what is the worst thing you have been called?

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  • navyrigger46
    navyrigger46 Posts: 1,301 Member
    I can honestly say that nothing has ever been said to me that didn't just roll off, mostly because I could care less what people think. I have been called a racist before, which is probably the worst for me, but considering the source, again, I could have cared less. Fact is, I don't care what people call me because I and my friends and family know the truth, and outside opinions don't mean $#!^.

    Rigger
  • My_Own_Worst_Enemy
    My_Own_Worst_Enemy Posts: 218 Member
    Although I probably deserved it........Can not post here for fear of getting

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  • dlpau
    dlpau Posts: 25 Member
    Just before I started losing weight someone yelled out at me earthquake.
  • crystalewhite
    crystalewhite Posts: 422 Member
    Ugh, it was fluffy by one of my stepdad's friends. I should have punched him in the nose but I was too taken aback that he said it.
  • tzig00
    tzig00 Posts: 875 Member
    About my weight...cow while throwing my books down the hall of my high school.

    About my life...my brother used to call me a skank, my dad told me I looked like a porn star and would call me a slut and all those kind words. My coworker called me the *kitten* of a restaurant and asked who was I going to *kitten* myself out to to pay my next meal. Funny thing is, I don't sleep around, I never have.

    Gotta love people.
  • chrs86
    chrs86 Posts: 151 Member
    *kitten*!
  • tzig00
    tzig00 Posts: 875 Member
    Oh! I forgot the best! How could I forget this? I got told that a boyfriend at the time didn't love me and could never love me until I lost a ton of weight and grew my hair out and would never marry mean unless I looked dang good in a bikini because he wanted a trophy wife and I was no where near that.
  • CountryBoyLover81
    CountryBoyLover81 Posts: 15
    I've been called fat, small fry(I'm 5'1" and was working at Mcdonalds), a couple ex boyfriends told me I should go on a diet and one even bought diet pills and sat them in front of me. I was called a fat lazy *kitten*. Just last night I was called a ***** and a fat *kitten* and that I was only good for f***ing(an ex who was mad cuz I broke up with him and wouldn't take him back).
  • SaintGiff
    SaintGiff Posts: 3,679 Member
    Waste of human flesh - Grade 7 Civics teacher in front of entire class

    White trash P.O.S. - Grade 9 History teacher in front of entire class

    I could list a few hundred very creative ones from my mother, but you get the idea, lol.
  • Slaintegrl
    Slaintegrl Posts: 239 Member
    A dissapointment
  • SaintGiff
    SaintGiff Posts: 3,679 Member
    ...Just last night I was called a ***** and a fat *kitten* and that I was only good for f***ing(an ex who was mad cuz I broke up with him and wouldn't take him back)...
    I think you take that as a compliment, say "thank you" and walk away. I mean, he did say you were good at f#cking. It's always fun to intentionally mis-hear someone's insult as a compliment. It confuses people because everyone thinks they are awesome at delivering insults.
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  • MikeC692000
    MikeC692000 Posts: 4 Member
    Over the years, I've been called a lot of things because of my weight. But now, some people (usually guys) call me "Big Mike" or "Big Guy", which I hate! I don't need to be reminded of my weight. One time, a guy who is short in stature called me "Big Guy". When I responded by calling him "Little Guy", he got the message.
  • linda0372
    linda0372 Posts: 27 Member
    when I was on my way to the subway to go to work, this guy, going the opposite direction, walked by and said " good morning Fatso". in true NYC fashion, and without skipping a beat i said "good morning to you *kitten*"
  • MikeC692000
    MikeC692000 Posts: 4 Member
    I can see why you broke up with him. My wife and I have had many arguments over the years, but she has never used my weight as an insult.
  • chrs86
    chrs86 Posts: 151 Member
    Pussie willow!
  • Leonidas_meets_Spartacus
    Leonidas_meets_Spartacus Posts: 6,198 Member
    You eat f*ing too much.
    You have no F*ing self control when you eat.
  • Dozer91
    Dozer91 Posts: 40 Member
    I have a stocky build but have been an athlete for most of my adult life which lead to a strong and muscular body. My husband's family has a naturally high metabolism and even though I am a little curvier than most of my husband's family I am stronger and more fit.....that is until we had our first child. My pregnancy was difficult and I had to stop my workouts. After I had the baby my weight didn't come off in fact I GAINED 12 pounds in the hospital. I had to work for every lost pound. When my baby was a few months old and I was at about 215 pounds my mother-in-law looked at me and said "Is that it? Are you done trying to look good now that you have a baby? Are you settled in now?" I was working out everyday for months when she said that. Now its a year later and I have lost all but 10 pounds. I am going to lose 30 more by the end of the year. Her words didn't stop me but they made me angry. It's hard enough trying to be an athlete when there is so much weight to lose.
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    Are you a cop? :laugh:
  • LisaTRM
    LisaTRM Posts: 28 Member
    I was asked twice if I was pregnant. Not the worst thing in the world, but it really hurt my feelings. That is when I decided that I need to make changes. It also made me realize that I can't control what other people think or say, but I can control my actions! I am feeling better abount myself everyday! :wink:
  • stormbornkraken
    stormbornkraken Posts: 302 Member
    So many heartbreaking stories. My heart goes out to all of you.

