JEALOUS & HOT WIFE
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I think I'm more concerned by the fact that you're not reporting your time properly and therefore stealing from the company. That you come in late and take time off and he just lets you do it. That to me is more serious than his wife shooting you evil looks.0
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just because you find her hot, doesn't mean she feels that way, especially if he is doing nice things to/for you and maybe not giving her the same attention? You never know what is going on in someone else's world, without asking. Also, hot girls can be insecure, too.
Theres an entire industry based on them. Also, without them, I'd be stuck with ugly girls and... eww!
Can't have that happen.....
Exactly. Which is why anytime I see a hot chick saying "I'm alone and nobody would date me" I usually suggest they develop some sort of daddy issue.0 -
So you listed off a bunch of things that her husband did that are inappropriate (stealing from the company in the form of hours, upping your salary by a lot, extra super special attention that is outside the scope of the normal boss-underling relationship), and you're wondering why she doesn't like you?
Just because a woman is hot doesn't mean she's stupid. And just because you view everything that has transpired as appropriate doesn't mean that any of this is appropriate for him to do. These sorts of things could get him fired. And you too. Any wife, no matter what she looks like, would be understandably miffed. Honestly, I don't think you view his actions as appropriate at all. The smart, rational woman in you knows his behavior isn't above board. The woman in you who is flattered by the attention, however...0 -
I doubt this is about you as a person and more because you are female. If he's smarmy enough to flirt with colleagues at work then can you imagine what he may be getting up to outside of work? She may have recently found out about an infidelity and will be threatened by any woman, especially ones who he is doing all these little favours for. If I were her I would not be your biggest fan either. Maybe ask her if she is okay and put a stop to his special treatment. A little female solidarity goes a long way.0
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This is hilarious.
"Hi, I'm flirting with my boss, and we're trading bennies back and forth. I don't understand why his wife is getting mad at me. Why is she so mean?"
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LOL... Seriously! I DO NOT flirt! It's funny though .... I am a respectful person and have always treated him as nothing else but my boss. I don't even like talking to him because he makes me nervous. If I knew I was flirting then I wouldn't take my time to ask what the hell do you guys think she's thinking or he's thinking.... I'm a grown woman, not a young girl looking to hook up with no anyones husband here. I have ALWAYS taken my job so seriously and NEVER once thought about dating anyone in the same office as me. NEVER have and NEVER will. But you don't know me so it's okay to jump to conclusions.....
I love your humor! lol.....0 -
OMG I'M CRACKING UP!!!!!!0 -
This is hilarious.
"Hi, I'm flirting with my boss, and we're trading bennies back and forth. I don't understand why his wife is getting mad at me. Why is she so mean?"
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LOL... Seriously! I DO NOT flirt! It's funny though .... I am a respectful person and have always treated him as nothing else but my boss. I don't even like talking to him because he makes me nervous. If I knew I was flirting then I wouldn't take my time to ask what the hell do you guys think she's thinking or he's thinking.... I'm a grown woman, not a young girl looking to hook up with no anyones husband here. I have ALWAYS taken my job so seriously and NEVER once thought about dating anyone in the same office as me. NEVER have and NEVER will. But you don't know me so it's okay to jump to conclusions.....
I love your humor! lol.....
let me ask this, if the roles were reversed and your husband were the boss and doing those things your boss does for you for someone else, how would you feel?0 -
And next on Jerry Springer we meet the husband and the wife where the wife discusses how OP failed to ruin the couples life by being delusional.
Stay tuned. Don't go anywhere.
ETA: just kidding. She's totally jealous of you because in her heart (and yours) she knows that you're better than her and can fulfill the void her thigh gap just can't fill so her hubby needs your "curves"
LOL
I used to have a friend that thought all her neighbors were *****y to her because their husbands lusted after her...but I knew they were *****es to her because she was the type of woman who *thought* all their husbands were lusting after her. In other words, she was delusional and full of herself. In reality she was not particularly attractive (just in her own mind).
Dude, I so know I'm not half as attractive as she is. I act confident to gain respect but inside I'm like... damn I need to lose that fat roll! lol... I am so not like that.... I don't get many men to look at me that's why this guy just shook me up a bit.0 -
This is hilarious.
"Hi, I'm flirting with my boss, and we're trading bennies back and forth. I don't understand why his wife is getting mad at me. Why is she so mean?"
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HA !!:laugh:0 -
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If you feel that you have done nothing wrong then don't sweat it. You probably won't change her attitude towards you anyway even if you did approach her. Even the "hottest" people have insecurities.
