose weight with support....not find someone to stress me the hell out and trigger my emotional eating.... Geez! Get your priorities right. Wow!

Angry much? What do you care why people use this site? Focus on yourself then, and don't worry about what other people do. THAT should be YOUR priority.

FWIW... crazy, angry, judgemental OP has already rage quit.

Because you need positive forum feedback in order for the calorie counter to work, right?

apparently so...

...and for the OP, probably also Adderall.

3foldchord

Been here over a year and have only seen one legit "eharmony" moment. Lots of flirting goes. One, though.
No one flirts with me. It's the watering can, I think. It scares them off.

And... Does anyone post GIFs from an iPad type device? Is it complex? Maybe I need a GIF Posting app.....

Caty_power

you guys are defeating the purpose :noway: Stop Arguing over it :explode: .. Go and do some workout you all .. :devil: :laugh: time to hit the gym !!!! :yawn:

csuhar

What in the world? People use this to find dates? Heck.....I'm trying to lose weight with support....not find someone to stress me the hell out and trigger my emotional eating.... Geez! Get your priorities right. Wow!

Uh oh. My wife and I met on an website that was about a common interest we had, not about dating. I guess we should get divorced and get rid of our kids because it was just all so horribly horribly wrong to meet outside the context of a dating site.

Heck, even dating sites are taboo to some people. But focusing your time and energy on going bars to pick up dates where the only thing you know you have in common is deciding to pay for the same over-priced hooch? That's still cool.

(And no, I'm not trying to knock the bar scene. My parents met at a bar and have been going strong for 40+ years. But they didn't go to the bar expecting to meet someone.)

cleback

Haven't seen it or experienced it.

:-/

Someone flirt with me, quick! lol

abickford82

I came here in 2011 with the intention of never marrying (I was going through a divorce and needed support to run my first marathon/food log, etc.), and met my husband of almost 1.5 years. Didn't plan on it, but it happend very quickly. Yes, it's for fitness but you're more likely to find someone who cares about taking care of themselves on here vs. e-harmony. I don't care what anyone says, it's important in a marriage...you're the one who will be looking after them if they don't. Otherwise, at the time (being 2,700 miles away from one another) we would have never met. Don't worry about what others do -- I think it's great people can use this as other than just food logging and exercise.

Thomasm198

We're NOT all here for the same reasons.

Unless everybody is here to drool over their Friends List and have depraved fantasies; then they're definitely not here for the same reasons that I am. :smokin:

dorisbunker39

You're already complaining after 24 hrs. Oh boy! :yawn:

I'm not complaining. Hi.

How you doin

Dancing for you now..

Oh yer that's hot....can I have your number lol?

eric_sg61

Reminds me of this song

NeverCatchYourBreath

Funny how such an obvious troll thread gets people so uppity. OP deactivated.

VeganLexi

Been here over a year and have only seen one legit "eharmony" moment. Lots of flirting goes. One, though.
No one flirts with me. It's the watering can, I think. It scares them off.

And... Does anyone post GIFs from an iPad type device? Is it complex? Maybe I need a GIF Posting app.....

I do, not its not...just go to the gif in question, hold down to copy, paste in to a browser then copy the URL on to here as usual.

TheGirlsATimeBomb

i just want to be loved :sad:

shutyourpieholeandsquat

Well hell! Nobody's flirted with me either! :sad:

RuleFive

You're already complaining after 24 hrs. Oh boy! :yawn:

I'm not complaining. Hi.

How you doin

Dancing for you now..

Oh yer that's hot....can I have your number lol?

Depends. Can you do this?

dorisbunker39

You're already complaining after 24 hrs. Oh boy! :yawn:

I'm not complaining. Hi.

How you doin

Dancing for you now..

Oh yer that's hot....can I have your number lol?

Depends. Can you do this?

