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well I'm jealous. :brokenheart: When you are old and married no one will want you anymore. :laugh:
I'm feeling the same way!
Maybe because my profile mentions my kids? IDK
(For the record, I'm not looking to hook up, I'm very satisfied in my marriage … but I see people talking/complaining/boasting about getting hit on, and it has never happened to me)0 -
You don't even LOOK "old" lol. You look like you've barely hit 30.well I'm jealous. :brokenheart: When you are old and married no one will want you anymore. :laugh:
And I get hit on by a chick. Sheesh. Is this a lesbian website??? (and thank you darlin!)
Lube up before you guys scissor!0 -
Keep you circle tight. You only have 33 Friends and i'd say that's more than enough (for me anyway). Plus you control who you accept. don't accept people who seem like "collectors" and focus on the people who log everyday and on here for the same reasons you are.
My 2 cents0 -
Ugh! It happens daily! I can't help it that I am so pretty and popular!! But that doesn't mean I want you.
Too Funny0 -
You don't even LOOK "old" lol. You look like you've barely hit 30.well I'm jealous. :brokenheart: When you are old and married no one will want you anymore. :laugh:
And I get hit on by a chick. Sheesh. Is this a lesbian website??? (and thank you darlin!)
Lube up before you guys scissor!
Won't that cause a slip N slide effect? omg. laughing hard!0 -
Dear Lord, people can find anything to complain about. If someone smiles at you at the grocery store do you mace them because you're "not there to get hit on?"
You can meet someone anywhere.... MFP, Starbucks, Match.com, the gynecologist's office, and even the morgue.
Take it as a compliment or GTFO.
Wow! I asked a question as I'm new to this board. I realize people can meet anywhere. No need for drama. I believe I mentioned I like to meet people with a similar goal (male or female). My only goal on this website is weightloss and a healthy life. I just wasn't expecting someone to come across and say "good job, want to hook up". Caught me off guard.
honey, this isn't drama. this is hilarious.
I was just gonna say this. THIS!
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Change your profile pic if it bothers you that much.
<~~~~~Most guys leave the Star Wars nerd alone. I only get hit on when I put up actual pictures of myself.0 -
I'm only here for the cyber sex and nudes.
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well I'm jealous. :brokenheart: When you are old and married no one will want you anymore. :laugh:
Not true! I'm 60 and have been approached on here a couple of times. But I'm married and will not stray. :flowerforyou:0 -
I'm not hit on if I put on the pic of my cat up :laugh: :laugh:0
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well I'm jealous. :brokenheart: When you are old and married no one will want you anymore. :laugh:
^truth
Not true!0 -
If you're really that turned off by the idea, you're more than welcome to send them my way. 0
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This post is giving me a "humble-brag" vibe.0
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Been on here over a year. No hits yet.0
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I have gotten a lot of these. I have no idea why, honestly, but I do get a lot of "hey sexy dancer" PMs and FRs. What I want to know is... WHY???
Edited to add: It's legitimately really creepy and makes me uncomfortable. I have issues with the idea of getting hit on/creeped on.0 -
I'm guessing to ask you if you have "Kik"...I have gotten a lot of these. I have no idea why, honestly, but I do get a lot of "hey sexy dancer" PMs and FRs. What I want to know is... WHY???
I've been asked about this, so I just added a little friendly message to my profile letting people know that if that's what they're after, to move onto someone else
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Sending FR to all of you hot foxes.0
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I'm just a cat, I don't count :laugh:Sending FR to all of you hot foxes.0 -
I am all for meeting people with similar interests and goals. I want to know what motivates you and what works for you. I'm on here because I want to lose weight. Has anyone else been approached on here as if this is a dating website? I keep accepting friends, because I truly want a good support system. I don't want a date.
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I have gotten a lot of these. I have no idea why, honestly, but I do get a lot of "hey sexy dancer" PMs and FRs. What I want to know is... WHY???
Edited to add: It's legitimately really creepy and makes me uncomfortable. I have issues with the idea of getting hit on/creeped on.
If you don't want those kind of messages, why do you have the photo up that you have? I'm not trying to pick a fight, but you are certainly presenting a sexy image. Why would it puzzle you that men would send you those kind of messages?0 -
People here need to get a life if they're flirting and stuff. This isn't a dating site people! This is all serious to me here. I'm as hard-core here as I am in the gym. It's all business and hard work. Playing around or doing things halfway doesn't pay off. Whether it's the gym or MFP you need to focus on your goals or you'll never hit them.
Hard work pays off. I can now do tricep extensions with the full stack.
rotflmfao!!!!!!!0 -
I have gotten a lot of these. I have no idea why, honestly, but I do get a lot of "hey sexy dancer" PMs and FRs. What I want to know is... WHY???
Edited to add: It's legitimately really creepy and makes me uncomfortable. I have issues with the idea of getting hit on/creeped on.
