signs your man is cheating?
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once he shows initial signs and becomes suspicious then he loses that privacy. Many people hire private investigators even to prove infidelity. This goes for either partner.The cell phone is a big helper ! Look at his calls and texts. Also look on his Facebook page or twitter etc. Does he walk away when he gets phone calls ? Is he starting to take better care of himself ? Wearing cologne when he used to not ? Check out his vehicle. They hide a lot there ! Is he buying more gum and breath freshener than he used to ? Is he using the credit cards more or the ATM ? Staying late at work ? Going out with 'the guys' more ? Trimming his croch hairs if he didn't before ? Goes missing for hours ? Gives lame excuses ? I'm sure I can think of more. I have experience !
Okay, so stalk your partner basically?
Well...I think these are advanced steps only necessary after showing initial signs of cheating. If a lady did all this with no probably cause then I would call stalking...but I think her context is look into these after he shows signs.
So privacy has no bearing?
That's by far the stupidest thing I've ever heard, if you have to hire a private investigator, then obviously the relationship isn't going to work out, even if hes not cheating
Yeah, let's say he finds nothing. Would she tell him?
Or if any of you would check cellphones and emails and find nothing. Would you admit it to your S/O?
I don't check emails or phones. I'm not insecure so if I get suspicious feelings I normally have good reason. however I'm thinking that if I was to do that and I didn't find anything, no, I wouldn't tell them because then I am the one who has broken their trust.
That is hypocritical.
it was also hypothetical. if I was paranoid and into checking phones, I am breaking my partner's trust by checking up on them. it also shows I do not respect my partner's privacy.
I can understand this when in a gf/bf relationship. But when you get married all his stuff is yours and all your stuff is his. You normally all have the same emails and so forth.
I know zero married couples that have the same email.0 -
I had a gf who checked on everything...emails, phone records, bills, atm usage,she would go feel my truck hood if I told her Id been home for awhile to make sure it wasn't warm, she would count how many pairs of clothes I had used, etc etc etc....
it was impressive actually...I should of cheated on her so at least her efforts didnt go unrewarded
Further proof that men find "crazy" attractive.0 -
once he shows initial signs and becomes suspicious then he loses that privacy. Many people hire private investigators even to prove infidelity. This goes for either partner.The cell phone is a big helper ! Look at his calls and texts. Also look on his Facebook page or twitter etc. Does he walk away when he gets phone calls ? Is he starting to take better care of himself ? Wearing cologne when he used to not ? Check out his vehicle. They hide a lot there ! Is he buying more gum and breath freshener than he used to ? Is he using the credit cards more or the ATM ? Staying late at work ? Going out with 'the guys' more ? Trimming his croch hairs if he didn't before ? Goes missing for hours ? Gives lame excuses ? I'm sure I can think of more. I have experience !
Okay, so stalk your partner basically?
Well...I think these are advanced steps only necessary after showing initial signs of cheating. If a lady did all this with no probably cause then I would call stalking...but I think her context is look into these after he shows signs.
So privacy has no bearing?
That's by far the stupidest thing I've ever heard, if you have to hire a private investigator, then obviously the relationship isn't going to work out, even if hes not cheating
Yeah, let's say he finds nothing. Would she tell him?
Or if any of you would check cellphones and emails and find nothing. Would you admit it to your S/O?
I don't check emails or phones. I'm not insecure so if I get suspicious feelings I normally have good reason. however I'm thinking that if I was to do that and I didn't find anything, no, I wouldn't tell them because then I am the one who has broken their trust.
That is hypocritical.
it was also hypothetical. if I was paranoid and into checking phones, I am breaking my partner's trust by checking up on them. it also shows I do not respect my partner's privacy.
I can understand this when in a gf/bf relationship. But when you get married all his stuff is yours and all your stuff is his. You normally all have the same emails and so forth.
I know zero married couples that have the same email.
My brother does with his wife, everyone of my friends who are married do ( 10 of them) and my husband and I do.0 -
crazy = good in bed0
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What type of cheating???? There are so many different levels
Leaning towards I believe email/text cheating and coming home to them penis massaging another LOL0 -
crazy = good in bed
it!! lol 0 -
He has a p-nis0
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He hides his mobile
He answers each call staying that it's someone he does not like.... the woman on the other end plays along with it
He then turns his mobile off at night
You then decide to charge his mobile for him & TXT message right away from HER saying she's home now & misses talking to you (him)
You then call her up on HIS phone & abuse the crap out of her......making sure it's left on her answering service.
You then wake him ...it's 2am...... he then tries to blame you..
You then wake your son & walk out.
He goes back to sleep
You & son sleep in the park that night in the freezing cold.
In the morning you send son to school & you go home to get stuff...you got nowhere to go to at all.
