What personality trait turns you off the most?

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  • HarleyFatboyFan
    HarleyFatboyFan Posts: 344 Member
    bragging
  • Ant_the_old_keith_lemon
    Ant_the_old_keith_lemon Posts: 272 Member


    I think I might love you. I find that there are very few things that are more pathetic than when a man or woman feels as of they are always a victim. Also, someone who constantly needs attention and approval is a major turn of in my book.

    that WAS me!!

    everyone has their insecurities, some dwell on them, some blok them out and some pretend to be so confident that thet are infat lying to themselves, once you free the soul everything falls into place!
  • Ophidion
    Ophidion Posts: 2,065 Member
    Apathy
  • RN514
    RN514 Posts: 1,107 Member
    Unkindness.
  • HarleyFatboyFan
    HarleyFatboyFan Posts: 344 Member
    anti-social

    Being inherently anti-social is tough. It can be a constant battle to deal with. Introversion is a lonely road. Getting out and mixing with others is uncomfortable making going it alone a simple choice. I'm not whining, just sayingl
  • nikilis
    nikilis Posts: 2,305 Member
    ninjas.
  • ThePlight
    ThePlight Posts: 3,593 Member
    ninjas.
    ...what?
  • Ophidion
    Ophidion Posts: 2,065 Member
    ninjas.
    is it because you feel so cut by them?
  • kelly_e_montana
    kelly_e_montana Posts: 1,999 Member
    Weakness--of opinion, of presence, of commitment
  • jamiek917
    jamiek917 Posts: 610 Member
    racist $hitheads
  • TattooedNici
    TattooedNici Posts: 2,141 Member
    The alpha male/female mentality and/or the megalomaniac. Ugh!
  • TattooedNici
    TattooedNici Posts: 2,141 Member
    racist $hitheads

    Yes! I completely agree 100%!
  • _SABOTEUR_
    _SABOTEUR_ Posts: 6,833 Member
    Racism, homophobia and any prejudicial traits.
  • hedgiie
    hedgiie Posts: 1,226 Member
    porn stars
  • markiend
    markiend Posts: 461 Member
    Narcisists
  • padams2359
    padams2359 Posts: 1,093 Member
    Stupidity. Which usually causes any and all of the above. Stupidity does not equal a lack of intelligence in my book.
  • kelly_e_montana
    kelly_e_montana Posts: 1,999 Member
    The alpha male/female mentality and/or the megalomaniac. Ugh!

    I love alphas. You always know what you are dealing with instead of having to wonder.
  • Gkfrkv
    Gkfrkv Posts: 120
    People who apologize for everything, and need constant reinsurance that they are doing things right and praise for the most basic things they do.

    I work with two women, it tends to be clingy women who's like that, that are so insecure and I am tired of having to tell them that they are doing a good job for doing the minimum of what their job requires. Now I suspect that one of them is somewhat autistic, so I try not to be witchy about her, but it is hard when I work with her and she can't even answer the phone on her own because she's so worried that she's going to say something wrong.
  • Gkfrkv
    Gkfrkv Posts: 120
    Overly dependent or lack of confidence. Its a tie for me.

    This. I can deal with the overly confident, mostly because they can function on their own. But having to hand hold adults through simple tasks is taxing.
  • arcana7609
    arcana7609 Posts: 212 Member
    Cruelity I detest as well.
  • Gkfrkv
    Gkfrkv Posts: 120
    anti-social

    Being inherently anti-social is tough. It can be a constant battle to deal with. Introversion is a lonely road. Getting out and mixing with others is uncomfortable making going it alone a simple choice. I'm not whining, just sayingl

    I agree with you. And it's not like I can't be sympathetic to their struggles, but dealing with them can be a chore at times.
  • islander_2013
    islander_2013 Posts: 13,378 Member
    arogance
  • sjohnny
    sjohnny Posts: 56,142 Member
    The need to ask strangers what turns them off.
  • HarleyFatboyFan
    HarleyFatboyFan Posts: 344 Member
    The need to ask strangers what turns them off.

    What was the purpose of that comment? Is that the best answer you have?
  • Beastmaster50
    Beastmaster50 Posts: 505 Member
    Control freaks. I know what a chair is. I dont need you to point one out and tell me to sit down.
  • ThePlight
    ThePlight Posts: 3,593 Member
    Control freaks. I know what a chair is. I dont need you to point one out and tell me to sit down.
    LOL. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    Okay, that one made me giggle too much.
  • hookilau
    hookilau Posts: 3,134 Member
    lying :angry:
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,064 Member
    People that talk to you and lecture you like you are a child. I have a co-worker like that, just want to beat her.
  • arcana7609
    arcana7609 Posts: 212 Member
    Control freaks. I know what a chair is. I dont need you to point one out and tell me to sit down.
    LOL. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    Okay, that one made me giggle too much.

    :laugh: this is me....
  • poedunk65
    poedunk65 Posts: 1,336 Member
    Someone who turns everything back on to themselves in a conversaion. Or someone who won't shut up!

    :grumble:

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