If you don't want those kind of messages, why do you have the photo up that you have? I'm not trying to pick a fight, but you are certainly presenting a sexy image. Why would it puzzle you that men would send you those kind of messages?
Not that it's any of your business, but I am most certainly not presenting a "sexy" image. I wanted to show off my new corset (which is something that I like to wear) to my friends and didn't mind the picture, so I kept it as main. Also, even if I was going for "sexy", that would not mean that it was inviting people to send me creepy messages. That's as stupid as blaming a woman for getting raped by saying that she was wearing a short skirt, so she was asking for it.0 -
I'm here for my health, & to focus on eating right & exercising right. I have had a few guys make passes, or say some inappropriate things. And it's pretty obnoxious. I don't mind making friends here, or knowing people that are here for similar reasons & results.. But I'm not down with the perverted messages. It's one thing to compliment someone, but quit taking it to an uncomfortable level.0
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I have gotten a lot of these. I have no idea why, honestly, but I do get a lot of "hey sexy dancer" PMs and FRs. What I want to know is... WHY???
Edited to add: It's legitimately really creepy and makes me uncomfortable. I have issues with the idea of getting hit on/creeped on.
If you don't want those kind of messages, why do you have the photo up that you have? I'm not trying to pick a fight, but you are certainly presenting a sexy image. Why would it puzzle you that men would send you those kind of messages?
Not that it's any of your business, but I am most certainly not presenting a "sexy" image. I wanted to show off my new corset (which is something that I like to wear) to my friends and didn't mind the picture, so I kept it as main. Also, even if I was going for "sexy", that would not mean that it was inviting people to send me creepy messages. That's as stupid as blaming a woman for getting raped by saying that she was wearing a short skirt, so she was asking for it.
Comparing getting a harmless creepy message that you can easily delete to getting raped. Do you even logic?
Oh, and that was rhetorical. It is obvious the answer is "no."
I wasn't equating the messages to getting raped, I was equating her putting the blame on me for others being unable to have basic human decency to people putting the blame on survivors of rape for others being unable to have basic human decency. In addition, you don't know my story.0 -
I have gotten a lot of these. I have no idea why, honestly, but I do get a lot of "hey sexy dancer" PMs and FRs. What I want to know is... WHY???
Edited to add: It's legitimately really creepy and makes me uncomfortable. I have issues with the idea of getting hit on/creeped on.
If you don't want those kind of messages, why do you have the photo up that you have? I'm not trying to pick a fight, but you are certainly presenting a sexy image. Why would it puzzle you that men would send you those kind of messages?
Not that it's any of your business, but I am most certainly not presenting a "sexy" image. I wanted to show off my new corset (which is something that I like to wear) to my friends and didn't mind the picture, so I kept it as main. Also, even if I was going for "sexy", that would not mean that it was inviting people to send me creepy messages. That's as stupid as blaming a woman for getting raped by saying that she was wearing a short skirt, so she was asking for it.
I'll let the bolded snippet speak for itself. And (of course) you are not just showing your pic of your posing in your corset to just your friends here. Surely you know that?
You post a photo of you...looking like a sexy dancer. And you get all bent out of shape because you get 'Hey sexy dancer' messages??
And no - the rape comparison is just...no. :noway:0 -
I have gotten a lot of these. I have no idea why, honestly, but I do get a lot of "hey sexy dancer" PMs and FRs. What I want to know is... WHY???
Edited to add: It's legitimately really creepy and makes me uncomfortable. I have issues with the idea of getting hit on/creeped on.
If you don't want those kind of messages, why do you have the photo up that you have? I'm not trying to pick a fight, but you are certainly presenting a sexy image. Why would it puzzle you that men would send you those kind of messages?
Not that it's any of your business, but I am most certainly not presenting a "sexy" image. I wanted to show off my new corset (which is something that I like to wear) to my friends and didn't mind the picture, so I kept it as main. Also, even if I was going for "sexy", that would not mean that it was inviting people to send me creepy messages. That's as stupid as blaming a woman for getting raped by saying that she was wearing a short skirt, so she was asking for it.
You post a photo of you...looking like a sexy dancer. And you get all bent out of shape because you get 'Hey sexy dancer' messages??
And no - the rape comparison is just...no.
Like I said, I was in no way, shape, or form going for a "sexy" image. I'm not even remotely in a "sexy" pose in the picture. I was not getting "bent out of shape" about getting messages. I'm just saying that there is no reason that adults should not be able to control themselves and understand that just because I'm wearing something that I liek to wear, that does not mean that it's an open invitation to creep on me. Also as I said before, I have issues with this kind of thing, and you do not know my story. So stop acting so high and mighty, honestly.0 -
I have gotten a lot of these. I have no idea why, honestly, but I do get a lot of "hey sexy dancer" PMs and FRs. What I want to know is... WHY???