He then starts crying...... you ask who she is
You find out & then get on facebook and abuse her some more, tell her husband & her adult children
She states she 'didnt know about me' yeah right....0 -
Thanks, now I want a penis massage.You find him naked on the couch giving your best friend a massage. With his penis.
I watched this gif entirely too long0 -
once he shows initial signs and becomes suspicious then he loses that privacy. Many people hire private investigators even to prove infidelity. This goes for either partner.The cell phone is a big helper ! Look at his calls and texts. Also look on his Facebook page or twitter etc. Does he walk away when he gets phone calls ? Is he starting to take better care of himself ? Wearing cologne when he used to not ? Check out his vehicle. They hide a lot there ! Is he buying more gum and breath freshener than he used to ? Is he using the credit cards more or the ATM ? Staying late at work ? Going out with 'the guys' more ? Trimming his croch hairs if he didn't before ? Goes missing for hours ? Gives lame excuses ? I'm sure I can think of more. I have experience !
Okay, so stalk your partner basically?
Well...I think these are advanced steps only necessary after showing initial signs of cheating. If a lady did all this with no probably cause then I would call stalking...but I think her context is look into these after he shows signs.
So privacy has no bearing?
That's by far the stupidest thing I've ever heard, if you have to hire a private investigator, then obviously the relationship isn't going to work out, even if hes not cheating
Yeah, let's say he finds nothing. Would she tell him?
Or if any of you would check cellphones and emails and find nothing. Would you admit it to your S/O?
I don't check emails or phones. I'm not insecure so if I get suspicious feelings I normally have good reason. however I'm thinking that if I was to do that and I didn't find anything, no, I wouldn't tell them because then I am the one who has broken their trust.
That is hypocritical.
it was also hypothetical. if I was paranoid and into checking phones, I am breaking my partner's trust by checking up on them. it also shows I do not respect my partner's privacy.
I can understand this when in a gf/bf relationship. But when you get married all his stuff is yours and all your stuff is his. You normally all have the same emails and so forth.
I know zero married couples that have the same email.
My brother does with his wife, everyone of my friends who are married do ( 10 of them) and my husband and I do.
Then you live in a psychotic neighborhood.0 -
The cell phone is a big helper ! Look at his calls and texts. Also look on his Facebook page or twitter etc. Does he walk away when he gets phone calls ? Is he starting to take better care of himself ? Wearing cologne when he used to not ? Check out his vehicle. They hide a lot there ! Is he buying more gum and breath freshener than he used to ? Is he using the credit cards more or the ATM ? Staying late at work ? Going out with 'the guys' more ? Trimming his croch hairs if he didn't before ? Goes missing for hours ? Gives lame excuses ? I'm sure I can think of more. I have experience !
If I felt the need to do all this spy work he's already gone.... the trust is already broken he's not worth the drama.0 -
He hides his mobile
He answers each call staying that it's someone he does not like.... the woman on the other end plays along with it
He then turns his mobile off at night
You then decide to charge his mobile for him & TXT message right away from HER saying she's home now & misses talking to you (him)
You then call her up on HIS phone & abuse the crap out of her......making sure it's left on her answering service.
You then wake him ...it's 2am...... he then tries to blame you..
You then wake your son & walk out.
He goes back to sleep
You & son sleep in the park that night in the freezing cold.
In the morning you send son to school & you go home to get stuff...you got nowhere to go to at all.
He then starts crying...... you ask who she is
You find out & then get on facebook and abuse her some more, tell her husband & her adult children
She states she 'didnt know about me' yeah right....
Always the tears and I didn't know about you from the other person in the start of it.0 -
He hides his mobile
He answers each call staying that it's someone he does not like.... the woman on the other end plays along with it
He then turns his mobile off at night
You then decide to charge his mobile for him & TXT message right away from HER saying she's home now & misses talking to you (him)
You then call her up on HIS phone & abuse the crap out of her......making sure it's left on her answering service.
You then wake him ...it's 2am...... he then tries to blame you..
You then wake your son & walk out.
He goes back to sleep
You & son sleep in the park that night in the freezing cold.
In the morning you send son to school & you go home to get stuff...you got nowhere to go to at all.
He then starts crying...... you ask who she is
You find out & then get on facebook and abuse her some more, tell her husband & her adult children
She states she 'didnt know about me' yeah right....