I TOTALLY AGREE!! But if you all were cool with each other in the beginning and NOW she is copping an attitude, then yes, I would ask her what is up. Because that is what mature adults do. We don't talk and whisper behind a person's back. You confront the issues.0 -
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let me ask this, if the roles were reversed and your husband were the boss and doing those things your boss does for you for someone else, how would you feel?
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I would be so angry! But do I tell him to stop??? I don't want him to think that I think he's flirting when maybe that's just the type of person he is?? IDK.... I totally feel her, I'm a wife and it happens. I just thought that maybe HOT women knew they got their **** handled and wouldn't worry about a fat girl trying to take her husband... which is SOOOOOO NOT THE case!0 -
let me ask this, if the roles were reversed and your husband were the boss and doing those things your boss does for you for someone else, how would you feel?
I would be so angry! But do I tell him to stop??? I don't want him to think that I think he's flirting when maybe that's just the type of person he is?? IDK.... I totally feel her, I'm a wife and it happens. I just thought that maybe HOT women knew they got their **** handled and wouldn't worry about a fat girl trying to take her husband... which is SOOOOOO NOT THE case!
Nope. Not all hot women are secure, especially when their husband is blatantly doing favors/nice things for one employee, i.e. flirting. I don't care how hot someone is, if that upsets someone, it upsets them at any weight, look, etc... So, you say it would upset you, maybe you need to consider talking to the wife, at the very least.0 -
I think I'm more concerned by the fact that you're not reporting your time properly and therefore stealing from the company. That you come in late and take time off and he just lets you do it. That to me is more serious than his wife shooting you evil looks.
He paid me for 2 days of work because my kid was sick..... and I had worked 3 days in a row until 8 pm because we had a huge submittal. I didn't have sick time because I was new and I guess I don't deserve to get paid to spend 2 days with my sick son at home. But he paid them and I didn't argue it. I should have though. But I have a family so I didn't. When I come in late and leave early ... I don't get paid for that time. He was just more flexible to my time in and time out. Yeah ... it did seem weird how nice he was and I did talk to my husband about it. I didn't report to anyone else so I just kept working my *kitten* off as best as I could, taking on new projects and trying to learn everything on my own so that I could help his project... I thought that maybe he appreciated the fact that even though I have 2 kids and a husband at home that I would stay 4 or 5 hours over my time to help him complete the things we had to complete. I took those 2 days as more of a reward that I needed.0 -
I bet she checked his text messages.0
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Let's see........Maria Shriver? Hot babe and extremely intelligent with money and her husband cheated! Sooooo many examples but that one comes to mind.
One of my co-workers experienced extra attention (talking, flirting) from one of the doctors, and it got to the point where she was uncomfortable. He was single and she was married. She started talking to him about her wonderful husband and kids. Finally he got the message.
As far as the hot wife goes....be friendly and talk, talk, talk about your wonderful husband!
If that doesn't work, you might need to find another job.
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Why don't you just ask her?
CAUTIOUSLY. Maybe a nice, "Have I offended you?" or "Is everything ok" next time you see her in your workplace. I wouldn't try contacting her outside of work and asking her what her problem is. You do want to keep your job after all.0 -
let me ask this, if the roles were reversed and your husband were the boss and doing those things your boss does for you for someone else, how would you feel?I would be so angry! But do I tell him to stop??? I don't want him to think that I think he's flirting when maybe that's just the type of person he is?? IDK.... I totally feel her, I'm a wife and it happens. I just thought that maybe HOT women knew they got their **** handled and wouldn't worry about a fat girl trying to take her husband... which is SOOOOOO NOT THE case!
Well, if you know where she is coming from and know how she probably feels, the decent thing to do would be to tell her hubby to lay off the nice things. That while you appreciate it, that it is sending the wrong message to his wife and most likely other workers. Not to mention, what he is doing with the sick time is probably against company policy, therefore putting everyone involved job's on the line...
All I know is if my hubby was laying his job out there for another employee, man or woman, to be nice, his derriere would be on my shizit list.0 -
I just wouldn't give a crap and I'd keep letting boss man make me tea and let me be late. As long as you're not "returning the favor" in an inappropriate way, carry on. Enjoy the perks.0
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Didn't Halle Berry get cheated on multiple times? Just goes to show it doesn't matter how you look or who you are.