Edited to add: It's legitimately really creepy and makes me uncomfortable. I have issues with the idea of getting hit on/creeped on.
If you don't want those kind of messages, why do you have the photo up that you have? I'm not trying to pick a fight, but you are certainly presenting a sexy image. Why would it puzzle you that men would send you those kind of messages?
Not that it's any of your business, but I am most certainly not presenting a "sexy" image. I wanted to show off my new corset (which is something that I like to wear) to my friends and didn't mind the picture, so I kept it as main. Also, even if I was going for "sexy", that would not mean that it was inviting people to send me creepy messages. That's as stupid as blaming a woman for getting raped by saying that she was wearing a short skirt, so she was asking for it.
You post a photo of you...looking like a sexy dancer. And you get all bent out of shape because you get 'Hey sexy dancer' messages??
And no - the rape comparison is just...no.
Like I said, I was in no way, shape, or form going for a "sexy" image. I'm not even remotely in a "sexy" pose in the picture. I was not getting "bent out of shape" about getting messages. I'm just saying that there is no reason that adults should not be able to control themselves and understand that just because I'm wearing something that I liek to wear, that does not mean that it's an open invitation to creep on me. Also as I said before, I have issues with this kind of thing, and you do not know my story. So stop acting so high and mighty, honestly.
You're not even in a 'remotely sexy pose'? LOL!!
Listen young one. Believe it or not, I get my fair share of 'fan male' but I expect it because I do post photos that invite it. If you get real vulgarity, just report it. But if something as benign as 'Hey sexy dancer' makes you uncomfortable, post a photo of your kitten or something. That is what some of my MFP friends do.
It's not brain surgery or anything.0 -
I have gotten a lot of these. I have no idea why, honestly, but I do get a lot of "hey sexy dancer" PMs and FRs. What I want to know is... WHY???
Edited to add: It's legitimately really creepy and makes me uncomfortable. I have issues with the idea of getting hit on/creeped on.
If you don't want those kind of messages, why do you have the photo up that you have? I'm not trying to pick a fight, but you are certainly presenting a sexy image. Why would it puzzle you that men would send you those kind of messages?
Not that it's any of your business, but I am most certainly not presenting a "sexy" image. I wanted to show off my new corset (which is something that I like to wear) to my friends and didn't mind the picture, so I kept it as main. Also, even if I was going for "sexy", that would not mean that it was inviting people to send me creepy messages. That's as stupid as blaming a woman for getting raped by saying that she was wearing a short skirt, so she was asking for it.
You post a photo of you...looking like a sexy dancer. And you get all bent out of shape because you get 'Hey sexy dancer' messages??
And no - the rape comparison is just...no.
Like I said, I was in no way, shape, or form going for a "sexy" image. I'm not even remotely in a "sexy" pose in the picture. I was not getting "bent out of shape" about getting messages. I'm just saying that there is no reason that adults should not be able to control themselves and understand that just because I'm wearing something that I liek to wear, that does not mean that it's an open invitation to creep on me. Also as I said before, I have issues with this kind of thing, and you do not know my story. So stop acting so high and mighty, honestly.
You're not even in a 'remotely sexy pose'? LOL!!
Listen young one. Believe it or not, I get my fair share of 'fan male' but I expect it because I do post photos that invite it. If you get real vulgarity, just report it. But if something as benign as 'Hey sexy dancer' makes you uncomfortable, post a photo of your kitten or something. That is what some of my MFP friends do.
It's not brain surgery or anything.
That was an example of a type of message. It was not literally every message I get. And no, I'm not in a remotely sexy pose. If you can't handle a woman *gasp* putting her hand on her hip, that's YOUR problem, not mine.0 -
That was an example of a type of message. It was not literally every message I get. And no, I'm not in a remotely sexy pose. If you can't handle a woman *gasp* putting her hand on her hip, that's YOUR problem, not mine.
ETA: deleted response upon further reflection.0 -
I have gotten a lot of these. I have no idea why, honestly, but I do get a lot of "hey sexy dancer" PMs and FRs. What I want to know is... WHY???
Edited to add: It's legitimately really creepy and makes me uncomfortable. I have issues with the idea of getting hit on/creeped on.
If you don't want those kind of messages, why do you have the photo up that you have? I'm not trying to pick a fight, but you are certainly presenting a sexy image. Why would it puzzle you that men would send you those kind of messages?
Not that it's any of your business, but I am most certainly not presenting a "sexy" image. I wanted to show off my new corset (which is something that I like to wear) to my friends and didn't mind the picture, so I kept it as main. Also, even if I was going for "sexy", that would not mean that it was inviting people to send me creepy messages. That's as stupid as blaming a woman for getting raped by saying that she was wearing a short skirt, so she was asking for it.
All I can think of right now is, "It's not the nail"
Don't know how popular this youtube video is... it just fits. perfectly. look it up 0
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