I bet you are incredible in bed0 -
My ex-husband had his separate email and everything. My current husband has email but I have passwords to his accounts as he does mine. If you have nothing to hide the relationship should be an open book. Im not saying you have to share everything but you shouldnt also need to hide anything either. I found out my ex had been calling a crush of his for the entire 9 years of our marriage and I never knew about it until he walked out the door for 2 weeks and left the kids and I for her and then wanted to come back to me and work on our marriage. HA!0
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once he shows initial signs and becomes suspicious then he loses that privacy. Many people hire private investigators even to prove infidelity. This goes for either partner.The cell phone is a big helper ! Look at his calls and texts. Also look on his Facebook page or twitter etc. Does he walk away when he gets phone calls ? Is he starting to take better care of himself ? Wearing cologne when he used to not ? Check out his vehicle. They hide a lot there ! Is he buying more gum and breath freshener than he used to ? Is he using the credit cards more or the ATM ? Staying late at work ? Going out with 'the guys' more ? Trimming his croch hairs if he didn't before ? Goes missing for hours ? Gives lame excuses ? I'm sure I can think of more. I have experience !
Okay, so stalk your partner basically?
Well...I think these are advanced steps only necessary after showing initial signs of cheating. If a lady did all this with no probably cause then I would call stalking...but I think her context is look into these after he shows signs.
So privacy has no bearing?
That's by far the stupidest thing I've ever heard, if you have to hire a private investigator, then obviously the relationship isn't going to work out, even if hes not cheating
Yeah, let's say he finds nothing. Would she tell him?
Or if any of you would check cellphones and emails and find nothing. Would you admit it to your S/O?
I don't check emails or phones. I'm not insecure so if I get suspicious feelings I normally have good reason. however I'm thinking that if I was to do that and I didn't find anything, no, I wouldn't tell them because then I am the one who has broken their trust.
That is hypocritical.
it was also hypothetical. if I was paranoid and into checking phones, I am breaking my partner's trust by checking up on them. it also shows I do not respect my partner's privacy.
I can understand this when in a gf/bf relationship. But when you get married all his stuff is yours and all your stuff is his. You normally all have the same emails and so forth.
I know zero married couples that have the same email.
My brother does with his wife, everyone of my friends who are married do ( 10 of them) and my husband and I do.
Then you live in a psychotic neighborhood.
No just the way a marriage is taught in there families. *shrugs* It works for them, no issues. So whatever, stuff happens then you get over it
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To those who feel it is appropriate to access all of your partner's accounts if you have a "feeling", how would you feel if the roles were reversed?0
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lol ! Love it !crazy = good in bed0 -
No just the way a marriage is taught in there families. *shrugs* It works for them, no issues. So whatever, stuff happens then you get over it
Are the husbands stupid enough to not make new email addresses to cheat from?0 -
My ex-husband had his separate email and everything. My current husband has email but I have passwords to his accounts as he does mine. If you have nothing to hide the relationship should be an open book. Im not saying you have to share everything but you shouldnt also need to hide anything either. I found out my ex had been calling a crush of his for the entire 9 years of our marriage and I never knew about it until he walked out the door for 2 weeks and left the kids and I for her and then wanted to come back to me and work on our marriage. HA!
Yeah same here with the emails and any other account. It works for us. I don't check anything because I am over it. If he wants to cheat and not have a loving wife who does everything for him, I told him to just tell me and I would leave and give him the papers and not ask for anything as I can take care of myself. Nothing said yet. lol so must be doing something right.0 -
Yeah...if I was dating someone who was reading all of my emails and checking my phone and my Facebook and asking me about all that crap, that would be the END of that relationship.The cell phone is a big helper ! Look at his calls and texts. Also look on his Facebook page or twitter etc. Does he walk away when he gets phone calls ? Is he starting to take better care of himself ? Wearing cologne when he used to not ? Check out his vehicle. They hide a lot there ! Is he buying more gum and breath freshener than he used to ? Is he using the credit cards more or the ATM ? Staying late at work ? Going out with 'the guys' more ? Trimming his croch hairs if he didn't before ? Goes missing for hours ? Gives lame excuses ? I'm sure I can think of more. I have experience !
You either trust me or you don't. If you don't, that's fine, but we're not going to be together.
I get it, some women have been hurt by cheating. It sucks. But that has nothing to do with me and if you want a relationship with me, trust has to be part of it.
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No just the way a marriage is taught in there families. *shrugs* It works for them, no issues. So whatever, stuff happens then you get over it
Are the husbands stupid enough to not make new email addresses to cheat from?
They can if they wish to, but I am pretty sure the way they were raised they wouldn't though. Not everyone cheats or needs to cheat to feel like a man in this world.0 -
once he shows initial signs and becomes suspicious then he loses that privacy. Many people hire private investigators even to prove infidelity. This goes for either partner.The cell phone is a big helper ! Look at his calls and texts. Also look on his Facebook page or twitter etc. Does he walk away when he gets phone calls ? Is he starting to take better care of himself ? Wearing cologne when he used to not ? Check out his vehicle. They hide a lot there ! Is he buying more gum and breath freshener than he used to ? Is he using the credit cards more or the ATM ? Staying late at work ? Going out with 'the guys' more ? Trimming his croch hairs if he didn't before ? Goes missing for hours ? Gives lame excuses ? I'm sure I can think of more. I have experience !