    Most of my painful and humiliating memories are from that phase of developing into my sexuality and my experiences with guys. The way they described some of my very personal anatomy was cruel and gave me a complex. I was so convinced I was unusual until I started ...(don't laugh)... watching porn and then I knew I was not unusual at all! In fact I am convinced these boys had not truly been with many real girls or they would have known the diversity and beauty in all bodies.

    Many years and tears later and I am a healthy and confident and have plenty of experiences to speak otherwise. But those years are always in the back of my mind and make me cringe.
  • BonecrusherBrews
    BonecrusherBrews Posts: 131 Member
    So many heartbreaking stories. My heart goes out to all of you....

    Agreed. My heart also goes out to all of you.

    I hope that through your successes in your life (and here on MFP) you will gain strength, courage, and confidence.
  • becky10rp
    becky10rp Posts: 573 Member
    when I was on my way to the subway to go to work, this guy, going the opposite direction, walked by and said " good morning Fatso". in true NYC fashion, and without skipping a beat i said "good morning to you *kitten*"

    TRUE NY Perfection!!!!
  • rorymason
    rorymason Posts: 172 Member
    Years ago I was walking with my young son in the mall and a group of teens walking behind me "mooed" at me. Sad to say I weighed less then than I do now.
  • SerenaKitty
    SerenaKitty Posts: 142
    When I lost weight the first time, some family members thought it was okay to tell me what I looked like when I was fat. My aunt said I looked like the Michelin Man and also said that I looked waxy like a fat porcelain doll.

    It is pretty hard for me to go to family events now that I'm fat again, because now I know what they think of me when I'm overweight. But, I'm trying to change that! :) However, I will never forget the pain that those comments caused me.
  • kiwigal41
    kiwigal41 Posts: 1,059
    f$%king c*nt....
  • meganjcallaghan
    meganjcallaghan Posts: 949 Member
    not things i've been ''called'' but some things that have been said to me:

    "you've grown. not taller though."

    "you've lost weight. you're pretty now."
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    i was once called a pooh pooh head. then i pushed her in the sandbox.
  • marinashakeel
    marinashakeel Posts: 263 Member
    i have been picked on by every freaking single person in my family my friend circle.... sometimes it hurts me alot.. there are people fatter than me in my family (the previous me) and they picked on me in front of everybody and i just have to smile i know i cant be rude to anybody because they will just pick on me some more.. people never realizes the person is shattered inside.. that self confidence is crashed in to million pieces when a public comment is made on weight and what the worst part is everybody laughs! :O i mean c'mon people that was not even funny that was how i went sometimes but i cant speak out loud..i cried so many times alone just because of my weight.. i can never forget what each and every person called me how they make fun of me and now that same people are asking me how have i lost so much? can i give them some tips? .. time really turn back.. i now really make suure i never comment on somebodys weight as how much they have gained.. i just give confidence to people who are fat.. i try to support them indirectly because i know exactly what they must be feeling.. i dont know what is wrong with the skinny or thin party.. why cant they just imagine that the person will be very heart broken if you called them fat.. i mean no girl ever ever ever wants to be fat she always wants that perfect body... WHY CANT THIS WORLD THINK???? if they have the 'skinnier genes' or whatever that is .. they are just not gaining because of their genes.. (i am soory but that what most of the thin people around me are like.. they can eat a large pizza drink a jumbo pepsi and still not gain... i am not talking about everybody though) ..
    p.s: sorry for being so long and ranting but to this very day tears comes in to my eyes when i remeber waht my own family called me once .. how they to tease me and what i had to go through everyday :'(
  • pinktara2013
    pinktara2013 Posts: 19 Member
    My EX husband used to call me anything and everything. And since we dated in high school, before I got fat, he'd take pictures from years ago and say "This is what I wanted" and he'd point at me and say "And this is what I got stuck with". That was more hurtful than any of the physical abuse. But it was when he stopped calling me names and started referring to me as "it" that it really bothered me. He'd threaten to kill me and then say I wasn't worth going to prison for so I should do the world a favor and kill myself. The ironic thing is that after I finally got the strength to leave him he begged me to take him back, and I did a couple of times, but I finally ended it for good. Oh yeah, and he ended up in prison!

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