I am more concerned about you letting him give you special treatment. Ugh, I've worked with bosses like that who favored certain employees and it's terrible for the overall office morale. It also seems you might be sending him the wrong signals by accepting his favors. Time to have a talk and draw the boundaries.0 -
Wait, so he's NOT your boss any more? Maybe his wife is giving you the stink-eye because while you were working for him you freed him up to do a lot of other things like go home early to her and now that you're not working for him he's busier than he should be.
As for the paid sick days:I don't get what the uproar is about with that one. I had a boss who gave me a free week off (meaning he didn't put it in to HR as vacation time) because I was working my butt off and picked up the slack for the entire team. It was his way of saying 'thanks for the good work'.0 -
LOL this was too funny:laugh:0 -
Well... he probably sees something in you that his wife is lacking, and it might not necessarily be aesthetic. You might have some personality trait that he actually finds attractive in a woman that his wife is completely lacking. Unfortunately, it would seem that his wife has picked up on his attraction to you, and her insecurities are causing her to be hostile towards you, in spite of the fact that you have behaved yourself professionally.
My best advice for you is to continue to behave professionally towards him and her, continue to respect yourself, and let them work through their marital discord on their own. However, if the environment becomes too hostile, you might need to consider changing your job circumstances if you can.
Best of luck!0 -
I think I'm more concerned by the fact that you're not reporting your time properly and therefore stealing from the company. That you come in late and take time off and he just lets you do it. That to me is more serious than his wife shooting you evil looks.
He paid me for 2 days of work because my kid was sick..... and I had worked 3 days in a row until 8 pm because we had a huge submittal. I didn't have sick time because I was new and I guess I don't deserve to get paid to spend 2 days with my sick son at home. But he paid them and I didn't argue it. I should have though. But I have a family so I didn't. When I come in late and leave early ... I don't get paid for that time. He was just more flexible to my time in and time out. Yeah ... it did seem weird how nice he was and I did talk to my husband about it. I didn't report to anyone else so I just kept working my *kitten* off as best as I could, taking on new projects and trying to learn everything on my own so that I could help his project... I thought that maybe he appreciated the fact that even though I have 2 kids and a husband at home that I would stay 4 or 5 hours over my time to help him complete the things we had to complete. I took those 2 days as more of a reward that I needed.
Are you salaried or paid hourly? If salaried, you work WHATEVER hours are needed to complete the job - I know this from my husband, who sometimes is working from home at all hours of the night and weekend. If you are paid hourly, that should have been pay that was time and a half. And I'm sorry, but unless your starting wage was some outrageous amount per hour or in some very specialized field, $5 an hour increase after only 2 weeks is NOT normal.0 -
I feel like this is a desperate for attention kind of post. Come on here, brag about how big and curvy and confident you are and about how your hot boss does all these favors for you, ask what to make of it and then sit back while everyone cuts down his hot wife for being not as confident and tells you how much better fat girls are than skinny ones. You're a married woman flirting with a married man and you want a thumbs up? His wife has every right to be a ***** to you and hopefully she's being one to him too at home.0
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Wait, so he's NOT your boss any more? Maybe his wife is giving you the stink-eye because while you were working for him you freed him up to do a lot of other things like go home early to her and now that you're not working for him he's busier than he should be.
Sorry OP, I missed the part where you said he's your ex-boss.
Since you and his wife aren't the best of buddies and you don't work together anyway then who cares what she thinks. If you are happy with your husband then why does it matter. No loss, move on.0 -
His wife has every right to be a ***** to you and hopefully she's being one to him too at home.
Which is probably why he is crushing on someone else in the first place! Jus' sayin'.0 -
I feel like this is a desperate for attention kind of post. Come on here, brag about how big and curvy and confident you are and about how your hot boss does all these favors for you, ask what to make of it and then sit back while everyone cuts down his hot wife for being not as confident and tells you how much better fat girls are than skinny ones. You're a married woman flirting with a married man and you want a thumbs up? His wife has every right to be a ***** to you and hopefully she's being one to him too at home.
I think the word you were looking for was "humble-brag".0 -
The dude got drunk and told his wife he wants to recruit you for a threesome. .0
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I feel like this is a desperate for attention kind of post. Come on here, brag about how big and curvy and confident you are and about how your hot boss does all these favors for you, ask what to make of it and then sit back while everyone cuts down his hot wife for being not as confident and tells you how much better fat girls are than skinny ones. You're a married woman flirting with a married man and you want a thumbs up? His wife has every right to be a ***** to you and hopefully she's being one to him too at home.
And you said what I am sure everyone was thinking but didn't want to say (or at least I was thinking it when I first read it) because he's actually NOT her boss any longer.0
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