Okay, so stalk your partner basically?
Well...I think these are advanced steps only necessary after showing initial signs of cheating. If a lady did all this with no probably cause then I would call stalking...but I think her context is look into these after he shows signs.
So privacy has no bearing?
That's by far the stupidest thing I've ever heard, if you have to hire a private investigator, then obviously the relationship isn't going to work out, even if hes not cheating
Yeah, let's say he finds nothing. Would she tell him?
Or if any of you would check cellphones and emails and find nothing. Would you admit it to your S/O?
My ex and I had an agreement that we could check each other's phones anytime we wanted. Then I started noticing him taking his everywhere he went when he used to never know where it was. I checked it in front of him and finally found where he effed up and forgot to delete a couple. Oops.0 -
Sounds like you have experience tooHe hides his mobile
He answers each call staying that it's someone he does not like.... the woman on the other end plays along with it
He then turns his mobile off at night
You then decide to charge his mobile for him & TXT message right away from HER saying she's home now & misses talking to you (him)
You then call her up on HIS phone & abuse the crap out of her......making sure it's left on her answering service.
You then wake him ...it's 2am...... he then tries to blame you..
You then wake your son & walk out.
He goes back to sleep
You & son sleep in the park that night in the freezing cold.
In the morning you send son to school & you go home to get stuff...you got nowhere to go to at all.
He then starts crying...... you ask who she is
You find out & then get on facebook and abuse her some more, tell her husband & her adult children
She states she 'didnt know about me' yeah right....0 -
Women are super crazy.0
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once he shows initial signs and becomes suspicious then he loses that privacy. Many people hire private investigators even to prove infidelity. This goes for either partner.The cell phone is a big helper ! Look at his calls and texts. Also look on his Facebook page or twitter etc. Does he walk away when he gets phone calls ? Is he starting to take better care of himself ? Wearing cologne when he used to not ? Check out his vehicle. They hide a lot there ! Is he buying more gum and breath freshener than he used to ? Is he using the credit cards more or the ATM ? Staying late at work ? Going out with 'the guys' more ? Trimming his croch hairs if he didn't before ? Goes missing for hours ? Gives lame excuses ? I'm sure I can think of more. I have experience !
Okay, so stalk your partner basically?
Well...I think these are advanced steps only necessary after showing initial signs of cheating. If a lady did all this with no probably cause then I would call stalking...but I think her context is look into these after he shows signs.
So privacy has no bearing?
That's by far the stupidest thing I've ever heard, if you have to hire a private investigator, then obviously the relationship isn't going to work out, even if hes not cheating
Yeah, let's say he finds nothing. Would she tell him?
Or if any of you would check cellphones and emails and find nothing. Would you admit it to your S/O?
My ex and I had an agreement that we could check each other's phones anytime we wanted. Then I started noticing him taking his everywhere he went when he used to never know where it was. I checked it in front of him and finally found where he effed up and forgot to delete a couple. Oops.
He agreed beforehand. I'll allow it.0 -
To those who feel it is appropriate to access all of your partner's accounts if you have a "feeling", how would you feel if the roles were reversed?
I wouldn't care. I honestly have nothing to hide. But if I was cheating, I would tell my husband to his face that I wasn't satisfied with him and was cheating. Then it would obviously go from there. Everyone sees cheating as an end to everything. But with most cases it is not. *shurgs*0 -
this thread is doing a great job at proving that I may not be as crazy as I thought I was. thanks mfp!0
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Husband cheated. Wanted to work it out. Price of that was earning my trust again. Therefore, I have access to cell phone and all of his accounts. Voluntarily, mind you. He was told that I would be checking them. Periodically, I do. As the trust is rebuilding, the accounts are checked less and less often.
It's been 2 years. The only time anything is checked is if he is showing some of the "signs". Sometimes, the "signs" are just me being suspicious. But, he understands that he made me a suspicious person. I check very rarely now. Very rarely.0 -
I've found, when it becomes a question in your mind and gut, you are most likely right. Even if you aren't there is still something wrong.0
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Husband cheated. Wanted to work it out. Price of that was earning my trust again. Therefore, I have access to cell phone and all of his accounts. Voluntarily, mind you. He was told that I would be checking them. Periodically, I do. As the trust is rebuilding, the accounts are checked less and less often.
It's been 2 years. The only time anything is checked is if he is showing some of the "signs". Sometimes, the "signs" are just me being suspicious. But, he understands that he made me a suspicious person. I check very rarely now. Very rarely.
Well if he wants to work it out, then he knows there would be things like this. So if anyone complains about it. Obviously the Husband wanted it as if he wants his wife's trust back.. Its not just going to be with a card and some flowers.0
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