Not on a mans hand

RunsOnEspresso

please remember every single one of you CHOSE to respond.......which meansssssssssss you allowed something you easily could have ignored (which thousands DID on 'this post) it but DID NOT.....so in order for the post to stay alive......YOU GUYS brought it to life......so try again.

Apparently does not understand how a forum works...

No, see, whoever is going to force her to go on dates with people from the site also forced her to post this thread.

It's a conspiracy.

aspartame is probably behind it.

Or possibly Big Pharma.

Or the oil companies.

You guys are right. What was I thinking??

qtgonewild

They say people who use MFP are 3 times more likely to find a relationship. Lol.

lol

gabbygirl78

I have had people flirt and I'm sure I come off as a flirt but find nothing wrong with it. Someone sees my chubby *kitten* on here and reads my diary and still wants to flirt? Why not. What is this rehab?

Chubby is the new sexy We're bringin sexy back :drinker:

osothefinn

I guess many thought I was losing sleep over this being Eharmonyfitness (for some)and I am not...especially not being on this thing a full 24 HOURS......I just commented ANDDDDDDDD went on about my day. I think those who responded more in detail than my two line question need to self reflect and chill. I am doing me and in doing that I noticed this was also EHARMONYFITNESS....hey do you on finding love and fitness.....I will never meet you. But excuse the ONE PERCENTERS (myself) who separates to two agendas and within 15 HOURS shockingly observed others didn't. I am not ignorant of the impact of social media and dating....I was just shocked by what "I" saw......and spoke on it.....and will continue to in the future if I desire.....so you guys have a productive day.....Don't let my observational post ruin it....for it seems like for a few....it's sounding like it.....LOL.

Because you're such a brilliant special snowflake the world should be informed, nay, MUST BE INFORMED, of every thought that crosses your mind. We are lucky, no, blessed, to be granted the pearls of wisdom that percolate up from inside you. Huzzah!

AegisAngel

I'm also new and haven't seen any of the dating stuff and if I did, I would ignore it because I'm not here for that. I would just focus on those people who are here for actual weight loss help and ignore everything else. You can also block people that you find offensive, etc.

Pixi_Rex

What in the world? People use this to find dates? Heck.....I'm trying to lose weight with support....not find someone to stress me the hell out and trigger my emotional eating.... Geez! Get your priorities right. Wow!

You are ridiculous. In the 3 years I have been on this site I have never seen someone intentionally use this to find a date. I do know there are some couples on here who found each other on there but I don't think they were actively looking for love, it kind of just happened.

Also if you don't want to find someone to love thats your thing, let others do as they please you will find life to be less stressful if you live that way.

Cliffslosinit

Don't be jealous!:flowerforyou:

ninerbuff

At least there's no charge here to so view profiles.:laugh:

A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
IDEA Fitness member
Kickboxing Certified Instructor
Been in fitness industry for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

FearAnLoathingJ

@ Joy, I didn't even notice your comment. I was speaking in general terms...No one called her ugly either(she was however called bitter) My point was I dislike when people use personal attacks because they don't like someone's opinion. Again I agree no negativity is needed here.

saying someone is bitter is an opinion,and everyone is entitled to one

RuleFive

@ Joy, I didn't even notice your comment. I was speaking in general terms...No one called her ugly either(she was however called bitter) My point was I dislike when people use personal attacks because they don't like someone's opinion. Again I agree no negativity is needed here.

saying someone is bitter is an opinion,and everyone is entitled to one

That's just like the one thing everyone else has.....Wait. Don't tell me... It was a ....

FearAnLoathingJ

@ Joy, I didn't even notice your comment. I was speaking in general terms...No one called her ugly either(she was however called bitter) My point was I dislike when people use personal attacks because they don't like someone's opinion. Again I agree no negativity is needed here.

saying someone is bitter is an opinion,and everyone is entitled to one

That's just like the one thing everyone else has.....Wait. Don't tell me... It was a ....

a nose? im sure that's what you were thinking

FearAnLoathingJ

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